38. The Truth No One Talks About: Normalizing the Messy, Unfiltered Journey to Success

Episode Summary:

In this solo episode, Alescia dives into the real and raw side of life and business, breaking down the pressure we put on ourselves to have it all figured out. She talks about normalizing the normal shit—from bad days to feeling lost, to needing a part-time job while building a business. Social media makes it seem like everyone is thriving, but Alescia is here to set the record straight: everyone has doubts, struggles, and setbacks—and that’s okay.

She also shares a powerful mindset shift around detaching from outcomes and trusting the process, instead of forcing things to happen. Whether you’re working on yourself, growing a business, or just navigating life, this episode is a permission slip to embrace the journey, let go of the pressure, and move from desperation to trust.

🔥 Every day doesn’t have to be a good day – Trying to force positivity creates resistance. Feel your feelings instead.
🔥 Having a part-time job while building your dream is NORMAL – There’s no shame in needing financial stability while chasing your goals.
🔥 Feeling lost is part of the journey – Those moments of doubt often lead to breakthroughs. Even millionaires feel lost sometimes.
🔥 Stop trying to fix yourself – There’s nothing wrong with you. Instead of judging, bring compassion to the things you want to change.
🔥 Detaching from outcomes makes success easier – The more you try to force things, the harder they become. Move from stress to surrender.
🔥 Ask yourself: What do YOU actually want? – If you ignored what society says, what would truly light you up?

Key Takeaways:

1️⃣ Stop Fixing Yourself—You're Not Broken!
2️⃣ Success Isn’t a Straight Line: Normalizing the Messy Middle
3️⃣ WTF Am I Doing? The Truth About Feeling Lost & Finding Your Path
4️⃣ The Truth About Overnight Success: Why Your Side Job Isn’t a Failure
5️⃣ Detaching from the Outcome = Getting Everything You Want
👉 Follow Alescia on Instagram: @alesciaprochaska

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