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September 9, 2025 83 mins

Judson meets a possible long-lost relative during his very own Hookup of the Week. Brian gushes over Morgan Bassichis’ one-man show, ”Can I Be Frank?” and finally scores his seventh review on The Blowers. The two learn that elementary age kids have caught onto the fact that ‘Daddy’ has sexual connotations. Both are turned on by the voice that delivers this week’s listener-submitted Hookup of the Week. They are then joined by adult entertainment mogul turned DJ, Boomer Banks. Boomer shares his love for his second home of Provincetown, MA, and talks about what it means to be sober in a queer vacation destination. He digs into his childhood struggles with his family, his move from Los Angeles to New York, and takes the two through the evolution of his career from fashion design to go-go dancing to his discovery as a porn performer. He delves into his fight for his place in the industry as a person of color, and how he has fostered the Haus of Banks to support other marginalized adult entertainment performers. He also shares how a surprising and staggering period of grief brought him to his current pursuits as a DJ. The episode ends with Boomer helping Brian and Judson address a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener looking for advice on exploring new kinks.

Boomer Banks on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baconlvr

Boomer Banks on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@boomerbanks

Boomer Banks on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/boomerbanks.bsky.social

Boomer Banks’ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/Boomerbanks

Email your Hookup of the Week or Go Ask Your Dad submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com

Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/

Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod

Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod

Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social


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