Ep 21 - Gay Fathers - A Conversation with Dr. Joe Kort on The Emotional Journey of Coming Out Strong
In this powerful episode, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with renowned psychotherapist, author, and LGBTQ+ advocate Dr. Joe Kort @drjoekort to explore the emotional journey of coming out—particularly later in life. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Kort brings deep insight into the challenges gay men face around identity, relationships, self-care, and community.
Together, they unpack the stages of coming out, the weight of internalized homophobia, and the grief that often accompanies leaving behind heterosexual privilege and long-term relationships. Dr. Kort also highlights the importance of self-care, building genuine connections, and finding one’s tribe in the LGBTQ+ community.
The conversation touches on mixed-orientation marriages, open relationships, dating in the age of apps, and the emergence of the “side” identity in gay men’s sexuality. Listeners will walk away with encouragement to live authentically, practice kindness, and embrace activism as part of their personal growth.
Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.
Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.
🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.
📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LGBTQPodcast #Pride365 #GayMentalHealth #MixedOrientationMarriage #GayPodcast
🔑 Keywords: coming out, gay men, LGBTQ+, therapy, mental health, identity, relationships, self-care, community, activism, Joe Kort, mixed orientation marriages, internalized homophobia, living authentically, tribe, dating, open relationships, acceptance, pride, belonging
✨ Takeaways: • Coming out later in life can bring both grief and freedom. • Community and belonging are essential for mental health. • Self-care and relationship skills are crucial for navigating new chapters. • Internalized homophobia is common but can be healed with reflection and support. • Living authentically means finding your tribe—and remembering you are not alone. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating their identity, seeking community, or supporting others on their coming out journey.
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