1063 - Christmas Clean pt.3: It's Not About You (It Never Was)

This is Part 3 of the Christmas Clean series, designed to help men stay clean and free from pornography through the potentially triggering holiday season, ensuring they enter the New Year with momentum. This episode challenges the world's message that Christmas is "all about you", and instead focuses on the power of making the season about others.

 

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Chapters: 

• (00:30) Introduction: The World's Message vs. The Truth.
• (00:54) The Research and Strategy of Being Charitable for a Clean Christmas.
• (01:14) Series Goal: Catapulting into 2026 as a Free Man.
• (01:52) The Message: It's Not About You.
• (02:18) The Problem with Self-Centricity: Materialism, Pleasure, and the Connection to Pornography.
• (03:17) The Strategy: Don't Make It About You; Make It About Someone.
• (03:36) Story: The Grandkid Who Cried Over One Missing Gift.
• (04:30) The New Tradition: Giving Toys to Kids in Need.
• (05:12) Why Making It About "Me" Leads to a "Blue Christmas".
• (05:43) The Research: Meaning and Purpose Diminish Pornography Use (Jay Strainor).
• (06:23) Practical Example: Supporting a Struggling Family Member.
• (07:28) Meaningful Christmas = Less Pornography.
• (07:44) Provocative Question: What can you do that's bigger than you?.
• (08:24) It doesn't have to be wild—a phone call is meaningful
• (08:49)The Host's Goal: Meaningful Conversations and Encouragement.
• (09:47) More Joy and Meaning from Giving.
• (10:11) Sneak Peek at Part 4: The BLT.