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July 15, 2024 27 mins

Have you ever dreamt of joining a threesome but never dared ask your partner? It’s a universal fantasy, and one that can become reality with trust and good communication.

In this episode, we share a very intimate experience where we pushed our boundaries further than ever before: for the first and only time in our life, Chiara is "lent" for the night as a Unicorn to Allie and her husband, while Will is away on an expedition.

He talks vulnerably about his internal struggle between a positively erotic idea and the negative social conditioning around masculinity and ownership that would mark this as incredibly wrong and dysfunctional. 

He also explains the strong bond he created with Allie’s man, the complete trust and clear communication that they have, highlighting the significance of male, brotherly energy and trust.

Our goal in sharing this story is to show you what’s possible when the bond in a couple is so strong, and complete trust has been achieved: we would have not been able to do this before our deep inner work and sexual deconditioning journey! 

Our intention is to purely inspire you to embrace sexual liberation by learning how clear communication, vulnerability and boundaries work Even within the boundaries of your monogamous relationship, there's plenty of things you can try out!

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02:56 What is a Unicorn 05:11 Trust, Desire, Fantasies And Open Communication 07:27 Healthy Management of Emotions: Thrill or Jealousy? 12:51 A Strog Secure Bond Can Take You To Depths You Can't Imagine 13:40 The Potential Risk of Damaging a Relationship 14:24 What It Feels Like to Join Another Couple as a Unicorn 14:57 Only When You Feel Safe You Can Relax 15:47 Conditioning: Shall We Listen To It? 17:01 Protect What's Precious 19:13 Giving vs. Taking Attitude in Bed 22:35 Is There Such A Thing As "Too Much"?

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Free resources + next steps for your sexual healing journey:

 

  • Will & Chiara’s mini-course: “How to talk to your partner so they actually see you” - Join the waitlist

 

  • Will & Chiara’s 1:1 monthly mentorship - Apply

 

For more info, visit www.deeperlovers.com

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