In this powerful episode, Monica Almaguer sits down with Ralph from Dad Starting Over and HelpForMen.com to dive deep into the topic of "dead bedroom" struggles in relationships. Ralph, author of the bestselling book The Dead Bedroom Fix, shares his personal journey from divorce to rebuilding his life and offers practical advice for men facing intimacy issues in marriage. From tackling low libido and menopause to navigating modern relationship dynamics, this conversation is packed with insights for both men and women.
Key Topics Covered:
What is a "dead bedroom" and why it’s a universal issue
Ralph’s story: From divorce to writing The Dead Bedroom Fix
How to address intimacy problems in long-term monogamy
The impact of menopause on relationships and solutions like hormone replacement therapy
Tips for men: Stop chasing and start focusing on yourself
Modern marriage challenges and the importance of intentionality
Bonus: Ralph’s coaching and the Brotherhood men’s group
Resources Mentioned: Helpformen.com
Visit HelpForMen.com for Ralph’s coaching, men’s group (The Brotherhood), and free resources
Check out The Dead Bedroom Fix book (available on Amazon)
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https://www.youtube.com/@DadStartingOver
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction to Ralph and the Dead Bedroom Topic
03:14 – Ralph’s Journey: From Blog to Bestseller
07:08 – Why Dead Bedrooms Resonate Globally
14:34 – Ralph’s Post-Divorce Dating and Remarriage Lessons
24:46 – Menopause and Its Impact on Intimacy
32:26 – Duty Sex vs. Desire: A Realistic Look
51:43 – First Steps to Fix a Dead Bedroom
56:29 – When She Wants More: Low Male Libido Explained
01:08:35 – Where to Find Ralph’s Work
Keywords: dead bedroom, dead bedroom fix, marriage intimacy issues, low libido in marriage, menopause and relationships, hormone replacement therapy, modern marriage advice, Ralph Dad Starting Over, Help For Men, men’s coaching, Brotherhood men’s group, relationship tips for men, Monica Almaguer's podcast
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