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August 4, 2025 • 21 mins

They say loyalty is earned. I say it’s often misunderstood. In this episode, I unpack the hard truth: most Shopify “loyalty” programs are just discount addiction disguised as marketing. Punch cards, reward points, all that jazz? They don’t build real loyalty. True brand devotion happens when you do something for your customer that’s unexpected and unforgettable. With over 70 percent of customers admitting they’ll abandon a brand after just one bad experience, this is your invitation to rethink how you create emotional connection. It’s not about the perks. It’s about the surprise. And yes, we talk about free coffee, dead dogs, and why your best customer might be the one yelling at you in all caps.

Key Take-aways

  • True customer loyalty comes from doing something unexpected and meaningful
  • Most Shopify loyalty programs don’t build actual loyalty, just habit
  • Intrinsic motivation creates stronger emotional connection than external rewards
  • Surprise and delight moments are incredibly powerful for retention
  • Handwritten notes and small gifts are underused marketing weapons
  • The best influencers aren’t on TikTok, they’re your customer’s best friends
  • Thoughtful gifting can outperform paid ads in acquisition and retention
  • Loyal customers are often created when something goes wrong and you make it right
  • Angry customers can become your most loyal advocates if you handle it well
  • Think of kindness as a marketing cost, not a cost of goods sold
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