JUST BE NICE…

​This week, I want to talk about why kindness matters and why it’s good to just be nice to others. Being kind costs you nothing, but it can mean everything to someone else. Whether it’s a simple smile or a kind word, you have the power to make somebody's day. 

It’s really easy to overlook small gestures that can make a big difference to other people. Whenever you choose kindness, you create a ripple effect that touches lives beyond your own. As they say, when a butterfly flaps its wings on one side of the world, it can cause an earthquake on the other. 

By being kind, we acknowledge a shared human experience. Kindness also fosters connection and builds a sense of community. It increases this way; after all, we are all social beings, aren't we? In turn, you can inspire someone to also just be nice to another person. 

Kindness reminds us that we’re not alone in the world, even in struggles. Being kind also strengthens our bonds with others. Sometimes, you don’t realise how just being nice to somebody having a bad day can make all the difference to them. They may even become emotional, as a result, which you would not have known otherwise. 

Here are some examples:

- The simple act of holding a door open for, or saying something nice and unexpected to a stranger, shows both respect and consideration for them;

- Complimenting a family member, friend, acquaintance, colleague, or even someone you have just met, boosts their morale and encourages a sense of positivity;

- Volunteering your time to support those in need not only spreads goodwill, but may even reflect back on you in a positive way at a later time.

However, some people may argue that we live in a highly competitive world and being overly nice can be perceived as a weakness. That being said, practising kindness to other people does not mean compromising your values or goals. It simply enhances your interactions with others, making them more meaningful.

So, this week, please try to just be nice and spread a bit of kindness in your daily interactions with others. Also, remember that small acts can have a significant impact, create a more compassionate world and show you why kindness matters and so why you should just be nice!