Made, Found, Favor: Our Epic Anti-Consumerism Gifting Tradition

A long lost Brady Bunch episode inspired a gifting tradition in the Borffmann household that has been going strong for 20 years! Instead of purchasing gifts for Christmas, Amy and Tommy and their two daughters exchange only three types of gifts: homemade items, found items,, and favors/acts of service. Not only does the tradition short-circuit the consumerism frenzy that typically dominates the season, but it centers creativity, joy, and magic. 
 
 In this episode, they trace the roots of the tradition and recount stories of memorable gifts, while providing inspiration and tips for anyone looking for a new way to gift!
 
Just in case you want to actually purchase a gift for someone you love, here are a list of books that have been mentioned this season!

For the peri-menopausal set. And husbands! — All Fours by Miranda July

For the poets and the poets-at-heart — Mules of Love by Ellen Bass

For the deep thinkers — Transformative Experience by L. A. Paul

For you — Come As You Are by Emily Nagowski

For your partner — Magnificent Sex by Peggy Kleinplatz and A. Menard

For moms — Nightbitch by Rachel Yoder 

For everyone! — All About Love by bell hooks

Great gifts for a male partner: 

Mens Lingerie at LoveHoney

Saxx Men's Underwear

Great gifts for a female partner: 

The Liberator Wedge

Original Music:

Song: Festival Pier

Artist: Rick Real and The Warmth

Album: You Too, October

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Work From Bed Friday is a podcast hosted by Amy Hoffmann and Tommy Borden, a committed couple of 30+ years. Funny, spicy, and insightful, they discuss marriage, sex, and connection through the lens of contemporary books and media. Every Friday. From bed.