Anxiety, Depression, Low Motivation... Reversible?: Episode 9

Discover potential new ways to tackle your family's mental and physical health when you rediscover hope. Without hope, you stop searching for new possibility.

Dawn's story of her daughter's autoimmune disease and the spiral of symptoms from sickness may inspire you to take a new stance in your fight for your teen's health. 

Cling to this thought: If it came on, maybe it can be undone? Stop treating the symptoms when maybe we can treat the cause.

Then dig in! My thought for you today is "This is figureoutable" but radical change in lifestyle and health mean doing some hard work.

Dawn wants everyone to try reversing autoimmune disease, anxiety, depression and irritable bowel at its source. Today's episode shares tips, resources, medical insights and powerful motivation for moms and dads willing to be the advocate for their child.

You are your own rescue and you are your child's rescue. The Gut-Mind Axis is a game changer my friends! Since this comes from someone who is not a doctor, this is real and gritty and doable because I am just a mom doing everything I can to make sure my kids are healthy and happy. 

Isn't that what we all want?

Note: all the resources and advice in this episode are intended to inspire you to think outside the box but must go hand in hand with a medical doctor, psychologist or psychiatrist as fitting as you travel on your own medical journeys. Don't play around with your health and try to treat disease on your own, but become an advocate for your family! This episode is intended to instill hope for a better tomorrow. Don't give up.

Episode Transcript

(00:00):
Hey friends.
Something's making our kids sick.
And if you're in agreement, you need to listen to this episode.
.999Something is creating a very magnified inflammation of our systems.
I believe that our kids are suffering.
My list of allergies 22 years ago in my classroom was much, much shorter than my lists are today.

(00:21):
.999What is going on? What are we dealing with as parents? And I think that this is going to manifest into mental health issues down the road.
So if you want to put all the pieces together with me, I'm going to take you on a little journey of my brain and how I've been connecting these dots over the years as a professional and as a mother.
I'm really glad you're here because I think you and I, we're our kids advocates.

(00:43):
.999We are the ones who are going to ultimately heal our children, save our children, and give them the best opportunity to have the best future possible.
I'm going to be talking specifically about autoimmune and how autoimmune disease is what I have found in my family to be really, really detrimental and, really been, exacerbating issues over the years and so much is connected to autoimmune disease.

(01:07):
We know that there are links to cancers.
We know there's links to long term health conditions.
I do have a daughter with an autoimmune disease, which is part of why this is important, but it's also something that I think we're seeing on a mass scale because even allergies and skin sensitivities like eczema and things like that, those are indicative that your child is struggling with something.

(01:29):
There's something called a mind gut axis.
You can Google it.
It's fascinating.
.999Harvard and, all the medical journals, they're, they're all talking about the mind gut axis.
Let's just start there.
We know that sometimes people have mental health issues and it makes them physically feel sick.
We've known this for years.
There's diagnoses, there's even mystery diagnoses where people have pain and they can't find the source of the pain and it becomes classified as a mental health disorder.

(01:56):
What exactly are we dealing with? It's really interesting.
So, for years and years and years, People thought the sickness started in the brain, which is completely logical.
But what if the sickness is actually starting in the gut? And then one of the symptoms is exacerbated mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, bipolar, things like that.

(02:17):
There are many, many people I have even trained under a doctor who was diagnosed bipolar and was able to heal herself.
And I think that's really riveting because she is healed.
Like I've been on calls with her.
I've been watching her for years.
She's restored relationships and building relationships.
If she can do it, more of us can do it.
.099And I think that if we start to lock down on the changes we're seeing that could be significantly indicating that something is on the rise that's affecting our kids psyche and also us, we can really start to heal ourselves because if it came on, that means you weren't born with it. 33 00:02:53,200.099 --> 00:02:55,590.099 So something might have caused it. 34 00:02:55,590.099 --> 00:02:57,810.099 And if you follow that train of thought, there's hope. 35 00:02:57,880.099 --> 00:02:58,990.099 There's so much hope. 36 00:02:59,330.098 --> 00:03:03,280.099 And yes, 86 percent of mental health disorders are treatable. 37 00:03:03,630.099 --> 00:03:05,400.099 And, and you will live a good life. 38 00:03:05,660.098 --> 00:03:08,740.098 And more than that are able to be managed. 39 00:03:08,990.099 --> 00:03:12,90.099 And people are still living with managed mental health disorders. 40 00:03:12,130.099 --> 00:03:18,920.099 But what if, what if we could find it? And catch it earlier so that our kids don't have to live with those symptoms. 41 00:03:20,760.099 --> 00:03:25,710.099 If you haven't had a chance yet head over to www.selffoundry.com, 42 00:03:25,710.099 --> 00:03:33,540.099 where you can find freebies like our tech contract for families dealing with technology addiction to phones and social media. 43 00:03:33,960.099 --> 00:04:18,403.07766667 Or my anger in the house manual to help you work through some emotions that are big and hard to deal with on a day to day, this will get your family all on one page, help you eradicate fights, lower emotions and drop them down to a manageable level and also just continue to be in touch with us so that we can continue to give you up to date, latest information, to help you be an amazing parent who advocates for their child Why are so many disorders diagnosed at 14, 15, 16 years of age? I find it really fascinating because we know if we look back in our kids history We can almost see that there was a change something happened to our kids So here's my story. 44 00:04:18,803.07866667 --> 00:04:27,813.07966667 My daughter developed weird symptoms of things when she was younger, but we didn't know what it was for years and years and years, and she had all these little medical concerns. 45 00:04:28,423.07866667 --> 00:04:31,93.07966667 What I knew was when she was little, she was fine. 46 00:04:31,523.07966667 --> 00:04:33,393.07966667 And as she got older, she was not fine. 47 00:04:33,423.07966667 --> 00:04:35,363.07966667 And it started to happen in a progression. 48 00:04:35,363.07966667 --> 00:04:38,963.07966667 And there were little signs that I think you could maybe catch with your kids. 49 00:04:39,353.07966667 --> 00:04:44,83.07866667 One of the early signs was she started to tell me that she thought she needed to be a vegetarian. 50 00:04:44,443.07966667 --> 00:04:50,963.07866667 And she wasn't really liking a lot of foods that were pretty standard foods for kids like chicken nuggets. 51 00:04:51,213.07966667 --> 00:04:52,183.07966667 She didn't like chicken nuggets. 52 00:04:52,183.07966667 --> 00:04:53,343.07966667 Like, what? That's so weird. 53 00:04:53,673.07966667 --> 00:04:57,803.07966667 But there were definitely things that she would say didn't make her, like, she just didn't want it. 54 00:04:58,103.07966667 --> 00:04:59,353.07966667 It didn't make her sick. 55 00:04:59,373.07966667 --> 00:05:00,433.07916667 It was interesting to me. 56 00:05:00,433.07916667 --> 00:05:06,563.07966667 Like, when I think back, I don't remember her being sick, but I do remember her just having an aversion to certain foods. 57 00:05:06,943.07966667 --> 00:05:09,293.07966667 Down the road, we, we ended up learning that she has diabetes. 58 00:05:09,378.07966667 --> 00:05:13,808.07966667 severe food sensitivities, particularly to lectin. 59 00:05:14,228.07966667 --> 00:05:17,748.07966667 Lectin is a food sensitivity that too many people don't know anything about. 60 00:05:17,848.07966667 --> 00:05:19,198.07866667 And you need to know what that is. 61 00:05:19,208.07966667 --> 00:05:23,668.07966667 So if you don't know what lectin is, you need to go look on maybe Dr. 62 00:05:23,668.07966667 --> 00:05:24,188.07966667 Gundry. 63 00:05:24,198.07866667 --> 00:05:27,328.07966667 He has some great free resources about what lectin is. 64 00:05:27,338.07866667 --> 00:05:33,893.07966667 It's in a lot of food, like All the food that we feed our kids has lectin if you go look at the list. 65 00:05:34,153.07966667 --> 00:05:36,33.07966667 It's not just gluten, it's not just dairy. 66 00:05:36,63.07966667 --> 00:05:38,173.07966667 Dairy and lectin go together. 67 00:05:38,333.07966667 --> 00:05:39,703.07966667 Gluten and lectin go together. 68 00:05:39,703.07966667 --> 00:05:43,653.07966667 So a lot of times when you eliminate one of those, you're reducing your lectin intake. 69 00:05:43,693.07866667 --> 00:05:45,53.07966667 But it was more than that. 70 00:05:45,103.07866667 --> 00:05:46,243.07966667 It was definitely more. 71 00:05:46,613.07966667 --> 00:05:53,213.07966667 So if we start to kind of go back, like what, what were some early signs? Well, I started to notice she was getting sick, sicker than most kids. 72 00:05:53,213.07966667 --> 00:05:54,803.07966667 Like she had scarlet fever. 73 00:05:54,813.07966667 --> 00:05:57,523.07966667 Her appendix was bad and ended up bursting. 74 00:05:57,888.07966667 --> 00:06:06,808.07966667 She was on major antibiotics for both of those instances, which I believe is what triggered a microbiome in her gut issue. 75 00:06:07,78.07966667 --> 00:06:10,278.07866667 And that possibly is what really kickstarted. 76 00:06:10,288.07966667 --> 00:06:13,558.07966667 She might've always been sensitive, but this like kickstarted a disease. 77 00:06:13,958.07966667 --> 00:06:22,293.07966667 And one of the signs that were, were really becoming apparent after she was sick with those two things was she would have anxiety. 78 00:06:22,303.07966667 --> 00:06:23,913.07966667 She would have this, like, elevated stress. 79 00:06:24,203.07966667 --> 00:06:25,973.07966667 But I knew it wasn't her thinking. 80 00:06:25,983.07966667 --> 00:06:30,363.07966667 It was her physiological body triggering anxiety. 81 00:06:30,373.07966667 --> 00:06:32,473.07966667 For instance, her heart would start to race. 82 00:06:33,3.07966667 --> 00:06:43,563.07966667 And it wasn't due to a thought, it would just come on very suddenly, like she could be relaxing watching a TV show and just boom, she's like, my heart is really feeling funny, it's going really fast, she's a little girl. 83 00:06:43,793.07966667 --> 00:06:48,33.07866667 And I would touch her heart and like check it and like check her pulse, it was through the roof guys. 84 00:06:48,203.07966667 --> 00:06:49,453.07966667 It was a physiological issue. 85 00:06:49,453.07966667 --> 00:07:01,223.07966667 And then that would make her feel like, you know, when you, if you've ever had like, my heart sometimes skips beats, which we've been monitoring, but like, it gives you this feeling of like anxiety, like what is going on? And it doesn't feel right. 86 00:07:01,223.07966667 --> 00:07:06,533.07966667 Like you instantly know when your body doesn't feel good, it puts you into a heightened state of alert. 87 00:07:06,803.07966667 --> 00:07:15,633.07966667 This is a biologically sound idea when you think about it, our body should tell us mentally, like something's wrong. 88 00:07:15,633.07966667 --> 00:07:25,253.07866667 So when something physiologically is going on, if our body didn't alert our brain, how do we know to go fix the problem, right? This makes sense. 89 00:07:25,263.07866667 --> 00:07:44,263.07966667 So her body was starting to give her signs and it was starting to affect her emotionally and mentally because she would have a lot more stress, a lot more anxiety then say my other two kids ever really experienced, what, what I think we were missing was that, it was always directly correlated to meals and, it just seemed to, to build. 90 00:07:44,613.07866667 --> 00:07:54,243.07966667 And one of the things I learned way too late in the game, which you should know, if your child has a food sensitivity, when we eat food, it stays in our system for four days. 91 00:07:54,623.07966667 --> 00:08:02,803.07966667 I'm not a doctor, listen, I have worked with many doctors, this is just what I've learned, but our body needs four days to really purge out food. 92 00:08:02,803.07966667 --> 00:08:03,873.07966667 I learned this from Dr. 93 00:08:03,873.07966667 --> 00:08:04,613.07966667 Maggie Yu. 94 00:08:04,953.07966667 --> 00:08:10,313.07966667 I paid to be part of her program to learn about autoimmune disease once we figured out what my daughter had. 95 00:08:10,723.07866667 --> 00:08:16,843.07966667 So it stays in your body for four days, so here's the thing, so if you maybe have a little bit on Monday, you're okay. 96 00:08:17,608.07966667 --> 00:08:22,798.07966667 Tuesday, maybe you have the same food because, right, we eat leftovers or we might eat the same cereal multiple days in a row. 97 00:08:22,798.07966667 --> 00:08:26,208.07966667 So you have a little bit more on Tuesday and now it's like a point system. 98 00:08:26,218.07966667 --> 00:08:26,948.07966667 It's adding up. 99 00:08:26,948.07966667 --> 00:08:42,858.07966667 And then on day three, if you have it again, it's like another point is added because it's still in your system and your body's still pushing it through, right? And then on day four, that's like the kablooey, right? Like it's just been too many days of consuming a food that your body really doesn't know what to do with. 100 00:08:43,298.07966667 --> 00:08:44,448.07966667 And here's the reality. 101 00:08:45,608.07866667 --> 00:08:51,398.07966667 Is our food not genetically modified? We are leaving God's design of food. 102 00:08:51,698.07966667 --> 00:08:59,598.07966667 It is so hard to find wheat in America that is not biologically engineered, like bioengineering is a thing. 103 00:08:59,928.07966667 --> 00:09:01,968.07966667 So we know GMO, all that kind of stuff. 104 00:09:01,968.07966667 --> 00:09:11,998.07966667 It keeps getting renamed and rebranded because of course they don't want us as moms who are shopping to know that that food is not whole food, like God created food. 105 00:09:12,368.07966667 --> 00:09:15,508.07966667 My motto with my kids now is eat God's food. 106 00:09:15,958.07966667 --> 00:09:22,338.07866667 Try to find as much sourcing of God's food without genetic distortion and scientific stuff as possible. 107 00:09:22,708.07966667 --> 00:09:33,478.07966667 We know that Cheerios and things like that, there's so much insecticide that is being used also to protect the crops, which we understand, but like, here's the bananas part. 108 00:09:33,858.07966667 --> 00:09:38,243.07966667 I have a farm nearby us that I love to go to, Very expensive. 109 00:09:38,273.07966667 --> 00:09:40,503.07966667 It is not technically organic. 110 00:09:40,523.07966667 --> 00:09:41,193.07966667 And here's why. 111 00:09:41,773.07966667 --> 00:09:50,303.07866667 FDA approves the organic label of all of these, uh, insecticides and fertilizers and things like that. 112 00:09:50,303.07966667 --> 00:09:58,618.07966667 And they label it organic, right? But it's actually not organic, organic, like as clean as God would have created it to be. 113 00:09:58,918.07966667 --> 00:10:13,368.07966667 So one of the things that they taught me was that they actually are using herbs, like essential oils to protect their crops, which is not FDA regulated, but it's actually a cleaner sourcing of protection. 114 00:10:13,378.07966667 --> 00:10:15,918.07966667 It doesn't have all the chemicals and things in it. 115 00:10:16,268.07966667 --> 00:10:27,98.07866667 And to me, that was really important because that's a group of Christian farmers and they're trying to, as much as possible, protect God's food as God intended it without adding all these things. 116 00:10:27,448.07966667 --> 00:10:37,458.07966667 I heard, and I would love some sourcing on this, that we've had over a thousand chemicals added to the FDA approved list over the past few decades. 117 00:10:37,473.17966667 --> 00:10:57,693.17966667 Guys, if there is a thousand new chemicals in our kids food, are you at all shocked that they're having more neurological issues compared to our generation? I mean, it makes a lot of sense to me because, our chemical system is It's literally neurons connecting with chemical messaging. 118 00:10:57,983.17966667 --> 00:11:09,23.17866667 So as our nervous system is talking to itself, of course, if we're adding chemicals to our body, it's going to go a little wonky, right? And now you add in something called leaky gut. 119 00:11:09,513.17866667 --> 00:11:12,373.17966667 Leaky gut is really, really devastating. 120 00:11:12,578.17966667 --> 00:11:14,418.17966667 that's what my daughter was diagnosed with. 121 00:11:14,778.17966667 --> 00:11:19,208.17966667 It is when we are ingesting food that our body doesn't recognize as food. 122 00:11:19,478.17966667 --> 00:11:22,418.17966667 It's been so distorted or we're so sensitive to it. 123 00:11:22,428.17966667 --> 00:11:23,818.17966667 It's not an allergy, by the way. 124 00:11:23,828.17966667 --> 00:11:28,328.17866667 Allergies, you know, right away, like can't breathe, you know, throwing up, vomiting, things like that. 125 00:11:28,568.17966667 --> 00:11:30,428.17966667 Sensitivities are a little bit more subtle. 126 00:11:30,428.17966667 --> 00:11:31,758.17966667 It's like, I don't feel good. 127 00:11:31,758.17966667 --> 00:11:32,818.17966667 I don't feel right. 128 00:11:33,158.17966667 --> 00:11:35,888.17966667 That continued over time can create leaky gut. 129 00:11:36,208.17966667 --> 00:11:38,668.17966667 You're gut lining is super thin. 130 00:11:38,678.17966667 --> 00:11:41,78.17966667 It is very, very thin and fragile. 131 00:11:41,348.17966667 --> 00:11:49,588.17966667 And as food goes through our digestive system and our body is not sure what it is, it starts to attack it as if it's a foreign entity, like a virus. 132 00:11:49,878.17966667 --> 00:11:55,258.17866667 And it starts to break it down because it doesn't know how to process it and it doesn't recognize it as food. 133 00:11:55,558.17866667 --> 00:11:56,768.17966667 Corn is a big one. 134 00:11:56,848.17966667 --> 00:11:59,888.17966667 And think about how many oils and things like that are created from corn. 135 00:12:00,388.17966667 --> 00:12:14,713.17966667 Um, as we're ingesting it, we're And it's traveling through our system, the lining of our stomach and our intestines is getting attacked as well because it's kind of sticking to it, you know, I mean, it's gross, but that's your, that's your digestive system. 136 00:12:14,723.17866667 --> 00:12:16,503.17966667 So it's getting damaged. 137 00:12:16,513.17866667 --> 00:12:20,553.17966667 It's getting damaged badly to the point where it creates miniscule. 138 00:12:20,733.17966667 --> 00:12:27,443.17966667 Like microscopic holes, but those holes are able to leak toxins from our food. 139 00:12:27,443.17966667 --> 00:12:32,663.17966667 All these chemicals get leaked into our body and go into the general system and are just flowing. 140 00:12:33,153.17966667 --> 00:12:43,243.17966667 And so as our body is starting to see all these chemicals that are now in our system, that shouldn't be, they should have been excreted through. 141 00:12:43,603.17966667 --> 00:12:49,403.17866667 Now our body is starting to attack organs that are, are. 142 00:12:49,723.17966667 --> 00:12:54,793.17966667 You know, not being touched by these chemicals really like these toxins in our body. 143 00:12:55,103.17966667 --> 00:12:56,93.17966667 So it's really interesting. 144 00:12:56,93.17966667 --> 00:13:02,783.17916667 I mean, I am NOT a doctor I'm not giving you like I'm trying to give you like the the real mom talk like we have a problem! Houston. 145 00:13:02,863.18016667 --> 00:13:05,593.17916667 There's a problem and what's so cool. 146 00:13:05,633.18016667 --> 00:13:16,433.18016667 I learned from from my daughter being sick It takes two weeks to kill off an infection to, to get rid of whatever it is that's really hurting your child. 147 00:13:16,433.18016667 --> 00:13:17,443.18016667 It could be parasites. 148 00:13:17,443.18016667 --> 00:13:20,793.18016667 It could be toxins, which you would have to see a doctor. 149 00:13:20,793.18016667 --> 00:13:28,73.18116667 I see a Chinese herbalist who uses, herbs to help our body get rid of and excrete out all of the toxins. 150 00:13:28,73.18116667 --> 00:13:35,623.18116667 And that takes about two weeks, or just to get rid of the foods that we're sensitive to so that our body stops attacking it and just get it all out of our system. 151 00:13:35,623.18116667 --> 00:13:42,213.18116667 Right? So in two weeks, your, your gut system can be, cleaned up so you won't have the problem. 152 00:13:42,753.18116667 --> 00:13:48,543.18116667 But then it takes one to two years for your whole system to repair. 153 00:13:48,543.18116667 --> 00:13:51,343.18016667 This is where I think God did such a beautiful job. 154 00:13:51,623.18116667 --> 00:13:54,663.18016667 We actually regenerate the cells of our digestive system. 155 00:13:54,663.18116667 --> 00:13:56,13.18216667 Your cells will renew. 156 00:13:56,463.18116667 --> 00:13:59,173.08116667 It takes about two years depending on how bad the damage is. 157 00:13:59,173.18116667 --> 00:14:01,283.18116667 So for my daughter, she was very sick. 158 00:14:02,563.18116667 --> 00:14:04,373.18116667 Her leaky gut was really bad. 159 00:14:04,663.18116667 --> 00:14:10,133.18116667 So if somebody went in and checked her out, would have had large holes, you know, larger than most. 160 00:14:10,533.18116667 --> 00:14:12,923.18016667 First of all, thank God I had access to resources. 161 00:14:13,143.18116667 --> 00:14:21,583.18116667 And I know moms all around the world do not have access to resources, which is why I want to give you free access to information that you can use right now. 162 00:14:21,593.18116667 --> 00:14:22,343.18016667 You can do this. 163 00:14:22,343.18116667 --> 00:14:23,453.18116667 You can help your child. 164 00:14:23,453.18116667 --> 00:14:42,68.18116667 So if you are seeing anxiety, depression, low motivation, stomach sensitivity, stomach issues of any sort, whether it's vomiting, diarrhea, just feeling unease, unsettled feelings, some kids might call it like kicking in their stomach or butterflies, like all these different things, gurgling, gas, a lot of gas, things like that. 165 00:14:42,298.18216667 --> 00:14:48,328.18216667 Your child's system is giving you an early indicator that something's wrong, something's wrong. 166 00:14:48,638.18116667 --> 00:14:51,998.18216667 So what do we do? We need to not treat sick. 167 00:14:51,998.18216667 --> 00:14:55,768.18216667 Remember, doctors are there to help us treat illness. 168 00:14:56,118.18216667 --> 00:14:59,208.18216667 brokenness, right? Like if you're sick, they're good to help. 169 00:14:59,568.18216667 --> 00:15:06,488.18116667 If you're broken, they can put you back together and then God can do the rest, right? So those are the things that doctors are really trained in. 170 00:15:06,488.18116667 --> 00:15:08,368.18216667 They're not trained in the preventative. 171 00:15:08,398.18116667 --> 00:15:17,928.18116667 Dr Maggie, you trained in, NYU and she said she had one class for a half an hour about supplements and things like that go over like preventative stuff. 172 00:15:18,243.18116667 --> 00:15:21,33.18116667 Half hour out of all of her medical training. 173 00:15:21,273.18116667 --> 00:15:29,383.18016667 So when she got sick, she had to, go and figure this all out because nobody knew all of her friends who were doctors could not help her get better. 174 00:15:29,393.18016667 --> 00:15:34,303.18116667 They couldn't figure it out because she had gotten too far down this like slippery slope. 175 00:15:34,603.18116667 --> 00:15:38,433.18116667 So she ended up having to go into something called functional medicine. 176 00:15:38,493.18116667 --> 00:15:39,563.18116667 I call it the rabbit hole. 177 00:15:39,853.18116667 --> 00:15:44,503.18116667 If anybody's in the rabbit hole with me, we're all broke, right? That's what happens. 178 00:15:44,803.18116667 --> 00:15:52,133.18016667 It's a cash medical industry because those doctors had to go to extra schooling and it's not as easily regulated. 179 00:15:52,153.18116667 --> 00:15:53,133.18116667 It's really tricky. 180 00:15:53,383.18116667 --> 00:15:54,843.18116667 They're going to get really specialized. 181 00:15:54,863.18116667 --> 00:15:57,443.18116667 They don't know everything, right? And that's the problem. 182 00:15:57,443.18116667 --> 00:16:02,953.18016667 You got to like really spend time finding doctors who will help you with your particular issue. 183 00:16:03,403.18016667 --> 00:16:07,353.18016667 But one of the universal ones that is free access for you is Dr. 184 00:16:07,353.18016667 --> 00:16:07,853.18016667 Gundry. 185 00:16:07,983.18116667 --> 00:16:10,853.18116667 He puts out so many free podcasts and videos. 186 00:16:10,863.18116667 --> 00:16:11,853.18116667 He has here. 187 00:16:11,973.18116667 --> 00:16:13,233.18116667 This is go find it right now. 188 00:16:13,733.18116667 --> 00:16:15,783.18116667 The yes and no food list. 189 00:16:16,253.18116667 --> 00:16:20,433.18116667 Print it out, stick it in your cabinet, like, you know, put it on the inside door. 190 00:16:20,433.18116667 --> 00:16:21,173.18116667 That's what I did. 191 00:16:21,453.18116667 --> 00:16:26,23.18116667 And try as many times as you can to switch from the no list to the yes list. 192 00:16:26,33.18116667 --> 00:16:27,513.18016667 Just try to like do switches. 193 00:16:27,533.18116667 --> 00:16:36,743.18016667 And I'm going to help you with some of the things we've found that are actually yummy and that, that maybe your kids will not get mad about and won't really miss the original item because. 194 00:16:37,23.18116667 --> 00:16:39,913.18116667 We are so blessed right now to have so many options. 195 00:16:39,923.18116667 --> 00:16:45,683.1811667 Now I'm right now, I don't know if you can see in Idaho, it's gorgeous. 196 00:16:45,743.1811667 --> 00:16:46,743.1801667 It's remote. 197 00:16:46,863.1811667 --> 00:16:50,553.1811667 You don't have as many options as I do right outside New York city. 198 00:16:50,563.1801667 --> 00:16:51,273.1806667 And I get that. 199 00:16:51,273.1806667 --> 00:16:52,353.1811667 I totally get that. 200 00:16:52,793.1811667 --> 00:16:59,483.1811667 What I do do though, is I do get shipments of some food because it's not even available in my grocery stores. 201 00:16:59,483.1811667 --> 00:17:02,28.1811667 And we have incredible grocery stores by us. 202 00:17:02,38.1811667 --> 00:17:09,558.1811667 So I want to I want to let you know that there are options available even in remote areas now Thank goodness because of shipping. 203 00:17:09,888.1811667 --> 00:17:14,683.1811667 Thank you truckers and and Carriers and everybody else who does that for us. 204 00:17:14,683.1811667 --> 00:17:19,783.1811667 You are literally keeping my girl alive and Cannot like oh, I'm gonna cry. 205 00:17:20,133.1811667 --> 00:17:21,273.1811667 I cannot thank you enough. 206 00:17:21,613.1801667 --> 00:17:27,563.1811667 Um, but we're just so lucky so Okay, it was hard guys. 207 00:17:27,563.2811667 --> 00:17:34,323.1811667 I I literally held my My kid so many times in that hospital and doctors just didn't know what was wrong with her. 208 00:17:34,663.1811667 --> 00:17:35,913.1811667 Her heart would start racing. 209 00:17:35,923.1811667 --> 00:17:38,393.1811667 She would pass out, she would have seizures. 210 00:17:38,403.1811667 --> 00:17:39,543.1806667 She would go into the hospital. 211 00:17:39,543.1806667 --> 00:17:48,743.1811667 Nobody knew she was developing bruises and nobody could figure out why they were actually going to call child protective services on me because they thought I was abusing her or my husband. 212 00:17:49,83.1811667 --> 00:17:51,433.1811667 We finally were able to prove that those were not bruises. 213 00:17:51,433.1811667 --> 00:17:52,813.1811667 They were there for over a year. 214 00:17:53,103.1811667 --> 00:17:54,813.1811667 But the doctors just kind of blew us off. 215 00:17:54,813.1811667 --> 00:17:57,153.1811667 And if they didn't know, they were like, screw you. 216 00:17:57,163.1811667 --> 00:17:58,543.1811667 You're like messing with my head. 217 00:17:58,543.1811667 --> 00:18:01,823.1811667 And I can't, I can't be proven that I don't know what I'm talking about. 218 00:18:01,833.1811667 --> 00:18:04,573.1811667 And the reality is they didn't know what they were talking about. 219 00:18:04,993.1811667 --> 00:18:09,303.1811667 So my gift was that when we were on a vacation. 220 00:18:09,303.1811667 --> 00:18:19,883.1806667 We were out, we were touring the West, so we were in Wyoming and South Dakota and Utah and my daughter had two episodes that sent us to the hospital. 221 00:18:19,883.1806667 --> 00:18:35,968.1821667 And the first hospital, of course, by the time we get there, my child is like, Whereas right before we took her, she was seizing and having like heart issues and like passed out and non responsive for a good five minutes on our campground. 222 00:18:36,358.1811667 --> 00:18:39,98.1821667 So by the time we got her to the hospital, though, she's like, fine. 223 00:18:39,108.1821667 --> 00:18:40,908.1811667 And it was so, this kept happening. 224 00:18:40,908.1821667 --> 00:18:42,418.1821667 So we looked crazy. 225 00:18:42,758.1821667 --> 00:18:44,138.1821667 Moms, dads, you are not. 226 00:18:45,178.1821667 --> 00:18:48,848.1821667 You know, your child, I was able to see compared to my other kids too. 227 00:18:48,858.1821667 --> 00:18:53,168.1811667 Like this is an abnormal medical issue, but doctors were missing it. 228 00:18:53,168.1821667 --> 00:18:58,258.1816667 And I was starting to feel crazy because doctors kept acting like I was crazy. 229 00:18:58,258.1816667 --> 00:18:59,828.1816667 And so here's what finally happened. 230 00:18:59,838.1806667 --> 00:19:01,378.1816667 Another episode where she passed out. 231 00:19:01,378.1816667 --> 00:19:04,138.1816667 Probably had to do with the elevation and the sun. 232 00:19:04,148.1816667 --> 00:19:07,298.1816667 People with autoimmune disease often have a really hard time with heat and sun. 233 00:19:07,708.1816667 --> 00:19:09,628.1806667 She does have a problem with that. 234 00:19:09,678.1816667 --> 00:19:10,528.1816667 It's a skin issue. 235 00:19:10,828.1816667 --> 00:19:13,558.1826667 The skin, by the way, reflects what's going on internally. 236 00:19:13,568.1826667 --> 00:19:14,968.1826667 So it's completely logical. 237 00:19:14,968.1826667 --> 00:19:18,348.1826667 If you're having trouble inside, it's going to reflect on your skin outside. 238 00:19:18,718.1826667 --> 00:19:19,318.1826667 Just so you know. 239 00:19:19,818.1826667 --> 00:19:29,378.1826667 Um, you know that because if you've ever cleaned up your diet and like your skin suddenly is like glowy and stuff, like That's why it's because when you're healthy inside, your skin will reflect it outside. 240 00:19:29,868.1826667 --> 00:19:31,58.1826667 So she had another episode. 241 00:19:31,58.1826667 --> 00:19:32,548.1826667 We rushed her to another hospital. 242 00:19:32,858.1826667 --> 00:19:34,848.1826667 This hospital was gorgeous. 243 00:19:34,848.1826667 --> 00:19:36,608.1826667 I believe we were in South Dakota at the time. 244 00:19:37,28.1826667 --> 00:19:40,98.1826667 It was this log cabin hospital up on a mountain. 245 00:19:40,98.1826667 --> 00:19:41,418.1826667 It was beautiful. 246 00:19:41,758.1826667 --> 00:19:44,748.1826667 And I was like, you know, this feels right. 247 00:19:44,788.1826667 --> 00:19:46,518.1826667 This feels like how hospitals should be. 248 00:19:46,518.1826667 --> 00:19:47,548.1826667 It was like natural. 249 00:19:47,548.1826667 --> 00:19:48,548.1826667 It was in a natural setting. 250 00:19:48,548.1826667 --> 00:19:52,568.1816667 I'm like, maybe some amazing granola doctor will be able to help me. 251 00:19:52,568.1826667 --> 00:19:56,188.1816667 You know, like I was like somebody think outside the box, I can't live like this anymore. 252 00:19:56,618.1816667 --> 00:20:00,18.1826667 And we walk in and this doctor comes in. 253 00:20:00,378.1826667 --> 00:20:01,18.1826667 She's gorgeous. 254 00:20:01,58.1826667 --> 00:20:02,698.1826667 She's like six ft one. 255 00:20:02,708.1826667 --> 00:20:11,123.1826667 This beautiful stately woman with this beautiful black curly hair, like a shock of gray, just stunning, red lips, beautiful jewelry. 256 00:20:11,423.1826667 --> 00:20:15,843.1816667 She looked just like she was my angel. 257 00:20:15,913.1826667 --> 00:20:20,533.1826667 She was, but anyway, she comes in and I'm telling her what's going on. 258 00:20:20,533.1826667 --> 00:20:25,563.1826667 And I was telling her some of the symptoms and things I've been noticing and how doctors have been blowing me off. 259 00:20:25,563.2826667 --> 00:20:26,983.1826667 And I was like, I was in tears. 260 00:20:26,983.1826667 --> 00:20:29,503.1826667 I mean, at this point I was really, I was tired. 261 00:20:29,543.1826667 --> 00:20:31,273.1826667 I was emotionally wrought. 262 00:20:31,633.1826667 --> 00:20:34,213.1826667 I mean, like my heart was just breaking. 263 00:20:34,593.1826667 --> 00:20:41,653.1826667 And if any of you have been watching your kids suffer physically or emotionally for years, you are totally, I get you. 264 00:20:41,683.1826667 --> 00:20:42,913.1821667 I understand you. 265 00:20:42,913.1821667 --> 00:20:43,843.1826667 I feel you. 266 00:20:44,203.1826667 --> 00:20:47,793.1826667 So anyway, I was like kind of holding it together, but barely. 267 00:20:48,123.1826667 --> 00:20:54,443.1826667 And then she looked at me and she like, kind of like grabbed my hands and she's like, mom, I need you to start at the beginning. 268 00:20:55,583.1826667 --> 00:20:59,588.1826667 How is your pregnancy? I lost it guys. 269 00:20:59,628.1826667 --> 00:21:00,658.1826667 I lost it. 270 00:21:00,718.1826667 --> 00:21:08,578.1826667 I mean, nobody, nobody stopped and saw me as a mom and thought that I was valuable. 271 00:21:08,918.1826667 --> 00:21:10,858.1816667 So this is ugly cry. 272 00:21:10,858.1826667 --> 00:21:16,288.1816667 If you go on YouTube, I'm sorry, you're going to see me ugly cry, but she wanted me to go back to the beginning. 273 00:21:16,338.1826667 --> 00:21:17,338.1816667 And so I did. 274 00:21:17,728.1826667 --> 00:21:21,608.1826667 And I told her my whole history with her and how I was noticing all these things. 275 00:21:21,638.1826667 --> 00:21:27,948.1826667 And she, she kind of took a deep breath and she's like, honey, I think you're dealing with something really bad. 276 00:21:28,433.1826667 --> 00:21:32,313.1826667 And she said, I've only seen this on Native American reservations before. 277 00:21:32,978.1826667 --> 00:21:37,228.1826667 It's very rare, but I need you to pack up from vacation and go right home. 278 00:21:37,278.1826667 --> 00:21:42,218.1816667 I can't give you any of the tests here because your insurance isn't going to pay for it, which became guys. 279 00:21:42,258.1826667 --> 00:21:43,478.1826667 I'm a hundred thousand. 280 00:21:43,728.1826667 --> 00:21:49,968.1826667 I was 300, 000 of spending money to, to keep my baby alive for the years that I've been gone on. 281 00:21:50,733.1826667 --> 00:21:59,253.1826667 It was crazy and um, we were just broke and she said, this is bad, go home and, um, but you fight, fight for your daughter. 282 00:21:59,273.1826667 --> 00:22:02,413.1826667 And I was like, I've been, but I was really running out of steam. 283 00:22:02,493.1826667 --> 00:22:05,593.1826667 So she, uh, she pushed me. 284 00:22:06,83.1826667 --> 00:22:07,763.1826667 She said, you keep fighting. 285 00:22:07,773.1816667 --> 00:22:09,73.1816667 You are your child's advocate. 286 00:22:09,83.1816667 --> 00:22:10,193.1816667 You are her rescue. 287 00:22:10,583.1816667 --> 00:22:12,393.1826667 And that was what I needed. 288 00:22:12,413.1826667 --> 00:22:13,973.1826667 And so I'm going to tell you that right now. 289 00:22:14,683.1826667 --> 00:22:15,983.1826667 You are your child's rescue. 290 00:22:16,788.1826667 --> 00:22:17,628.1826667 It sucks. 291 00:22:17,638.1826667 --> 00:22:18,478.1826667 It really sucks. 292 00:22:18,478.1826667 --> 00:22:19,158.1826667 Thank God. 293 00:22:19,158.1826667 --> 00:22:19,988.1826667 We have the internet. 294 00:22:19,988.1826667 --> 00:22:21,418.1826667 Thank God we have good people. 295 00:22:21,738.1826667 --> 00:22:23,468.1826667 You know, what's crazy about that woman. 296 00:22:24,408.1826667 --> 00:22:30,848.1816667 I wanted to thank her after we got the diagnosis, after we figured out, because until that point we did not know she had an autoimmune disease. 297 00:22:30,868.1816667 --> 00:22:32,658.1816667 I was still on the crazy list of moms. 298 00:22:33,158.1826667 --> 00:22:36,758.1826667 Once I found out she was right, she was the one who sent me in the right direction. 299 00:22:36,768.1826667 --> 00:22:38,188.1826667 I had to go to a dermatologist. 300 00:22:38,208.1826667 --> 00:22:39,548.1826667 We had to get a punch biopsy. 301 00:22:39,548.1826667 --> 00:22:40,868.1826667 We had to get everything done. 302 00:22:40,878.1826667 --> 00:22:46,568.1816667 And then then we went to another hospital who actually made her a case study because she's so rare. 303 00:22:47,78.1826667 --> 00:22:53,628.1826667 Um, and they charged me for that, by the way, they charge us $30, 000 to do all the testing for the case study and said, come back in three months. 304 00:22:53,628.1826667 --> 00:22:56,178.1826667 And I said, what are you going to do? They're like, Oh, there's nothing we can do. 305 00:22:56,428.1826667 --> 00:22:57,388.1826667 We're just going to monitor it. 306 00:22:57,588.1826667 --> 00:23:00,708.0826667 I'm like every three months we're going to come in and spend $30, 000. 307 00:23:00,708.1826667 --> 00:23:00,788.1826667 Like. 308 00:23:02,608.1826667 --> 00:23:12,918.1826667 So anyway, I wanted to write a thank you note to that woman who spared me a lot of expense, gave me that like, "armor up mama bear", mama bear kind of mentality. 309 00:23:13,168.1826667 --> 00:23:13,868.1826667 I needed that. 310 00:23:13,888.1826667 --> 00:23:18,418.1816667 I needed that kick in the butt to not give up because I was really starting to think we were crazy. 311 00:23:18,858.1826667 --> 00:23:22,968.1826667 I went in to write a letter, a thank you, and I was looking for her name and she wasn't there. 312 00:23:23,8.1826667 --> 00:23:23,718.1826667 And I kept looking. 313 00:23:23,728.1826667 --> 00:23:24,418.1826667 I called. 314 00:23:24,718.1826667 --> 00:23:25,788.1826667 I was like, there's this woman. 315 00:23:25,798.1826667 --> 00:23:26,418.1821667 She works for you. 316 00:23:26,418.1821667 --> 00:23:27,18.1826667 She's a doctor. 317 00:23:27,18.1826667 --> 00:23:27,718.1816667 I was describing her. 318 00:23:27,718.1826667 --> 00:23:29,858.1816667 And they're like, ma'am, we don't know who you're talking about. 319 00:23:30,528.1826667 --> 00:23:32,318.1816667 We don't have anybody on staff who looks like that. 320 00:23:33,438.1826667 --> 00:23:39,918.1826667 And um, you know, every once in a while I think God sent me an angel. 321 00:23:40,648.1826667 --> 00:23:41,748.1826667 I just don't know. 322 00:23:42,368.1826667 --> 00:23:43,678.1826667 I thank her. 323 00:23:44,218.1826667 --> 00:23:49,753.1826667 So if you're listening, um, Doctor, whoever you are, or my angel, thank you. 324 00:23:50,633.1826667 --> 00:23:55,933.1826667 I credit you completely with my daughter and her health and how my whole journey in life changed. 325 00:23:55,943.1816667 --> 00:24:01,213.1826667 I went from a teacher to a mom who is on a mission to save kids lives. 326 00:24:02,163.1816667 --> 00:24:09,203.1826667 And I know that mental health takes lives, health takes lives, and I'm starting to learn that our environment is taking lives. 327 00:24:09,263.1826667 --> 00:24:15,298.1826667 And so I really want to just tell you to fight, fight the good fight. 328 00:24:15,308.1826667 --> 00:24:19,468.1826667 There's no fight more valiant than fighting for your kid. 329 00:24:19,678.1816667 --> 00:24:30,778.1826667 And so I'm here to partner up with you to help you figure out these symptoms, to help you get some resources that are at least less expensive to help your child really get on the path to wellness. 330 00:24:30,808.1826667 --> 00:24:32,488.1826667 And I really think. 331 00:24:33,603.1826667 --> 00:24:37,263.1826667 It is easier to treat the body than it is to treat the mind. 332 00:24:37,473.1826667 --> 00:24:43,943.1826667 Many times, and so many times, what is the doctor going to give you? The band aid, the drug to help you with a symptom. 333 00:24:44,923.1826667 --> 00:24:45,863.1826667 That's not all we need. 334 00:24:45,973.1826667 --> 00:24:47,923.1826667 We need root cause treatment. 335 00:24:47,933.1826667 --> 00:24:51,43.1826667 We need to stop things from progressing. 336 00:24:51,383.1826667 --> 00:24:55,103.1826667 And unfortunately, when we wait until they're in their twenties, it's too late. 337 00:24:55,113.1826667 --> 00:24:57,43.1826667 The damage is really extensive. 338 00:24:57,403.1816667 --> 00:24:59,163.1806667 And and sometimes we don't have any more time. 339 00:24:59,363.1816667 --> 00:25:04,783.1816667 You know, we lose our kids, and so we need to do this when they're young, when they're under our roof. 340 00:25:04,783.1816667 --> 00:25:11,343.1806667 It's really easy to change diet when they're little, really hard to change teenager and adult lifestyle. 341 00:25:11,373.1806667 --> 00:25:15,873.1826667 So lifestyle is really incredibly, important in this fight. 342 00:25:16,8.1826667 --> 00:25:22,338.1826667 Because we can't just go with the mainstream, you know, in the Bible, it says we need to be in the world, but not of the world. 343 00:25:22,388.1826667 --> 00:25:26,568.1826667 And this is so true on so many levels. 344 00:25:26,618.1826667 --> 00:25:29,618.1826667 And God gives us really weird wisdom in the Bible. 345 00:25:29,678.1826667 --> 00:25:34,418.1826667 He even gets into how we shouldn't mix linen and wool. 346 00:25:34,668.1826667 --> 00:25:44,978.1826667 I mean, what? And now studies are starting to show that, that our clothing actually affects our balance of, um, megahertz or something. 347 00:25:44,978.1826667 --> 00:25:50,378.1826667 I don't even know, but I just learned that this week and I was like, what? And I'm going to start looking into that. 348 00:25:50,388.1826667 --> 00:25:58,868.1826667 I'm like, what is simple fix just to dress in all cotton or all wool? And not to mix that, to look at our linens and just buy. 349 00:25:59,13.2826667 --> 00:26:01,413.1826667 Cotton PJs and cotton linens. 350 00:26:01,413.1826667 --> 00:26:06,263.1826667 If that really is a thing, like why would God say don't mix them? God's not dumb. 351 00:26:06,273.1826667 --> 00:26:14,23.1826667 He designed a world for us to be really, really healthy in and, and God designed it for us. 352 00:26:14,83.1826667 --> 00:26:26,133.1836667 If we are his prize creation on this earth and things are designed on this earth for us, we need to look to the Bible for information about what is good and what isn't good, what we should eat, what we should do, where we should be. 353 00:26:26,503.1826667 --> 00:26:27,633.1826667 Just look at Genesis. 354 00:26:28,313.1836667 --> 00:26:30,353.1836667 We were designed to be in a garden. 355 00:26:30,428.2836667 --> 00:26:32,958.1836667 That was our perfect environment. 356 00:26:32,998.1836667 --> 00:26:35,918.1836667 What are we doing in the garden? We're eating vegetables. 357 00:26:36,228.1836667 --> 00:26:37,928.1836667 He did have us eat meat. 358 00:26:37,938.1836667 --> 00:26:48,718.1826667 You know, don't forget as, as our brokenness was kind of set upon us, our body must have changed and now he wants us to eat meat, which is really interesting, and there's a lot of reasons for that. 359 00:26:48,728.1826667 --> 00:26:52,818.1826667 Like I learned that we really did need the protein in a different sense. 360 00:26:52,828.1826667 --> 00:26:56,338.1826667 It's really hard to fight autoimmune disease on a plant based diet. 361 00:26:56,418.1816667 --> 00:26:57,788.1826667 Super, super hard. 362 00:26:58,148.1826667 --> 00:26:59,853.1826667 But there's Good meat and bad meat. 363 00:26:59,863.1826667 --> 00:27:10,593.1826667 And so you have to get on that journey and figure out what exactly are we supposed to be eating? And what does that look like for each child? Because remember, even the meat today is tainted. 364 00:27:10,603.1826667 --> 00:27:22,98.1821667 They've got hormone injections and they're eating feed that is really chemically created and sometimes really cheap and inexpensive versus like eating wild grass, you know. 365 00:27:22,98.1821667 --> 00:27:34,698.1821667 You're better off eating bison to be honest, go eat buffalo or emu over your local chicken and cow because there's just a different level of feed that's a little closer to God's food because you are what you eat. 366 00:27:34,698.1821667 --> 00:27:38,368.1821667 If the animals are eating crap, you're going to ingest crap. 367 00:27:38,438.1821667 --> 00:27:56,968.1821667 So it just all kind of makes sense when you start to think about the trail, always think about the trail, where, where are the sources of food coming from and can we replace some of them? Do we need to do some gardening? Do we need to figure that out? You know, we used to just pull a vegetable out of the dirt, brush it off and eat it. 368 00:27:57,88.1821667 --> 00:27:58,158.1821667 We were eating dirt. 369 00:27:58,538.1821667 --> 00:28:03,708.1821667 Dirt has massive amounts of microbiome goodness. 370 00:28:04,18.1821667 --> 00:28:09,228.1821667 All those little bacteria and stuff are good in our gut and we needed to eat that from the dirt and we don't do that anymore. 371 00:28:09,228.1821667 --> 00:28:13,58.1821667 What do we do? We triple process our vegetables before we eat them at the grocery store. 372 00:28:13,58.1821667 --> 00:28:14,178.1821667 They're triple washed. 373 00:28:14,598.1811667 --> 00:28:22,748.1811667 So what does that mean? We're not getting the micro nutrients, the microbiome goodness that we were supposed to do when we ate out of the garden. 374 00:28:22,748.1811667 --> 00:28:24,258.1811667 God does this on purpose. 375 00:28:24,468.1811667 --> 00:28:28,918.1811667 One of the things, the biggest things that our bodies are missing right now is vitamin D. 376 00:28:29,488.1811667 --> 00:28:31,718.1811667 We were in a garden, naked. 377 00:28:31,778.1811667 --> 00:28:33,908.1811667 Our skin was exposed to the sun. 378 00:28:33,918.1811667 --> 00:28:36,98.1811667 We were supposed to get vitamin D. 379 00:28:36,448.1801667 --> 00:28:49,358.1811667 And now, we are completely covered, often indoors because we've just moved away from God's kingdom and we're in our own little human kingdoms, right? So we have our little house and, and we're in there and our vitamin D levels are suffering. 380 00:28:49,628.1811667 --> 00:28:54,38.1811667 Guys, vitamin D is like the key in the ignition of your hormonal system. 381 00:28:54,98.1801667 --> 00:28:57,778.1801667 If you're low in vitamin D, your body can't produce hormones. 382 00:28:57,818.1811667 --> 00:28:59,348.1811667 Now here's crazy thing. 383 00:28:59,358.1821667 --> 00:29:01,678.1811667 So two days ago I was on the airplane. 384 00:29:01,728.1811667 --> 00:29:04,868.1811667 We stopped over in Denver, Colorado, and we were hopping on a plane out to Idaho. 385 00:29:04,868.1811667 --> 00:29:32,258.1811667 And this guy got on the plane next to me, and I was sitting next to my husband and two giant men, you know, you know how that is, I'm like sideways trying to fit, and they're both sleeping, but anyway, at one point, right before we landed, the guy started talking, and he was lovely, this young, young man, and he had been in the military for six years, he had served in Afghanistan and Africa and a couple different places, he had done a stint, trying to, help children who are soldiers in Africa and sex slaves and things like that. 386 00:29:32,258.1811667 --> 00:29:34,8.1811667 And he had quite the story. 387 00:29:34,8.1811667 --> 00:29:35,518.1811667 He was an amazing young man. 388 00:29:35,988.1811667 --> 00:29:40,278.1806667 And he said, when you exit the army, they do a whole medical test on you. 389 00:29:40,278.1806667 --> 00:29:41,368.1811667 They do a psych test. 390 00:29:41,368.1811667 --> 00:29:42,138.1811667 They do all this stuff. 391 00:29:42,458.1811667 --> 00:29:51,688.1811667 One of the things they do was they test the men's hormones and they have found that every generation that they've tested in the army have less and less testosterone. 392 00:29:52,948.1811667 --> 00:30:00,378.1811667 Your kids have even less then the men, because studies are showing that every generation has reduced testosterone. 393 00:30:00,418.1811667 --> 00:30:03,248.1811667 So now we're looking at the identity issues kids are having. 394 00:30:03,488.1811667 --> 00:30:05,308.1811667 We're looking at the anxiety. 395 00:30:05,308.1811667 --> 00:30:12,118.1811667 Remember testosterone and cortisol kind of like help each other out to not make you like reactive and anxious. 396 00:30:12,408.1811667 --> 00:30:17,203.1811667 Higher testosterone also helps you build muscle, muscle, burns off fat faster. 397 00:30:17,223.1811667 --> 00:30:19,523.1811667 Women have testosterone too, and that's also dropping. 398 00:30:19,523.1811667 --> 00:30:22,153.1811667 Why? Well, testosterone is made in your sleep. 399 00:30:23,283.1801667 --> 00:30:26,163.1811667 This is the most tired generation that's ever walked the earth. 400 00:30:26,163.1811667 --> 00:30:35,13.1811667 What did we used to do? When the sun went down, you went to bed when the sun came up, you woke up, right? That was the normal flow of how we sleep. 401 00:30:35,33.1811667 --> 00:30:45,923.1801667 And so now when our kids are on their phone until midnight, two o'clock in the morning, guys, I have some students who confess I've been up till three in the morning, often this week, like all the time, they're tired. 402 00:30:46,158.1811667 --> 00:30:46,798.1811667 They're tired. 403 00:30:46,818.1811667 --> 00:30:49,358.1811667 That's when their testosterone is being made is in their sleep. 404 00:30:49,358.1811667 --> 00:30:56,488.1811667 So getting them to bed on time and getting them to get into that deep REM sleep so that they can actually produce testosterone is huge. 405 00:30:56,798.1811667 --> 00:31:00,68.1811667 But there's also all kinds of issues with our food. 406 00:31:00,368.1811667 --> 00:31:13,218.1811667 I really, really would cry out for some studies about what is reducing the testosterone in our kids and how can we naturally lift it? How can we combat that? But you can order testosterone and hormone tests for your kids. 407 00:31:13,493.1811667 --> 00:31:14,823.1811667 Very cheap online. 408 00:31:15,243.1811667 --> 00:31:16,833.1811667 I'll put out there the Equilife. 409 00:31:16,833.1811667 --> 00:31:19,203.1811667 I used that recently for my hormone test. 410 00:31:19,533.1811667 --> 00:31:23,103.1811667 When you send in your test, they mail you the test kit, you mail it back. 411 00:31:23,343.1811667 --> 00:31:25,433.1811667 When your results come, a doctor calls you. 412 00:31:25,773.1801667 --> 00:31:27,113.1801667 And yes, they are selling supplements. 413 00:31:27,113.1811667 --> 00:31:28,13.1811667 I'm not going to say they aren't. 414 00:31:28,23.1801667 --> 00:31:29,333.1811667 They do have a whole supplement line. 415 00:31:29,333.1811667 --> 00:31:31,783.1801667 But I said, I have all these supplements in my house. 416 00:31:31,793.1801667 --> 00:31:32,708.0811667 She's like, use them. 417 00:31:32,948.1811667 --> 00:31:34,128.1811667 You don't have to order from us. 418 00:31:34,378.1811667 --> 00:31:35,428.1811667 Use those supplements. 419 00:31:35,428.1811667 --> 00:31:36,168.1811667 That's fine. 420 00:31:36,178.1811667 --> 00:31:37,628.1811667 We just want you on those supplements. 421 00:31:37,628.1811667 --> 00:31:40,368.1811667 So, for me, my cortisol was wonky. 422 00:31:40,388.1811667 --> 00:31:45,178.1811667 And I think a lot of your kids, when I talk, especially teenagers, their cortisol is wonky. 423 00:31:45,178.1811667 --> 00:31:46,188.1811667 Here's how it's supposed to be. 424 00:31:46,478.1811667 --> 00:31:50,403.1811667 Your cortisol is supposed to come up in the morning, And that helps you wake up. 425 00:31:50,403.1811667 --> 00:31:54,133.1811667 And remember cortisol is like you're up chemical in your body. 426 00:31:54,233.1811667 --> 00:31:58,123.1801667 It causes anxiety, but it also is naturally there to stimulate you. 427 00:31:58,473.1801667 --> 00:32:00,483.1811667 So you're supposed to have higher cortisol in the morning. 428 00:32:00,523.1811667 --> 00:32:03,773.1811667 And then it's going to come down as you're trying to go to sleep. 429 00:32:04,483.1811667 --> 00:32:05,733.1811667 Mine was the opposite. 430 00:32:05,993.1811667 --> 00:32:11,533.1811667 And we started to talk on the phone and she's like, when, when have you ever taken magnesium? And I was like, yes, I'm taking magnesium. 431 00:32:11,773.1811667 --> 00:32:14,453.1811667 She's like, when do you take it? I'm like, well, my, my chiropractor told me to take it. 432 00:32:14,463.1801667 --> 00:32:15,643.1801667 So I usually just take it in the morning. 433 00:32:15,643.1811667 --> 00:32:16,203.1801667 So I don't forget. 434 00:32:16,203.1811667 --> 00:32:17,363.1811667 And she's like, Oh yeah. 435 00:32:17,693.1811667 --> 00:32:18,613.1811667 She's like, okay. 436 00:32:19,53.1811667 --> 00:32:21,243.1801667 Magnesium will drop your cortisol. 437 00:32:21,443.1811667 --> 00:32:23,413.1811667 She's like, you don't want to drop your cortisol in the morning. 438 00:32:23,423.1801667 --> 00:32:24,823.1801667 So she's like, switch it to nighttime. 439 00:32:25,233.1811667 --> 00:32:25,803.1811667 I was like, okay. 440 00:32:25,813.1811667 --> 00:32:29,173.1811667 And she's like, when do you work out? I said usually in the afternoon or the evening. 441 00:32:29,183.1811667 --> 00:32:31,943.1811667 And she's like, it's so funny. 442 00:32:32,363.1811667 --> 00:32:33,953.1811667 She's like, you've got to work out earlier. 443 00:32:33,953.1811667 --> 00:32:36,678.1811667 She goes working out, pops up your cortisol. 444 00:32:36,988.1811667 --> 00:32:42,548.1811667 When are kids practicing? After school, right? My kids, they're in soccer or running. 445 00:32:42,558.1811667 --> 00:32:45,608.1811667 So they both after school go run till five 30 or so. 446 00:32:45,928.1811667 --> 00:32:48,788.1811667 And then both of them go to the gym afterwards. 447 00:32:48,798.1811667 --> 00:32:51,258.1801667 So they'll be at the gym till nine or 10 o'clock at night. 448 00:32:51,648.1811667 --> 00:32:56,158.1811667 This is jacking up their cortisol and this is going to make it really hard to stay asleep. 449 00:32:56,188.1811667 --> 00:32:58,488.1811667 All the hormones don't really get made properly. 450 00:32:58,758.1811667 --> 00:32:59,948.1811667 It's really fascinating. 451 00:32:59,998.1811667 --> 00:33:05,488.1811667 Trying to think, like, God told Adam to take care of the animals in the garden. 452 00:33:05,918.1811667 --> 00:33:07,898.1811667 Well, that had to be done in daylight. 453 00:33:08,18.1811667 --> 00:33:15,278.1811667 It's very physical, and a lot of it started in the morning, right? Like, you would be feeding the animals in the morning and taking care of them and stuff like that. 454 00:33:15,638.1811667 --> 00:33:22,378.1811667 We've just fallen away from God's ways, right? And some of it is so, so simple. 455 00:33:22,898.1811667 --> 00:33:27,58.1811667 So a lot of you were really freaking out about your child's diagnosis. 456 00:33:27,58.1811667 --> 00:33:30,208.1811667 And there's a couple of things I want you to remember from this podcast. 457 00:33:30,208.1811667 --> 00:33:31,68.1811667 Cause it's going on and on. 458 00:33:31,278.1811667 --> 00:33:32,428.1811667 I need to kind of wrap it up. 459 00:33:33,928.1811667 --> 00:33:36,98.1811667 You know, your child, that's number one. 460 00:33:36,878.1811667 --> 00:33:38,78.1811667 You know your child best. 461 00:33:38,208.1811667 --> 00:33:39,28.1811667 The doctor does not. 462 00:33:39,458.1811667 --> 00:33:43,448.1811667 Two, the doctor is not trained to prevent as much as to treat. 463 00:33:44,178.1811667 --> 00:33:46,748.1801667 They have great, great wisdom. 464 00:33:46,928.1811667 --> 00:34:05,818.1811667 I do believe that that is perfectly fine to rely on that wisdom, but ask yourself have I first tried to figure out the root cause? Have I gone to the preventative first? Three, if it came on, Maybe it can be undone, right? If it was something that you weren't born with, it started to come on. 465 00:34:05,818.1811667 --> 00:34:14,858.1811667 And that's a great indicator that perhaps you're one of the people who are dealing with a hormonal imbalance or a food intolerance or something like that. 466 00:34:14,858.1811667 --> 00:34:19,898.1811667 Because remember, babies are unlimited food sources, whereas our kids are openly eating whatever. 467 00:34:20,258.1811667 --> 00:34:22,648.1811667 And we have that kablooey of hormones. 468 00:34:23,18.1811667 --> 00:34:24,778.1811667 Hormones do a number on our kids. 469 00:34:24,778.1811667 --> 00:34:33,188.1806667 So when they're not developing properly with it's all a system, right? So you've got to get that THS tested and all that stuff like the thyroids and things like that. 470 00:34:33,198.1806667 --> 00:34:34,568.1806667 You can get it all tested. 471 00:34:35,118.1806667 --> 00:34:36,858.1796667 Four, food sensitivity tests. 472 00:34:36,858.1806667 --> 00:34:37,438.1806667 Super cheap. 473 00:34:37,508.1806667 --> 00:34:39,398.1796667 You can get them for like 25 bucks now online. 474 00:34:39,558.1806667 --> 00:34:42,218.1806667 And literally I think you like spit in a tube. 475 00:34:42,218.1806667 --> 00:34:45,738.1806667 Some of them have been punch tests with blood, but they're all done really, really easily. 476 00:34:45,738.1806667 --> 00:34:46,458.1806667 You mail it out. 477 00:34:46,468.1806667 --> 00:34:47,898.1806667 Actually, I think one of them is hair. 478 00:34:47,918.1806667 --> 00:34:51,278.1806667 There's so many ways to test super fast, super easy, super cheap. 479 00:34:51,278.1806667 --> 00:34:51,718.1806667 Do it. 480 00:34:51,808.1806667 --> 00:34:54,148.1806667 There's no reason not to find out their whole family. 481 00:34:54,148.1806667 --> 00:34:57,538.1806667 I just ordered a kit of four because I want to just get the whole family tested. 482 00:34:57,538.1806667 --> 00:34:58,28.1806667 I'm curious. 483 00:34:58,28.1806667 --> 00:35:04,968.1806667 I'm also curious if my daughter who I've had tested, if her food sensitivities have changed because she's been about two years on the reduced diet. 484 00:35:04,968.1806667 --> 00:35:07,978.0806667 5, go find those resources that are free online. 485 00:35:08,8.0806667 --> 00:35:09,768.0806667 I will throw out to you that Dr. 486 00:35:09,768.0806667 --> 00:35:10,698.0806667 Gundry, Dr. 487 00:35:10,708.0806667 --> 00:35:13,48.0796667 Amy Myers, they have really good resources. 488 00:35:13,308.0806667 --> 00:35:13,588.0806667 Dr. 489 00:35:13,588.0806667 --> 00:35:15,908.0806667 Amy Myers has some quizzes available on her site. 490 00:35:15,918.0806667 --> 00:35:18,558.0806667 She does have food available for order as does Dr. 491 00:35:18,558.0806667 --> 00:35:19,58.0806667 Gundry. 492 00:35:19,378.0806667 --> 00:35:19,668.0806667 Dr. 493 00:35:19,668.0816667 --> 00:35:25,253.0806667 Gundry has some gut based Supplements that I would say they're amazing. 494 00:35:25,283.0806667 --> 00:35:27,373.0806667 We found really good results with that. 495 00:35:27,373.0806667 --> 00:35:40,813.0806667 Six, there's a lot of really cool cancer preventative things out there that you can just order on Amazon Like we found pectosol if you go on pectosol and go look at the medical records and things like that Amazing treatment for cancer. 496 00:35:40,933.0806667 --> 00:35:45,553.0806667 So I put my daughter who's got autoimmune disease On pectosol. 497 00:35:45,813.0806667 --> 00:35:47,443.0806667 It's derived from citrus peel. 498 00:35:47,763.0806667 --> 00:35:48,683.0806667 Totally awesome. 499 00:35:48,683.0806667 --> 00:35:50,183.0806667 It's totally clean and natural. 500 00:35:50,463.0806667 --> 00:35:55,33.0806667 But the results that they're finding in these medical journals are incredible, but there are so many. 501 00:35:55,43.0796667 --> 00:35:57,953.0796667 I mean, there's one that's like all the animals that are red pigmented. 502 00:35:58,363.0806667 --> 00:36:07,3.0806667 They've, they've looked into that red pigmentation and, and they've got supplements that actually mimic that and those are awesome for fighting cancer too, but there's so much out there. 503 00:36:07,263.0806667 --> 00:36:11,543.0806667 There's also cancer fighting people like I think it was Chris beat cancer. 504 00:36:11,553.0806667 --> 00:36:14,793.0806667 He's a Christian who's trying to help people fight cancer naturally. 505 00:36:15,33.0806667 --> 00:36:20,463.0796667 He has resources for you on how to clean up your diet and get yourself all put together. 506 00:36:21,53.0796667 --> 00:36:38,953.0796667 Seven, you can pay people, you can pay people, you can pay functional medicine doctors to run all your tests and work with you one on one, or you can order these tests online much cheaper and get email reports and, and sec suggestions, or get a phone call, like Equilife does a phone call and you get a one on one person with a doctor. 507 00:36:39,263.0796667 --> 00:36:41,693.0796667 Eight, get your kids outside moving. 508 00:36:41,723.0796667 --> 00:36:42,563.0796667 They have to move. 509 00:36:42,593.0796667 --> 00:36:46,943.0796667 An object in motion remains in motion, right? But it also does so much more than that. 510 00:36:46,973.0796667 --> 00:36:49,253.0796667 It moves the lymphatic fluid through their body. 511 00:36:49,523.0796667 --> 00:36:51,293.0796667 They are supposed to be moving. 512 00:36:51,293.0796667 --> 00:36:53,993.0796667 This is the most sedentary group of kids ever. 513 00:36:53,993.0796667 --> 00:37:03,173.0796667 We have them sitting in their desk for seven hours a day and then they go to structured activities where there's very little movement unless they're in a sport. 514 00:37:03,533.0796667 --> 00:37:05,603.0796667 It is up to us to get them to move. 515 00:37:05,873.0796667 --> 00:37:07,283.0796667 So they have to join a gym. 516 00:37:07,283.0796667 --> 00:37:07,853.0796667 But listen. 517 00:37:08,513.0796667 --> 00:37:09,963.0796667 Kids follow us. 518 00:37:10,93.0796667 --> 00:37:11,223.0796667 Do it for you. 519 00:37:11,233.0796667 --> 00:37:12,543.0796667 You should do it too. 520 00:37:12,793.0796667 --> 00:37:16,453.0796667 When I started doing, I, I paid a lot of money, but I joined a group. 521 00:37:16,483.0786667 --> 00:37:17,463.0796667 I'm going to just throw it out there. 522 00:37:17,513.0796667 --> 00:37:18,353.0796667 Warrior babe. 523 00:37:19,523.0786667 --> 00:37:19,583.0786667 Amazing. 524 00:37:19,593.0796667 --> 00:37:21,343.0796667 Nikki, you are awesome. 525 00:37:21,343.0796667 --> 00:37:22,473.0786667 So is my coach, Caitlin. 526 00:37:22,473.0786667 --> 00:37:22,983.0786667 I love her. 527 00:37:23,333.0796667 --> 00:37:25,603.0806667 What they do is they do the full package. 528 00:37:25,853.0806667 --> 00:37:26,852.9806667 We're learning food. 529 00:37:26,973.0806667 --> 00:37:28,83.0806667 We're learning exercise. 530 00:37:28,113.0806667 --> 00:37:29,353.0806667 We got our hormones checked. 531 00:37:29,353.0806667 --> 00:37:30,153.0806667 We are doing everything. 532 00:37:30,153.0806667 --> 00:37:31,853.0806667 It's for 40 and over women. 533 00:37:32,183.0806667 --> 00:37:36,243.0806667 When I started to put myself first, one daughter followed up. 534 00:37:36,293.0796667 --> 00:37:37,723.0806667 That was Brielle, my little one. 535 00:37:37,723.0806667 --> 00:37:39,553.0806667 She was like, I want to do this too. 536 00:37:39,603.0806667 --> 00:37:40,653.0806667 Cause she was built like me. 537 00:37:40,653.0806667 --> 00:37:41,883.0806667 And she was seeing me change. 538 00:37:41,893.0806667 --> 00:37:44,333.0796667 She was seeing me feel better, less tired. 539 00:37:44,333.0806667 --> 00:37:45,653.0806667 My body was starting to change. 540 00:37:45,653.0806667 --> 00:37:46,943.0806667 My attitude was starting to change. 541 00:37:46,943.0806667 --> 00:37:49,573.0806667 And she's like, mom, I was really starting to get nervous. 542 00:37:49,788.0806667 --> 00:37:58,458.0806667 that because I looked like you, biologically, that I would have the same problems that you did, like putting on weight and being tired and things like that. 543 00:37:58,458.0806667 --> 00:38:01,548.0806667 And I was starting to get really freaked out about how I was built. 544 00:38:01,908.0806667 --> 00:38:04,248.0806667 And she's like, but watching you, like, I want to do this. 545 00:38:04,318.0806667 --> 00:38:05,68.0796667 I want to do this too. 546 00:38:05,288.0806667 --> 00:38:06,178.0801667 And I was like, do it together. 547 00:38:06,178.0801667 --> 00:38:07,8.0806667 So it was so fun. 548 00:38:07,248.0796667 --> 00:38:09,888.0806667 We joined the gym together and we, we lift together and all that. 549 00:38:09,888.0806667 --> 00:38:10,948.0806667 Now she's surpassing me. 550 00:38:10,948.0806667 --> 00:38:11,738.0806667 She's amazing. 551 00:38:11,748.0806667 --> 00:38:12,328.0806667 I love her. 552 00:38:12,328.0806667 --> 00:38:13,198.0806667 She's like a powerhouse. 553 00:38:13,198.0806667 --> 00:38:15,868.0806667 But then Kendra was watching because Kendra loves to run. 554 00:38:15,938.0806667 --> 00:38:19,248.0806667 But running, we were told for autoimmune disease is not that great. 555 00:38:19,518.0806667 --> 00:38:21,448.0806667 You shouldn't go beyond two or three miles. 556 00:38:21,448.0806667 --> 00:38:24,48.0806667 And she loves to run like six miles like that. 557 00:38:24,58.0806667 --> 00:38:25,118.0801667 She just loves running. 558 00:38:25,118.0801667 --> 00:38:32,798.0806667 So does my other, my other child, my, my son, he loves long distance runs, but even he's learning that that might be too much on his body. 559 00:38:32,798.0806667 --> 00:38:35,338.0806667 And, and, but the thing is they still feel like they need more. 560 00:38:35,338.0806667 --> 00:38:39,728.0806667 So both of them have started lifting and Kendra comes with us now where she goes on her own cause she can drive. 561 00:38:39,728.0806667 --> 00:38:42,88.0806667 But, but we all are doing this. 562 00:38:42,118.0806667 --> 00:38:44,98.0806667 We are putting ourselves first. 563 00:38:44,578.0806667 --> 00:38:46,808.0806667 And our body wants to heal itself. 564 00:38:46,818.0806667 --> 00:38:48,858.0806667 Our body wants to be in balance. 565 00:38:48,908.0806667 --> 00:39:06,28.0806667 God put systems in place to heal ourselves, but we have to figure out what is it that he's asking us to do? How do we come back to God's ways? I also saw a lot of controversy about things like healing with crystals and stuff like that. 566 00:39:06,58.0806667 --> 00:39:12,448.0806667 I am in no way saying that we should be going to, you know, practices like that to heal ourselves. 567 00:39:12,458.0806667 --> 00:39:14,808.0806667 I don't think that's what we mean by this. 568 00:39:15,208.0806667 --> 00:39:24,238.0806667 This is about thinking: water is designed to run through the rocks underground and we're supposed to drink it and it would have minerals in it. 569 00:39:24,238.0806667 --> 00:39:25,218.0806667 Natural minerals. 570 00:39:25,218.0806667 --> 00:39:27,48.0806667 That's how God designed water to flow. 571 00:39:27,438.0796667 --> 00:39:30,683.0806667 When we have water that's been highly processed. 572 00:39:30,953.0806667 --> 00:39:35,213.0806667 And then some of us also have extra filtration on our, our houses. 573 00:39:35,523.0806667 --> 00:39:37,893.0806667 So we're drinking this highly filtered water. 574 00:39:38,263.0796667 --> 00:39:48,813.0806667 What is the goodness that God intended to have in water that we've taken out? So actually, if you have super, super filtered water, you can make yourself sick because you're not getting nutrients that should be in our water. 575 00:39:49,413.0806667 --> 00:39:51,73.0806667 Basics, guys, basics. 576 00:39:51,363.0806667 --> 00:39:56,943.0806667 So just thinking about everything that we're giving our children, remembering that we are our child's advocate. 577 00:39:56,953.0806667 --> 00:39:59,673.0806667 We are the ones who are on the forefront of their health. 578 00:39:59,673.0806667 --> 00:40:03,763.0806667 We are their medical help right now because we are preventing future disease. 579 00:40:04,83.0796667 --> 00:40:05,493.0806667 We're preventing future cancer. 580 00:40:05,503.0806667 --> 00:40:07,293.0796667 We're preventing future mental health issues. 581 00:40:07,303.0806667 --> 00:40:10,123.0796667 We're preventing future autoimmune and sickness. 582 00:40:10,393.0796667 --> 00:40:18,923.0806667 And the number of girls that I teach and talk to coaching who say, Because they'll, they'll say, I have anxiety, I have this, I have that. 583 00:40:18,923.0806667 --> 00:40:20,533.0806667 Okay, talk to me about your stomach. 584 00:40:21,553.0806667 --> 00:40:30,263.0806667 Do you remember when your stomach started to bother you? Every single one of them who has high anxiety can lock into a time when they remember feeling good. 585 00:40:30,613.0806667 --> 00:40:37,243.0806667 When was the last time you felt good? They'd be like, oh, it's been, I don't know, fourth grade, maybe fifth grade. 586 00:40:37,713.0806667 --> 00:40:38,43.0806667 Yeah. 587 00:40:38,363.0806667 --> 00:40:40,673.0806667 That's when their hormones started to go through the roof. 588 00:40:40,733.0806667 --> 00:40:41,663.0806667 It makes sense. 589 00:40:41,723.0806667 --> 00:40:42,863.0806667 That was puberty. 590 00:40:43,883.0806667 --> 00:40:44,723.0806667 Hormones. 591 00:40:45,83.0806667 --> 00:40:46,448.0806667 We need to do this guys. 592 00:40:46,448.0806667 --> 00:40:54,503.0806667 There's and the boys are a little later, so when we're seeing high anxiety in boys as they're a little bit older, remember that's like a symptom of something. 593 00:40:54,768.0806667 --> 00:40:55,778.0806667 That came first. 594 00:40:56,428.0806667 --> 00:40:59,308.0806667 When did their stomach start to go bad? I just met another one. 595 00:40:59,308.0806667 --> 00:41:00,258.0806667 I'm coaching another one. 596 00:41:00,328.0806667 --> 00:41:03,508.0806667 Guess what? When did his stomach start to hurt? Called mom. 597 00:41:03,578.0806667 --> 00:41:07,218.0806667 When does his stomach start to hurt? And she's like, yeah, he's been complaining about his stomach lately. 598 00:41:08,298.0796667 --> 00:41:09,608.0806667 Did he ever do that as a kid? No. 599 00:41:10,588.0806667 --> 00:41:11,358.0806667 Mm hmm. 600 00:41:11,368.0806667 --> 00:41:11,658.0806667 Mm hmm. 601 00:41:12,608.0806667 --> 00:41:15,658.0806667 You following? Gotta get them healthy guys. 602 00:41:16,168.0806667 --> 00:41:17,528.0806667 So reach out to me. 603 00:41:17,838.0806667 --> 00:41:23,898.0796667 I am happy to coach you through this because it is a process because especially when they're a teenager, they have to want to get better. 604 00:41:23,978.0806667 --> 00:41:27,638.0806667 You know, cause they can drive, they can walk wherever, they can eat the school food. 605 00:41:27,638.0806667 --> 00:41:30,818.0806667 Like they have to understand why we're doing this. 606 00:41:30,828.0806667 --> 00:41:31,748.0806667 We're not trying to be mean. 607 00:41:31,758.0806667 --> 00:41:32,808.0806667 We're not trying to restrict them. 608 00:41:32,918.0806667 --> 00:41:37,158.0806667 We're not trying to like give them a bedtime and take away their phone and stuff like that because we're just mean parents. 609 00:41:37,583.0806667 --> 00:41:41,993.0806667 But sometimes because it's such a radical shift in how they're going to live, you need some help. 610 00:41:42,3.0806667 --> 00:41:48,633.0806667 You need somebody to come in with like facts, reality, stories, anecdotes, whatever it is, sourcing like resources that they can go to. 611 00:41:48,963.0806667 --> 00:41:50,163.0806667 This is what we need to do. 612 00:41:50,163.0806667 --> 00:41:51,613.0801667 And I am here to partner with you. 613 00:41:51,613.0801667 --> 00:41:52,613.0796667 I can be the bad guy. 614 00:41:53,163.0806667 --> 00:41:54,163.0806667 I can be the supportive guy. 615 00:41:54,513.0796667 --> 00:41:57,33.0806667 I can be whatever you need me to be because I've been there. 616 00:41:57,53.0806667 --> 00:41:58,573.0806667 I had to coach my kid into health. 617 00:41:58,593.0806667 --> 00:42:01,953.0806667 And Hey, by the way, I had to coach my kid into wellness. 618 00:42:01,993.0806667 --> 00:42:04,193.0806667 And Hey, by the way, she's in remission. 619 00:42:04,668.0806667 --> 00:42:09,398.0806667 Doctors don't know why she's this case study in a hospital and they were like there's a camp. 620 00:42:09,408.0806667 --> 00:42:11,258.0806667 There's a special camp for kids like that. 621 00:42:11,268.0806667 --> 00:42:13,768.0806667 I mean, parents who hear that? I am so sorry. 622 00:42:13,768.0806667 --> 00:42:16,238.0806667 That is such a hard, hard thing. 623 00:42:16,248.0806667 --> 00:42:18,8.0806667 I mean, that rocked me. 624 00:42:18,148.0806667 --> 00:42:20,108.0796667 That rocked me forever. 625 00:42:20,638.0806667 --> 00:42:21,918.0796667 And it rocked her. 626 00:42:22,18.0786667 --> 00:42:26,28.0786667 I remember that when she heard that she, she came in the car afterwards. 627 00:42:26,28.0786667 --> 00:42:26,468.0786667 She was really quiet. 628 00:42:26,728.0796667 --> 00:42:28,418.0796667 She's like, there's a camp for kids like me. 629 00:42:28,478.0796667 --> 00:42:32,978.0796667 Like, what's wrong with me? How am I different? And like, it was so sad. 630 00:42:34,538.0796667 --> 00:42:36,588.0796667 Listen, I'm your boot camp. 631 00:42:36,878.0796667 --> 00:42:38,538.0796667 There's a camp for people like you. 632 00:42:38,968.0796667 --> 00:42:40,228.0796667 People who are not going to give up. 633 00:42:40,258.0796667 --> 00:42:41,848.0796667 People who are going to be their kid's advocate. 634 00:42:41,848.0796667 --> 00:42:43,278.0786667 Who are going to fight to the death. 635 00:42:43,288.0796667 --> 00:42:44,458.0796667 Who are going to be mama bears. 636 00:42:44,708.0796667 --> 00:42:45,688.0796667 And we're going to armor up. 637 00:42:45,688.0796667 --> 00:42:50,733.0796667 And we're going to fight the traditional medicine route because I don't want to get rid of it. 638 00:42:50,803.0796667 --> 00:42:51,413.0796667 I need it. 639 00:42:51,453.0796667 --> 00:42:51,953.0796667 I love it. 640 00:42:51,963.0796667 --> 00:42:55,363.0796667 When my foot was broken, praise Jesus. 641 00:42:55,363.0796667 --> 00:42:58,863.0791667 They were able to put me back together and then God let my body heal the rest of the way. 642 00:42:58,863.0791667 --> 00:43:01,883.0796667 But we have to figure out how to get it set up so that God can do the healing. 643 00:43:01,913.0786667 --> 00:43:02,853.0796667 God can do the healing. 644 00:43:02,863.0796667 --> 00:43:03,783.0791667 God will do the healing. 645 00:43:03,783.0791667 --> 00:43:04,943.0796667 We can surrender it to him. 646 00:43:05,53.0796667 --> 00:43:06,253.0796667 He will give you a wisdom. 647 00:43:06,303.0796667 --> 00:43:07,403.0796667 He will give you a path. 648 00:43:07,413.0796667 --> 00:43:08,633.0786667 He will give you a direction. 649 00:43:08,633.1786667 --> 00:43:10,133.0796667 And I'm going to pray over you right now. 650 00:43:10,958.0796667 --> 00:43:16,288.0796667 Dear God, if this has triggered any, any thoughts that this is possible, I pray that you fuel that. 651 00:43:16,298.0796667 --> 00:43:33,808.1786667 Jesus, if these moms and dads and kids who are listening, if they can have a hope, I pray that it is a hope in you that you will restore, you will renew, you will regenerate, you will treat these children and will help us all to find new levels of health so that we can be active transformers in the world. 652 00:43:33,828.1786667 --> 00:43:35,118.1786667 Agents for you, God. 653 00:43:35,468.1786667 --> 00:43:45,118.1776667 Without our health, we are really lacking the ability, the energy, the availability of energy to go and do the things that you're calling us to do. 654 00:43:45,128.1786667 --> 00:43:49,238.1786667 So, Lord, I pray that every single family can find health. 655 00:43:49,248.1786667 --> 00:43:52,563.1786667 I pray that if I can come alongside of them, That they'll reach out. 656 00:43:52,563.1786667 --> 00:43:55,983.1786667 But more importantly, if it's not me, I pray that they find the right person. 657 00:43:56,313.1786667 --> 00:44:08,823.1786667 And I pray that they will find their way to wellness because Jesus, we need to have arms and feet and hands and, and just minds and just willingness of God's people to do good on this earth and to love each other. 658 00:44:08,823.1786667 --> 00:44:10,553.1786667 And that is going to take health. 659 00:44:10,808.1786667 --> 00:44:14,638.1786667 We can't do that from our sick bed as easily as we can do it when we're out in the world. 660 00:44:14,638.1786667 --> 00:44:17,928.1786667 So help us to have a wisdom that is yours alone. 661 00:44:18,218.1786667 --> 00:44:20,238.1786667 I pray for peace and calm. 662 00:44:20,538.1786667 --> 00:44:25,428.1781667 I pray against anxiety and depression and mental health disorders like bipolar. 663 00:44:25,428.1781667 --> 00:44:27,408.1781667 I pray against their stomach issues. 664 00:44:27,408.1781667 --> 00:44:32,748.1786667 I pray for full restoration of their micro gut biomes and of their, leaky gut. 665 00:44:32,798.1786667 --> 00:44:46,618.2786667 If they have that in Jesus, I pray that, Our government will start to get more educated about how things are affecting our babies, such as medicines and I'll go there, vaccines and food and all of that. 666 00:44:46,648.2786667 --> 00:44:48,8.2786667 I just pray for wisdom. 667 00:44:48,38.2786667 --> 00:44:49,808.2776667 I pray that the right people will step in. 668 00:44:49,828.2786667 --> 00:44:51,678.2786667 I pray for the right voices to be heard. 669 00:44:51,998.2776667 --> 00:44:56,238.2776667 Jesus, send your people into the world to change it for good. 670 00:44:56,558.2776667 --> 00:44:58,298.2786667 And that change starts with our kids. 671 00:44:58,298.2786667 --> 00:45:00,528.2786667 So Lord protect our kids. 672 00:45:00,633.2786667 --> 00:45:06,933.2786667 Help us to protect our kids, but help us to empower our kids to become amazing soldiers for Christ. 673 00:45:07,423.2786667 --> 00:45:10,503.2786667 We love you, God, and I love you guys. 674 00:45:11,43.2776667 --> 00:45:11,673.2786667 Have a great one. 675 00:45:12,653.2786667 --> 00:45:15,313.2786667 If this was any value to you, please like or subscribe. 676 00:45:15,313.2786667 --> 00:45:17,993.2786667 I would appreciate it so much as I'm building my audience. 677 00:45:18,43.2786667 --> 00:45:22,323.2786667 My website, www.selffoundry.com 678 00:45:22,513.2786667 --> 00:45:25,713.2786667 has lots of free resources and access to more information. 679 00:45:25,713.2786667 --> 00:45:34,458.2786667 You can reach out and get one on one coaching from me, so feel free to share, subscribe, like, and hop on there to sign up for some of your own free resources. 680 00:45:34,798.2786667 --> 00:45:35,568.2786667 Love you lots.