043 | The 4 Teachers Who Taught Me What Traditional Therapy Never Could About Relationships

You know that feeling when you've been doing ALL the inner work, reading all the books, following all the spiritual teachers... but you still can't figure out why your relationship feels so hard?

I've been there. And honestly? Traditional relationship advice wasn't cutting it for me. What actually transformed everything was discovering these 4 teachers who gave me the language for what my body already knew.

In this episode, I'm breaking down the frameworks that helped me stop questioning my sanity and start trusting my inner knowing—so you can create the conscious, safe, expansive relationship you've been craving.

THE 4 TEACHERS WHO CHANGED EVERYTHING:

Gene Keys

• Shadow, Gift & Siddhi frequencies in relationships
• Understanding your patterns at the energetic level
• Why your "triggers" are actually sacred information

David Deida

• The 3 Stages of Love (and where you might be stuck)
• 1st Stage: Self-focused love
• 2nd Stage: We-focused love
• 3rd Stage: Divinity-focused love

John Wineland

• Sacred Intimacy: Creating safety for vulnerability
• Devotion to Love: Showing up when it's uncomfortable
• Sexual Polarity: The energetic dance between masculine & feminine

Human Design

• Your Type & Strategy in relationships
• Using your Authority to make aligned decisions
• How your Profile shapes intimacy
• Why your "sensitivity" is actually spiritual guidance

Why this matters: When you understand how all four of these modalities weave together, you create depth, safety, connection, empathy, understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance in your relationship. Not through forcing or fixing—through energetic alignment.

This episode is for you if: 

• Your body has been giving you information you're scared to trust
• You're tired of being the only one doing the inner work
• You want to understand the deeper energetics of conscious partnership

I hope this episode cracks something open inside of you that ripples out into your most important relationships.

And stay close if you're ready to keep diving into the real work in future episode to help you trust your inner knowing over everyone else's opinions, and create the conscious relationship of your dreams.