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April 21, 2025 • 12 mins


🔥 EPISODE SNAPSHOT

Freedom doesn’t happen alone.
 It’s not just about willpower, filters, or white-knuckling your way through temptation.

If you want real, lasting freedom from porn—you need a grace-filled community.

In this episode, Richard and Justin unpack how shame drives isolation, and why the enemy loves to keep you there. You'll hear personal stories, biblical wisdom, and an invitation into something far more powerful than “trying harder.” Because according to Scripture—and experience—transformation is a team sport.


🧠 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

  • Why shame isolates—and grace brings healing


  • How Jesus modeled vulnerability in His darkest hour (Gethsemane wasn’t a solo mission)


  • What Sequoia trees and your spiritual health have in common


  • How real confession leads to real healing—not guilt


  • Why freedom thrives in truth-filled, grace-driven relationships



đź’¬ QUOTABLE MOMENTS

“Community isn’t a crutch—it’s a strategy of heaven.”

“Confessing to God is powerful. But confessing to a brother? That’s where healing explodes.”

“The devil wants you isolated. God calls you into family.”


đź’ˇ BIG IDEA:

Freedom is your new normal—but it doesn’t grow in isolation.
 If shame keeps you quiet, community breaks the silence with truth.


🛠️ PRACTICAL TAKEAWAY

  • Don’t just find any community—find a grace-filled one.


  • Surround yourself with people who speak to your identity in Christ—not your past.


  • Want to go deeper? Richard and Justin are launching a 60-day coaching program where you’ll be surrounded by men who get it, support you, and walk with you toward lasting transformation.



🎯 WANT TO JOIN THE COACHING PROGRAM?

If you’re ready to stop hiding, start healing, and actually live out the freedom Jesus already purchased for you—we’d love to walk with you.

📥 Send us a message on Instagram
@riyoung31

richard@lovereality.org

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hello@justinkhoe.com


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