Marriage does not complete you; it complements you. We are talking about  7 luminous requirements of character and emotional maturity you need to be rocking before you even think about accepting that ring. This is your pre-marital advice checklist for a healthy relationship. If you’re a young woman (or honestly, any woman!) in your twenties, thirties, or forties, listen up. 

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PODCAST SCRIPT: MARRIAGE DOESN'T COMPLETE YOU

Host: Hey, Queens, and welcome back to the mic! I’m Marvel, your Christian Coach, and today we are spilling the tea on a topic that is absolute gospel for your love life.

I’ve been deep in the pages of one of my favourite books, and it unlocked a powerful truth we absolutely need to internalize before anyone walks down an aisle: Marriage does not complete you; it complements you. Say it with me: Complement, not complete.

For too long, the narrative—especially for Christian women—has been that "I Do" is the finish line, the moment you finally become whole. But that vibe check is completely off. If you walk into a marriage with an incomplete self, you’re not looking for a partner; you're looking for a saviour. And that sets you up for a toxic relationship.

Today, we’re doing the inner work. We’re identifying the 7 luminous requirements of character and emotional maturity you need to be rocking before you even think about accepting that ring. This is your definitive pre-marital advice checklist for building a healthy relationship. If you’re a young woman in your twenties, thirties, or forties, listen up. Your self-love journey starts right now.

THE RESCUER TRAP: WHEN INCOMPLETENESS INVITES CONTROL 

We all know this scenario, and maybe—just maybe—you’ve lived it.

When you haven't done the deep inner self-work—when you still struggle with low self-image or a pervasive lack of assertiveness—you enter the dating pool with massive emotional needs. You might still be desperately seeking the validation of your parents, even though you are a grown woman with a grown-up life.