Unspoken Pain: Breaking the Shame of Miscarriage - My Story Part 2

I never thought it would happen to me. One moment, I was carrying life, making plans, dreaming of the future—and the next, I wasn’t. The cold ultrasound room, the cramping, the heartbreak… I can still remember it. And the worst part? The guilt. I kept asking myself, Did I do something wrong? Was it my fault?

Miscarriage is something we don’t talk about enough, yet so many of us go through it. It’s lonely, painful, and often filled with self-blame. But even in  deep grief, life kept moving, and I found myself in a moment where someone else needed me. Not for this, but for something I had already walked through. Even in my brokenness, I was able to pour into someone else’s healing.

That’s the thing about pain—it feels unbearable, but it doesn’t have to be wasted. If you’ve ever questioned your body, blamed yourself, or wondered how to keep going, I want you to know: You are not alone, and this was not your fault. Let’s talk about it. Let’s heal together. 💜