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June 22, 2025 11 mins

"Why do I keep getting men who aren't very enlightened?"

"The men I meet, haven't done ANY work on themselves."

When you're a strong, successful woman who's survived a bitter divorce , betrayal or heartbreak...

And you've spent many months or years working on yourself:

-Therapy

-EMDR

-New accomplishments in your career

-Running clubs

-Book clubs

-Girls weekends in Sedona

-Costa Rica retreat with plant medicine...


It can be a brutal blow - when ALL THE WORK you're doing on yourself - leads to increasing frustration, bread crumbs and ghosting in dating.


If you've ever found yourself thinking: where are all the men who've done work on themselves hiding?


Do they even exist? This episode is for you.


Learn the exact formula for breaking the grip of hyper independence, mistrust and anxiety after leaving a toxic relationship or marriage: www.bethanydotson.com/masterclass


For single, successful women over 40 ready to fully reclaim themselves and attract healthy relationships - even when talk therapy hasn't worked yet- book a free breakthrough session: www.bethanydotson.com/talk



Takeaways

The search for enlightened men can feel frustrating.

Many women excel in personal growth but struggle in love.

Patterns in dating often stem from past disappointments.

Self-perception greatly influences relationship standards.

A harsh inner critic can hinder finding the right partner.

Emotional templates from the past affect current choices.

Projection of self-doubt can lead to relationship issues.

Self-acceptance is crucial for attracting healthy love.

Inner roadblocks can prevent emotional healing.

Clarity on what one wants is essential for successful dating.


enlightened men, dating patterns, self-perception, relationship standards, inner work, emotional healing, love life, self-acceptance, personal growth, relationship advice








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