Weaponized Love: The Truth About Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola

This conversation delves into the complexities of coercive control, psychological abuse, and the journey of healing for survivors. The speaker shares personal experiences that intertwine with their professional advocacy work, emphasizing the importance of recognizing signs of abuse, the impact of trauma on parenting, and the development of a protective parenting program. The discussion also highlights the challenges faced within the legal system and the need for greater understanding and support for protective parents.

Takeaways:

• The importance of validation in healing from trauma.
• Coercive control is a pervasive pattern of behavior.
• Recognizing psychological abuse is crucial for recovery.
• Protective parenting can help rebuild trust with children.
• The legal system often fails to recognize coercive control.
• Trauma can significantly impact parenting dynamics.
• Creating a safe space for children is essential.
• Self-care is vital for protective parents.
• Understanding the abuser's tactics can empower victims.
• Community support is key for healing and resilience.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey of Healing and Validation

01:40 Personal Experience Meets Professional Advocacy

06:58 Recognizing Coercive Control

10:48 Understanding Psychological Abuse

12:42 Identifying Signs of Abuse

16:53 The Impact of Trauma on Parenting

23:30 Protective Parenting Program: A New Approach

28:43 Navigating Injustice and Victim Blaming

39:45 Legal System and Coercive Control

45:51 Final Thoughts for Protective Parents

Resources:

Coercive Control Consulting

I Know Your Heart

Perfect Prey Podcast

TEDx Talk by Dr. Christine Cocchiola