Resilience Pays Off

In this powerful episode of Conversations That Heal, we’re joined by Carla A. Pinto — a New York attorney whose story is a testament to grit, resilience, and the courage to reinvent yourself.

Carla took the bar exam not once, not twice, but eight times over four relentless years — without a single break. Each failure chipped away at her confidence, while workplace betrayals and crumbling relationships intensified the pressure. Behind her professional composure, Carla cried herself home every night, struggling under the weight of expectations, isolation, and self-doubt.

Her breakthrough came when she finally surrendered — not to defeat, but to faith. She gave her burden to God, shifted her focus from passing the test to healing her spirit, and in February 2019, she passed the bar. But three years later, success didn’t feel like she imagined. She realized the career she had fought so hard for wasn’t fulfilling her anymore.

That realization led Carla on a journey of self-discovery — and to the surprising world of modeling. What started as a side interest opened new doors, reminded her of her power, and helped her redefine success on her own terms.

This episode is a raw, honest conversation about perseverance, identity, mental health, and the radical freedom that comes from letting go of society’s expectations.

Key Takeaways:

• Never give up on your dreams — but make sure they’re still your dreams.

• Your mindset can either be your prison or your path to peace.

• You’re allowed to pivot, evolve, and build a life that truly makes you happy.

Connect with Carla:

• Instagram: @_carlaapinto

Books Mentioned:

• The Power of the Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy

• Becoming Supernatural by Dr. Joe Dispenza