Is Self-Sabotage the Reason I’m Not Where I Should Be?

When reality doesn’t match what you imagined, it’s easy to start questioning everything.

“Am I even on the right path?”
“Will the goals I set ever come to pass?”
“If I knew better back then, would I be in a better place now?”

We stress ourselves out comparing where we thought we’d be two years ago to where we are today. And in that stress, the cycle of self-sabotage only gets louder—bad jobs, bad relationships, broken habits, endless worry.

But here’s the truth: **the problem isn’t the goal—it’s our focus.** When we fix our eyes only on the outcome instead of on God, worry becomes our way of life.

In this episode, I get real about:

* Why your present doesn’t look like your vision (and that’s okay)
* How self-sabotage thrives when you’re focused on “what if” instead of “what is”
* Breaking free from the cycle of worry, doubt, and fear
* The shift that comes when you focus on God, not just the goal

🎧 Tune in—you do not want to miss this.


Key Points Made During The episode...

Acceptance is crucial in understanding your reality.
Every day presents its own challenges.
The past influences our present perceptions.
Coping mechanisms can be flawed due to trauma.
Understanding wants versus needs is essential.
Gratitude can shift your perspective on reality.
The journey is often more valuable than the goal.
Life lessons can come from unexpected situations.
Trusting God's timing is vital for acceptance.
Engaging in honest conversations with God fosters growth.



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