Episode 3: You Belong Everywhere with Lauren Chesley

In this enlightening episode of the Truth and Dare Podcast, Dr. Nandi Shareef and Lauren Chesley dive into a powerful conversation about the essence of true belonging and self-acceptance. Lauren, a dynamic corporate leader, coach, and author, shares her journey of discovering how to feel at home in any space. Lauren and Dr. Nandi explore what it means to belong everywhere you go. They discuss the courage it takes to show up as your authentic self, even in environments where you might feel out of place. Lauren offers invaluable advice on navigating moments of vulnerability and overcoming the self-doubt that can arise when you’re the “only” in the room.

A significant part of their conversation focuses on the role of self-care in fostering empowerment. Lauren highlights her cherished rituals, emphasizing how these practices are more than just relaxation—they’re vital for nurturing self-awareness, personal growth, and security as one navigates challenging environments. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences of belonging and the practices that help them stay grounded and invites them to embrace their authenticity and dare to be themselves, regardless of the space they find themselves in.

 

Key Topics:

Creating Spaces of Belonging

• The concept of belonging everywhere and the journey of self-discovery

Navigating Vulnerability and Self-Doubt

• Challenges faced in feeling like the "only" in various contexts and the power of empathy in fostering belonging
• Strategies for navigating vulnerability and self-doubt, particularly in male-dominated environments

Rituals of Self-Care and Empowerment

• The importance of rituals in prioritizing self-care and introspection

Daring to Choose Yourself

• The value of embracing authenticity, self-advocacy, and the daring choice of oneself

Time-stamped Discussion Points:

• 03:47 The importance of reframing mental adversity and empowering one’s self
• 10:28 Embracing a proactive, empowered mindset confidently
• 13:48 Approaching career decisions with deliberate curiosity and inquiry
• 17:14 Taking control of belonging and claiming agency
• 21:43 The value of creating sanctuary for self

Quotes:

• "Embrace vulnerability as a strength, not a weakness."- Lauren Chesley
• “I belong here. I'm not a third down person, I'm a first down person."— Lauren Chesley
• "Belonging starts from within. It's not about fitting into spaces but creating spaces where you can truly be yourself. When you choose yourself, you're not just showing up for you—you're inspiring others to do the same." — Lauren Chesley

#TTDareoftheDay:

Dare to assert yourself in a space where you usually hold back. Whether it’s at work, in a social setting, or even at home, take a moment to be fully present and authentic. Share a thought, a feeling, or an idea that you’ve been keeping to yourself. Notice how it feels to be vulnerable and how others respond to your openness.

Share your insights and experiences with a loved one, or with the Truth Then Dare community on social media using the #TTDareoftheDay!

Connect with Lauren Chesley for ongoing inspiration:

• • Follow her on LinkedIn
  • Follow STREET SPEAK on Instagram
  • Buy her book, STREET SPEAK

 

Next Episode Teaser: In the next solo episode, Dr. Nandi Shareef delves into the power of finding beauty in the breakdown. Through personal anecdotes and transformative lessons, she walks us through her own challenging year and details the three pivotal steps she used to emerge stronger and more grounded: brea