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May 19, 2025 25 mins

Ever wonder how some women just always get what they want?

It’s not luck, it’s not hustle, and it’s definitely not because they’re better than you. It’s because they’re moving through the world differently.

Hilary breaks down the 8 micro habits of women who seem to have it all: love, money, success, and opportunities. In this episode, she gives you the cheat codes you can adopt for yourself!  From keeping your word (especially to yourself) to protecting your energy like it’s your job, this is your no-BS guide to becoming magnetic to what you want.

We’re talking about unapologetic boundaries, unshakable self-trust, high-vibe thinking, and what it actually means to take radical responsibility for your life. And the final habit? It’s the secret sauce. The one most people miss—but once you get it, everything changes.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Saying no without an apology
  • Keeping promises (especially the ones you make to yourself)
  • Radical responsibility (no more waiting to be saved)
  • Embodying abundance like it’s a lifestyle, not a mantra
  • And the real magic: acting like you already have it all

 

Episode Breakdown:

  • 00:00 Why Some Women Always Get What They Want
  • 01:59 Habit 1: Protect Your Energy
  • 05:34 Habit 2: Speak with Clear Boundaries
  • 07:09 Habit 3: Own Your Worth
  • 10:20 Habit 4: Focus on What You Do Want
  • 13:19 Habit 5: Keep Promises to Yourself
  • 15:38 Habit 6: Radical Self-Responsibility
  • 19:08 Habit 7: Embody Abundance
  • 24:34 Habit 8: Be Her Now
  • 29:09 Practicing Receiving What You Want
  • 30:02 How to Start Getting What You Want Today

Ready to stop spinning in self-doubt and start showing up like the woman who already has what she wants? Then hit play.

🔗 Want to do the identity work Hilary mentions? Check out her Daily Journal: https://hilarysilver.com/journal/

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