Will and Chiara tackle another taboo topic that many men (and their partners) struggle with, but rarely discuss openly: erections.
From performance anxiety to the pressure of always staying hard, they explore how much of the struggle is psychological rather than physical.
They discuss how shame, unrealistic expectations, and overthinking can interfere with arousal, and share practical ways to overcome these challenges. From breaking free of the traditional sex script to exploring the benefits of unconventional practices like non-ejaculation, they offer unusual yet groundbreaking perspectives on male sexual confidence.
You’ll also hear how women often feel responsible for their partner’s arousal, why they may misinterpret erection issues, and how couples can learn to have open, reassuring conversations that remove pressure.
Whether you’ve felt anxiety around performance or simply want a more relaxed, fulfilling intimate life, we guarantee this episode will change the way you think about erections and intimate connections.
TIME STAMPS
00:00 When Did Your Dick Stop Working?
00:48 Let's Talk About Erections
02:11 The "Erectile Dysfunction" Label Does Not Serve You
03:07 Level 1 of "Mind-Fucking"
05:55 What About Cialis or Viagra?
08:40 More Pressure On The Man
09:44 You Naturally Have Things On Your Mind
11:28 The Mojo App for Erectile Dysfunction (20% off code: DEEPERSEX20)
12:44 Cock Rings Can Help With Performance
15:17 Do Women Like Cock Rings?
16:02 How To Talk About Cock Rings
18:43 Mind-Fucking Is The Problem
19:32 I'm Not Hard: How To Address The Elephant In The Room
20:26 10 Prompts To Start Difficult Conversations
21:02 Never Say "I'm Sorry If I'm Not Hard"
21:58 Have Some Fun With Sex Toys
22:46 Are You Saying I Shouldn't Ejaculate? Ever...?
23:25 Benefits of Non-Ejaculation: Increased Libido
24:35 Overcoming The Initial Resistance to Non-Ejaculation
24:58 Coming Is Not The Best Bit!
25:59 What Women Think Of Non-Ejaculation
26:25 The Pleasure Of Giving Pleasure
26:52 Benefits of Non-Ejaculation: Higher Sensitivity
27:42 Soft Dicks Are Nice!
28:46 Have You Tried A Tantric Massage?
30:37 The Secret of "No Goals" During Intercourse
32:57 The Importance Of Feeling Safe
34:19 Become A Better Lover
36:42 For Women: Tell Your Man You Like His Dick!
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