Help Me I'm Dating

Help Me I'm Dating

For single women who want love but won’t lose themselves to find it. Hey, I'm Joanna and I'm on a mission to help you take charge of your dating life, say goodbye to settling, and make room for the love life you deserve. Think of this podcast as your go-to spot for honest conversations, dating advice, and and stories that make you feel a little less alone. We talk love, heartbreak, healing and everything in between. For the hopeful, the heart-bruised, and the happily solo: pop the kettle on. You’re very welcome here.

Episodes

June 23, 2025 32 mins

What if the relationship you want is the prize - not the man? In this episode, certified dating and relationship coach Naomi Thompson shares how to date from a place of inner strength, not people-pleasing.


From the "kayak vs yacht" analogy to the power of peach energy, Naomi gives practical tips for building self-worth, setting boundaries, and attracting emotionally available partners.


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In this episode I am joined by relationship and identity voach Samantha Hyam, to explore how self-worth shapes our dating lives. Discover why we unconsciously attract people who reflect our insecruriries and how to break free from old patterns.

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In this episode, I'm joined by counsellor and psychotherapist Louise O’Connell to explore how your attachment style, formed in childhood, shapes the way you show up in relationships today.

From anxious texting habits to avoidant shutdowns, we unpack the different styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, disorganised), how they show up in dating, and most importantly, how they can change.

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A candid conversation with Jennyfer Jay about her new book, Lessons I Learned from Dating Men. We talk about the dating experiences that inspired it, the chaos of modern dating, and why leaving in silence might just be your new superpower.

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May 11, 2025 46 mins

This week on Help Me I’m Dating, I’m joined by the brilliant Claire Snoddy - a costume supervisor with credits like Game of Thrones and How to Train Your Dragon, a mum of three, and the host of the In My Solo Era podcast.

After a 16-year marriage, closing her successful bridal business, and navigating heartbreak, Claire chose to rebuild - on her own terms. We talk about starting over in your 40s, solo travel, ghosting, dating app dr...

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In this episode of Help Me I’m Dating, I chat with yoga instructor Kat Hutchings about how yoga can help you regulate your emotions, deepen your self-love, and handle dating like a total queen.

We talk: 

  • How Kat’s journey into yoga and wellness helped her through big life shifts
  • Breathwork tips for pre-date nerves
  • What self-love really looks like day-to-day
  • Plus, Kat shares her worst ever Tinder date story (it’s a good one).

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In this episode, I'm joined by TikTok creator Jen who turned heartbreak (and a spreadsheet of 50 dates) into a viral online sisterhood.


Jen shares what modern dating has taught her and what she wishes she’d known sooner. From situationships with avoidant partners to learning how to trust her gut and reconnect with her inner child, this is an honest and reflective chat about the realities of dating today.


It’s one for anyo...

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April 4, 2025 40 mins

Ever felt like all the good ones are taken? Or like this is as good as it’s going to get? That’s scarcity mindset talking and it’s a sneaky saboteur in your dating life.

In this episode of Help Me I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam unpack what scarcity mindset actually is, how it shows up in dating (hi, situationships and anxiety spirals 👋), and why it often has more to do with self-worth than statistics.

They get into childhood conditionin...

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March 30, 2025 51 mins

Think you can read between the lines of a guy’s dating profile? This week, Joanna and Sam break down the subtle (and not-so-subtle) clues hidden in men’s bios—from vague non-committal energy to straight-up red flags.


We’re also talking:

  • Real-life dating prompt answers
  • A game of Guess Who? Where we analyse mystery dating bios—can you figure out who they belong to?


Swipe right on this episode for laughs, dating wisdom, and a re...

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March 23, 2025 37 mins

At first, it feels like a fairytale - intense affection, grand gestures, and promises of forever. But when the honeymoon phase fades, love bombing can leave you feeling confused, drained, and questioning everything.

In this episode, Joanna and Sam break down:

  • What love bombing really is (and why it feels so addictive).
  • The hidden motivations behind it—beyond just narcissism.
  • How to spot the warning signs before you get swept away.
  • W...
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March 8, 2025 37 mins
One minute, everything’s great - texts flying, dates planned...then suddenly, he’s distant. Slower replies, shorter messages, and now you’re overthinking everything. Sound familiar? In this episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam break down why men pull away, what it really means, and how to respond without losing your power. You’ll learn: The real reasons men pull away (it’s not always about you!) How to tell if he’s just...
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In this episode of Help Me, I’m Dating, Joanna gets real about the biggest lessons she’s learned from her own dating experiences. From ignoring red flags (we’ve all been there) to the surprising power of silence, she shares the ups, downs, and ‘oh no’ moments that come with modern dating. She also talks about why boundaries matter, how to actually trust your gut, and why self-love is the real game-changer. Plus, we’ve got some list...
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February 16, 2025 46 mins
In this episode we talk about the dating truth no one wants to hear but everyone needs to. If you’ve ever found yourself over analysing texts, making excuses for his behaviour, or waiting for him to finally commit, this one’s for you. We break down the classic signs that he’s just not that into you, why we sometimes ignore them, and most importantly, what to do about it. Plus, we discuss the importance of healthy boundaries in dat...
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February 8, 2025 40 mins
Who should pick up the tab on a date? Is it about money, values, or expectations? In this episode, we talk about one of modern dating’s most debated topics: should you go 50/50? We take a look at the history of dating and gender roles, exploring how traditional norms have shaped our views on paying for dates today. Is it just an outdated custom, or does it still carry significance in today’s relationships? We also discuss what pa...
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February 2, 2025 29 mins
In our first episode, we explain why loving yourself is the foundation for healthy dating and fulfilling relationships. ✨ What is self-love, really? ✨ How does it shape your dating choices? ✨ And how can you start nurturing your own self-worth today? Whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, this episode will give you practical tips to build a stronger, more loving relationship with yourself.
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February 1, 2025 33 mins
Is he emotionally distant, overly dependent, or struggling with trust? You might be dating a man with mummy issues. In this episode we break down the signs of unresolved mother wounds in men, how they can impact relationships, and what you can do about it. From trust issues to unhealthy relationship patterns, we’ll explore expert insights, real-life examples, and practical advice for navigating these dynamics with compassion - wh...
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January 25, 2025 46 mins
Tired of chasing after people who give you the bare minimum? In this episode of Help Me I’m Dating, Joanna and Sam break down the difference between genuine effort and performative effort in relationships. Learn how to spot breadcrumbing, set boundaries, and ensure your energy is matched by the people you date.
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December 25, 2024 44 mins
The holidays can be a challenging time for singles, but it this episode Sam and Joanna are here to help you thrive. From practical tips to emotional growth, they share everything you need to make this Christmas merry, bright and full of self love. Whether you're reflecting on past relationships, boosting your confidence, or treating yourself to some well deserved pampering. this episode is your ultimate holiday survival guide.
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December 21, 2024 25 mins
Joanna and Sam tackle the weight of societal pressures and encourage listeners to reclaim their own love stories. Discover how to flip the script by celebrating your singlehood, setting personal goals, and rejecting outdated expectations.
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December 15, 2024 54 mins
In this episode, Joanna and Sam explore the complexities of trust - what it means, why it's challenging, and how to rebuild it after heartbreak. They share personal insights, practical strategies, and interactive exercises to help listeners foster trust in themselves and others. From defining trust as a spectrum to addressing protective behaviours, this episode offers actionable advice for creating stronger, more secure connections...
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