The Firefighter

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham has a candid conversation with her friend Kurstin, who reveals her deeply personal experiences of emotional abuse within a toxic marriage. Their discussion highlights the influence of their Mormon upbringing on their relationships and Kurstin's struggle with manipulation and isolation. They explore the taboo of divorce in their faith, the psychological impact of staying in an unhealthy relationship, and the eventual empowerment Kurstin found in reclaiming her life. Her story offers profound insights and encouragement for those facing similar challenges, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and the strength required to pursue happiness and freedom.  

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    00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried 01:16 Upcoming Episodes and Guest Introduction 01:52 Kurstin's Story: Religious Upbringing and Marriage 03:09 Struggles and Realizations in Marriage 06:09 Emotional Abuse and Breaking Points 13:45 The Decision to Divorce 42:43 The Stigma of Divorce in the Mormon Church 44:19 Struggles and Personal Losses 45:41 Separation and the Fight for Independence 46:11 Rediscovering Self-Worth Through Modeling 47:06 Confronting the Emotional Manipulation 49:42 The Legal Battle and Emotional Turmoil 51:02 Family Dynamics and Support Systems 54:58 Breaking Free from an Abusive Relationship 01:10:19 Post-Divorce Healing and Self-Discovery 01:17:28 Final Thoughts and Advice