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July 25, 2025 17 mins

Struggling with a sexless marriage? In this video, we tackle the difficult but crucial conversation about addressing a lack of intimacy in relationships. Talking about the "birds and the bees" with kids is awkward, but discussing intimacy issues with your spouse can be even harder. With 25-50% of marriages facing low libido or sexless challenges, this is a common relationship problem that demands attention. Learn why a lack of sexual desire often signals deeper issues in your marriage and how open, honest communication is key to rebuilding intimacy.

We break down common mistakes men make when approaching their wives about low libido, including assuming she understands your sex drive, playing the blame game, focusing on "needs," or emphasizing duty. These approaches can harm your relationship and push her away.

Instead, discover female-friendly communication strategies to foster emotional connection, reignite desire, and improve your marriage. Speak her language to create lasting change in your relationship.

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Keywords: sexless marriage, low libido, intimacy issues, relationship advice, marriage tips, communication in marriage, reigniting desire, emotional connection, fixing a sexless marriage, relationship problems, marriage intimacy, sexual attraction, healthy marriage, spouse communication, relationship help

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