22 | Tired of Misunderstandings with Your Teen? 3 Keys to Get Them Talking (Instead of Walking Away)

Have you ever said something you meant as helpful, only to have your teen take it the wrong way? You’re thinking, “I just want them to know I care.” But what they hear is, “You don’t think I can do anything.”

In this episode, we’ll look at why your words sometimes don’t land the way you intend—and 3 key shifts that help your teen feel safe to keep talking instead of walking away.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

✔️ The “identity filter” that shapes how your teen hears every word

✔️ How to move from control to collaboration in daily conversations

✔️ Simple reframes that build trust and connection

If you’re tired of eye-rolls, shutdowns, or conversations that go nowhere, this episode will give you fresh hope and practical ways to connect with your teen’s heart.

💛 Scripture Reference: James 3:5 – “The tongue is a small part of the body, yet it carries great power.”

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