Brother, some of the most dangerous narcissistic women are not the obvious ones, they’re the ones who look perfect at first. She’s charming, sweet, and makes you feel like you’ve finally found “the one.” But behind that angelic smile is a storm that can burn down your peace, empty your soul, and rewire your mind.
In this episode of The Narc Free Man Podcast, I’m breaking down 9 strange behaviors female narcissists use to trap and control men. These aren’t harmless quirks—these are warning sirens you can’t afford to ignore.
You’ll learn:
✅ The real meaning behind over-the-top love at the start (love bombing)
✅ Why her random silent treatment is about control, not cooling off
✅ How “always the victim” stories reveal a deeper truth
✅ The dangerous boundary tests she uses to push your limits
✅ How her public charm hides private cruelty
✅ Why she’s jealous over your friends, hobbies, and even your alone time
✅ How she twists your words into weapons against you
✅ Why she competes with your wins instead of celebrating them
✅ How her random overreactions keep you walking on eggshells
I’ll share real stories from men who’ve been through it and give you clear, actionable steps to protect yourself.
If you’ve ever felt drained, confused, or constantly second-guessing yourself, this episode could save you years of your life.
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Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
1:25 – Behavior #1: Over-the-top love at the start
4:15 – Behavior #2: Random silent treatment
6:35 – Behavior #3: Always the victim
8:20 – Behavior #4: Testing boundaries
10:10 – Behavior #5: Public angel, private tyrant
12:25 – Behavior #6: Jealousy over strange things
14:05 – Behavior #7: Twisting your words
15:50 – Behavior #8: Competing with your wins
17:15 – Behavior #9: Random overreactions
20:00 – Final advice & next steps
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