Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.
Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.
In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love.
We hope that listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation or two with your partner.
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01:17 What Are The Collective The Unspoken Desires?
03:58 Fantasy 1: Being Taken
04:58 The Stigma Around Expressing Sexual Fantasies: It's Shameful!
05:37 Conditioning of Female S*xuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut
07:14 Fantasy 2: Group Play
08:14 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts?
10:49 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side
14:48 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control
15:06 Fantasy 3: Anonymous S*x In Public
19:17 Fantasy 4: Eye Contact with Stangers
19:43 Fantasy 5: Dirty Talk
21:01 Tip 1: use your voice
21:26 Tip 2: suspend the conditioning
22:10 Tip 3: set boundaries
22:39 Tip 4: eye contact game
23:10 Try our 10 prompts for free
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