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August 1, 2025 12 mins

You’ve got the career, the confidence, the killer heels… so why are all the men you're meeting either emotionally unavailable, totally underwhelming, or gone after two dates?

Here’s the hard truth: It’s not about them. It’s about you.

Not because you’re broken or “too much”, but because there’s a disconnect between the woman you look like on the outside and the one you’re being on the inside. And good men? They can feel that.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • The subconscious beliefs sabotaging your love life (yep, even if you’re “putting yourself out there”)
  • Why men aren’t intimidated by your success, they’re turned off by your walls
  • The hidden ways your self-talk is killing your vibe
  • And what it really takes to attract a healthy, high-caliber man

 

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Why You’re Not Meeting Good Men

03:04 The Myth of the Secret Place Men Are Hiding

04:17 Reason #1: Limiting Beliefs Are Repelling Love

05:31 Reason #2: Fear of Intimacy and Vulnerability

08:01 Reason #3: Looking High-Value on the Outside, Not Inside

10:08 You Must Become the Woman Who Can Receive Love

11:44 Real-Life Stories: When Good Men Start Appearing

12:26 Stop Searching. Start Showing Up Differently

 

There’s no underground speakeasy of good men you haven’t been invited to. They’re all around, you just can’t see them until you become the woman who’s ready to meet them.

Door #3 is waiting. But first, you’ve got to stop playing defense and start playing real.

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