Sexual Self Mastery: How to Direct Your Masculine Energy that Creates Attraction

In this compelling episode, we sit down with Gift Lasta, a renowned masculinity coach and author, to explore the complexities of modern marriage and masculinity.

Giff, who has helped over 50 men transform their relationships through his Reforge Marriage program, shares his personal journey from overcoming struggles with pornography and marital disconnect to building a thriving marriage.

Drawing from his new book, The Way of Men with Maids: Forgotten Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love, we dive deep into critical topics like maintaining long-term attraction, mastering sexual self-discipline, and understanding the concept of "frame"—the structure of confidence and leadership that allows men to create a safe and appealing space for their partners.

Giff also discusses the male drive for status and conquest, the pitfalls of failing "frame tests," and the importance of proactive leadership in reducing a partner’s mental load. Whether you're a man looking to strengthen your marriage, a woman seeking insight into masculine dynamics, or simply interested in personal growth, this conversation offers practical, strategic advice grounded in real-world experience.

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