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May 21, 2025 16 mins

The world feels like a mess—politics, the economy, your dog's surprise barf during Zoom meetings. And while you can’t control any of it, you can control you. In this powerful episode, Hilary breaks down the five mindset shifts that keep you grounded, centered, and sane, no matter how wild life gets.

This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending everything’s fine. It’s about taking radical responsibility for your thoughts, choices, and energy so you can stop spinning out and start leading your life with confidence and clarity.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Why you're both the problem and the solution (yes, really)
  • How to stop being the last person you consider in your own damn life
  • The truth about identity (spoiler: it’s not what your high school yearbook said)
  • Why self-leadership isn’t selfish, it’s the whole point
  • How to create unshakable inner peace, no matter what the headlines scream

 

Episode Breakdown:

  • [00:00] Why the World Feels Unstable Right Now  
  • [01:14] Meet Hilary Silver   
  • [03:21] Truth #1: You’re the Problem *and* the Solution  
  • [06:00] Truth #2: Yes, the World *Does* Revolve Around You  
  • [07:14] Truth #3: Prioritize Yourself, Always  
  • [09:00] Truth #4: Identity Is a Daily Choice  
  • [11:19] Truth #5: The Outcome You Seek Is Internal  
  • [14:08] The Paradox of Letting Go
  • [15:01] Be the Constant in an Uncertain World

 

If you’ve ever said, “I just need things to settle down so I can breathe,” this episode is your wake-up call. You’re the calm. You’re the guarantee. You’re the damn center of your own universe.

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