19: Exploring Sexual Flavors: Figging, Stygiophilia & Breeding

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My titties are sore welcome. To the sauce box that was your
host, Nikki. Hi, everybody.
Welcome to the sauce box. Yes, my tits are sore.
I don't know. Maybe my period's coming.
I don't know. We can just refer to you as sore
tit, OK? Yeah.
Anyways. Hey, what's up, everybody?
How you been? How you been?
Welcome to June. I mean, how was your guys's

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first week of June? Good.
Ours was kind of crazy. We went to Sydney's high school
graduation last Friday, which was amazing.
Oh my gosh, I did really good until I saw her crying and she
came and hugged me and then I was seriously struggling to hold
my keep my shit together. I I was crying.
It was my baby. She's all done.

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I know it's crazy my nieces were.
Thinking about it's getting me choked up.
Itty bitty just a couple weeks ago, and now they're both
graduated and adults legally. Yeah.
I don't like it. I mean, I do.
I'm super duper proud of them. It's amazing, but I don't like
it on the other hand. I'm just, can I just say how

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proud I am of both of my daughter's.
Piper was a part of the NationalHonor Society when she graduated
high school and Sydney graduatedwith outstanding achievement,
outstanding, yeah, outstanding achievements.
And which means that she graduated with a 3.95 GPA.
They brought her up on stage with the valedictorians and the

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salutatorians and. Her name was on the front of
the. Pamphlet Yeah, they talked about
them. It was just fucking amazing and
I'm so goddamn proud of my girls.
She was such a sneaky little turd with it, not telling
anybody because she wanted it tobe a surprise.
I know I was like what the hell,stop.
Oh my God, I'm so fucking proud.I can't.

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I just raising kids is not easy.Can I just say that it is not
easy. And then to have them graduate
from high school and to just do really fucking well is
absolutely just a super proud parent moment.
Dude I was. I'm so proud of my nieces man.
They make me cry, like when I think about them and just who

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they've become growing up, graduating and everything, I'm
just like it. If I really think about it, it
chokes my shit up. Mm hmm.
Well and then Sydney did the sweetest fucking thing.
So all the students had their white stole that they wore with
the 2025 and it's a gratitude stole.

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Sydney afterwards went and put it on Piper and was like, flip
it around, I wrote you a message.
And she had written Piper the fucking kindest, sweetest
message on there. Like it wasn't even towards me
and I cried. It was beautiful.
And when when she gave it to Piper, Piper just started

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crying. Oh God, just thinking about them
both I'm like. So they were just hugging each
other, sobbing into each other. So beautiful, like every parent
wants their kids to just fuckingget along and love each other
like that. And that was just like such a
beautiful moment for me to witness.
I absolutely. My heart was so full.
Yeah, so full. I'm.
Yeah, it's a good way to describe it.
Yeah, when I think about them, my heart just is really full

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because I don't ever plan on having kids.
And so they're my nieces. But the closest you'll get to
kids. Yeah.
They feel like my kids in some ways too.
Yeah. Yeah.
So anyway, so that was really, that was really awesome to be
able to witness and and be a part of and yeah.
And then we have our nephews graduation this week, at the end
of this week, this Friday. Yep.

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I know. It's crazy.
They're all growing. Up I know God.
I'm sure there are people out there listening right now that
are going through the same thing.
Know exactly how we feel. I love it tonight, which we are
recording this on a Sunday 'cause that's when we record.
But we, me, Samara and Piper areall going to a burlesque show.

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I'm so fucking excited. Oh my God, yeah.
We'll tell you guys about it next episode, but this is bound
to be a fucking amazing experience, so.
Fucking burlesque show with snakes up at a winery.
And it's going to be warm outside too which is going to be
nice. I'm sure the snakes will
appreciate. That yeah, true.
I want to touch one, do you think they'll let me touch one?

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Will there be a meet and greet? I would stay and be super tired
for Monday if I got a. Meet and greet a snake.
Yeah, fuck the ladies. Let me touch your snake.
Let me touch your snake. Pretty place.
Let it wrap around my body, please.
I wonder if they're going to bring the albino boa.

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I want to touch it if they do. Me too.
I fucking love the way snakes feel.
I do too. God, I want a snake so bad.
I kind of do too, but I have cats, so I feel like that's a
bad combination. Yeah.
So probably. Let's not.
Yeah. I mean, unless you're good at
keeping them separate. Yeah.
But I feel like the cats would just, like, see it in a cage or
its tank or whatever and always be fucking with it.

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So if the snake ever got out, itwould just be like, First things
first, let me fucking torment you.
Maybe I don't know 'cause. I don't want a big snake.
I don't want like some small. What kind of big snake?
You talking like a boa? Yeah, but not like a rubber boa.
You remember the rubber boa you used to have?
Duh. Yeah, it was so weird as a.
Bracelet. I know.
And then I was. Then it escaped and went out

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into the wild somewhere. Allegedly.
I'm pretty sure our parents justreleased it.
Rude. Yeah, rude.
That's just my assumption. I don't know for sure but.
We should post a picture of you with your rubber bow rub rubber.
Boo, Boo, Boo. Yep, that one.

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Yeah. Yeah, I'm fine.
I think we should. I think that would be.
And then everybody can see this.Look at my rub snake.
My old snake. You want to see me snake?
I'll make a leather snack. I love it.
Yeah, we can do that. OK.
Gavin was making fun of me this morning because I was looking
out of our window while we were eating breakfast and I wasn't

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wearing my glasses. I was looking across at the
neighbour's driveway and I was sitting there looking.
And I was like, huh, Is that a person bent over, like holding
an extension cord? And then I I looked closer.
I squinted my eyes and cleared up just enough.
And I was like, oh, no, that's just the front of their car on
the other side of their tree. And that the extension cord just

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light, just light on the tree. I was like fuck me, I'm blind.
Yeah, you are. Holy shit.
Yeah. In my defense, whoops.
And secondly, the the divider, whatever it's called between the
windows, it was blocking the back half of their car, so I
couldn't see it. And so when I adjusted it, yeah.

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But you know, nothing like getting bullied in your
relationships. It's how you keep them strong.
Tough love keeps things interesting.
Oh my gosh. So I went to the Lebanon
Strawberry Festival yesterday, Saturday.
That was actually pretty fun. I will say it was like it's

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116th year or something like. That is that why they were
fireworks. No, they do fireworks every
year. Oh yeah, No, I will say in for
having been doing this for 116 years, I honestly expected more.
Oh, first of all, I mean it is just Lebanon though.
But still it is a strawberry festival with like they have

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like a whole like concert stage setup, you know, light speakers,
all the whole thing, you know, visuals for the background, all
of that like a big actual setup for the stage.
It is a fucking strawberry festival, y'all.
I was like where are the goddamnstrawberries?
Where are the strawberry themed drinks?
Where's the strawberry themed food?
Where are the fucking strawberries?
There weren't any strawberries. There was 1 stand that was

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selling fresh strawberry. Oh they were fucking bomb.
Quality over quantity. But I was like, I was, they were
hidden. So I walked all over looking for
strawberries. And I finally find this stand
with strawberries. And I was like, ah, there you
guys are. It's so hard to find.
I was like, it's a strawberry festival where the strawberries
are like, yeah, actually this isonly our second year here.

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How is it a? Strawberry festival when there's
not any fucking strawberries. That doesn't make any sense.
Thank you. That's what she said.
She said yeah, a lot of people were complaining because they
were like, well, it's a strawberry festival, where are
the strawberries? So last year was our first year
here. I was like, stop 116 years.
And last year was the first yearthey had strawberries available
for sale. Listeners, you can't see it, but

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I am slow blinking at Nikki. Fucking ludicrous.
Yeah. What?
And then make it make sense. Yes.
And then I go look at all the food vendors.
Not a single one has a strawberry themed of anything.
OK. Oh, come on.
Strawberry crepes would be a fucking hit.
Strawberry salsa for your tacos?Yeah.
Come on. Yeah.
Strawberry spinach salad. I mean you could do all sorts of

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stuff. The drinks.
One bar at the venue had strawberry drinks and that's
even questionable. The two options they had was
what they called a dirty strawberry, which was literally
vodka and strawberry lemonade. Oh, with a half a strawberry in
it? Oh, generous.
And not even a locally grown strawberry.

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Might I add sake. The reason I know y'all is if
it's a locally organically grownstrawberry, it is red all the
way through. The ones you buy at the grocery
store where they have red and they're kind of white, those are
GMO, they're not organic, they're mass produced in like a
not great way and they don't taste as good.
The other strawberry drink they had was they had the Malibu rum

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strawberry and then you could just mix it with whatever mixer.
So they didn't even have like itwas just fucking pathetic.
It was it was no strawberry daiquiris.
I just I feel like there's just so much you could have done with
it. Strawberry margaritas,
strawberry like what? What no strawberry wine,
Strawberry wine. Thank you, 17.

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Yeah, yeah, exactly. Moon.
Hot July. Moon saw.
Everything. Yeah.
Hot July moon. Whatever.
Yeah. So anyways, it's just it just
was really lackluster. And what's the festival actually
being festive about? Yeah, none of the vendors.
Like there were a few vendors whose signs were like strawberry

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themed or had strawberries on them.
There were like maybe four or five vendors who were actually
selling stuff with strawberries on it.
There were two people walking around in strawberry costumes
you could take pictures with. Wow.
And there was one giant blow up strawberry at the entrance,
which I thought was fucking stupid.
Put that shit on the inside by the bar.
There was a giant blow up Michelob bottle that everybody
was taking pictures with. What?

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Why I don't know but if there was a giant blow up strawberry
in there everybody be taking pictures with it like y'all need
to get like 5 more of those. What is going on here?
Whoever? Is organizing this festival
needs to get their shit together.
Piper looked it up, 'cause she went, Her and Jack also met me
up there and she looked it up. The committee that has been
organizing this festival has been doing it for like the last

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since 1958. Oh, so they're decrepit?
Yeah. So it's just, it's fucking it's
do better. Do fucking better.
You've been doing this for over 70 years.
Do better. Don't advertise that it's A and
say that it's a strawberry festival if it has very little
to do with any strawberries. It was pathetic.
And so then Piper's looking. It's very underwhelming.

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It really was it wasn't now thatall that to say, it wasn't bad,
OK, It wasn't a bad experience. It was still I had a good time.
The food was really good, the drinks were good, the music was
OK but. It's advertise festival, then
advertise it as like a summer festival.
Don't say it's strawberry. Yeah.

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So And so Piper was looking up different reels of strawberry
festivals around the country. And, you know, they did way
better. I'm not surprised.
Way, way more better. So yeah, it just whatever, you
know, is that that Dahlia festival that we went to
actually had a fuck ton of dahlias.

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Yeah, Piper told me. So when I'm telling her, I'm
like giving all these ideas likeyou guys could do this, you guys
could do this and this and this.I was just like, mom, This is
why I always tell you should getinto politics.
I'm like, I don't what? Huh.
I don't want to get into politics.
She's like, I was like, what is that going to do for me?
What am I going to do for it? She's like, well, you know,
politics you can like be a part of like organizing stuff like
this. I was like, I don't think the

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city had anything to do with this as far as planning.
That's when she looked up the committee.
It's like, fine, then you need to get on a committee because
they obviously need fucking help.
And I'm like, well, that's clear, apparent.
That's apparent. I don't know that I'm the one
that wants to do that. Or that it should be.
But yeah, you're better at stufflike that than I think you
realize. Oh.
OK, well, thank you. I mean, I do enjoy doing stuff

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like that. And I'm like, if you're going to
have something themed, then you fucking go all the goddamn way.
Yeah, OK. Fucking send that shit.
Yeah, Sell it. For fuck's sake.
I would have if I was in charge,I would have said every vendor,
food, drink or otherwise, needs to be selling at least one item
that is strawberry themed. At least one.

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If you're doing food and drink, then you need to do a food and a
drink. Everybody.
At least one. Exactly.
I'm like, what is this is a strawberry festival.
If you want to be here and make money here, then you need to,
you know, just like a local restaurant here.
Like they do themes, you know, like once a month where they
have like a whole week themed oflike, you know, maybe it's like
Northwest Fest or or whatever. And all the vendors have at

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least one or two drinks or food items that are themed to that
week's theme. As it should, because you can't
say something is strawberry themed and nobody has anything
fucking strawberry. You know, just use your
imagination. Clearly I have an opinion about
this so anyways. She's on a soapbox and.
All that to say, it was, it was a good time.

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I had a good time. It you know, it was nice, but I
I was, I was a little disappointed.
Misadvertised. Yeah.
Oh, and I came so themed too. I had like, yeah, red bandana,
red lipstick. I had like this Jack Daniels
looking red shirt on that would had the lyrics from Chris
Stapletons was I can't remember the name of the song.

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Oh, Tennessee whiskey on there, you know, and it ended with, you
know, Swedish strawberry wine. I just was I was themed.
I got so many compliments on my outfit and I was like, yeah,
apparently I'm the only one here.
So OK, I mean, Piper did really good too.
But I mean, both of you, whatever guys typically do.
Yeah, so, but regardless, whatever, that was fun.
It was a fun weekend. And it's it's looking to be a

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great weekend because we're finishing off with a fucking
amazing ass burlesque show. And this is going to be the
first burlesque show that I've been with.
Been to with you or Piper? Yeah, the two of you together.
I'm over the fucking moon right now.
Yeah, I'm really excited. Oh.
It's going to be a goddamn good time.
Oh boy. It's been a it's been a hot
minute since I've been to one. Me too.
I went to a Halloween burlesque show a couple years ago here

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that was down in Sunbar and we got in late, so we only saw a
part of it and that was pretty cool.
But it was such a small thing that I don't know it wasn't.
Like super memorable by any means, but it was it was just
really low key to the ones that I've gone to in the past that
have just been like, damn, that was awesome.

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I'm really excited. I've never seen this group
before, so I'm very, very excited.
I mean, if their Instagram is anything to go by, is this going
to be a damn good show? Yeah, super excited.
Yeah. Cool.
So you guys? What we talking about today?
What journey? Where are we going to take our
listeners on to? Well, let me tell you, we are

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going to be starting a brand newseries that I think about.
We have kind of alluded to throughout the podcast.
We are going to be exploring sexual kinks and fetishes and
this series is going to be called Exploring Sexual Flavors.
Have fun with that. You know, discover your flavor.

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Yeah, our flavors or flavors. Are you going to stick to being
vanilla or are you going to end up being more of a Spamoni or a
Neapolitan? Yeah, exactly.
What are you going to add into that?
You never know. You might think you're vanilla,
but I don't know. At the end of this series you
you may discover you like a little bit more than vanilla.
Yeah, or discover that somethingyou're into actually has a name.

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True, because very true. There are things that I have
found that I'm into. I'm like, I didn't know that
there was a name for that. You could just, it's just
something that I was into. And I think this is going to be
a really good opportunity for everybody to really just learn
something new, us included, whether it's, you know, learning
the name of something that you already knew you were into or
just learning new kinks or things that, you know, maybe

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you're curious about. But the whole point of this is
just to, you know, explore and discover and to try to make
this, you know, not so taboo so.Yeah, I think we're going.
I think our plan is to do every other week exploring into this
until we decide that we're done,until we think we've covered

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enough exactly. So we won't totally bombard.
You, but it'll be easier for youto kind of track with us if
you're really into it. Yeah, exactly.
And this is something that I have been excited about for a
really long time. This is something I have wanted
to cover in this podcast since before we even began, so I'm
very excited to finally be starting this series, and I

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think it's going to be a fun little adventure for all of us.
Yeah. You know, as Guy Fieri says,
welcome to Flavour Town. Fuck you.
Love it. Oh my gosh.
OK, so sexual kinks and fetishes.
So this can seem taboo even, youknow, in our society right now,

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like we're, we are very sex positive and we're seeing a lot
of sex positivity growing in recent years.
But talking about kinks and fetishes can still be difficult
for people to to talk about evenwith somebody they're
comfortable with. Right.
Like, just depending on how you were raised up and, and what
your life has been like or how sheltered maybe you were, it
could be, you know, maybe embarrassing.

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I don't know. I just think this is going to be
a fun thing for everybody. So just come in with an open
mind and just be curious. And.
Yeah. Just open to learning new shit
and you're also getting the bonus of keeping your search
histories nice and clean, so. Yeah, we're, we're doing it all
for you. I do want to preface all of this
though, and say that we are not here to judge anybody.

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Nope. We're not here to judge any
kinks or fetishes in any kind ofnegative way.
As long as everything is consensual.
Do you baby, whatever gets your rocks off, man.
That is right. We are not going to be judging
anybody and we are going to be covering some very odd kinks and
fetishes. Niche.
Yeah, very niche indeed. So, all right, yeah, I think

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it's gonna be good. I'm gonna, I have a little bit
of an introduction I wanna go through to kind of give you guys
a little rundown about kinks andfetishes, and then we're gonna
dive in. We're gonna let Samara talk
about a couple that she did someresearch on, and I think it's
gonna be pretty eye opening for everybody.
It's gonna be a fun episode. It is nice, nice starter, nice
appetizer for what's to come I. Agree, so sexual kinks and

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fetishes can seem tamboo even with all the sex positivity that
we've seen growing in recent years.
But kinks and fetishes aren't anything to be ashamed of or
embarrassed by, and I personallybelieve that everybody has a
kink or fetish of some kind, andif you say that you don't then I
think it's just because you haven't discovered it yet.
Yes, that is my belief. Yes ma'am, I agree.

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Now, when it comes to kinks and fetishes, curiosity is a great
way to discover and explore new things in general, but
especially when it comes to sex,curiosity is a great way to even
learn about the different kinks and fetishes out there.
And we are going to be a conduitfor that for you.
You're welcome. So just come in, be curious, let

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your curiosity guide you. You never know, you might
discover something that you're really into, something that
thrills you, fulfills you, you know?
Yeah. I mean, shit, you might just be
spicing shit up here soon. All right, So what is a kink and
what is a fetish? They're please they are not the
same thing. I know that there's a lot of

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confusion between the what the 2are.
Yeah. They they aren't used
interchangeably or they shouldn't be used
interchangeably, even though a lot of times they are used
interchange interchangeably. So a kink is defined as a sexual
activity that falls outside of sex that society traditionally
considers acceptable. This can include everything from

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role-playing to experimenting with bondage and whips to
electrostimulation. So there's a lot.
Now, a fetish, on the other hand, refers to an attraction to
a body part or an inanimate object, such as feet.
You have a foot fetish. Carnival rides?
Exactly. So a fetish is a type of kink,

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but a kink is not a type of fetish, if that makes sense.
I think so. OK, all right.
One way to kind of help you distinguish the two.
Also, that wolf, maybe it'll help you.
It help me. But a kink is an activity.
Like it's a verb. It's an action, whereas a fetish
is not. It's like an attraction too.

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Does that make sense? Yeah.
OK. It's a nice way to break it down
further. So no matter what you're into,
all sex and kinks, especially ones with with potentially heavy
risks and consequences, requiresconsent, communication and
compromise. Always.
Before trying any new sexual activity, always obtain
enthusiastic and continuous consent from all parties

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involved. Listening and respecting your
partner or partners by getting their consent is a must,
regardless of your kink. And that's where safe words also
come into play. Exactly.
If you are doing something that requires a safe word, have it
established beforehand. Your kinks may not align
perfectly with your partners, and that's absolutely OK.

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OK, and it's normal. We are all unique individuals.
We're not going to align 100% generally.
But you may soon find that as you explore with us what you're
OK with and what you're not OK with may begin to change.
So it's important to also keep acontinuous conversation going
about what your personal limits are.

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Now, if you are partnered up with somebody and you want to
explore kinks with your partner,a low pressure discussion when
you're both relaxed outside of the bedroom is ideal.
And it also sets the table for talking about sex with less
stress. You can try this exercise from
Doctor Shamira Howard. She's a certified sex therapist
and also the sexologist at We Vibe.

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And she's got this little exercise to kind of help you
ease into it. Beautiful.
Yeah. So you both start or three or
however many people are in, you know, this group.
You basically start by creating a list of five things that you
consider to be kinky and that you want to try.
So you do that on your own. You create this list of five
things. Then you all share your list

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together, and you begin to create a new list of yes, no and
maybes and just kind of work my system.
Yeah. Yeah.
So there are a lot of kinks and fetishes, you guys, if we
hundreds, like Samara said earlier, if not on here, but
outside of the podcast, if we wanted to, we could absolutely

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have a podcast solely just on kinks and fetishes.
There are so many. Mm hmm, truly just it's crazy
there. Yeah, it's it's a lot.
So anyway, so if you're curious and open, you're very likely to
find something or a few that stimulate you.
Our goal with this series is to open you up to the whole world
of kinks and fetishes and hopefully, hopefully help you

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feel more comfortable with exploring what makes you feel
real damn good. Trust when I say we will all be
learning something in each episode.
Promise. Promise.
Yeah. So if you guys are excited, I
hope you guys are excited. I'm really fucking excited.
It's gonna be really good. You guys know us pretty well by

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now. We're going to give you some
good stuff. You can count on that.
Absolutely. And we're going to cover kinks
that maybe nobody has ever, you know, none of you have ever
heard before, some that we've never heard of before.
But then we're also going to be covering kinks and fetishes
that. Are pretty common knowledge.
Yeah, pretty familiar. So we don't want to, you know,
we don't want to go with just these like off the wall, weird

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random ones. We want to also include common
ones and just kind of dive into them, what they mean, how to
maybe participate in these kinksor fetishes and and that kind of
thing. So we just want to we want
everybody to feel very comfortable and and in the know.
Yeah, yeah. OK, perfect Smear.
You want to get us started? I'll take it away.

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Perfect. Now, both the kink and the
fetish that I found are ones that I've never come across
before. I was looking for what to cover
and I was finding that I alreadyknew about the vast majority of
the ones that I was. Dirty, dirty girl I.
Know God. Just depravity over here.
Yeah, hell lick in them ankles. You're getting it, but I wanted

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to learn about something new along with our listeners today.
So you know we're getting learnttogether y'all.
I'm excited, I'm very excited. First up, we have our kink
figging, like the the fruit fig.OK, figging it has nothing to do
with a. Freaking yeah.
I'm trying to even think what I what figging could even possibly

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be. I'm at a loss.
I have no idea. I had no idea either.
I'm very curious, please do elaborate I.
I would be happy to. This is where either a fresh
peeled ginger root as a whole, or a fresh piece of peeled
ginger is inserted into the anus.
Does that burn? Indeed, most of us have likely

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eaten ginger at some point in our lives, so it's known that it
can be the kind of spice that almost burns or kind of feels
hot because the flavor is so intense.
So we can predict that. It's called gingerine, not
figging. Well, it's because of origin of
the word oh. That's why it's called figging.

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OK, OK, OK, simmer down. What else could I do with this
ginger babe? Bend over.
Oh my God. Silence in the courtroom.
Order. Order.
Yes, thank you. That's the word.
So the flavor is quite intense. So we can predict that inserting

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a fresh piece of peeled ginger into one's anus would have the
same result, which it does. Historically, this started out
as a form of torture back in ancient Greece to torture
slaves, but in the BDSM community it has since
metamorphosized. OK, so this is going to fall it
for BDSM. This is going to fall more into

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the sadists and masochists realmof the BDSM.
So the SNMS. Yeah.
OK, OK. The method for figging goes like
this. The ginger root is peeled into
the shape. Of a butt plug or individual
pieces are inserted into the anus.
It takes time for the effects toinitially start, so after the

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the duration of the burning sensation begins it starts to
steadily build up and it lasts for around 20 minutes before it
diminishes pretty rapidly. OK.
To extend the experience, the ginger can be further peeled
repeatedly during or after the initial insertion.
So each peeling of the ginger reinvigorates the sensation or

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builds upon. So you just squeeze it out, have
them peel it again and re insert.
I would assume that it's removed.
I mean, how else are you going to peel?
You can't peel it inside their asshole.
Well, obviously, I mean that. I feel like that goes into a
whole other thing where you can.OK, let's not, yeah, let's not
continue on. So the ginger reinvigorates the

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sensations in the receiving person's anus.
OK. And when it's, it's typically
that it's peeled into the shape of a putt plug and it's left
inserted or it can be removed and kind of be built upon, you
know, increasing the intensity. Now, if the person with the
ginger in their ass tightens their sphincter muscles, the

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sensation becomes more intense. This act actually ties into
another kink with a historical background and punishment, which
is caning. Caning is a form of corporal
punishment that uses some kind of climbing palm.
It doesn't specify because there's over 100 different
species of climbing palms. The the historical origins of

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caning are it's not used. The canes aren't made out of
wood, they're made out of the climbing palm, and it gives them
more flexibility. See and I'm picturing like
bamboo stalks. Similar but they really do look
like just a straight K, not the one with the handle that comes
out it made me just think of like a really thick switch OK

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yeah yeah OK I get that yeah makes sense I mean obviously
anything we talk about if there's any tools or toys we'll
give you guys pictures obviously, obviously so if you
got any questions let's. Go look at Instagram first.
Yeah, yes. So.
They're made out of these climbing palms.

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It's formed into the shape of a cane to strike the bare or
clothed ass of a person. So figging was sometimes used in
correlation with caning to penalize butt clenching.
The person with ginger in their ass would have to choose between
bracing for the strike, causing the ginger to burn more, or

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relaxing their butt and taking the full force of the canning
blow. Fuck.
It's a lose, lose or a win win if you're a sadist or masochist.
Yeah. I mean, and of course, depending
on how much ginger is in there, how hard the cane strike is,
there's a lot of room for intensity.

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There's a a big spectrum there. Yeah, that makes sense.
So that's that's figging. And there's even a history with
figging being used on training horses, like with training a
horse to usually show horses to get them to hold their tail high
which it. Seems like animal cruelty.

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That's what I was thinking too. It just makes me further not
like anything to do with like horse racing or horse training
like that. Like the showing just seems
cruel. I mean, if we're, you know, any
kind of animal training, you're breaking them in some way.
Yeah. You know, because you're
basically, whether it's dogs or horses, it doesn't matter what
animal is. If you're training an animal to

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do something, you're generally, generally, not always, but
you're generally breaking their spirit or their will down.
Yeah, I mean, that's why a lot of, at least as far as dogs go,
the positive reinforcement whereyou're not, you try to stay away
from. Physical or negative?

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Yeah. So just thought that was an
interesting little tidbit that Idid not want to focus on but
wanted to include. Yeah, yeah, interesting.
OK, figging I. And that's FIGGING.
Definitely not something that I would want to to to look into,
but I'm also pretty far from anykind of like sadist or masochist

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kind of impulses. For sure I'm not.
I don't like pain and I don't I don't like inflicting pain
either. So.
I'm here for a good time and that's not how I I have a good
time personally. Yeah.
And I wanted to say because we had, we just mentioned like the
BDSM briefly, but just for thoseof you who don't know BDSM, it

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stands for bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.
And those kind of include, you know, so like the D and the S,
they also have like dominance and submission is what they
could also stand for as well. So it could be bondage,
discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, masochism.
So cuz dominance and submission kind of go hand in hand.

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Does that make sense? Yeah, yeah.
For our fetish we have stygiophilia.
This is the feeling of being aroused by the thought of
damnation or Hellfire. Oh my God, wait, this is a
thing? Yes it is.
I can feel the Hellfire licking my ankles right now.

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Doesn't sound so bad. I was gonna say, is this, is
this one of your fetishes? You have brought this off,
brought this up previously. Nah, but it is fun.
It is. Fun.
Oh my. God, so reading this, I'm like,
maybe I I'd have to look into this further.
Maybe really, no, because it's, I don't know, it feels pretty
loose and just a a really wide range of how this could be

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interpreted. Yeah.
And the different ways that you can act it out.
Yeah. So it's it just feels like a
broad spectrum. I feel like that's the case
though for for a lot of kinks and fetishes though.
I feel like there's a pretty broad arena for each one.
There's not just one way to enjoy it.
Yeah, you know what I mean? Like, just like our imagination,

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there's a lot of ways to kind ofhave fun with this one topic.
I mean, that's why there are so many different kinks and
fetishes is the human imagination.
Yeah, so, OK, interesting. I want to know more about this
because this is really fucking wild.
Yeah, yeah, I. Getting off at the thought of
hell and damnation, that is. Hellfire that.

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Is real quick before I do carry on, I was researching this a bit
and thought, you know what, I'm going to go to images and there
was a picture I came across thatlooks just like a hellscape.
You know, there's mountains and lava and it looks like just a
lake of fire. And there's a bunch of skeletons

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with their arms up and in the forefront of the pictures
there's a sign that says no swimming.
I was really tickled by it. Oh my God, that's perfect.
Yeah, I'll make sure that we include that.
And also it's just, it's fun. You know, Hellfire.

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Pretty amusing. That's how everyone describes
Hellfire. It's pretty fun.
It's pretty fun. So stygiophilia can also be
described as the fascination with the dark, forbidden, and
the taboo. This has actually been a pretty
pervasive theme throughout humanhistory, having been said to

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derive from the River Styx from Greek mythology.
As the River Styx is, it's pretty well known as associated
with the underworld in the passage between life and.
Death Hades guards that. Exactly, you know the having
coins to you pay the ferryman yes, which I can't think of his
name. He has a name.
He does have a name. I can't think of it also.

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Anyway, if you know, let us know.
You know, drop in the comments. So this intriguing fascination
delves into the realms of more mortality, the unknown, and
often blurring the lines betweenwhat's considered acceptable and
what is deemed propulsive. Karen, Sharon.
Karen, Karen. Yeah, yeah.

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So what does this even really mean?
It means that people that fuck in this wheelhouse may find
excitement or arousal in the aesthetic, emotional, or
psychological elements tied to death in the afterlife.
They often engage in fantasies or activities that incorporate
those themes. This can include sexual

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role-playing scenarios, artisticexpressions, or consuming media
that emphasizes death related narratives.
OK. But this isn't the same as like
necrophilia, right? Or would necrophilia fall into
this? No, no, OK, cuz that then you're
not acting then it's not a fantasy.
You're actually having sex with a dead person.
Then it's manifested. Yeah, OK, right.

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And let me just play with the it's the idea of it, OK?
Is what I've. I've gathered.
If I'm wrong, if someone out there is into this, please feel
free to to correct me. Yeah.
OK. This attraction can manifest in
many ways, including fantasies about death, engaging in
activities that invoke a sense of mortality, like erotic

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asphyxiation, where you're, like, going to the point of
passing out. Yeah.
Because there is that risk of itpotentially.
Ending in death. Exactly.
OK. Or an interest in themes related
to the macabre. People with stygiophilia may
find themselves drawn to situations or imagery that

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involve death, such as horror films, graveyards, or
discussions about death and dying.
Now I see why you're like, maybeI do a little bit, yeah.
Exactly because I've loved horror films.
But do you? But do you love them in a way
where like you get? Physically excited?
No, not really. So maybe not.

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Yeah, because I feel like that'sgoing to be the distinction for
a lot of these fetishes, you know?
Yeah, they do get physically, sexually excited by these
things. Not just do you like them or
enjoy them, but do you actually get like, you know, like a
sexual excitement from it? OK, It's going to be like that.
That will be the distinction then.
So no for me. I have gotten turned on at a

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classic car show, though that hasn't happened.
Yeah. But oh, you should look into
what that is. That's a good idea.
I'm gonna jot that down that. Is very interesting.
Right now. So yeah, we have figging caning
kind of go hand in hand and thenstygiophilia.

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OK, the stygiophilia. I thought the figging was a
surprise. The stygiophilia is wild.
Yeah, like wild. Yeah, I didn't know about either
of them. So I would love, I would
absolutely fucking love to talk to somebody who has that fetish.
Me too. I got questions.
I want to know more information from someone that actually like

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I would does experience that. Yeah, if any of you are into
that, let us know, because once we get to a point where we can
actually have guests on this show, we would love to have you
on for an episode to just kind of talk to us and educate us all
about it. Yeah, yeah.
And that goes with any kink thatwe or fetish that we talk about.

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Anybody that's into that and really very familiar with it, we
would love to have you on to just, you know, talk about it
further and share your experiences and even educate us
a little bit more about it. That would be absolutely
phenomenal. Yeah, absolutely.
I would. I want to love it.
I want to know all about it. Me too.
Even if I'm not into it. I I'm just curious.
I love to learn. Yeah.

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Yeah. So educate me.
Exactly. And I'm not here to judge
anybody. So even if I'm not into it, I
still want to know about it. People are fascinating,
endlessly fascinating. Agreed.
Agreed. And what is life if you're not
learning something new regularly?
Truly. All right, you ready for me?
I don't know if any of us are lay it on us.

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Oh, come on. I'm nice.
OK, guys, I am going to be talking about a kink that many
of you may know. OK, It's it's pretty, pretty
common, pretty popular. It is breeding.
A breeding kink is about the risk of reproduction.
It's like sexual Russian roulette.
It is an intense sexual attraction to the idea of

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getting pregnant or impregnatingsomeone else.
And yes, those of the same sex or transgender relationships can
also have a breeding kink. So a breeding kink refers to
being into sex that could resultin pregnancy.
So unprotected or condomless sex, typically involving one
partner ejaculating inside the other partner.

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While enjoying condomless sex and internal ejaculation isn't
necessarily a kink in and of itself, Those with the breeding
kink are often turned on specifically by the possibility
and or risk of pregnancy associated with the ACT.
Even if pregnancy isn't actuallya desired end result.
Most often the people with thesekinks aren't looking to become

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pregnant or get somebody pregnant and you know, may not
even want kids with the person that they're experiencing this
kink with. OK, it is just a kink.
Many will. Think I actually have this.
Yeah. So more so than that, the
stagiophilia, many people will also use some form of birth

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control other than condoms. So this kink is more often about
the risk and intimacy and potentially A dominant
submissive aspects of of unprotected sex than the actual
desire to get pregnant. Now, why do some people have
this kink? It's a great question.
People with a breeding king could be attracted to it and
turned on by it for a number of reasons, some of which include

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the following. The real or imagined risks and
consequences of pregnancy arouseyou.
You feel a base primal desire toprocreate and spread your seed.
Talking to you guys, don't know.Don't know how I feel about that
emphasis. You enjoy some elements of BDSM
like power, control, dominant submission, or even bondage and

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find that you can explore these things through a breeding kink
because impregnating your partner can feel like a dominant
act while being impregnated can feel like a submissive act for
some people or vice versa. Another reason that you could
have this kink is because it could be a part of another
fantasy such as being forced to become pregnant, or you can feel
a deep loving desire to connect with your partner and create a

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family together. Pregnancy and raising a family
can feel like the most intimate act for most people.
There are multiple reasons for their breathing fetish or kink
existing, not just one simple reason, and this is the same for
every single kink and fetish. There could be a number of
reasons why you have a specific kink or fetish.
Now I do want to say and and just clarify, do not confuse a

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breeding kink with an abusive partner looking for an excuse to
not wear condoms or have safe sex.
OK, don't worry, I'll pull out. There's a classic line that guys
use when they don't want to wearcondoms during sex.
Let's be real, a guy who fucks you while ignoring your wishes
to wear a condom and have safe sex is engaging in abusive

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behavior. It's not OK, OK, this is this is
another reason why if you want to explore different kinks and
stuff, it is absolutely imperative to have a discussion
with your partner and our partners outside of the bedroom
and discussing what those boundaries are in those safe
words and each person's limits. You got to discuss that

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beforehand. That's not somebody can talk
about in the heat of the moment because a lot of times in the
heat of the moment we will say and do things that maybe we
wouldn't normally be OK with if we were in our right mind.
OK, yes. So that's that's something to
keep and keep in mind. And it's important for us to
each respect our partners wishesand their limits regardless of

(44:46):
what they say in the heat of themoment because we could change
our mind and then afterwards be like what the fuck?
I was not even that's yeah, you know what I mean?
It's just OK. Anyways, moving on with this
breeding kink. There are actually a few
fantasies and scenarios for breeding kink that I'm going to
give you all in case you need a little bit of inspiration.
OK, so for breeding kink, one scenario or fantasy is where you

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act like you can't control yourself around your partner.
You're both experiencing just pure, unadulterated lust.
You're both so overcome with a desire for each other that you
don't even think about using birth control.
The vibe you're going for is I have to have you right here,
right now. I say again.

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Some tips for trying this breathing scenario.
You could both be ripping at each other's clothes and tearing
them off. Or to save time, you don't even
take your clothes off, you just pull your panties to the side so
he can fuck you. OK, OK, I mean, that's hot.
We all know that's fucking hot. Stop.
OK, And if you like that, guess what?
You're not vanilla. That's not your flavor.

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Or you're willing to have sex with your partner anywhere
private. It doesn't have to be in the
bedroom. You just, you know, it's just
this primal urge. You need them now.
So, you know, it doesn't like, let's go to the bedroom.
Let's take off all our clothes. Let's get under the covers.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no. So an important note for this
breeding fantasy is it only really works with the feeling is
genuine, right? Like, if there's no sexual

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tension and sexual tension and you don't genuinely want to RIP
each other's clothes off, then this is going to feel a little
bit awkward and contrite. Like nobody's going to really
believe this, right? Like the whole point is that
you're passionate and you're into it, that passion.
More passion, more passion. My God, another fun one.

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Is I'm just here for comedic relief?
Really. Another fun fantasy scenario is
when your man this is for the ladies or for the men.
Actually this is for anybody whois going to be penetrated.
When your partner is about to come inside of you and is on top
of you, you can just wrap your legs around their waist and lock

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your ankles together so that he can't pull out.
Whispering something filthy in their ear will help to push them
over the edge. You know, like fuck me harder,
empty yourself inside of me. I want it all there.
Gonna be people going back 15 seconds, back 15 seconds.

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Just we're playing that over andover on a loop.
That's a freebie. You're welcome.
Another simple but very hot breeding kink tip is to use a
condom during sex. However, in the heat of the
moment, you pull the condom off so that you're having
unprotected sex again. Consent beforehand.

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Consent, consent, consent. Yes, consent is one of the
hottest things there are. That's right.
Here's some tips to to get the most out of this particular 1.
So before pulling it off your partner, you can beg him to have
unprotected sex like I need thisor please, I need to feel you
come inside me. Doing this a few minutes
beforehand can massively app up the tension.

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Or to add to the risky feeling, ensure that your partner gets a
visual of you pulling the condomoff.
And that could just kind of, youknow, help light that fire and
that excitement of that breedingkink.
Try combining it with another breeding tip, like having him in
bondage beforehand so there's nothing he can do about it now.

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Like with many other fantasies, this one requires discussion and
receiving your partner's enthusiastic consent beforehand.
Otherwise, removing a condom during sex without your
partner's permission is known asstealthing and may be illegal in
several states. OK, so get fucking consent.
Can't emphasize it more. No, exactly.

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All right, another fun one with this breeding.
Another fun scenario. Fantasy is milking him dry, so
when he's on top and orgasms, pull him close, lock those
ankles back behind him and keep him inside of you.
Or if you're on top and he orgasms, you just keep on riding
him until he's completely soft so that you have milked him dry.

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Suck his soul out through your crotch.
Personal favorite of mine. I do enjoy that when I'm on top,
but I also I also like the otherone too, wrapping my legs around
them right behind their ass and locking the ankles together so
they can't actually. You're staying right here,
buddy. You're staying right here, not
going fucking anywhere. Minimal movement, sweetheart.

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Let me just grind up on you until you're done.
Very, very, very done. And then I have another one for
you guys. Enforcing a rule where you won't
have sex with your partner untilthey agree to breed with you.
Now you could just take the easyroute and just not have sex with
them until they agree, but then they still have the option to
masturbate to relieve themselves.

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Not as fun. Or you could take a little bit
more hardcore route and use a chastity device on your partner
to prevent them from even being able to relieve any sexual
frustrations. Oh God, I.
Fucking love the idea of that somuch.
Like the dominatrix in me just gets fucked.
Like, she rears up for this. Like this.
Yeah. It gets me fucking excited.

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I'm telling you, you got to get like, a weekend gig.
Try it out. Maybe you might like it.
I think I might. This will allow the sexual
tension to build and build and build until it reaches a point
where your partner can't take itanymore.
And then they give in and agree to have unprotected sex with
you. And honestly, I just love this
so much. Like the idea of just having

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that kind of power over a man fucking gets me so goddamn
excited. Which is crazy because I would
never think of myself as like a dominant.
But I think that's why I am likepretty evenly a switch because I
get off pretty well with submission, like being a
submissive and being dominated. But then I also really like the

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idea of dominating a man, whether before sex or even like
towards the end, just kind of having that power is pretty
fucking hard. I don't want that all the time
though. No, you still want to be in your
feminine energy. Yeah, it's very, it's very
interesting because I think there was.
It's empowering to to switch into that masculine energy.
It is the dominator I know. I just keep having like this

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vision in my mind of a man on his knees begging me to give him
pleasure or give him anything and I just throw my leg over his
shoulder and tell him to give mean orgasm.
Me first, honey. Yeah, I don't know.
I just, I love that. I don't know why but then also
this like having a chastity device on my man so that he

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can't even fucking masturbate and then just just a cock cage
fucking excited and just being an absolute goddamn cock tease
until he can't take it anymore and agrees to do what I want him
to do. Whether it's the breeding kink
or not. Cuz I don't have a breeding
kink, but I still love this ideato just make him submit to me
and then just give him the best orgasm of his life.

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I was just like, I fucking love it.
Like yes, absolutely fucking submit to me first.
Yeah, yeah. Big smile painting on her face
right now. Y'all big big style.
Definitely a switch. Definitely a switch.
OK. And just.
Twinkle in your eye. For those of you who don't know
what a switch is, you have people who identify as dominant,

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which is pretty self-explanatory, and people who
identify as submissive. A switch is somebody who likes
to be dominant and then also enjoys being submissive.
And so, and that would be me. I'm definitely a switch because
I have moments where I absolutely love to be a
submissive and be completely dominated.
But then I love those roles reverse where I am absolutely

(52:53):
dominating a man. Like there's something so God
damn erotic about that to me. Yes, God damn, yes.
So anyways, but I don't want to be anybody's mommy.
So no, age play is not for me. And we will, we will get into
age play in a future episode andthat can lead into other kinks.
Yeah, also I just had like 3 different ones popping in my

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head. There's just so much out there
you guys. OK, the last scenario that I'm
going to give you guys or fantasy that I'm going to give
you guys for breeding is forced breeding, AKA consensual non
consent or a form of consensual non consent, which is also known
as CNC when it's abbreviated. Now if you're into the idea of
forced breeding, then you and your partner or partners need to

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1st understand the concept of CNC.
If you don't fully understand it, then please avoid engaging
in any kind of CNC activities like forced breeding until you
do. And I'm going to be covering CNC
in depth in our next installmentof Exploring Sexual Flavors.
So you guys will learn more about that in two weeks.
We cover that and that's going to be a real goddamn good time.

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Yes, it will. And if you guys have any kinks
that you were curious about or want to learn more about, but
you don't want to dirty your search history, send it our way.
We'll make sure that we cover it.
We will absolutely do it. We no shame, no shame
whatsoever. We will do The Dirty work for
you. The people closest to me know my
search history is full of depravity.
Yeah, and questionable searches.So yeah, no shame over here.

(54:21):
No shame here either. I'll do The Dirty work for you
guys for sure. We're we're here for you.
Let us do the work for you. Yeah, 100%.
And that way, you know, if there's one that you're not sure
we might end up covering, it's agood way to make sure we get it
covered exactly 'cause this series is going to go on for a
while. Yeah, again, just until we're

(54:41):
satisfied. I like that.
All right, well, that is it for our first installment.
We didn't want to, like overwhelm y'all too much.
And we're going to try and keep each of these episodes in the
series down to two or three kinks per episode, just so we're
not overwhelming y'all. And it allows us to go into
depth on each of them and give you guys, you know, as much

(55:02):
information as we can or as we want to share.
Yeah, I think it's going to be good.
OK Anyways, are you guys excited?
Like, did you guys know And how many of you knew about breeding?
I feel like there's going to be a lot of you that knew about
breeding. I.
Feel like that's a pretty popular, well known one.
Yeah, I think so too. And.

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I'm have no doubt that there is going to be fetishes again in
here that we know about, but we didn't know that there was a
name for it. Exactly.
Exactly. Because with with breeding, I
didn't know there was a name forit.
But I'm into it, yeah. Tell us, how are you?
How are you into that? Are you like, you know, a little

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bit more like you want to force your partner to breed you or you
just like the idea of being bred?
Like what? What is it about it that you
like? I like the feeling, Yeah.
I don't know if there's something about it.
Yeah, and see for me, yes, I like condomless sex and I love
the the way it feels when my partner comes inside of me.

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Like I like that a lot, but it'snot a breeding thing.
I'm definitely not like, oh, therisk of getting pregnant.
Like it's not a breeding thing for me.
So I wouldn't say that it's a kink.
It's just I enjoy the way that it feels is.
All yeah, maybe I'm just into cream pies, I don't know.
And that's what it's called, huh?
I only learned that recently. Look at us learned and stuff.
Yeah, I learned that recently because people kept saying cream

(56:24):
pies. I'm like what the fuck is a
cream pie? Yeah, that's the difference
between like cream pies and being a cream pie or being like
a Twinkie or a toaster strudel. A Twinkie, the fillings on the
inside, the cream and the toast strudel is on the outside.
Oh yeah, that totally makes sense.
See, I heard somebody say Toaster Strudel once and I was
like, oh, that actually makes sense.
Actually, I did hear somebody say Twinkie and Toaster Strudel

(56:44):
to me. I mean, it could have been me or
Jake. Yeah, we both used.
Or it could have been somebody. It could have been somebody on
Reddit too. Who knows?
I mean, just keep motherfuckers on Reddit.
They're everywhere. We're all over the place.
There are, yeah. And I've learned a lot about
kinks just from Reddit. Can I say that like, I've
learned a lot? Yeah.
Like CNC. I had no idea that was a kink
that I had, that I have, that I didn't know there was a name to,

(57:08):
and it was also one that I was really kind of ashamed or
embarrassed to even acknowledge verbally out loud with a
partner. I can understand that you.
Know so but to know that there'sa name to it and to learn more
about it, I'm like, OK, well I'mnot clearly I'm not embarrassed
or ashamed of it anymore, but I and I want to explore it more.
But yeah, that's it's just cool to like, oh, OK, well I'm not

(57:29):
alone. There's a lot of people who who
have this kink and that's something that I hope each of
you finds. If there's something that maybe
you're into or that arouses you or excites you, but maybe you're
a little bit embarrassed or ashamed of it.
My hope is that by going throughthis series, you're going to
learn that there are a lot of other people who also share that

(57:50):
kink or fetish, and there's nothing to be embarrassed.
By yeah, maybe you can find a community out of this too.
Absolutely. Grow more comfortable.
I love that talking about it andyou know.
Maybe you'll find your. Person.
Yeah, who's like into exploring that with you.
Yeah. So maybe this will also help you
guys learn to shake off some of that maybe Shame.

(58:12):
Shame. Yeah, the embarrassment about
it. I like that and I really do.
I hope, I hope all of you come into these episodes with an open
mind and no judgments, just opento learn.
Because even if none of the the kinks or fetishes that we cover
in each episode are something for you, you've learned
something new. Yeah, and who knows, maybe
you'll learn something on here and somewhere down the road you

(58:34):
have a partner that has a fetishor a kink that we've covered and
that way it makes the communication with that for
when. You're in the bedroom, more
comfortable, Yeah. And you can, if they have shame
or embarrassment about it, then you can, you kind of have some
knowledge and you can help kind of guide the conversation.
I love that so much because really our shame and

(58:57):
embarrassment around different kinks and and fetishes I think
is around our our lack of knowledge and then not sure how
our partner is going to react. So if you have a partner down
the road who has a kink or fetish that you've learned about
and they bring it up, you can beencouraging and open with them,
even if it's not something that you want to try.
But maybe you're like, maybe it's a maybe for you, but at

(59:19):
least you can talk to them aboutit and open the conversation so
that they are comfortable talking to you about it.
And it doesn't mean that you know, just because you talk
about it, you have to do it. You don't have to do shit.
What's that, man? But if you're at least open to
talking about it with your partner, that's going to help
them to feel a whole fucking lotmore comfortable with you.
Yeah, and it shaves. It'll help shake off that

(59:41):
tension, ease it and. Hopefully open that open you
guys both up to being able to discuss other sexual topics as
well. And even just in general, just
in your general relationship, helping with the communication.
Yeah, I agree. I agree.
Because communication is key andwe are all adults and we should
all be communicating like adults.

(01:00:01):
Absolutely. If you're having sex, you should
be able to talk about it. That's right.
And not just. Maybe this will help you.
Yeah. I love that.
Gosh. OK.
Well, I hope you guys enjoyed this.
I hope you all learned something.
Yeah, I hope so. Did you all know about figging?
I sure as shit didn't. I bet they did it.
I bet nobody knew about the stygiophilia.
I did not. Well, I had maybe an idea just

(01:00:25):
because of other podcasts that Ilistened to, but my big thing is
I had no damn clue about figging.
None whatsoever. Well, the.
Stygiophilia and figging are both completely brand new to me.
I had no idea about either of them.
Perfect. I hope that that trend keeps
happening throughout this series.
Well, you know it might be sinceyou said you had a hard time

(01:00:45):
finding anything that you didn'tknow.
Well shit, we'll see how far that continues.
All right, you ready to play a game?
Yeah. All right, let's do it.
And we're back. You ready for the game we're

(01:01:06):
going to play? Put a finger.
Down play with us, y'all. This.
Your fingers. This.
Game always leads to confessionssometimes it's shit we did not
want you all to know. Oh, don't I know it.
Yeah, so. Oh.
God damn it, you know, transparency.
Yeah, You know what? We're being vulnerable.
And I hope that our vulnerability encourages you all

(01:01:27):
to be vulnerable with us and participate and communicate with
us because we do this for you. So, you know, share.
Yeah. Sharing is caring.
It sure is. OK.
I think you've gone first last time.
Yeah, you should go first. OK.
All right. So we're going to start with a
bull hand of five fingers. Yeah, we're not.

(01:01:48):
We're going to hold the fingers out entire game so we don't have
to pause and fucking recount. Jeez.
Oh, shit. OK, so all right, fuck off.
Put a finger down if you've had a one night stand in the past
month. No.
Yes. And I don't even like one night
stands. And maybe it won't be a one

(01:02:09):
night stand. We'll see.
But for now, it's been a one night stand.
All right, you're next. Put a finger down.
If you've done it in the car, that's a finger down for me.
Oh. God, yes.
That's why I know I think car sex is horrible.
Yeah, no, I don't want to fuck you in the back seat.
Are you kidding me? The front seats Even fucking
worse. Yeah, there's always one knee
that's just getting fucked up. Gosh.

(01:02:30):
And it's just the room. It's just so awkward.
You can't get like good momentumand good like ankles, anything,
anything. No, it's just.
It's the Titanic vehicle that's that's reasonable.
That thing's spacious as fuck inthe back.
Modern cars? Absolutely not.
Yeah. No, it's, it's not.
It's no, let's not. Do you think anyone's fucked in
one of those small little FisherPrice?

(01:02:52):
Cars. Oh my God, those little smart
cars. Yeah, they just look like the
Fisher. Price Toys.
They do toy cars. They do.
I don't know, I feel like somebody probably has I.
Feel like if you thrust too hardyou tip it over.
You know, those actually have like a steel cage, like a crazy,
crazy strong. I've watched four people.
Pick one up and move it into another parking spot.

(01:03:14):
It's crazy. I believe that.
Yeah, I believe that. They look like if they hit a
squirrel, it'd be demolished. I know.
I digress. Yes.
Moving on. Moving on.
OK. Put a finger down if you've been
caught having sex by a cop. Almost almost almost.
But we saw the cops headlights before he saw us so.
We stopped having sex. I'm going to.

(01:03:37):
Keep a full finger up for that. So am I perfect?
Put a finger down. If you've had a three-way make
out or a three-way make out, yes.
No I haven't. I thought maybe there was a
possibility. Gosh, I want to fucking have a
threesome so bad one of these days.
They're fun. Fuck you.
So jealous. You've done so much more than
me, but just so all of you know,it's going to be a male, male,

(01:04:02):
female. I'm not interested in a female,
female, male. So either way, still still would
count. No, I know it would, but
everybody's going to ask. Oh yeah, let's do it.
Most guys are like, yeah, 2 girls in the gut.
No, it's going to be. It's not about you.
Me getting all the attention. Thank you anyway.
All right, wait. Is it my turn?
Yeah. OK.

(01:04:22):
Put a finger down if you've goneto work intoxicated within the
past year. No, the past year now thinking
about it in the realm of the jobthat I have now because I've
been at it for over a year. So no, definitely not good.
Perfect. Put a finger down.
If you've done it in a dressing room.
No wanted to. Yeah, I've wanted to and I've

(01:04:45):
had the opportunity to. I just, I'm like trying to
remember if I actually ever have.
I don't think I have God, I've like thought about it so many
times that it's hard to differentiate the reality from
fantasy. I would 100 fucking percent.
I absolutely would have sex in dressing room but but that also
goes to like. My exhibition is kind of kink

(01:05:05):
too though so. Yeah, that thrill of maybe also
getting caught? Uh huh.
Fuck yes. Gotta be quiet, but got be
quick. Yeah.
So no, OK. And we're both sitting at 3
fingers. OK, put a finger up.
Oh, if you've broken up with someone because they were bad in
bed? No, because we would have had to

(01:05:26):
have been in a relationship. Yeah, I'm going to say yes and
I'm not going to elaborate on air.
Nope, no, I need to. Yes, once.
And outside of any relationships, I've absolutely
dropped dudes for being bad in bed.

(01:05:47):
Like life is too fucking short for bad sex.
Yeah. No, no, I've slept with every
person that I've entered a relationship with.
Yeah. Yeah.
So no. OK.
All right, let's go. Put a finger down.
If a couple has asked you to have sex with them, that's a
finger down for me. Yeah, twice.

(01:06:08):
Two different couples. Yeah.
Yeah. And I, it's kind of flattering.
Yeah. I actually feel like there's a
third couple that's this sounds so fucked up grooming me.
Just softening, Yeah, softening,you know, for when they can
actually work up the the courageto ask.

(01:06:31):
I feel like until they, you know, just soften, softening me
up, you know, to get me to a place where they think I'll be
more likely to say yes. But I might actually consider it
though. Hey, I'll be real.
I'll be real, because they're both pretty attractive people.
I mean, just to at least have the experience, yeah.
What's there to lose, right? I mean, I mean, I mean, it would

(01:06:53):
be a threesome. It would be not what I wanted,
but it's still a threesome and they're both attractive.
So, you know, fuck it, Fuck it, fuck it, fuck it, fuck them.
Maybe. Yeah, maybe.
Your turn. All right.
Put a finger down. If you've watched porn in VR,

(01:07:15):
we. No.
But haven't we talked about that?
We have. It was on one of our Bad Choices
games. Yeah, that's right.
No I haven't watched porn in VR but God damn it I want to.
I don't check it out for sure. I really want to.
I wonder how do I do that? I don't have like AVR set.
Well, you'd have to. I don't think you could go to
the place in town and be like, hey, do you have this?

(01:07:35):
Can I download this game real quick?
Pay you extra to leave. I love, I love that that's where
your mind went because that was the first thing I thought I was
like, hmm, could we, could we maybe play this in the backroom?
Do you mind? Closing up for like 30 minutes,
pay extra. Right.

(01:07:57):
Oh my gosh, I love that. Put a finger down if you've had
sex while someone else has watched.
No, but I also want that and that plays into my voyeurism
kink. I well, I mean technically I
guess yes because I have had hadthreesomes and did the third

(01:08:18):
person just sit? Back and watch.
At different points, kind of like rotated out at different
points. See.
Now, if you want to go that way,like if we're talking like
threesomes where you're just one-on-one and somebody's just
rotating out, I've done that. I mean, kind.
Well, yeah, figure. But I think of threesomes as
like all three people are actively involved.

(01:08:38):
Like, nobody's like stepping back for the the time the
sexcapade that I'm reminiscing on.
It was all three. But there were different points
where like someone go get a drink of water and then just
like drink and just watch and then would rejoin something.

(01:08:59):
Like that, OK. I'm I'm still going to count it.
Yeah, OK. Yeah, No for me though.
So I'm down to 1. OK, two.
No, you're 2 because I think youalready put your one down when
you answered. OK, well, we'll we'll clarify.
Shit. Continuing on, Yeah.
Was that your card or my card? That was mine, OK.
All right, my last card. Put a finger down.

(01:09:20):
If you've hooked up with three or more different people in the
past month. Nope, Past month.
I'm thinking I've been kind of sexually active lately.
Rolling through that mentally Rolodex. 1-2 Nope, just two all.
Right last card, put a finger down if you've 60 nined in the

(01:09:44):
past month. No, I haven't.
Nope, I'm at 3. OK.
I believe I'm at 1. OK.
We've reconvened and I am in fact at one finger.
And I am at 3. OK.
It's like we switched. Places from the last.
Time we played, we decided we were going to start keeping
track of our put a finger down. Oh, right, yes.

(01:10:08):
What would you call that tally? Tally.
Yes, just to, you know, at some point see who is the most
degenerate out of the two of us.Or who's the most sexually
experienced or. Just to see, Just to.
See, you know what? Just to see cuz.
I mean, yeah, let's just go withthat actually, just to see how

(01:10:31):
we stack up. Yeah, I love that.
OK, how'd you guys do? Let us know.
Yeah, last time, May 18th, when we played, Nikki had half a
finger, I had 2 1/2. And then today Nikki had three
and I only had one. Oh my how the tables have
turned. My my my.

(01:10:53):
OK, well, shit, all right, well,I am curious.
I I really do want to know. So let us know how many fingers
you guys ended up with. Just shoot.
You can comment in the Spotify comments or you can DM us on on
Instagram, whatever, whatever you want to do, just let us
know. We're curious.
Yeah, you can literally just putthe number in.
Yep, that's it. Nothing else.
If you want to. Yeah, please.
That would be great. I'd love that.

(01:11:15):
All right, well, y'all, that is it for this week and we will be
back next week. Also, I just want to say real
quick, Happy Father's Day to allthem daddies out there, whether
you are a fur daddy, a step daddy, a biological daddy, a
granddaddy, all the daddies, anydaddy, any flavor, daddy, any

(01:11:38):
flavor, Yeah, all the daddies. If you are a daddy, Happy
Father's Day. I know that is coming up here on
Sunday. And I hope you all have a
wonderful day. I hope you were all treated and
spoiled and taken care of and appreciated for all that you do
for your family and your kids and your fur babies and just
feel loved. Feel loved.
Yeah. We would also wish our dads a

(01:11:59):
happy Father's Day if we knew who they were.
But to you know. We do not.
We don't, no, not the biologicalones.
Not the biological ones, No, no,no.
But to the dad that raised us, kind of happy Father's Day,
Happy Father's Day and and to the stepdad, you know, and the
the men who stepped into our lives.

(01:12:19):
The bonus dads out there? Yeah, the bonus dads, the ones
who stepped in and and played that role for the people who
didn't have one. And, you know, for me, that was
that was Grandpa. And for you, that was, that was
Glenn. So happy Father's Day, y'all.
Yeah, love you guys. We'll see you guys next week.
Yeah, who knows what we'll bring?
You'll get to hear about the burlesque.
Show you will. Oh my God, it's some snakes.

(01:12:43):
Love it. All right, bye, you guys.
Bye. Be sure to follow us on
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