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May 13, 2025 67 mins

Not all identity shifts are signs of inauthenticity…sometimes, they’re signs of intelligence, adaptability, and social intuition. This week, we’re talking about what it means to be an identity chameleon: how we navigate showing different sides of ourselves in different spaces, and where the line is between genuine fluidity and losing ourselves to fit in. We explore how this shows up in friendships, family dynamics, and work life, as well as in culture & entertainment. We ask the key question when it comes to "playing the game" — am I being myself, or am I abandoning myself? Plus, a little life catch-up including Labubu’s grand return, and the dream/nightmare that woke Amanda up in a cold-sweat and made Jessa cry laughing.

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