My spouse and I both have past trauma and poor communication skills. Is it possible to get better together?

Is it possible to heal old wounds and build a stronger relationship—even if both you and your partner have past trauma? What happens when one person is ready to grow, and the other is unsure?

In this episode of Ask Angela: Relationship Advice for Love After Trauma, Angela Amias responds to a listener wondering whether it's possible for a struggling marriage to heal when both partners bring communication struggles and unhealed trauma into the relationship.

Angela explores:

• How relationship patterns rooted in trauma often run on autopilot
• Why the first step toward change is gaining awareness of your own patterns
• How changing your part of the "dance" can influence your partner's responses
• Why you don’t have to wait for your partner to be equally committed in order to begin
• How relational healing starts with building emotional awareness, emotional literacy, and empathy
• What it really looks like to create healthier communication—and deeper connection—over time

If you’ve ever wondered whether real change is possible—or how to move forward when you feel stuck in old patterns—this episode offers grounded, compassionate guidance for reclaiming hope and healing in love.

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