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October 2, 2025 49 mins

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In this episode, Christian Brim interviews Emma Lyons, who shares her journey from living in a toxic family environment in Ireland to finding healing in Mexico. They discuss the impact of narcissism on family dynamics, the concept of the 'inner narcissist,' and the detrimental effects of shame. Emma emphasizes the importance of recognizing and breaking free from the shame matrix, offering practical strategies for listeners to reclaim their power and improve their emotional well-being.

Takeaways

  • Emma moved to Mexico to escape a toxic family environment.
  • She discovered her family's dysfunction and her role as the scapegoat.
  • Narcissism can manifest in various family dynamics, affecting all members.
  • Shame is identified as a core issue in trauma and dysfunction.
  • The inner narcissist can sabotage personal growth and healing.
  • Guilt is about actions, while shame is about identity.
  • Recognizing shame as a control mechanism is crucial for healing.
  • Practical strategies can help break free from the shame matrix.
  • Humility is essential, while shame is not necessary for being a good person.
  • Emma offers resources for those struggling with their inner narcissist.






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