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August 3, 2025 52 mins

In this episode of 'Permission to Evolve,' hosted by Brandon Thielk and co-host Holly Deschenes, the focus is on 'Permission to Forgive' and the negative impact of resentment on personal growth. Brandon and Holly discuss why forgiveness is crucial, both from a nervous system perspective and as a means to release the emotional weight that hinders progress. They explore various forms of resentment, including overextending oneself and feeling left behind due to immaturity or undeveloped skills. Different strategies for forgiveness and self-compassion are highlighted, along with addressing the personal and relational costs of holding onto resentment. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, responsibility, and evolving personal dynamics for healthier relationships and overall well-being. Listeners are encouraged to adjust their perspectives and gradually take steps towards forgiveness and personal accountability to unlock a more balanced and fulfilling life.


00:00 Introduction and Catching Up

00:45 Topic Introduction: Permission to Forgive

01:50 Understanding Resentment and Immaturity

03:10 Balancing Responsibilities and Dependencies

06:16 The Role of Self-Compassion and Forgiveness

13:14 Resentment in Family Dynamics

20:59 Energetic and Physical Costs of Resentment

25:47 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

27:33 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

28:11 Understanding Resentment

30:26 The Role of Forgiveness

30:56 True Forgiveness vs. Surface-Level Forgiveness

33:30 Detaching and Healing

37:08 Emotional Maturity and Self-Responsibility

41:13 Practical Tips for Letting Go

46:42 Final Thoughts and Moving Forward

50:23 Engage with Us and Stay Connected

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