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August 20, 2025 46 mins

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Jen speaks with Dr. Jan Canty, a psychologist and homicide survivor, about her journey following the murder of her husband. Jan shares her origin story, the profound impact of trauma and the role of media in shaping public perception of victims. She discusses her healing process through service, community and podcasting, emphasizing the importance of resilience and support. Jan reflects on her legacy and future plans to create a gathering for homicide survivors, highlighting the need for connection in the aftermath of violence.

Key Takeaways:

  • Life is meant to be an adventure: you do not know where you're going with this, but someday you will.
  • The media is a business that thrives on public interest, often at the expense of victims' privacy.
  • Healing requires addressing the biopsychosocial model: biological, psychological, and social aspects.
  • Volunteering internationally helped Jan gain perspective on her trauma.
  • The podcast community provides a unique support system for those who have experienced similar traumas.
  • Closure is a fallacy; the aftermath of homicide continues to affect victims long after the crime.
  • Creating a community for homicide survivors is essential for healing

Episode Highlights:

[02:12] The Vanishing: A Life Altered

[10:45] Media Scrutiny and Public Perception

[13:24] The Long Shadow of Trauma

[15:59] Healing Through Service and Perspective

[22:17] Accountability and Forgiveness

[30:29] Healing Through Community and Connection

[32:48] The Role of Podcasting in Healing

[35:17] The Domino Effect of Murder

[38:38] Legacy and Moving Forward

Resources Mentioned:

Dr. Canty’s Books

The Domino Effect of Murder Podcast

Dr. Canty’s Blog

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