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October 28, 2025 8 mins

When was the last time you wrote yourself a love letter? Not a text. Not a journal entry. But a real, handwritten message of love — sealed, stamped, and sent through the mail — to you. 💌

 

It might sound simple (or even a little silly), but this small, heartfelt ritual has the power to open something deep inside you. It’s called The Love Card — and it’s what we’re exploring in this week’s episode of I Love Me The Podcast.

 

In this episode, I share:

🌸 How writing yourself a Love Card can rewire the way you relate to yourself 🌸 The exact steps to create this beautiful ritual at home 🌸 Why your nervous system needs tangible reminders of your own love 🌸 And how receiving that letter back in the mail becomes a sacred act of healing

 

Because the truth is — we’re so conditioned to show others love, but it’s rare that most people pause long enough to love themselves in the same way. This ritual changes that. It takes all the tenderness, appreciation, and compassion you naturally extend to others… and gently turns it back toward you.

 

Imagine opening your mailbox in a few days’ time…and there it is — an envelope with your name, written in your own handwriting. A message from your past self whispering: “I see you. I love you. I’ve got you.” That moment is everything!

 

Listen today, and discover the magic of sending love to the one person who truly needs it — you.

 

Take a peek at the full episode show notes (and resources I refer to in the show) here:

 

https://gettingnaked.com.au/2025/10/29/ep-76-dear-me-i-love-you-the-power-of-a-love-card/

 

About me…

 

My name is Tamra Mercieca and I’ve been studying and teaching self-love worldwide for 20+ years now. In 2011 I launched my online school Getting Naked where I offer programs to help people strip off the stories and childhood conditioning, so they can fall in love with themselves.

 

While I go by many labels - mumma, wife, tea lover, drummer - professionally I’m known as a Self-Love Therapist, Writer and Women’s Pelvic Health Guide, qualified in over a dozen physical and mental health modalities. I’m the author of two books, have been published in dozens of print and online publications, appeared on TV many times, and love to share the teachings of self-love at yoga and spirituality festivals.

 

Personally, my journey began when I worked out how to overcome suicidal depression and anxiety (and get off my meds). I then went on to create a ten-session program where I now help others do the same. If you’d like to read my full love story and bio - including all my credentials - head to https://gettingnaked.com.au/tamra/

 

Resources…

 

Ep.30 Give Yourself A Big Internal Hug By Keeping A Love Journal. https://gettingnaked.com.au/2024/09/25/ep-30-give-yourself-a-big-internal-hug-by-keeping-a-love-journal/

 

Self-Love Starter’s Kit https://gettingnaked.com.au/self-love-starters-kit/

 

Getting Naked Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipQueen/

 

Getting Naked Instagram Page https://www.instagram.com/gettingnaked/

 

Contact…

 

Website: https://gettingnaked.com.au/ 

 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gettingnaked/

 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipQueen/

 

Music written by Tamra Mercieca and Grey Milton. Performed by Xani Kolac and Grey Milton.

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