How do I foster growth in my relationship without my partner’s help?

What do you do when you want to grow closer—and your partner keeps putting you off? Can you improve your relationship when your partner isn’t willing to work on communication?

In this episode of Ask Angela: Relationship Advice for Love After Trauma, Angela Amias responds to a listener who feels stuck: she keeps trying to have real conversations with her partner, but he avoids every attempt, leaving her feeling unheard, frustrated, and blamed for being “too emotional.”

Angela explores:

• Why you can’t fix communication problems by working harder alone
• How avoidance and deflection create emotional stalemates
• Why learning to regulate your own emotions is key when your partner won’t engage
• How to stop waiting for “tomorrow” and focus on what you can control today
• The difference between trying to fix a partner—and choosing to grow yourself
• How to use relational data to decide what kind of relationship you really want

If you’ve ever exhausted yourself trying to get your partner to talk—or wondered whether you’re asking for too much—this episode offers grounded, compassionate guidance for reclaiming your voice and your power.

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