This is a must-listen for both men and women looking to feel more, longer and better orgasms.
Today’s episode will completely transform your understanding of what “coming” is:
Did you know that there are many types of orgasms for women?
And did you know that men can orgasm without ejaculating… and vice versa?
Love and intimacy coaches Will and Chiara challenge common beliefs around clitoral stimulation and vibrators, sharing their personal experience and tantric journey towards full body orgasms that can last for over 10 minutes – for both men and women.
Got your attention? Press play to learn a few tricks you can use in your next intimate encounter to give and experience a level of intimacy (and pleasure) that you didn’t think possible.
TIME STAMPS
01:00 Let's talk about orgasms
01:22 How many types of orgasms are there?
04:34 Female orgasms
07:12 The "spasm orgasm" is the enemy
08:17 Leave the clit alone!
09:55 Vibrators simply desensitize you
11:33 What are you doing to me?
13:52 How true presence gives a massively enhanced sexual experience
17:23 You DON'T NEED to give an orgasm to each other
18:50 The trick is to NOT THINK about what happens next
21:22 Best practices for men
21:36 The non-ejaculatory practice
22:45 How men can achieve longer, deeper orgasms
25:40 The secret to satisfy a woman in bed
26:18 Your sexual energy is the Life Force that drives your life
26:37 What is our primal need?
28:01 How you can support each other and both feel more pleasure
29:37 The secret club of pleasure
32:45 Remember to give yourself some slack
33:21 The 21 days challenge
34:16 Do this to cure premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction
35:46 What to do when he wants more sex than her
37:11 If you are her
37:28 If you are him
37:51 How you can better communicate your needs
40:14 I feel pain during intercourse
42:02 How to get a mind-blowing orgasm (recap)
42:24 1. Stop stimulating the clit
42:32 2. Stop ejaculating (or practice separating it from your orgasm)
42:56 3. Try the 21 days challenge
43:21 4. Drop the blaming
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