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May 20, 2024 24 mins

Almost everyone carries with them a sexual fantasy they don’t dare to share. We hesitate to reveal our desires, even to a loving partner, out of shame or fear of judgment.

Some fantasies are scenes you might like to live out for real. Others will remain sexy movies that we play just for ourselves. Either way, fantasies are erotic fuel – and their power multiplies if you find courage to voice them.

In this super-sexy episode, we made ourselves vulnerable by sharing with each other some fantasies that we had never revealed before. We explore what makes it hard to express desires that our conditioning labels weird or dirty. We reflect on how liberating it feels to take that leap of faith and be rewarded with love.

We hope that listening to us might inspire you or trigger a spicy conversation or two with your partner.

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01:17 What Are The Collective The Unspoken Desires?

03:58 Fantasy 1: Being Taken

04:58 The Stigma Around Expressing Sexual Fantasies: It's Shameful!

05:37 Conditioning of Female S*xuality: Why Can't I Be A Slut

07:14 Fantasy 2: Group Play

08:14 70 Virgins or 7 Sluts?

10:49 We All Have A Masculine And Feminine Side

14:48 It's Important For A Woman To Feel Respected And In Control

15:06 Fantasy 3: Anonymous S*x In Public

19:17 Fantasy 4: Eye Contact with Stangers

19:43 Fantasy 5: Dirty Talk

21:01 Tip 1: use your voice

21:26 Tip 2: suspend the conditioning

22:10 Tip 3: set boundaries

22:39 Tip 4: eye contact game

23:10 Try our 10 prompts for free

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For more info about the hosts, and to book a free chemistry call, visit deeperlovers.com

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Instagram: @deeper.lovers

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