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October 7, 2025 24 mins

On Soul Sparks with Saima, we unpack how joy, play, and energy flow can be practical tools for mental health—not afterthoughts. Guest Christian W. Schnepf explains his PhD-informed framework for maximizing “good times” across a lifetime using a Good Time Ratio (GTR) and a five-area model (self, social environment, actions, things we obtain, and physical environment). We discuss why “fun” isn’t the goal—sustainable good times are—how modern life creates short-term pleasure traps (food, stimulants, overwork), and the mindset shift from fear-based chasing to data-guided living. Direct, applicable, and grounded in science, this conversation reframes mental health as an energy-management problem with clear next steps.

About the Guest  :

Christian W. Schnepf is a creator and researcher exploring mental health through joy, play, and systems design. His work defines and measures “good times” over a lifetime (GTR) and maps blockages across five life areas to improve energy flow, engagement, and long-term fulfillment.

Key Takeaways:

  • Good Time Ratio (GTR): Well-being is a lifetime metric, not a momentary mood. If half your life feels meaningful and half does not, your GTR is 50%. Aim to raise it sustainably.

  • Beyond “fun”: A good time can be absorbing work, meaningful dialogue, rest, or play—whatever supports long-term vitality, not just instant thrills.

  • Five Areas to Audit: Self (the player), Social Environment (other players), Actions (what you do), Things Obtained (what you get), Environment (the map). Address blockages across all five.

  • Trap of Short-Term Highs: Ultra-palatable food, compulsive partying, or chasing money can be fear-based compensations. Without redesigning daily life, relief is temporary.

  • From Fear to Flow: Decisions driven by scarcity (“I must feel good now”) undermine sustainability. Build a system that consistently creates good times, then follow it.

  • Worthy of Well-Being: Many resist joy due to worthiness beliefs. Start small: accept a gift, choose the meal that truly serves you, go to bed on time—practice deserving.

  • Energy Can’t Be Cheated: Suppressed needs resurface as pressure elsewhere (irritability, poor choices). Self-care is non-negotiable if you want to support others.

  • Make it Measurable: Use data and reflection to see where energy flows or stalls, then remove friction and iterate.

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If you or someone you know is in immediate crisis — suicide & crisis resources

If someone is in immediate danger, call your local emergency number right away.

  • United States: Call or text 988 (988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). The previous number 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) is still available.

  • United Kingdom & Ireland (Samaritans):116 123 (free).

  • Australia (Lifeline):13 11 14.

  • Crisis Text (U.S.): Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a trained crisis counselor.

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  • If you are in India: If immediate danger, contact local emergency services. For local mental-health helplines, please check national resources or Befrienders Worldwide for current, local numbers.

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