Why Your Sex Life Is Failing (And It's Not What You Think)

Holy shit. 50 and 60-year-olds having zero orgasms. Let that sink in for a second. Sex coach Jodie McLean just blew my mind with the brutal reality of what's happening in bedrooms, and honestly? It's more messed up than you think.
Picture this, you're working in a high-end sex shop in South Africa, and woman after woman walks in telling you they've been married for 20, 30 years and have NEVER had an orgasm. Not once. What the actual hell is going on?

This conversation with Jodie gets deep, gets messy, and gets real about the pleasure gap that's silently destroying relationships. We're talking about why hookup culture is leaving everyone more lonely than ever, how we're teaching our kids the mechanics of sex but completely ignoring intimacy and connection, and why the clitoris  the only piece of anatomy designed purely for pleasure, is something most people know nothing about.

But here's what really got me fired up Jodie's working with midlife women who think their libido is broken, when actually there's this whole web of shame, trauma, and disconnection that's been building for decades. We dive into perimenopause, the medical system that treats women's bodies like machines, and how IVF can completely destroy the intimacy in your relationship. And then we get into the parenting stuff that made my brain explode. Teaching consent from day one, calling body parts by their actual names, and having conversations about pleasure, not just baby-making mechanics. Because if we don't teach our kids about intimacy and connection, who the hell will?

This isn't just about sex. It's about communication, vulnerability, and remembering to actually date your partner instead of just existing in the same house. Jodie's approach to working with individuals is all about peeling back the layers and getting to what's really blocking people from experiencing the full pleasure of their own bodies.

Fair warning, this conversation goes places. We talk about everything from teaching your children the correct names for genitalia to why the masculine container is so crucial for the feminine to feel safe enough to be truly intimate.
If you're in a long-term relationship, struggling with connection, or wondering why your sex life feels more like a chore than a celebration, this episode will change how you think about intimacy forever.

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