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April 17, 2025 58 mins

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with bisexual writer, sex expert, and chaos king Zachary Zane for a juicy episode all about how to suck dick like a pro. Whether you’re a total beginner, looking to level up your skills, or just love talking about pleasure—we’ve got you covered.

Zach shares his most helpful tips, wildest stories, and hard-earned wisdom from both personal and professional experience. We talk technique, confidence, communication, and why good oral isn’t just about what your mouth is doing—but also how present, excited, and connected you are.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • How to make oral feel incredible with your mouth and your whole body

  • Deepthroating 101: tips, angles, breathing, and how to stay in control

  • What makes a blowjob feel intimate (even when it’s casual)

  • How to avoid jaw fatigue and still make it look/feel amazing

  • Common mistakes people make when giving oral to penis-havers

  • The power of eye contact, vocal feedback, and enthusiasm

  • Communication tips—how to ask for direction without killing the mood

  • The difference between porn blowjobs and what people actually want

  • What to do if you're nervous, insecure, or don’t love giving oral (yet)

  • How Zachary’s bisexuality influences his approach to pleasure

  • The importance of mutual pleasure and making oral a two-way experience

This episode is informative, hot, and actually helpful—no shame, no judgment, just real talk about how to become a more generous, confident, and attuned lover.

Thank you Fantasia for being a sponsor on today's episode. Check out fantasiatoy.online to see what your fantasy feels like!

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