S1.E5 - Beyond the Smile: Understanding Toxic Positivity & Finding Authentic Support

Tired of hearing “just stay positive” when life is crumbling around you? In this episode, we’re diving into toxic positivity—why it’s harmful, how it invalidates real emotions, and why forcing a smile isn’t the answer.

Melisa and Christy get personal, sharing experiences with cultural expectations, generational trauma, and how immigrant families often downplay struggles and sometimes guilt you with a “things could be worse” mentality. But don’t worry, it’s not all heavy—we’re serving up our usual mix of real talk, humor, and a little extra sazón. 

We also explore: 🧠 How suppressing emotions leads to mental health and physical struggles 🚩 Why dismissing feelings with “good vibes only” is NOT helpful ❤️ How to build a support system that actually validates your emotions

Let’s move past the fake it ‘til you make it mindset and embrace real, messy, human feelings.

 

Information Links for Today's Show:

• YouTube - Simon Sinek - It Means "I Need You": The Power of 8 Minutes

• "Emotional Suppression: Physiology, Self-Report, and Expressive Behavior" - Berkley Public Library

• TED Talk - Dr. Susan David (Harvard Psychologist) – The gift and power of emotional courage

• Youtube - Brene Brown – Research on empathy vs. sympathy.

 

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