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Good morning, everybody. Is Tuesday, April nineteen six or seven,
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How could we ever? It's impossible. Oh, it's possible. Would
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ten minutes after trending stories headlines to start your Tuesday.
What's coming up? Kalin? I totally forgot that the Kardashians

(00:48):
are suing Black China and they're doing jury selection right now. Um,
and they're getting mad at the things that people are
asking them. I'll tell you about it. That's coming up
this morning. I got a trip to Vegas. Gotcha, mendes
take it's some more stuff too. Glad you're here. My
niece I start over the weekends. She learned the word no,
and so that was I just feel like she just

(01:10):
says no to everything because she can and because she
has her parents just wrapped around her little finger, and
that that with me. I know you've been through this
or are going through this right now. I thought we
had a little more time though, Rufio, until I you know,
we had to hear no all the time. I mean,
that's like one of the first words they learned, and
then they use it like constantly, like it's no to everything.

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And then right now she's going through that phase where
Polly is where her parents are the only ones that
can do anything, like they're the only ones that everything
like every everyone else, I don't know, everyone else is
either convenient to her because she wants something from them
or she's scared of them and like shuns them a
little bit, which I know we went through that with

(01:53):
Ashlyn too, because you know, Uncle Fred had to bribe
the kid to give me a hug, so I know.
So it's funny to watch this whole thing. I just
fine to watch my parents just or my m my,
my my sister and her brother in law or my
brother in law just scurry around and do everything at
this kid's whim. She has them whipped. It's unbelievable. It's

(02:13):
like reverse psychology. You know the parents is supposed to
be dominant over the little toddlers. Oh no, no, see
for me now, it's like I say no to him,
and then he goes to other people because he knows
he'll get it out of him. Like he'll go to
like Jess's Jess's mom, He'll go to my dad, He'll
go to my brothers. Like I'll be like, no, I
don't want to. She's like, let's I want to play soccer.

(02:34):
I was like, I don't play soccer right now. I
was like, go ask uncle Brian. And then he'll be like,
uncle Brian, soccer, Okay, let's play Soccer's like that's fun.
That'll be much more fulfilling for me. Your brother, that's
what your sister and your brother in law should be doing,
Like they should be letting all the other you know,
your parents, and you should be being the yes people
to Polly. I just wish I could know what's going

(02:58):
on in her little head, you know, Like she'll hold
her bottle, she's like a little little don't a little
like sippy cup or something, and then she'll drop it
and then she and she'll just look at me to
get it. And then and then I'll get it and
I'll give it back to her, and then she'll just
take it and drop it again and then laugh at me.
It's a game for it to go get it again.
I'm like, but yeah, wait a minute, Like now you
want me to do something for you, But a minute
ago I wanted to do something for me. I wanted

(03:20):
to hold you and feel like a like a good uncle,
and you wouldn't do that. So I was trying to
have these conversations with her, but she just looks at
me and laughs. It doesn't work yet. Anyway, I went
on this date on Friday. What do you think, Polly? Yeah,
and then she drops her bottle of laugh stetday, which
is what my days do too. Trending stories and the

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entertainment of port nuts on one h three five kiss out.
This is what's trending. Important stuff today. Got a chance
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nine o'clock this morning on the Fred Show. So that's
all the stuff. You gotta know. All the free stuff today.
The Bulson Bucks resumed tomorrow in the playoffs Game two
in Milwaukee. Bucks lead that series. Want nothing, guys for
all that flying that you've been doing. Airports and airlines
have dropped their mask requirements after a Florida federal judge

(04:24):
void of the Biden Administration's mask mandate for planes, trains,
and buses. Following the judge ruling, the judges ruling, United, Delta, Southwest,
and American all made their mask policies optional. What does
that mean? Well, that means on planes and in the airports,
you're not gonna have to worry about wearing a mask
because the CDA is deferring to TSA's guidance and they

(04:45):
run O'Hare and midway as far as CTA still required,
Metra still required, Pace still required, South Shoreline, which is
operated by the Northern Indiana Commuter Transportation District not required.
They're going to eliminate their mask ruling. So so there,
so you don't have to wear one anymore if you

(05:07):
where were you're going, where anyone going anywhere, any fun
daytime soon. No, but I might still wear one, yeah, same,
I don't know. I kind of like it, Like if
you fall asleep, they can't see your mouth open and
you can hide, not with makeup mouth. I don't know.
I just feel like I might still keep it on,
but like take it off. If you drew while you sleep,
it's to be a big drool mark on the mask itself,
as opposed to all over your shirt. Yeah. I'm not

(05:29):
a big jeweler, but I don't know. I just feel
a little protected in my mask. It's kind of like
my safe zone now. But I'll take it off more
freely when I'm eating and stuff and having tried like
three or four hours straight wearing the mask. Yeah, I
don't know. At the end, I'm like, oh, take this
thing off. So yeah, yeah, So there's that Netflix's losing
six billion dollars a year as users flock to illegal

(05:51):
passwords sharing marketplaces. Wait, I thought this was my idea
last week. I thought we were going to have a
secret society where everybody who is a member of the
society had to contribute one unique password and user name
to a subscription service of some kind. This was my idea,
And so like, I don't know, I would give the Netflix,
you know, Kayley would come with Discovery Plus, yes, you

(06:13):
know whatever, and then by the end of it, we
all have, you know, everything we need it. But I
guess this is a thing. Netflix is using billions of
dollars a year because of illegal marketplaces that offer access
for a dollar. So the popular streaming app is missing
out on all this money because people are dodging the
nineteen ninety nine a month premium account fee. So they

(06:34):
tried to launch a counteroffensive last month the password sharing
by letting watchers add up to two other users for
two bucks in some countries. But they're not the only
Netflix is nearly one being affected by this. HBO match.
Disney Plus subscriptions are being ripped off as well. So yeah,
I guess you can go to a website and get
access to whatever you want. And I feel like my

(06:55):
idea was stolen and I want I want some royalties.
I think we should see somebody for this. Let's do it. Yeah.
Holograms are the next big smartphone feature that's trending today.
They could become the hot smartphone feature after scientists say
they've created a new light sensor inside the camera. The
sensor can detect the polarization of light to create three

(07:16):
D images without needing a filter. Until now, viewing holograms
has only been possible using a large specialized camera equipped
with a polarizing filter. Digital and smartphone carriers or cameras
rather contain a type of sensor called a photo diode,
which converts light into current signals. So this, could you know,

(07:37):
mean that you don't set your phone up and then
the person who you're talking to is just right there
front of you, like two pocket. Yeah, just like that.
The iPhone has added thirty seven new emojis, including the
pregnant man, melting face, disco ball, a troll, and beans.

(07:58):
Apple users have download the new iOS fifteen point four
and then you'll have access to all of this US
new Smiley's people, hand gestures, objects, food, and nature. So
there you go. It's National North Dakota Day today. And
this is a fun fact that I didn't know, but
Kaylin remembers all things. It's Shelley's Fred's Show anniversary today. Yay, wow.

(08:23):
I remember the first time that we all met Shelley
together as a group. I mean some of us had
known Shelley for a long time. There we go. A
few of us had been friends with Shelley for a minute,
but but yes, there we had a big meeting scheduled,
and there was, you know, a bunch of suits in
town and we were talking about various things, and it
was on, guys, we have a new member of the

(08:44):
Fred Show. It is Shoby Shelley. And she walked in
the room and the first time that Rufio says is
something about what did you say? Welcome to the winning team?
Feel to be on the winning team. That's what I said.
What's wrong with that? I mean, she just gotten fired,
so I mean, you know, maybe it's a little, yeah,
a little, but she's there. I don't know. I think

(09:08):
it was the way welcome the show biz. It's a
little early for showbis to be in her in her
castle there, it was just chicken that we built for her.
But yeah, it was what I said, Well, we were
destroying that, like how about hi, how are you? Yeah,
nice to meet you. Yeah, that's what I said. It
wasn't that you were wrong. It wasn't like, I don't know,

(09:30):
how about welcome, you know, welcome nice to me. They
gave her the welcome and I said, hey, what's it
like the one like that, you know, welcome to the
wedding team. I think she went home and cried after that.
She might have it was wild. Yeah, that was that

(09:50):
was their loss. They're the idiots that the yeah right
to Shelley and are their losses are gain? And look
at us now, look at us now. I don't know
who looking. Ain't that right? Everybody? Look at us? Good morning.

(10:11):
A man charged with supplying fentnall lace pills before Mac
Miller's fatal twenty eighteen overdose was sentenced to almost eleven
years in prison. Yesterday, US District Judge Odisty Wright sentence
Ryan Michael Reeves to ten years and eleven months in prison,
which comes six months after he pled guilty to a
single count of distribution of fentnal and Initially, federal prosecutors

(10:33):
sought twelve years and seven months for Ryan, who admitted
to supplying counterfeit oxycodone pills to the drug dealer, who
eventually then sold them to Mac. To remember, Mac was
found dead at his California home on September seventh of
twenty eighteen. He died of an accidental overdose of fetnal,
cocaine and alcohol. In twenty nineteen, one year after he died,

(10:53):
two additional men were charged in connection to the fatal
overdose so you know, doesn't bring him back at least
some sort of justice for Mac. Members of the Kardashian
general family got real annoyed when Kim's sex tape was
brought up during jury selection for their case against Black China.
This cracks me up. So when their attorney, Michael Rhodes

(11:16):
asked a group of potential jurors if they had strong
positive or negative feelings toward reality TV, a man who's
about sixty said he's never watched Keeping Up with the Kardashians,
but did say I have watched kim sex tape, and
I don't think I could be impartial on this case.
Oh my god, I was dying. It made everyone obviously

(11:37):
laugh in the courtroom. Chloe like kind of started to
comfort Kim. Didn't make them laugh, but everybody else was laughing.
Chris got real pissed when the same old dude told
the judge that it would be hard for him to
serve because he would be quote replaying that sex tape
over and over again in his head. Wow, okay, buddy,
he really got insu it. It wasn't just if you'd

(11:58):
seen it, I mean got details out of the sky. Right.
He's like, I can't look at her without replaying this.
Remember back in twenty seventeen, China shares five year old
son's dream with Rob Kardashian, who you don't ever hear
about anymore. Accused her X of being an abuser and
his family of being media predators who pulled the plug
on the former couple's reality show. She filed a lawsuit

(12:20):
against the family, and she's seeking more than forty million
for loss of earning damages and more than sixty million
in loss of future earning capacity damages, So she's asking
for a lot of money. The family then responded back
with a lawsuit of their own, alleging that she violently
attacked Rob. She was also in the courtroom, by the way,
with her lawyer and her mom, Tokyo Tony, who I

(12:41):
am literally obsessed with. I'm obsessed with her mom. But yeah,
old dude, he cannot be on that jury because he
can't be impartial. He would be replaying it over and
over as kid was speaking, which you o, dog, you
I mean I can't. I could relate, fellows, if I
were in the same room as Kim, I might think

(13:02):
about that. Yeah, I don't know if it would affect
my ability to be impartial in a jury case. But
if you know voice, it's hard not to decide with
the woman in that video. You know, it's a piece
of history. Yeah, I think I've seen so much Kim
since then, and I don't replay it all the time.
But I don't know that guy. He's never seen an
episode of Keeping Up, so that's all he knows her

(13:23):
from is her sex tape. You guys, it's all coming
back to me now. A romantic drama starring and featuring
the music of Selene Dion will be released in theaters
February tenth of next year. I'm pumped for this. Prianka
Choper Jonas will play a woman struggling to move on
from the death of her fiance and to cope. She
begins sending messages to his old phone number, which has

(13:44):
been reassigned to a new man. You can obviously guess
the rest, and then Selene will be in it, and
she will play herself by the way and help them
fall in love, which I mean. I didn't realize how
many Selene fans listen to this program until we played
her one day. Everybody was freaking out, So I feel
like I had to throw that one in for them
more to check it online. Today. Drake and Taylor Swift
hanging out. He actually like was really tightly holding her

(14:06):
and it made me really happy. Um. Also, everything you
missed from Coachella Weekend one, it's on frenchhow radio dot com.
We played that song and people went crazy and remember
Boss Mean and Jimmy jam was like, don't do it,
do not do it? And then oh then I did
of course and people went crazy. Yeah, every second is
sell sell seleno where show by Shelley pushed to Shelley button.

(14:28):
I guess she's arrived in her castle. Thank here just
sitting in her throne of all these things. Um, Shelley,
Happy Shelley Anniversary. Thank you. I totally forgot, yeah, that
it is this week. I totally forgot. That was cute,
thank you. How many years been? Five? Four four three
two one four years? Four years? And do you remember

(14:51):
what it was like? Do you remember walking in the
room to be greeted by Rufio and his what's it
like to be on the winning team comment? Do you
remember that moment? Think? I do vaguely. I remember just
being so intimidated because you guys are such a massive show.
I remember walking in being like, oh my god, I'm
so nervous. But then I remember laughing because I was like, oh, yeah, no,

(15:13):
I do get to be in a place where they
seem to actually care. Yeah, don't enable him do a girl. Well,
that's the thing about Rufio is if you know Rufio,
then that comment wouldn't have You would have lasted off
at the time. You didn't know him, You didn't know
that he wasn't a little jerk. You know, it's not.
He's a sweet guy. He just has this little ledge

(15:35):
to him, you know, where he says things like that that, yeah, well,
I mean, unbelievable. We're so happy to have you. We
tried to get you on for years before that, you know,
we were working on it and we couldn't get it done.
And then all of a sudden, there was this one
day where I get a phone call and it was
You're not gonna believe this. And I've got a lot
of calls like that over the years as it refers
to that place, and I was like, wait, what um

(15:57):
and boom boom boom bam you worked for us? Like
how long were you unemployed? Maybe a day? Maybe it
was like three weeks and then I remember I was
sick for like two of those weeks, so then I
had like a week in between, and then yeah, here
we are, yes history and didn't you and not to
like to talk too much about their shenanigans, but it's

(16:18):
just too good. Didn't you guys find out that you
were getting fired from that radio station? Like from a website. Yeah,
that's so you've referred this before. But usually in our business,
when people get let go, you do your shift and
then they pull you sight after and they say, hey,

(16:40):
that was your last radio shift. Yeah, they don't tell
you at a time because they don't go like, hey,
I mean if you've been around for a long time
and they trust you and it's like kind of mutual
and everyone feels good about it. You know, sometimes they'll
give you like a you get to say goodbye or whatever.
But very usually in our business, just because of employment
laws and because of the fact that you know, there's
there's so many we all worked for a big company,

(17:02):
so it's there's a lot of rules that have nothing
to do with us. But oftentimes it's like they're not
going to let somebody go on the air and have
at it if they've been let go for whatever reason
because they don't want, you know, because God knows what
you might say. Um so yes, normally to Shelley's point,
you'll do your show and then lackling Wood. This has
not happened to me yet, but it will. You walk

(17:24):
out and they're waiting for you and they're like, hey,
come talk to us, and you're like, oh, we're done. Okay,
but yeah, so I don't know even why it came up,
but it came up in the room like it was
in one of the like media blogs first before they
could tell us, and that was really nothing in the mortage.
I love spoilers, you know somehow reality reality Stevie, You're

(17:49):
I know, I'm like, funny No. And then the worst
part I remember that day was that I had a
funeral later that day, so like, what is going on?
I was just at a complete loss. Yeah, so didn't
you guys, if I remember correctly, you guys read about
it and then you went on the air and you're like, well,
I guess we're done. And then you got to say

(18:11):
goodbye because you and then they came and got you
right after that. Well, you you remember Jay Nice our
friend j N. Yeah, I love Jay nice and he
was like, well, might as well say goodbye? And I
was like, oh, I guess so. And I just remember
being in such shock. I didn't know what to do
out of remember what I said. I have no idea. UM,
I don't think it was anything really coherent. And then

(18:33):
we just like sat in the room in silence until
the bosses came. It wasn't a good day. Yeah that happens.
I don't know. I know it did work out. We're
all we're so happy about it. I just don't know
how that happens, like I would. You guys were super
You guys were prose about it too, because I've heard
other versions of this where guys find out ahead of

(18:54):
time and then they go nuts and they say a
bunch of stuff to prevents them from ever getting hired
ever again. But you guys were super professional about it.
But you know what, it worked out because you know,
we got you and that was transformative for our show
and we're so happy. And then Jay and Ice went
to Toronto and now he's crushing it, so you know,
it all works out. Everybody wound up in a better place,

(19:15):
so we're happy about it there anyway. Thanks for reliving
that moment with us on your anniversary or your friend
show anniversary. I'm glad I can laugh about it now
because I was certainly not laughing back then. Yeah about
it now, The joke is definitely not unus, Shelley. I'll
tell you definitely not, Shelley. Eat a little bit the
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(19:59):
him in Chica at seven thirty And when you win that,
you signed up to fly off to Wango Tango in
La and see a bunch of other big stars to
all expenses paid. Let me see how much is a
three hundred bucks today? With three hundred bucks four game
win streak with Shobi, Shelley, can we talk about this
Elon Musk story. I saw the clip the other day
of the interview he did. It was like with Ted

(20:20):
or somebody, uh, a sit down with Elon Musk. This
guy is the richest man in the world, somewhere in
the vicinity of is it two hundred and fifty billion,
it's it's I think it's over two hundred billion. It's
what this guy is worth. And this is what he's
talking about. How he doesn't he couch serves among his friends.

(20:43):
M he doesn't own a place right now. I'm literally
staying at friends places, he said. If I traveled to
the Bay Area, which is where most of Tesla's engineering is,
I basically rotate through friends spare bedrooms, he said. Um.
He said, he does have a plane, but that's the
only real frivolous expenditure because he can work on the plane.

(21:04):
So I guess it makes it like there are hours
out of the day that he would use going back
and forth between the airport or like being group A
on Southwest or something. So he has a plane so
we can do stuff. He also says that the only
residence that he could sort of claim is a rental
um at the SpaceX Tech plantation. Yeah, yeah, which is
a three hundred and seventy five square foot one bedroom

(21:27):
living arrangement. Oh my god, that's how he stays rich, though,
how do the rest day rich? Yes, this is how
they become cheap. The rich are cheap and that's how
they say richt Where his kids living? I mean he
has like his children named X, y Z or whatever.
Where do they live with them? Because he's got like
seven other kids. Right. Can you imagine if Elon Musk

(21:49):
is your buddy at some point, I would at some
point very quickly and mean, Elon Musk if Elon called me.
Because I don't know if you guys know this, but
Elon and I are very close. But you know, every
now and again he'll call me and be like, hey,
I might be coming through, you know, can I stand
your couch? And I'm like Elon, like yeah, sure, you
know a couple of times, but after like the third
or fourth time, I'm like, Elon, you all spring for

(22:11):
like the Palmer House or something dog like you know,
you mean, stay over at the nice Virgin hotel or
you know, come on, you got a couple of bucks
you can afford it. That's like when your buddies call
you over the age of like twenty five and say hey,
I'm having a painting party or help me move. I'm like, no, no, no,
I'm not going to that. No, not at a certain point, Paulina.

(22:34):
At a certain point. I think it's around the age
of twenty five. You gotta slept your own stuff around
and you gotta paint your own walls. I don't want
free pizza and beer to come over and paint your house.
At a certain point, No, I'm not gonna risk what
is it called sliding your disc in your back or
whatever when you're like old and what's it called? Yeah,
what's it's over? Yeah? I don't need that thing to

(22:58):
be out of place. No. I think after the age
of like, yeah, twenty five, I think is good. To
be honest, I've never really done that. Haven't been a
big fan of that, like helping people move and vice versa,
and the ones ever helped me. So I don't really
understand that, but I can see why people do it.
I mean, when you're twenty five, free beer and pizza,
is it? That's dinner and lunch? Right? But at some point,
aren't you kind of like, I don't know, are you
kind of offended? It's like, dude, you're worth two hundred

(23:20):
and fifty billion dollars and you want to sleep on
my couch, Like, no, keep doing it. I want to
I want to sleep on your couch, right, come on, man,
it's kind of you for the thrill of it. Maybe
he like wants to feel what it's like to be
poor or working class. I don't know, because he's just stupid,
like couch surfing, like okay, let's say, okay, Frank, Like
he ain't hitting up Joe Schmo, like he's hitting up

(23:42):
other rich people, you know, say, like their couch is
probably in a separate wing of another mansion. So it's
just like, well, what's the point. But even Steve jobs
at a house, I mean, you know what I mean,
Like even yeah, I mean he was a cent trick
when he was out there and he wore the same
mouse that every single day. But at least he had
a house house. Yeah, but like look at these look
at look at Elion. Elon has got like over one

(24:04):
hundred billion dollars more than than Jeff Bezos. Like yes,
it's not why, Rufio, that's not why. I mean, the
guy is worth hundreds of billion. He can afford an
apartment in San Francisco. Listen, listen, listen, elon UF. You
could be my Bessie with a TESTI come on over
to my house. You can leave on my couch, you
can leave in my bad let's go. Oh so so

(24:28):
the guy who's crashing on your basement couch with your
son next to your son's toys is gonna give you
a Tesla's not about what time tesla. You could come
over anytime you want, Eli, he ain't given you. You
can bring x y Z. He could play with Ashlyn.
You could do whatever you want to do. Buddy, he
can bring three point one four. I don't know. I

(24:51):
just think I think this has more to do with
I don't know. It's either he's going for something here
or he's maybe he's in consider or it. I don't know,
but I don't want my billionaire friend. Oh gosh, hey, sorry,
you guys can't come over for the holiday party. My
billionaire friend is crashing on the air mattress again, Like,
come on, it's not there's something not right about this.

(25:12):
You think he's like part of his part of his image. Yeah, yeah,
it's it's like a it's like a construct. It's not
real it's I don't. Yeah, you'll still be a billionaire
if you get yourself a hotel room or an Airbnb.
It's gonna be okay, Elon, come on. And I'm not
dissing Elon, you know, at all. I mean, the guy
is obviously brilliant and he's a visionary and you know

(25:33):
that's the word that's thrown around a lot. But clearly
he can see things that we can't see. But I
also think it's I think in some ways it indicates
that he's like missing social graces. I mean, because no,
no one's gonna tell Elon that can't sleep on the couch.
But like, dude, I don't know. I mean, it's nobody
really wants that either. That's a good point, they say,
like the more intelligent you are, like then you're lacking

(25:54):
in other areas like social skills or whatever. It might be.
Like maybe that's it. Maybe he doesn't understand what he's
doing is awkward, and like, how do you not let
the Einstein of our generation sleep on the couch and
use the powder room? I mean, I guess you do.
But at some point, I'm like, guys, I mean, he
would have to sign a waiver if he liked anything
was created in my house, like a brainstorm idea, the

(26:16):
next big thing. I would have to get a cut
of that. Yeah, yeah again. Let me remind you, the
same guy who doesn't own a home is going to
be sure and break you off a little something. Ex Yes,
how he stays rich and has has a lot of
friends like that. It's like an incubator. Every every house
is an incubator for room. That guy makes more money

(26:37):
than all of our houses are worth combined. He just
did just right now, just right now. He can afford it. Yeah,
they talk better than they tie. These are the radio
blogs on the Friend Show. All right. He's as if
we're writing it our our personal Moleskin diaries, except we
say them aloud. Six fifty and a fifty. We call

(26:57):
them blogs. Kalen's got one go, dear blog. So I
gotta give a quick thank you to my stand in
dad and my stand in husband and a man named
Michael for helping me out the other day. So I
was having some car trouble and basically my car died.
But I had to call Rufio and Jason before I
called Triple A because I don't know, I just like

(27:19):
I need them in emergencies. And I was like, you guys,
what do I do? And I was confused because I
turned my car on. It had been sitting for a while,
so it kind of makes sense now. But he turned
my car on and it drove to my apartment. It
was parked it here at work, and so I got
to my apartment just fine, and I went to grab
my bags because I was going back to Michigan. And
then when I came back down, my car was like

(27:41):
shaking and giving all these like error messages on the screen.
I was like, oh my god. I called them. I
was like, am I gonna blow up? Like what's happening?
I was so scared, and so they were both like
very helpful and giving me a lot of solutions. Luckily,
a man that I say good morning too every day
named Michael, who works the LA and my building was

(28:01):
able to jump it. But like even then, my car's
kind of confusing. So I had a FaceTime Rufio and
he had to show like where you put the jumper
cables in. It was just like your your battery in
your car's very hidden and you have to like remove
a you know, a cover to find the battery. And
it's all the way in the back. It's you have
a very difficult battery. Yeah, sorry, I do think it's

(28:22):
I think it says something that nobody ever calls me
for any of these domestic issues whatsoever. Nobody, nobody. I mean,
it's very it's very telling that nobody calls Fred to
seek and by the way, for good reason, because I'd
probably be like, I'd probably say, call Rufio. Yes you'd
figure it out. No I would not. I would try

(28:42):
to help you, but you're right, it would probably be
a lot more efficient if you call somebody else. But yeah, no,
nobody ever calls me to to help them with domestic
issues of any kind, household issues, nothing. I'm sorry, I
can call you next time, but if you're gonna just
tell me to call them, then I might have to
skip it. But yeah, and I'm so glad. I'm like
nice to that man who jumped me every morning because

(29:03):
literally I see him every morning and I'm a little
grouchy in the morning, but he's always really happy. So
we have a great conversation. And finally I'm like, Michael,
I need you, I need you for once. I should
I should give him something, but yeah, I was having
some trouble. It wasn't a great start to my road trip.
Luckily it was only the battery. But yeah, my sand
and dad, my sand and husband helped me. I do

(29:23):
think that's it says a lot about our show. Like
I agree, if I needed some form of help with
mechanical or if I had a question about like a
house project or something, I would call Rufio if I
need If I need like social guidance or what should
I say to a woman, or what should I wear,
I'd probably call Kalin if I if I need like

(29:47):
tickets to something or some former home stuff and car stuff.
Jason does a liar, Jason does life. But let me
say something else. There's something else does And you guys
may not like this. I don't mean this to be
offensive to anyone. But if I need like a if
I need like an objective, really mature opinion about something,

(30:09):
believe it or not. Jason's the guy that I call too,
and not to say very mature, but he's also like
in management and he kind of has seen the business
from a different angle than we have, and like sometimes
I call he's a he's a sounding board for me
when it comes to things that frustrate me kind of
like at a business level, because I'll call him and say,
what do you think because because as the owner of

(30:29):
Kiss FM and the promotions director, I mean, you've done
so many things at the radio station like that. I
think sometimes when I talk to you about stuff, you
can work out with me how someone might be thinking
from another angle. Um, if I need a plug. But
if I need the plug plug, then I call Paulina.
And if I need moral support me Kaylin, I call Kaylin.

(30:52):
Oh what what kind of moral support? Just like you're
very You're very nurturing. Yeah, I know you're very nurturing.
You're a great listener, thank you. So yeah, yeah, but
what are my plug drawing for? Here? What? I don't know.
If I need some kind of sneaky link, I call you.
I don't know, you do I arrange your sneaky links? Oh?

(31:16):
Like you need something that we can't talk about on
the radio. No, no, no, I don't. I don't think
I need very much that you can't talk about on
the radio. I mean, like I think I talk about
it all. Yeah, I think I'm like a good plug.
If like you need like all I'm looking like I
don't know the tack woman for my party, or oh
I need like a spot for this, like you know paints,
Like I don't know Chicago guys. I am Chicago art.

(31:39):
But that's what I said. I said, here's a I go.
I go, You're a plug. You go what I mean?
I'm a good plug. That's what I just said. I
thought you meant like a concert ticket plug. I was like,
that didn't that doesn't resonate. But I got she's the
PLUGNA can't get in if it has complaints that he
goes adjacent to. Yeah, yeah, fix this, okay. But now

(32:09):
now I want to know what any of you would
come to me for I have. I have many times
when I need help, like writing a speech, or like
if I do some public speaking, I pretty much call
you for that because you've helped me write speeches that
I've literally been on the news for, Like you know
what I mean, Like when I when the mayor election
was happening, Um, I wasn't supposed to but I did it.

(32:30):
And then I remember I called you. I was freaking
out in the bathroom. I was like, I gotta do
a speech. They just told me this. Can you help me?
Do you remember that day. Yeah, I do remember that day.
See well, somehow Paulina calls me from the bathroom of
a of a mayoral victory party and it's like, hey, hey, Fred,
it's it's p I'm hosting a mayoral victory party. I'm like,

(32:55):
what I know, I'm saying, are you Yeah? So we
drafted a little something for that. See that's why Pauline
is Paulina because every now and again she'll be like, yeah,
I won this award for you know something, and I'm like,
how like? I love how did you how like? Or
I'll see that you're on some some community board with

(33:18):
like Cheryl Burton and I'm like, I love it, no
idea too, And she's just like, how on earth did
you weasel your way onto that? It's amazing? No, No,
I love plug. I would hit you up for you
are the most financially sound person on this show. I
would definitely hit you up for financial advice and also

(33:40):
if I needed to get into a restaurant, because everybody restaurants. Okay, good,
so I'm good for restaurants and speech writing. Life from
America's Greatest city see Chicago Kiss FM and i Heeart

(34:03):
radio station it's a frend show. Good Morning Tuesday for nineteenth.
The French show is at its seven h seven. Hello Killer,
kay good morning. Kaylyn's here owner Bonter, Jason Brown, Paul
in a row, Hey, roofy roof. Hello, Schoby Shelley. It's
the Shoby Shelley anniversary today. By the way, we think
it's four years of brilliance, but it could be three,

(34:25):
could be seven. We're not sure. Time goes by very
quickly around here, and then also very slowly deep. I know,
I think that's a Sara McLaughlin song, but I'll get
back to you on that. The entertainer reports coming up
in a few minutes after we use uh stay or go,
I gonna debate someone's relationship drama on just a second.
What are you working on, Kaylin? Yeah? So Johnny Depp

(34:46):
and Amber Heard. They're arguing about everything in court right now,
including where the tip of his middle finger went and
how he lost it graphic. Okay, that's coming up. Also,
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could be going to La for Wango Tango. That's in
seven thirty. Josiah caf a song is called Man you

(35:08):
Are part of the Frend Show at eight five three five.
It's welcome Greg. Hold On, I gotta take a sip
in my coffee. Hang on, hold on dunking coffee kicking in. Man,
I gotta start earlier, I think, by the way, I

(35:29):
gotta start drinking the coffee earlier because it kicks in
around now and then I'm jacked for like two hours
and then it just crashes. I need something, you know
what I mean? Like, I don't know I this is
There's some kind of like gin sing or something I
can take after that because I like the tasting. I
know the caffeine I could probably cut down, but I
enjoy the taste of it. And I'm not drinking decaffeinated
because I've looked at how they decaffeinated. It looks disgusting.

(35:51):
It's a chemical process how they decaffeinate, So I don't
I'm not doing that. But um, isn't there some again,
like uh, can I take like creatine and then go
like pump weights afterwards or something like? I don't know
how to energy all day? Yeah I get yoked, yeah yeah,
just cracking right in my mouth. Yeah. Um yeah, I'm

(36:14):
gonna I'm gonna work on getting Yaks, Greg, Hi, Greggig welcome.
Hey there, Hey man, it's there go. We do this
every Tuesday, we debate someone's relationship drama. It's kind of
like a big group therapy session that we're having now.
So why don't you explain what's going on to everybody
and then we'll tell you how to live the rest
of your life? Please heart. So I've been with my

(36:36):
girlfriend Marcy for a while now, um, and I really
like her. I mean, to be honest, I love her
and it's been pretty serious. But I've got one major
problem with her. And she she just doesn't have her
driver's license. Like she's twenty two. Okay, she told you what.

(36:57):
I'm sorry, that's fun. She told me it's because she
got into a car accident because she was younger with
her mom, and I guess it was traumatizing for her.
Nobody got hurt, but it was still bad enough for
her not to drive ever. All right, So no driver's
license and what does that mean for you? I mean,
does she hoober everywhere? Does she take public transportation? I mean,

(37:19):
it's an easy enough city to do that. You jump
on the elbow about your way, I mean, what do
you do honestly, I have to drive her around everywhere,
like it's a full time job. Like I've t caring
and loving towards her for the whole thing. But it's
been this way ever since we started dating. And no
matter what we're doing or where we're going, I know,
at the end of all of it, I have to

(37:41):
drive her back home, no matter where we are, even
if she sleeps over from the night. I stopped to
drive her back in the morning and she was about
half an hour away from me. All that time adds up. Yeah,
I don't like this. I don't don't. I don't like it.
I think if you don't have a driver's license and
you don't have a car, that's fine, But I also

(38:01):
think at twenty two plus, you also need to be
at least partially responsible for getting yourself around. How does
she get to school or work or whatever she does?
You have to drive her there too. Yeah, I don't.
I don't know. I mean, look, it's a nice yesture
when someone spends the night you're dating, you love her,
you know, to drive her home in the morning, if
you're on your way someplace, if you're going to work,

(38:22):
and maybe drop her off. That happens all the time.
People car pull I get that, but I mean she
never will take an uber. She will like note, you
always have to drive her. Yeah, she's very specific on
who drives her, even with her mom in the car.
Since the accident, she's she wants to feel safe driving
with the shrink apparently. I mean, I don't get me wrong.

(38:44):
You know, does she ship in for a gas or
does she help you pay your insurance or your car? Note?
Does she do any of that? She helps occasionally, forget
if she has money, but a lot of times I mean, like,
I don't I don't mean to sound incense of Greg.
I really don't. Um and eight five, five, nine, one
one or three five. I'd love to know, if, if,

(39:04):
what you would do in this situation. But I don't
mean to sound insensitive. I'm sorry for what she went through,
but that's not sustainable. It's not sustainable for you to
be in a relationship with this woman and get married
to her maybe or whatever. And she won't get in
the car with anybody but you. I mean, you can't
possibly be responsible for your life transportation and hers all
the time every day? No, absolutely, nah, And I feel

(39:26):
too like you know, I again, I am sorry too
for what she went through. Like I've been in accidents,
and we all know they are not fun to take
a toll on your body, to take a toll on you,
you know, mentally. Um, maybe she can like get some
help with that. It seems like she she's you know,
so struggling struggling. Maybe she can go you know, to
a therapist or like, you know, we all talk about
mental healthier like that's important. So maybe that's something she
can do. But also, not to be insensitive, but you know,

(39:47):
you're not her daddy, Like you can't be driving around
town taking her places, especially that she is grown. She
is eligible for a license, right, she's got no like
criminal history or something. She can get a license. I
feel like at this point she's taking advance inach of you.
I'm trying to bring it up to her that she
should get a license. I mean, I've never thought about
bringing it to someone to talk about it. It's a
good idea. But I really like her and I want

(40:10):
to be supportive towards her. But I anytime I bring
up the possibility of her driving, she won't budge, and
she just immediately shuts the conversation now I'm just starting
to get exhausted. Yeah, but there are other there are
other options, right, I mean again, so she doesn't want
to uber, Okay, all right, then public transportation, take the bus,
take a train. You know something I don't I don't

(40:31):
believe that it is sustainable for the length of your relationship,
however long that is, whether it's another month or the
rest of your lives that you're gonna I mean that
means you're gonna have to drive the kids everywhere, if
you have kids. And I know I'm jumping the gun here,
but I mean, you do love her, so it's possible
you got to drive her everywhere. Now you have to
drive you everywhere? Now, I don't know, I don't think so. Yeah,

(40:54):
that's a lot. Greg. Let me take some phone calls
on this and see what people have to say. But
I appreciate you calling and sharing and uh and and
have the radio one and we're gonna talk about you
behind your back now, Okay, okay, thanks Greg, Bye, Greg,
Love you. Greg. I don't know about this, Hey, Shannon, welcome,
Good morning, Hi friend, Shannon. What are we gonna do

(41:16):
about this guy? Greg? I mean, his girlfriend is twenty two.
I understand she's been through some trauma, but she will
not drive. She doesn't have a driver's license and won't
drive herself or let anybody else but him drive her anywhere.
I know. Well, so I'm going to tell him to stay.
And I think it's because I'm very empathetic because I

(41:36):
have been in a similar situation as this girl. It
wasn't as extreme, but a couple of years ago I
got into a bad accident on the highway. We know,
it's crazy Chicago drivers. I got rear exit and for
years I did not drive on the highway to my
husband had to, you know, he was always the driver,

(41:57):
and it took me though realizing and with his support too,
I had to go to therapy, get help, you know,
create driving plans to get back on the road. And
now I can say very happily that I drive on
the highway. I could drive for hours again. So I
think he needs to try and support her first and
getting some professional help to deal with her anxiety. Okay,

(42:19):
all right, so you've been through it and that's how
you deal with it. And so if she's open to that,
then maybe they hang on. If she's not open to that,
then I again I'll say one words, I don't know
how that. I don't know how you maintain that exactly. Yeah,
I mean it's you know, she definitely has trauma anxiety
that she needs to learn how to confront and deal with. UM.

(42:42):
So if she's not willing to take those steps, then yeah,
he should go, but he should try to support her
because obviously, you know, getting help is always the hardest
part of anything that you need. How about I got idea?
How about a bicycle? How about that? Absolutely not? Okay,

(43:02):
all right, never mind a bad idea. I'm not gonna happen.
I thank you, have a good day. Let's see here,
let's see I mean, Brittany, Hi, Brittany, how are you? Hi? Good?
How are you? Britty Gray? Thank you so much for listening,
for calling. What do you do about the lady who
won't drive herself anywhere? UM? I don't think it's worth

(43:24):
totally going yet, but I do think it's worth a
serious conversation. I have been in a very similar situation
recently with one of my best girlfriends. She's thirty one,
refuses to get a driver's lights and still and yeah, yeah,
and it's it's the same thing. It's it's the thought

(43:46):
of if we just go out for drinks or something,
I'm driving to pick her up, I'm driving her home.
Where it should just be a couple hours hangout, it
turns into a whole day occasion. So I mean, he
really needs to think about that. That is there something
he wants to do long term? Um, I definitely think

(44:09):
they need to have a conversation. And if you're being honest,
at some point you begin to kind of resent that,
right like you and you don't You probably don't hang
out with her as much because you realize it's gonna
be a whole thing, oh for sure. Um yeah, I mean,
and she's definitely noticed, you know, there's been distance and that,

(44:29):
and I'm like, well, you know, I do have a
one year old. Now, I'm you know, kind of tied
down to my house where my hangouts are limited time.
So being the transportation all the time, it takes a
lot out of you. By the end of the hangout,
it's like you're exhausted. Well, yeah, here's I got a
solution for you. Brittany. The one year old needs to

(44:50):
step up and get his or her driver's license. That's
that's how she could drive everybody around, no problem. Look,
I when I was sixteen, my parents bought me a car,
and it was it was extremely generous of them. As
you know, I came you know, my parents gave me
a lot of crap growing up. Um, I came from privilege,
I'll admit it. But my parents were not stupid in

(45:14):
doing this. Okay, they bought me a car, but I
instantly became their errand guy, my sister's guy. I had
to drive her to school, I had to pick her
up from dance, I had to take her to her friend.
My parents are not dumb. Okay, So this is what
we need to do. We need to teach kids younger
how to drive so they can be our designated drivers
at a younger age. This I'm gonna run up. I'm

(45:35):
gonna run from mayor in Chicago on this platform right now, cheap, responsibly. Okay.
Number one, always give it up to member the military
who wants it because God bless them. And then number three,
younger drivers, younger drivers, I'm gonna I'm gonna start. I'm
gonna stop driving. If you got younger kids on the road,
I'm gonna start driving myself. I think ober is too

(45:58):
expensive I think I think it should be ten years
old driving or older now, and I think that this
is I'm gonna win. Lookah, kid right there. I hear
the kid says, supposed whatever, Brittany, I'll see you at
the polls. I'll have a good day. That's it's my platform. Okay,

(46:21):
if you mom and dad have had too much to drink,
ten years or older can come and pick me up
from the bar. That won't be traumatizing or anything. Uh, Jennifer,
good morning, Hey Jennifer. So just to recap here if
you're just tune again. Greg In Sarego is concerned because
his girlfriend, she's twenty two, doesn't have a driver's license.

(46:42):
Obviously he isn't driving anywhere, says it's because of some
trauma that she's been through, but he has to drive
her everywhere everywhere. She refuses to do anything else but
be driven around by him. What would you do? So
my thought is, perhaps, if he truly does love her,
which it sounds like he does, why not ask her

(47:02):
to move in with you. That would cut down on
some of that driving around. And not that it's an ultimatum,
but maybe have the contingency that she starts seeing a
psychiatrist or a therapist and start making those steps towards
maybe getting her license or using public transportation. Yeah, I
definitely think that a conversation of some kind should take

(47:25):
place before he just bails. But if she's completely unwilling
and there's no end in sight, I don't know how
you do that. Yeah, I don't think that's sustainable. Honestly,
I want to know what she was doing before they
were dating them, who was driving her around them? I mean,
I guess she had another boyfriend. I don't know. Everybody

(47:46):
knows that. Yeah, I guess so bumbles for getting people
to drive you around. Everybody knows that. Thank you, Jennifer,
have a good day. Thank you you as well. Yeah,
I mean, wow, driving somebody on everywhere? Hey Trish, Hey,
hey morning, thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. What would
you do? So? I think I agree. I don't think

(48:10):
it's sustainable at all. I personally have been through two
car accidents that I have PTSD from that I had
to work through and I had to have surgery from
them and things like that, so I can totally relate
on that in But I think for her to not
even try to work too, that's really selfish of her
like she clearly doesn't care as much about him. And
I think if he looks past us and says, you know,

(48:31):
we'll work through it. Can you imagine they got married
and had kids and he's responsible for driving them everywhere
and his life, no matter what, he will have no
other life. That's he's just going to be a taxi
driver forever. Yeah, I think you're right, Tris. Thank you
have a good day. You guys, do you love you well?
Love you too? Let me ask you guys this um

(48:52):
because Tris makes a good point. So if you meet
somebody and you have some trauma, you have some some
some ling ring issues that you're holding onto that affect
the other person in the relationship. So in this case,
it's it's that she won't drive anywhere because of trauma
that she has from an accident. And this is just
one example. There are lots of examples of ways in

(49:13):
which something that you bring into the relationship that you
don't choose to face can affect the other person. At
what point do you sort of begin to resent or
blame somebody or begin to wonder how much they really
like you or love you or care about you, if
they won't confront an issue that affects your quality of

(49:33):
life as well, you know what I mean? Like this
dude cannot drive her around for the rest of her life,
and yet it seems like she doesn't really see that,
or care or take any steps towards changing it. So
at what point do you look at yourself and go,
maybe this person isn't as invested as I am. Ah,
that's hard. I would I would need to feel. I
have a lot of patients for stuff like that because

(49:54):
I can relate, not in this specific case, but I
would have to feel like they were at least trying. Um. Yes,
she would get better, and I don't know that she is.
I mean it sounds like she wasn't. But I would
just need to see some sort of um work being done.
Other than that, I would probably you know, be able
to commit. Still, Yeah, I think that's what I mean.
I mean, there's are much more serious issues that people

(50:15):
bring into relationships than that with being willing to drive.
But I mean, if I really love someone, my patients
would eventually wear thin, right, because like I got I
got stuff to do. I have responsibilities in life as well,
Like this can't be something that I do for you forever.
And if you don't do anything to change it, then
how how much do you care about me? Do you?
Are you even being the least bit considerate about how

(50:37):
this affects me? Francisco? Hey, Hey, how I gets doing?
Hey Francisco, what do you think we're here? You know? So? Um,
so I had. It's not a similar situation. But my wife,
my wife, um she didn't go to anything traumatic, but
she didn't drive her fifteen years, okay, the first fifteen

(51:04):
years we were together, and it almost seemed like she
was just she was scared to do it, you know,
I mean, it was just something hard for her to
take on. And I did all the driving, you know,
every morning, take her to work, pick her up, we had,
we had our daughter, took took her to grandma's house,
took took her to word, took took them wherever they

(51:26):
needed to go. Was I resentful at first? Yes? I was,
you know, because it's like anybody could do it. You
just have to try. You just have to try, you know. Okay,
all right, But day the day that the day that
she was ready, the day that she was ready, she
was scared. She was scared to death to take the test.
My sister took her. She passed with flying colors. Within

(51:48):
a few months, she had a match her card than
I did. Okay, well, I mean Francisco, and thank you
by the way for calling I. Fifteen years is a
long time to wait. Uh, you just not knowing you
know what I mean? I don't know. It sounded like
there's more to that story than he was well aware
of that. We don't know. Hey, Laurie, Hi, Fred, how
are you hi? Welcome, good morning. So yeah, just to

(52:10):
just to set it up here in cases you're just
tuning in. Is a woman who is dating homeboy here
and stay, here, go, and she is twenty two and
won't get a driver's license. Says it's because of trauma.
But he has to take her everywhere. It's not even
like some places. It's not even like the stuff that's
on the way. It's not even like an occasional I
love you and care about you, and I just hooked
up with you, so at least I can do is

(52:30):
drive you home. No, it's everywhere. No train, no plane,
no automobile, nothing else. Greg needs to get in his car,
put that sucker reverse and get the hell out of
this Tai because the scene that struck me Fred when
when he was telling his story is He's tried to
talk to her about this and how tired he is,

(52:53):
and she won't even listen to him. She's not an
equal partner. She's immature. She's manipulating him to state make
him be dependent or make her be dependent on him.
I don't see any kind of maturity in this relationship
if she won't even listen to how he feels. That
to me is I mean, it's not so much her behavior,
which I think is pretty bad, but it's the fact

(53:14):
that she won't listen to him, and she doesn't she
just considers him her Like is she gonna like be
the you know, the queen of the may the entire relationship?
Like what else is she going to demand? Going out?
And then I loved your point about like the kids,
like if you play it for her, if he loves her,
if he ends up in a you know, commitment with her,
that's what he's signing up for. My way, we're not

(53:37):
going to talk about it and do what I say. Yeah,
I mean it could be digative of of how other
problems are going to be solved in the relationship. Which
is basically, I don't want to do it, so you
do it. Yeah. And I just say, yeah, I mean
it could beative of of how other problems are going
to be solved in the relationship, which is basically, I
don't want to do it, so you do it. Yeah.

(53:58):
And I just think she's he mentioned her mom a
couple of times. I think she's she's got to grow
up some, you know. And I'm not like discounting any
anxiety she has for Tom. I don't mean to do that,
but dude, my daughter is twenty seven. She doesn't have
her license. She lives in New York City. She takes
public transportation everywhere she gets. She gets herself an uber
she can't. She does have a boyfriend if he does

(54:20):
a drive her everywhere. She didn't care of her own
stuff because she's an adult woman. Yeah, yeah, Laurie, thank
you so much for calling. Have a good day. Okay,
thanks fice. What about Okay, I got, I got. What
if they move and they're near the lake, and then
she gets a job near the lake and they use
a boat. She doesn't seem to have any problem with
a boat. Perfect That seems to be the one means

(54:43):
of transportation that she doesn't have an issue with. So
just a nice boat, you know. I mean, what do
you guys think about that? Until the water to get
choppy one day, then she don't want to drive the
boat anymore? Friend, then what ice skates? Ice skates? Use
your terry styles up. The latest entertainment news is on

(55:12):
the Fred Show. Both a doctor and a nurse recalled
the hunt for Johnny Depp's severed fingertip as the legal
battle continued yesterday. In his fifty million dollar defamation trial
against Amber, heard, this is just there is so much
to unpack here, So I guess this incident all happened
in March of twenty fifteen, while Johnny was in Australia
filming The Fifth Pirates of the Caribbean. Johnny said that

(55:35):
Amber threw a bottle at him, severing the top of
his middle finger. Amber fired back, saying he probably cut
his finger when he smashed a phone, and her lawyers
pointed to texts where he admitted to cutting it himself.
David Kipper, a doctor who makes house calls, testified that
he was called to clean the wound before taking Johnny
to the emergency room. Also said that he directed the

(55:57):
staff to search the house for the missing finger to
there's photos. It's very graphic. I guess the chef found
the tip of the finger in the kitchen with a
bunch of blood and broken glass. Amber says Johnny beat
her during this fight and the assault left multiple marks
on her body. While the doctor said Amber was there,
she seemed upset, but didn't notice that she had any
injuries because she didn't ask for any medical attention. Johnny

(56:20):
has accused excuse me An Amber of defeaming him in
a twenty eighteen Washington Post column where she wrote about
the backlash she received after claiming she was physically abused
ever used him by name No. She has countersued for
one hundred million, alleging Johnny's attorney to famed her by
accusing her of fabricating abuse claims. The trial is being
held in Fairfax and Johnny will take the stand today

(56:43):
with cross examination coming tomorrow. He did end up getting
surgery on that finger, if you were worried about it.
By the way he found the finger, I could have
done without the pictures this morning. I know, like WHOA.
I needed a trigger warning like him at the hospital
and then the actual hand o God, but I just
this just breaks my heart because at one time they

(57:03):
were in love and then they're going through such a
you know, ugly, ugly battle. But we'll see what happens
today in tomorrow, I guess. So. This year's Super Bowl
halftime show, of course, had Dre Snoop, Mary J. Blige, Eminem, Kendrick,
and surprise fifty cent. According to rapper n o R,
though fifty wasn't supposed to be in the mix. He
said that Jay Z, who was responsible for choosing all

(57:25):
the artists, was given an ultimatum to include fifty by
bestie Eminem. So he was talking about it was Snoop
on the podcast Drink Champs when he said Jay was
talking about the people who may not understand the choice,
and he said the white guy called for fifty cent.
Eminem called directly for fifty and he said, I can't
do it if I can bring fifty with me, which,

(57:46):
if that's true, what a great bustie. Yeah, I mean
I need a friend like him, like Marshall. Word got
back to fifty though, and he wasn't happy that this
conversation was happening. He took a lot of shots of
j on social use and works that I don't even
want to repeat. Also said, why did he say white boy?
Why didn't he just say the biggest rap artist in
the world, Happy easterman, enjoy the holidays. So I don't

(58:09):
know if that's a true story. At least, that was
really nice of him to be literally be willing to
pull out if his friend couldn't hang upside down like
a chicken nugget. You know you. I hope you guys
ride like that for me, right, you know? Right? Yeah?
Would you pull out Fred if I, you know, if
I couldn't be included in something? Well? Wait, how much

(58:30):
am I getting paid? Stop it? I don't know? I ya, No,
I mean yeah, guess I would. I don't save you.
Your voice is getting high. Yes, I would like next year,
let me tell you something, or this year at the
iHeartRadio Music Festival, when they let me go on the
stage and tell everyone to turn their cell phones out
before the national broadcast begins. If they will let you

(58:51):
up there with me, then I ain't doing it. How
about that? Oh wow, that's big of you. I really
appreciate that. Like, who do you want there with you?
We don't know her because That's what you get to
do when you have the number one morning show in Chicago,
as you get to go up there and tell everybody
to turn their cell phones off, and then they and
then see Chris goes off. How about the pre game?

(59:12):
Before the pre game? How about if they invite you
to iHeart Festival this year, to be like, hey, I
want to bring my whole team with me. I'm not going.
Guess what. I tried that they go, then you ain't going.
We'll try again. Just kidding. Speaking of Kendrick after Bill Win,
that's what I'm saying, Hey man, I got paid his

(59:34):
bills somehow. You know what I'm saying real quickly. I mean, see,
Kris needs a fluffer, So what can I say? Who
out of pockets? Sir? I'm making fun of myself. I'm
dying no fluffer. It's seven thirty seven in the morning.
I haven't heard that word. Speaking of Kendrick, after five years,

(59:58):
he's finally dropping a new album called Mister Morale and
the Big Steppers. Dam was his last full album from
twenty seventeen, so it's been a minute. That album will
be out May thirteenth, by the way, which I'm very
excited for We're took it online, Camila Cabeo on carpool
Karaoke and then Meghan the Stallion dropping a song about
an X. I hope we're getting some tea. It's on
French show radio dot com. Um Sean Mendez in Chicago

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If you're calling number twenty five eight, five, five, five
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(01:00:43):
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So we're paying for that too. You signed up for
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I have excellent news for you. I cannot wait to hear.
Sean Mendez is doing sit up somewhere right now, preparing
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(01:01:29):
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a trip for two to the iHeartRadio Whango Tango in
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Thank you, you gotta thanks for listening. What are you

(01:01:50):
doing this morning? It sounds like you're driving, So that's nice.
That's a first step. You drive yourself around. We love that. No,
definitely drive myself round. Yes, I am on my waywork,
all right? What do you do it? Waited for a
living fail? Okay? Oh all right, Well then we're gonna
make something up. You sell. We're gonna make something up
you sell lawnmowers? Sure, ye, all day? Okay, Wow, she's

(01:02:15):
not gonna tell us hang out? What second? Rebecca? Thank
you so much for listening, and good luck with those lawnmowers. Okay,
hopefully on the riding kind. I like riding gud personally,
but anyway, yeah, absolutely she saw the Shell's riding lawnmowers. Um, guys,
I did you not believe that we as a show?
And I kind of took credit yesterday myself, but really

(01:02:35):
it wasn't even my idea. I think it was. It
was even the Ruffi or kalin Um. But I believe
that we as a show should be taking credit for
the fact that it has been officially announced the Taco
Bell is bringing back the Mexican pizza. There've been rumors
about this limited time only whatever no permanently returning to
the Taco Bell menu on May nineteenth. I believe though,

(01:02:58):
that it was not. In fact, was I your cat
taking credit for? Is that what I saw? No? No, no,
it's little Nasax and I discussed this backstage at jingle Ball,
and I believe that we are responsible and you guys
as well, And I think that we should be getting
Mexican pizzas for free for life as a result of it,
and people are not. The world must know who's truly.

(01:03:21):
I don't like to take credit for a lot of things,
but I'm taking credit for this. Yeah. I was thinking
about that because I feel like I've never heard Thoza
Cat talk about it until you talked about it with
Little nas X in December. Am I right? Like think
of the timeline, it's exactly right. And I'll have you
know that what is it? Youm Brands, which owns Taco

(01:03:42):
Bell stores. Sales jumped when they brought it back for
a limited time, So maybe we should be getting a
little piece of action too, a little piece of the
Mexican pie action. I mean, I think we need to
look into this further. I think we all need to
jump on the plane and run out to wherever you
Brands is where they Louisville, Kentucky and that Belue so yep, Bluisville. No,

(01:04:06):
but I don't know whose idea was four ninety four
forty nine. By the way, for a Mexican pizza. That
sounds kind of expensive, don't. That's what it is right now? Yeah,
when they bring it back, they'll throw into a five
dollars box though, you know, five dollars box with a
burrito and some uh cinnamon sticks and whatever they call
those things, and uh and like a taco for five

(01:04:28):
dollars with a mountain dew on the side. You can't
beat that price. Talk about a talk about a toxic
a barrio cinnamon twisty things and a mountain dew on
top of the down with a green dream for that
on top of everything. Yeah, I'm ready, I'm ready. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Okay,

(01:04:50):
that's guy's called the Rufio Live not long deal isn't
isn't there slogan live Moss should live Minno after you've
got Shoby Shelley showed out after Loto. If you want
to play called now three hundred bucks four game win
stream Friend shows on It's the Friend Show one Kiss Him?

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Do you have what it takes? The Battle Showbis Shelley
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off the air. There's a rumor that I'm playing this game.
I wanted it to be Rufio, but there's a rumor
that they want me to do it. Me would be

(01:05:36):
Showbis Shelley, while Showbi Shelley is out from eternity. Leave
stop it. Really, I mean, I'd pay attention and I
read this stuff, but I don't have the brain that
Rufio does, and I'm certainly not Showbis Shelley. I mean,
I feel like the record is gonna be opposite whatever
it would be if you were there, Like if you
would have been I don't know, thirty and thirty and

(01:05:56):
thirty and one while you were gone, It's gonna be
one and thirty with me doing it. People gonna win
a lot of money. We're gonna have no budget. I
was gonna say, so Eli, everybody wins money. Yeah. Yeah,
it's gonna be worse than definitely gonna be Paul. It's
gonna be like just calling you have a hundred dollars.
It's gonna be like one of those money machines where
you just grab it and people take. Honestly, that's the

(01:06:18):
name of the new segment, calling it money Now. Raioven
forty five embarrassed the radio host call now, yeah, that's me.
Let's play the game live in Pioton. We got Heather. Hi, Heather,
how are you? I'm good? How are you great? Tell
us all about you please. I am from Pioton, which

(01:06:41):
is in southern Illinois. UM. I have a daughter that
is going to be graduating high school. She will be
eighteen in a couple of weeks McKenzie and then I
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and I'm a philopotomist. Oh wow, okay, h M. McKenzie
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(01:07:04):
shout out to them and shout out to poking people.
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(01:07:26):
people don't. Um. Let's play the game, though, girl. It's
three hundred bucks, five ninety five and forty is the
score all time, So we're gonna get the six hundred
wins here pretty soon. Four straight wins for Shelley. Guys,
you ready, all right? Radley, good luck? Thank you? All right, Shelley,
with all the respect, if you would get the hell out.

(01:07:47):
Question number one for Pietone Heather, who hosted and performed
on s N l Over the weekend. Oh three, she
plays a flute. One. We got four questions left? We

(01:08:08):
got this no no, no no, no no no, we got
this re roping now it's fine. Four questions left. Chrissy
Metz told Mario Lopez she's happy and in love with
someone she met on Bumble. Chrissie plays Kate Pearson on
this NBC show Listen Up, which rap couple announced their
seven month old son is named Wave. Oh gosh three one?

(01:08:43):
Which country music icon did Harry Styles bring out during
his sets at weekend one of Coachella? Which country music
icon did Harry Styles bring out during his set at
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(01:09:11):
and stuntman known for playing it Shanghi in the Marvel
movie shang Chi and the Legend of the Town Rings
has a birthday today. Name him. I have never seen
any of those. Yeah, I haven't either. I haven't either.
We defer to Rufio on that. But that's it too.
You got arch, you know, not great, but not like

(01:09:31):
totally embarrassing, So that's good. Horrible? I am well bringing
Shelley back to is this quarter beat? All right? Oh?
Oh okay? You know Damn, I'm gonna say a five today?
You got a five today? Who hosted and performed on
s n L Over the Weekend? Lizzo? Did you guys

(01:09:54):
watch it good? Like? The Zack Eyed Peacekit? Got? Christy
Match told Mario Lopez she's happy and in love with
someone she met on bumble Chrissie places Kate Pearson on
this NBC show This is Us? Which I think the

(01:10:15):
final Ones tonight? Real Series Finale? Oh wow? Maybe sit
there and cry for an hour? Which rap couple announced
their seven month old son's name is Wave Offset Yeah correct?
Which country music icon did Harry Styles bring out during

(01:10:37):
his set at Weekend one of Coachella. Twain This, a
stuntman known for playing shang Chi in the Marvel movie
shang Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings, has
a birthday today? Name him? Oh I don't know? Oh,
come on, ye believe you? Av? I mean who else

(01:11:08):
you know? But I has to win for you? Win
number five ninety six five, game win streak three fifty tomorrow. Um,
Pieton Heather, my girl, you have to say it. My
name is Piaton Heather. I got shot up on the Showdown.
My name is piaton Heather, I got shot up on
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(01:11:35):
hang with like real lof Nope, you didn't, you did
not come on. Man, that was a lot of exertion

(01:11:57):
for me this early. That was a lot. Uh. Thank
you so much for listening and for playing hang on
one seconds there right there. Thank you all right, good
Shelby Shelley Show ten to noon on one or three
point five FM. Mega hurts for that ass. What's coming
up today? Shells? So coming up on the program? Weekday
weddings are now a thing. I will tell you no,

(01:12:20):
no no, no, no no no no, don't don't be mad.
Fine maybe I won't do it. Um. And then also
you can win a free Rec's peanut butter cups for why.
I know somewhere on this when I was first pregnant. Yeah,

(01:12:41):
that's what I want to know. I don't know. Yeah,
at hey, look I understand Friday weddings sometimes you got
to save money. Sunday weddings, I've you know, for religious
reasons and same things saving money. I know. The COVID
thing is throwing everybody off, and you got to get
in where you fit in. I get in. Please, please,
please do not have a Tuesday wedding. I am not
going a Tuesday wedding. No, no, no, no Tuesday. Yeah no, Pauline.

(01:13:07):
If you have a Tuesday wedding, I will send my regards.
I will send them to you Tuesday. It is. I'm
just kidding. Yeah, if you have a Tuesday wedding, you
can expect that, like no one's gonna show up. So
you could invite everybody. And that's one nice thing is
you could send out like a thousand invitations. Everyone's gonna

(01:13:27):
feel like they got invited, and yeah, you're still gonna
have the same number of people there as if you say, yeah,
it's a Tuesday wedding. Can I be honest though, Like
I have sata that I want to do a Friday
wedding and you guys hate it, but I want to
do that. Like it just sucks that like we worked
in the morning and then like a lot of people
work till five and then they got to get to
a wedding right after. Take the day off. Yeah, we'll

(01:13:49):
take that Friday off. Yeah, that's what you're doing. Yeah, yeah, well,
if it's Pauline's wedding, I'll take the day off. But
like I've had to go, I've had to travel for
a Friday wedding. You know, when you're running around, like
on the plane landing, running getting them change, going to
some church. I'm like, what are we doing? Can't we
do this tomorrow on a Tuesday wedding? I think it's

(01:14:09):
pretty lute. Nope, Nope, I think that's a terrible idea. No,
I'm not doing it. I'll send you a gift to
Night's card. I'll say, I hope you have a great
Tuesday wedding. My asses in bed, That's what I would say.
Um soby Shelley Show ten to noon, Let's come back
and do good news stories. Waiting by the phone. I've
got a trip to Vegas and a thousand bucks off.

(01:14:30):
Friend up Life from America's Greatest city, Chicago, Kim and
I heart radio station. It's a frend show. Good Morning,
everybody chipped to Vegas. Got that in about twenty minutes.
Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody get ghosted? Desk

(01:14:50):
coming up as well, The Fun Fact, Everyone's favorite segment
in the world and the Entertainer Reports coming up. Two,
What's in there? Kalin Awesome Justice happened for the late
Mac Miller. I'll tell you what went down yesterday. I
got about two fun facts in one. By the way,
Oh yeah, yeah, naughty, yeah, I know, that's exactly The

(01:15:10):
word that can Toby for the French Show is one
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United Auto Insurance seven seven three two o two five
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car insurance, good news, happy stories every day on the
show to give you faith in the world. Calin what'd

(01:15:32):
you find? Yeah? So. In a now viral TikTok, Joe
Irwin said he used to bully a classmate named Dylan.
He would take his pizza when they were in first
grade together. He would trick Dylan into looking the opposite direction,
and once he turned his head, he would grab his
pizza and put it on his own plate. When Dylan
said he didn't like it, when he stole his lunch,
he would say, oh, I'm sorry, man, I'm just hungry,

(01:15:52):
that's all. But he never gave him his food back,
and Dylan never got to eat lunch. So Joe asked
TikTok if any of them knew Dylan who went to
jenks West Elementary in Oklahoma, would now be in his
mid twenties. The video was viewed more than nine point
four million times since it was posted, and in a
follow up, Joe says he did track down Dylan Rufi
I know you were dying to go down to this

(01:16:13):
on Facebook after finding his last name in a friend's
old yearbook. When he messaged him, he shared in a
new video he sent him to TikTok. He said he
wanted to make amends, and Dylton told him, this is amazing.
Of course I remember you and I've seen your fantasy.
Oh line TikTok's I remember this happening, but I actually
had no clue it was you. And next time I'm
in Tulsa, pizzas on you man. So he was a

(01:16:35):
good sport about it. Joe says that they now made
plans and he's gonna drive four hours to meet up
with Dylan in Kansas in May and hopefully he'll buy
him some Pizza's nice. Yeah, TikTok was awesome, funny. I'm
gonna have to go watch that. Somehow I missed that one.
I don't know, maybe I was watching the guy talking
about his pen collection instead. Right, it wasn't gynecology, so

(01:16:55):
you missed it. Yeah, it has to do so much lately.
I used to be on the guy ecology TikTok. Now
I'm on the water smogner TikTok. And Martin your personal
water salmonnyer smart water is nothing but holly process TAPWATERA yeah,
he really doesn't like holly processed municipal tapwater. I don't know.

(01:17:18):
I see this guy every day. So the older brother.
The very sweet story of the of a twenty thirteen
Boston Marathon bombing victim, pumped his fists in an emotional
display of triumph on Monday after completing the race to
pay homage to his fallen sibling. It's already been ten
years or nine years, I guess so. Henry Richard was
just ten years old in twenty thirteen when two terrorists

(01:17:39):
detonated bombs at the finish line of the Boston race,
killing his brother Martin Richard. His younger sister, Jane, lost
a leg in that terror attack as well, and so
now Richard, who's twenty years old, embraced Jane and his
parents after completing the grueling twenty six point two mile
race after a final pushdown Boylston Street. He said that

(01:18:00):
his family and friends, so many people were out there
for me, all my friends. Motivation was the least of
my worries. There were so many people there to support me.
It was wonderful and I couldn't believe it. He wrote
the names of his siblings on his arms and shoulders,
and then paused briefly at immemorial in their honor along
the race route with an incredible way. I know that was.

(01:18:21):
That was a shocking day, of course, very tragic, but
for him to be able to honor his sibling like
that pretty incredible. Waiting by the phone, why did somebody
get goes to cumnuts? Who I after? Imagine dragons on
the Fred Show? Why were you left waiting by the phone? Kim,
Good morning, welcome to the program. Good morning, Thank you

(01:18:41):
so much for talking to me. It's waiting by the
phone and we're trying to figure out what's going on
with this guy, Jake. So why don't you explain, give
us all the pertinent information, all the backstories, so we
can maybe call this guy. And we'll definitely call this
guy and see if we could figure out what's going on. Yeah,
totally so we met this night when I was like
out drinking at this bachelorette party kind of, I guess. Well,

(01:19:03):
so I was like at the bachelorette party and there
also was a bachelor party in the same bar, okay,
and I wasn't really talking to these guys, but some
of other girls in our bachelotte party were talking to them,
and I was like the single one out of course
or whatever. But so some of the married girls they

(01:19:25):
were like they were talking to the guys. And it
turns out there was like a single guy in the
guy crew, and I'm like, oh, single single guy, single girl.
Of course, you guys are meant to be, right, yeah,
something like that. It said. It was not like so
fast like that. Um, I didn't actually talk to him
at the bar that night when we lift. It turns

(01:19:47):
out one of the girls, one of the other girls,
who was Mary, got one of the guys numbers like
all sketchy but like what Ela, and she was texting
with him and she said that like his friend was
talk to me because he saw me across the bar
and thought I was cute, and I was like, oh, okay, cool,
So he texted me and we we texted her a

(01:20:09):
bit and then we agreed to meet up. So we
went out and when we was well, like, it was
pretty fun, he was cool, and we ended up guy
thinking kind of uzz and I we hooked up, and
I just I have not heard back from him, so
I just do not know what is up. So I
was listening. You can help me. Yeah, So this is

(01:20:30):
this sort of long way of happening. Is you got
these two groups of people, men and women, and the
married guys are working in your on your behalf, and
so you wind up out with this dude, and it
sounds like it went really well. So I don't know,
I mean, if it was like a great date in
a hook up and everything. I'm always wondering why why
would someone not call you after they spent the whole
night with you and hooked up. But yeah, we've heard

(01:20:51):
some strange things. So let's see if we can figure
out what's going on. We'll call this guy who you
met at the bachelorte party, Jake, and hopefully we can
strikeen this out. Yeah, hopefully we can straighten this out
for you and set you guys up on another date
that we pay for. Okay, well, thank you. I'm a little,
but I'm gonna play one song. We'll call this guy next.
Hang on, he's got in here. What happened in the

(01:21:13):
next part two of Waiting by the phone after Joshi
Kat Then on trip to Vegas, The Entertamber Report, fun
Facts All coming up, Fred Show commercial free for the
next time half hour on one O three five Trip
to Vegas ten minutes away on the French show one
h three five Kiss FM, Chicago number one hit music station.
Hey Kim, Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's call Jake.

(01:21:35):
He's kind of a long how about His story is
how you guys met? But when you write a bachelor
at party, a bunch of guys with a bachelor party
at the same place all the marriage got together and
decided that because you're single on some guy in the
bachelor party was single, that you two should go out,
right Yeah, and he had like seen me and he's
out of his cute so right, Well, okay, so you
guys go out and have a great time hook up,

(01:21:56):
and now he's ghosting and you want to know what's up. Yeah,
I just don't know. I mean, we had a good time,
we're just having fun, but I just don't know what
happened a lot of fun. It sounds like, let's call
him right now? Good, yeah, Hell, Hi is this Jake? Yes, hey,

(01:22:19):
j Good morning Fred from the Fred Show. The whole
crew is here one or three five kissam in Chicago,
And I'm trying to bother you, but I do have
to tell you that we are on the radio right
now and I need your permission to continue with the call.
Can we chat for a couple of minutes on the show? Yeah? Sure,
what's this around? Well, thank you very much. We're calling
on behalf of a woman who I guess you went
on a date with her. Your friends sets you up

(01:22:41):
through a batchelotte party. Her name is Kim. Oh wow, yeah, yeah, okay, Well,
as you might imagine, Kim, you know, you guys went out,
she said, and she thought you guys had a great time.
Says that you guys hooked up, and she's kind of
wondering why she hasn't heard from you. Yeah, I mean you.
I assume you guys have like the story of how

(01:23:01):
we met right right the bachelor You were on the
bachelor party. She was at the bachelorette party, and the
married married people I call him married. They decided that
you two because your singles should go out. That's always
how it is, you know, because I'm always the single one.
It's like, well, you're single and she's single, so obviously
I should be together. So that's what happened, right, Yeah, Yeah,
I mean, I'm I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm
not really sure if you want me to be that

(01:23:24):
honest with you. I know that sounds weird. You're gonna
be honest that you're not sure if you should be honest. No,
I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna be honest that I
want you to be honest. I want you to tell
us what's going on so we can tell her. I
honestly do Okay, sure, I mean, i'll tell you again.
I was literally at that party because I think we're
having a good time and something yet but I didn't.
I didn't know who she was. I didn't really see her.

(01:23:46):
I didn't pick her out of the crowd, nothing like that.
So it's basically just a blind date kind of a
thing that one of my buddies was like, yeah, she's cute,
like you should go out with her, and so I
said yes. So like when we went on, when we
went on the actual date, Like I didn't know which
looked like I had to find like I had to
text her to see exactly where she worked because I
didn't know who she was or a funch people in
the bar, and I had to like find exactly her.

(01:24:07):
So you honestly like she was under the impression that
that you had seen her in the room at the
party and that you wanted to go out with her
based on what you saw. But you're saying that you
all of this was on somebody else said you should
go out with her. You never saw her. You literally
walked into the restaurant to go on this date and
did not know who you were going on a date
with exactly. I had no idea who it was, could

(01:24:29):
not pick her out of a crowd at all. Okay, Well,
it doesn't sound like that worked out too poorly for you,
because once you did figure out who you were going
on a date with, you hooked up, she said, and
the rest of it. So what's the problem, Um, Well,
like I had, I mean, I basically I saw her
and I was like, well okay, sure, I mean like okay, sure,

(01:24:52):
like well while we're here kind of thing. So you're
not indo her. You were never indo her. Yeah, not really.
I mean, but you were into hook up with there,
So what's that about? Much she wanted it, and you
know why not she wanted it? By the way, chemis here.
I forgot to mention that. I mean, I would think
you would at least have asked for like social media

(01:25:13):
or Insta handle or done some sleuthing. At least you
just straight up showed up having no idea who you
were going out with. Yeah, and it's like you pretended
to know. I mean we were texting Jake, Like, what
the heck? I mean you Wow, you definitely could have
fooled me, considering we hung out like all night and
then we smashed. Wow. Yeah, I mean, if you guys

(01:25:35):
hooked up, it couldn't have been that bad. I mean, yeah,
it wasn't bad. I mean we talked and stuff. I'm
just she's not really much type, but just didn't really
I don't know, just didn't really do it for me.
I mean sounds like she's your type for something, but yeah, exactly. Look,
the bottom line is I saw the group. I didn't
really want to pick her, but that's just what was available.
So oh god, I need to know she knew, he

(01:25:58):
knew who I was. And you still are saying like, oh,
I didn't even want to go out with him? So gross?
Are you saying like that of the group that wouldn't
have been your choice? Is that what you Is that
what you mean by that? Yeah, there were there were
a whole bunch of other goals out there. There were
like more of my type. I mean, hey, no offense,
the hurt, it's just that's just not what I'm really
here here, And you were hoping you'd show up to
find one of them because you were too lazy to

(01:26:20):
even like figure out who the hell you're going on
a date with, like you were, you didn't have the
time for that. Yeah, I don't care. I mean a
buddy just said, hey, she's cute going on a date,
and I'm like, hey, I'm saying on me, why ont
I got nothing else to go tonight, so let's do it.
I don't care. And I had nothing else to do.
Oh oh my god. I mean I wish I would

(01:26:41):
not even have ask, Like, honestly, I wish I would
not I don't even want to know this, Honestly, I
think a lot of people feel that way. When they
call it here, they would prefer not to have known
what the answer was. But all right, look um, so
I can't I don't even I guess it's not even
I don't have to ask the question. I would never
have a guess this like you could have fooled me.
You don't go home with me and then tell me
I didn't even want to see you in the first place. Yeah,

(01:27:02):
I mean that doesn't sound right, but whatever, So no
second date, Kim. I'm sorry, this is I'm sorry. This
is the explanation, Jake. I guess. Thanks for entering and
good luck out there. Let's get you to Vegas, you
and a friend or go on all expenses paid in
three minutes. The entertainmer apport, fun fact headlines, and trending
stories all on the way. The French Show is on

(01:27:23):
one O three five. Glad you're here, Kim. The latest
entertainment news is on the French Show. A man charge
with supplying fentanyl lace pills before mac Miller's fatal twenty
eighteen overdose was sentenced to almost eleven years in prison yesterday,
so US District Judge Otis D. Wright sentence Ryan Michael
Ritas vs. Excuse me to ten years and eleven months

(01:27:46):
in prison, which comes six months after he pled guilty
to a single count of distribution of fentanyl, and initially
federal prosecutors sought twelve years and seven months for Ryan,
who admitted to supplying counterfeit oxy quote un pills to
the drug dealer who eventually sold them to Mac. Remember,
Math was tragically found dead at his California home on
September seventeenth, seventh excuse me of twenty eighteen. The rapper

(01:28:10):
died of an accidental overdose of fentanyl, cocaine, and alcohol.
In twenty nineteen, one year after he died, two other
men were charged in connection to the fatal overdose. Stoop
Dogg is explaining why he chose to remove the Death
Row catalog from his streaming platforms. So remember back in February,
he announced that he was the new owner of the
label where he started his career thirty years ago, which

(01:28:32):
is super cool. Snoop said, first thing I did was
snatch all the music off those platforms traditionally known to
people because those platforms don't pay, and those platforms get
millions and millions of streams and nobody gets paid other
than the record labels. So what I wanted to do
is snatch my music off and create a platform similar
to Amazon, Netflix or Hulu. It'll be a death row

(01:28:53):
app and the music in the meantime will live in
the metaverse. So you can't be listening to any of
that catalog if you want to. But the whole metaverse thing.
If I have to go there to listen to Tupac,
I don't know, I might have to stop my life
on Earth, living life, whatever this is called, the actual,
like human life experience is enough. I don't I don't

(01:29:15):
need I don't need another thing to pretend I don't
need it. I don't need it. I don't want it.
I don't I don't think I want to pay for
old music like the like I have those CDs I
know in my walkman. Yeah, yeah, well you're you're Meta

(01:29:35):
Rufio won't be able to listen to those CDs because
in meta they don't have they don't have a CD player.
So there, so you don't have to pay. If Meta
Rufio wants to hear it, then you don't have to
pay more. Snoop has been smoking too much week, that's
why he gets the metaverse that's why he's on board.
But I'm not going there never. I mean, it's hard
enough to get a shoe drop in the real world.

(01:29:57):
Now you want me to try and get a shoe
drop for my meta character? Okay, you crazy kid me, bro,
I want to wear my shoes. You're telling me that
the meta friend has more dripped than a real friend. No,
I would believe that. Oh damn shots fired. Yeah, okay,

(01:30:17):
he also has a wife and kids in the metabis.
I might have a wife and kids in the real verse,
but I don't know. Maybe Lizzo is officially off the market.
She was on Watch What Happens Live when Andy asked

(01:30:37):
her if she was still with the mystery man that
she was spotted with at Craig's Restaurant in West Hollywood
back in February. She said yes. She didn't really reveal
any details on her new man, but she says that
he was on hand to support her during her April
sixteenth hosting gig and performing gig on SNL back in February.
She also admitted that she was a little bit in love,
which I love that, just a little bit in love,

(01:30:59):
and said her new album is a love album, so
She's happy. She's gonna make some romantic music. More to
check it online today performance sign up for the Billboard
Music Awards the first round Looking really Good. Also Doja
Cats Coachella set was inspired by one special artist. It's
on French radio dot com. Don't don't knock on my
real life, Fred Dripp. Okay, I have the best black

(01:31:21):
hoodies money can buy. I do, I do, and I
have the nicest fans money can buy vans from the
vans from the von bou. Because I'm lazy. Just because

(01:31:49):
I'm lazy doesn't mean I'm not drippy. Drip it drip drip.
It doesn't mean that you know. It just means I'm lazy. Uh,
guys are ready for this. This is like a two
in one fun fan. I got one fun fact for
you and then I can give you another one to
expand on it if you feel like it. But did
you know that bananas known as cavendish are in fact

(01:32:11):
a hybrid of two other plant species, meaning it has
no seeds and has only been able to reproduce with
the aid of farmers who remove and transplant part of
the plants stem in order to create the fruit. You
ever noticed that banana doesn't have a seed, so how
do they grow them? That's how they grow them. Wait
one more time, how do they grow them? I just

(01:32:34):
told you They transplant part of the plants stem in
order to create the fruit. So there's no there's no
they have to like do it genetically or something. They
have to do it scientifically because it's not like an
apple that has a seed or whatever else where you
can plant it and it grows on its own. But
you probably never thought about that, right, Like, how did
they where the bananas come from? While they come from

(01:32:54):
a banana tree, right or bush or whatever it is, Well,
where does that come from? A seed? But to think
about less im banana, there's no scene. That's crazy. Have
you ever wondered why a banana curves? Huh? Yeah, it's

(01:33:15):
called negative geotropism, Uh geotropism, negative geotropism. What does that mean?
Is it as bananas grow, they become too heavy for
the plant and start sinking towards the ground. So the
curve in the banana is due to the fruits pursuit
of the rays of the sun. So it's actually curling

(01:33:38):
up against his stone weight um to get more sunlight.
That's why bananas are curveding. Hey, Fred, do you want
to know a fun fact? What my boy, Jason Brown,
it's allergic to bananas. Its fun fact also curves, it
does not Jason ro Yeah, that's it. He's just trying

(01:34:07):
to see the subbody. But that's it. That's facts for you.
Megan the Stallion Flee Fight thirty five. The Fresh Show
is one of three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one
hit music stations trending stories in just a second, Where

(01:34:28):
do you have to wear a mask? Where do you
not have to wear a mask? Effect at one update
to a place where you do not have to wear one?
Netflix is losing big money because you're sharing your password
with your ex and your mom and your grandpa whoever else.
Holograms are trending, new emojis and more. That's a couple
of minutes to a m lazy headlines in what's trending?

(01:34:50):
The bulls are trending as well. We'll get to that.
I just want to know quickly if this is a
If this is true based on what I know about
all of you on the show. This is from the sun.
Apparently the body part that you first wash in the
shower says a lot about you, and since I know
all of you very very well, then I want to

(01:35:11):
see if this is true. So, Calin, first body part
that you wash, does my hair count? Let me see? Yes? Um,
So this says if you wash your hair before any
other part of your body, you're most likely a hopeless romantic.
Now I think secretly I am. I don't know was romantic. Yeah,

(01:35:38):
I talk a big game, but it's all defense mechanism.
I think you could have anything you want if you
chose to have it. I don't think so, but I
appreciate that. Thanks for gassing me up. No, I do
I think, Calin, if you want it to be in love,
if you want it to find a love, I think
you could do it. I don't. I don't know. If
I think you're hopeless I'm a hopeless romantic. You can,

(01:35:58):
that's me. Yeah, you can still not want a relationship,
but like be a hopeless romantic like love, romance and love,
you know. I think I don't think they have to
be one or the other. Yeah, but I think you
could have that if you wanted. But I don't think
being a hopeless romantic means you want that. I think
it just means you like, really believe in love. You
love that kind of movies, you love you know, self

(01:36:19):
involving love. I don't think it means that you want
to be in love necessarily. Yeah, I love love. Yeah. No,
I definitely don't think that. I'm not saying you want
to be in a relationship. I definitely don't. In fact,
I don't even think that. I just think I agree
with this kind of I think that's kind of true. Yeah,
I could be. Yeah, I think it's no. I'm thinking
about it more deeply now. I'm a right I think

(01:36:40):
I am too. I think I am too. I'm a
hopeless romance I kind of I'm open to the idea
of being in love. I just don't know that I
want a relationship. And for some people those things are commensurate,
like they gotta have you gotta have both. You can't
just have one, you know. Uh rufio, what do you do?
You want anything? Um? I washed my face first. Um? Okay,

(01:37:07):
you love money? That's what that means, Yes, sir, that's
dead on. That is dead on. These people could often
struggle to get along with others as their point of
view on the subject. It's hard to understand and face
is mine too. I mean, I think you guys are
pretty agreeable. But the money part, definitely the money. Jason Brown,

(01:37:29):
what part of your body do you wash first? This
is kind of right. I think, Um, I too, do
hair and then like my neck chest area after that. Yea,
the same way obviously the same money. This is so true.
Honest and loyal people tend to wash their chest first

(01:37:52):
in the shower. These people are also usually pretty stressed
out as well. True, it's not a hair washing day
for me. I do that too. I either do the
chest or the pits first, if it's not hair washing.
If you do the pits first, that means you're very
reliable and attentive. You could also be naive and lack confidence.

(01:38:17):
I lack confidence sometimes, but I don't know about naive.
Maybe it doesn't it doesn't stay here. But I think
I go for the junk and the booty first. I
think I really gets down there first. Interesting, But what
if you wash your butt and then you have to
wash your face. Your hand on the button is always
left left. Yeah, you think on the booty and then

(01:38:40):
on the face. I mean you're in the shower, You're
there's soap all over your hands. Your hands are always
cleaning this process. I hope you wash your hands. Wait wait,
so you start with the booty. You don't like straight
to the eyes. WHOA, what is the what? The what?

(01:39:08):
This is? What? This is what I want to understand though,
like the entire process your hands. I use liquid soap,
so I keep reapplying the soap so like I'll go
pits and then I'll go junk and then I'll reapply
the soap and do the rest. So there's always soap
on my hands. They're always clean. You're in the shower.
But I'm saying like, like even after like the butt

(01:39:29):
is what I washed last, You know what I'm saying.
And then I then I then I wash my hands, yes,
because I'm like, wait, how how nasty is your ass? Yeah?
Sometimes yeah. I think as long as you're in the
shower and you clean and you keep reapplying soap, I
think you're safe. I think you're good to go. That

(01:39:51):
should be last. Fam, do you when you get out
of the shower, do you wipe your privates first and
then your face after? Oh no, no, I do hair
and face and then privates. But how often do you
use your towel. Do you use it more than once? Yeah,
of course. Then there's then you're already you've already got
your ass in your face. No tag side is for

(01:40:11):
the butt, not face. No men, men, one towel. I
was gonna say so if you're if if you use
the towel, however you use the towel, then you have
no right to tell me in which order I should
wash my ass on my face because your ass is
on your face if you use the towel, Willy nilly,
I's like, no, you got you wipe your butt, you

(01:40:32):
wipe your butt last, but you do it on the
tag side, no face, hair, body, everything, and then you
just don't need to wipe inside my butt though, like
to dry it, like you know, I don't need to
go in there. So it's not getting dirty, right, you know,
by the way, you're as clean as you can be
at the end of that So if you're not, if

(01:40:53):
you're not clean at the end of your shower, you
ain't doing it right. Yeah, but you go into the
shower clean, then you're watching your booty first. Then wild,
that's a little sketch, right, What does it say? What
does it say about people who watch their booty first. Yeah,
come on, no, they says they're smart as hell, right,
they're not even Yeah, say they're smart and good looking,

(01:41:19):
right and talented? Really really they got a really really
clean ass booties right there on one three five. This
is what's trending. I mean, I'm a consummate classic overthinker,
as you know, I overthink everything. But what I'm learning
is that you guys think a lot more about showering

(01:41:41):
than I do. I don't put that much thought or
organization into it. My goal is to go come out
of the shower clean. That's my goal. Yeah, and that's it.
I don't really know. I don't really consider the process
too much. It kind of depends how much time do
I have. Um, where am I you know? Is it
early in the morning, is it late at night? Is

(01:42:02):
it what am I doing here that I just work out?
I mean, I don't know, but I'm not I don't.
I don't think anywhere near as much about it as
you guys some of you deal. Yeah, I mean, I'm
kind of a little bit of a germophobe over certain things,
so I'm not surprised what you think. Klin. You were saying, though,
you were saying off the air that you take a shower,
wash your butt last, get out of the shower, and

(01:42:24):
then wash your hands again. Yeah, scrub my hands just
because that was the last thing that I washed. And
then I you know, drive myself off. Oh shook right now. Yeah,
I'm I'm pretty clean, you know what I'm saying. I
think I am too, But I guess I just figured
no matter what the process. I mean, there's running water
and there's lots of soap. So once I'm out, I'm clean.

(01:42:44):
That's what I figure. Yeah, but she also says she
gets she cleans, she gets a good cleaning, and I
have a really clean button in the booty section. Yeah,
you know, I just I'm just washing the cheeks and
the no, there, no, God, I feel bad for Jess. Unbelievable. What. Yeah,

(01:43:06):
you have to spread your cheese. I do spread my
cheese here quick, you know, a quick credit card swipe
through there. You know what I'm saying. Oh no, I
spent a little more time. But I also wear contacts.
I don't want to like touch my eyes and you know,
take them out after I wash my butt. I as
you know, I have an ugly butt in my opinion.

(01:43:26):
I have an ugly butt, but I would put the cleanliness.
I'll put the cleanliness in my butt up against anybody's butt,
not mine, though I don't know. I don't know, I
don't know. Um, we'll have well, I'm gonna say, we'll
have to see. We're never were never ill judge that,
but don't send them. Well good for you. Um. The

(01:43:53):
bulls in the Bucks play tomorrow in Milwaukee. The Bucks
lead that series one nothing uh no our masks on
airplanes or at o'harell but not on the South Shoreline,
which is operated by Northern Indiana Commuter Transportation District. They
will eliminate the mask mandate after the court ruling. So
remember still CTA and Metra, but not in O'Hare, not

(01:44:17):
at Midway, or on the planes or in the uber
if you were concerned about that. Netflix is losing six
point two five billion dollars a year as users flocked
to illegal passwords sharing marketplaces, which I didn't know existed.
I thought this was our original idea. As you know
last week, I wanted to start a little secret society

(01:44:38):
which is really secret if we talk about it here,
but where everybody that the only thing you had to
do to answer was give us a unique password to
a subscription service. And so if we already had an
HBO Max one, then you can't get in because you
got to bring us something we didn't have. So, like
I think on the between all of us on the show,
we have Disney Plus, we have HBO Max, Showtime, Apple Plus,

(01:45:02):
we have Netflix already. Um, I've got Curiosity Stream, what Hulu?
We got Hulu? Any other ones that we need? ESPN
somehow bundle yep, that's part of the Disney Plus bundle though,
so I think we're pretty well covered. I wouldn't mind,

(01:45:23):
like a book subscription service if there's one of those.
Want that you have a Kindle or do you have
the Kindled thing? I got the Kindled thing. I didn't
get the Kindle yet, but I actually do want it.
I think it's cool. But I like, so you just
told us that you have something that you don't actually
even own. Well, I have the app, right, that's where
the books live. They live in the op Oh you

(01:45:43):
read them off that app on my phone or one
does or like my iPad. Yeah, she's also got a
pocket subscrip. We can use it. Yeah, you guys on peloton.
I got you, didn't you cancel that? I trust you,
point trust you. She don't got nothing. You're not in
You're Yeah, I do my scammer stuff. She's out. I

(01:46:07):
just didn't like the instructor instructors that much to me,
Like I'd rather just do it like a solo little
ride through Paris or Italy that let you pick your
scenery and listen to some music or a podcast. And
I'm in Italy riding a bike. Wow. So basically, you're
not bringing anything to the table. You just want access
to all of ours. No, I can bring sup to
the table. She's got Hulu, Yeah, what's you guys need?
Hbo Max everything. I'm in TV clothing, you know, I'm

(01:46:38):
there's I'm leaving that one alone. I don't want a
subscription to whatever you on? Cross color? What is that
from the night? Oh god, I remember that um holograms
could soon become the next hot smartphone feature. It's just
all because of new light sensors in side the camera.

(01:47:00):
I'm already not much of a FaceTime guy unless it's
my niece. I really don't need. I don't need the
whole thing. Like, it's fine. I was fine with it's
fine talking a little bits fine looking at you. I
don't need you standing in front of me. Yeah, I
guess that's the new thing that's happening. iPhone has added
thirty seven new emojis, including the pregnant man, melting face,

(01:47:22):
disco ball, troll, and beans. Also a gender neutral person
with a crown. Let me see a different Smiley's people,
hand gestures, objects, food, and nature. All of this is
in the iOS fifteen point four update that rolled out
to all users. So there you go. Let me see

(01:47:44):
what else? A handshake emoji with a variety of skin
tone options. I mean, can you imagine there is I know,
there's an emoji like consortium or something and they meet
and sit around and talk about this. I mean, can
you imagine that meeting where they you know, whoever gets
I mean, how do you get nominated for that? It
like to being a part of the un or something
like you you know, you you you get nominated to

(01:48:04):
the society and then you go and sit in a
room and it's like we need, uh, we need beans. No,
we don't, we need a pair? No, we don't we
need we need there's a cucumbered I just I can't
even imagine what that like. I don't know who gets
nominated to that group or like how heated those battles

(01:48:25):
must become fun behind closed doors. There's no melting face,
no disco ball. How can I live without a disco ball? Um?
It's National North Dakota Day today, shout out, And it's
also Shelley's Fred Show anniversary. We think it's four years,
but we're not really sure because we really don't know
what the hell is going on around here. I think
I've worked here for twelve years, going on thirteen, but

(01:48:47):
I don't really know it is just four because I'm
going on five and I came a year before her.
I believe. Okay, Jason, Jason's eight years younger than me,
but for some reason, I think we're at the same
age all the time, So it's I don't really I'm
clearly not very good with dates. Uh, let's come back.
We'll do blogs, our audio journals and thousand bucks paying bills.
You were that live from America's Greatest city, Chicago, Kiss

(01:49:16):
FM and my heart radio station. It's Fred Show. Good morning, everybody.
It is Tuesday, April nineteenth, nine out two. The Fred
Show is out of a thousand bucks paying bills. You
win in ten minutes. Rufio is here. Good morning, Rufio,
Good morning friend, Killy kay Kaylyn's here. What up? Paulina
Rowe the Paulina Row is here? Hi? Who's that he's

(01:49:37):
supposed to say? Paulina Row is here, Paulina Rowe is here.
Stoya ki stoya ki she uh um moucha more of
day persona Today's I don't know. I don't know if
I said that person. Yeah, that was the third person
you like. Paulina Row likes the third person. Yeah, we everybody,

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including the third version of herself, the third person. There
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want right? Yes? All right? Paulina blog is yours go,
thank you so much, dear blog, so really quick, like
I've heard of the term mommy shaming, right, and I
think that's referred to when mothers tend to do that

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to you know, another mom does it to another mom
basically when she doesn't like agree with something or like,
you know, maybe they feel like a mother's being a
certain way, and that happens in like the mommy community,
right if you will. Um, I don't think it's cool.
I think mother should always support each other. However, I'm
going through my own mommy shaming, but it's like a
dog mom shaming, like it's not fun. So I basically

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am a part of this like frenchy group on Facebook,
and sometimes I ask questions like, you know, hey, my
dog did this, Like what should I do? I'm a
first time dog owner, first time dog mom, and this
is like my dog, not the family dog. So anything
that happens is my responsibility, right. So I was like, hey,
you know I changed his food. Benzo's food has been changed,
and you know, his poopies aren't the same, kind of

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like what should I do? Right? And there are some
really nice supportive people that are just like, oh, you know,
try this and the rice and try the pumpkin or whatever.
Mix it with this food. But then the other ones
are coming at me like all hard and they're like,
you can't just change our food like that. What are
you thinking? Are you stupid? Like you can't do that?
You gotta slowly introduce it. Yeah, this isn't that. The
point of the thing is for you to the point

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of the forum is to be supportive of each other.
You guys are all in this together, like you all
have the same kind of dog. It's all kind of
a similar endeavor you're asking. You're asking questions to other
people who might know more because you want to get
it right, not to go on there and have somebody
tell you that you're stupid. I don't like this. For him,
you get off that forum. I don't like how do
you respond because I likes to go low? How do

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you respond to these people in this forum? Well this
was last night, so I've had a chance. I've been
brainstormy all morning of how I'm going to respond because yes,
if they go low, ticket to the floor. You guys
already know. And so yeah, I don't call me stupid
like I'm the first time mom here, Like I don't
know what I'm doing. I just got here. Yea in
the fact that you're the fact that you join this
thing and that you're asking these questions should indicate to

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people that you're trying to get it right. Otherwise you
could just guess. I mean, you don't have any negligent
pet owners. There are out there a lot they don't care.
They'll feed their dog anything they don't, they'll let them
do whatever. They don't care, you know, and here you
are trying to get it right. Yeah. It also shows
that you care about your dog, because I don't care
about for him. And you're asking other people that have

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the same kind of dog and what is your best
advice for it? Benzo to feel better? And this and
that ready sitting. They're shaming. That's so bad. Yeah, and
then people get really nasty too, and people will post
because I'll read the comments sometimes on board, and like
people will say like, you know, my little puppy fell
off the bed, which actually happened to me and Benzo
once too. And it's really scary, you know, because you're
like is he okay? And like if you're bends really high,

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all these things and people are just shaming instead of
being like, okay, let's be in this together. And accidents happen,
and I'm sure you know it's unfortunate, but like with
babies too, accidents can happen, you know what I mean.
So I just feel like, you know, this really makes
me scary to be a mom. Am I gonna be
shamed for that too. If I don't know what to
feed my child. It's our society, yes, my god, every

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every times, every new mom gets mom shame because there's
a different way. Everyone raises their child differently, right, right,
and and if you didn't raise it the way and
this other person raise it, they're gonna shame you. Or
if you recover too quickly from your pregnancy and you're
having a baby, they're gonna shame you. You weren't in
bed for six more weeks after having a bay know,

(01:54:00):
because I was fine, You're gonna get shamed. It's everyone's
so yeah, I know, I hate it. I hate it.
And and Benzo hopefully he feels better. I'll take some
of this advice, but the rest of y'all you're gonna
get it today, right, Sign me up for this form.
I want to see the response. I I can't wait
to see. Not Paul in a rope frenchy ugly like, yeah, yeah,

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you know what, your dog's ugly. The owner maybe, oh
my god, hey big he shut up. You call me stupid.
I think you're ugly and that's nothing to do with
the dog at all. Good god, Um, you're right, though.
It's sad. It's sad that I feel like, you know,
you post pictures of and I think I think a

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lot of times people are trying to help, but they
don't always come off the right way. I mean, they
call you stupid, they're not trying to help. But every
now and I get I'll post a picture of Polly
and someone will be like, hey, I know you didn't ask,
but like I see this and that's not right or something,
and it's like, you know what, thank you that I
first of all, it's not my baby. Second of all,
that baby is as well cared for as any baby

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I've ever seen. And yeah, I'm sure that my mom
is or my sister rather as a first time mom,
and my brother in law is the first time dad.
I'm sure they do make mistakes, but they're not gonna
kill the baby. They're gonna learn and they're gonna figure
it out and everybody does. So Yeah, it's wild, though,
that's a society to be living is someone's got to
comment on everything, and it doesn't have to be nice,

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and you don't have to be and you also don't
have to be accountable for it either. You can just
hide behind your screen name and tell everyone else that
they're bad at something. I don't like it, help them,
dear blog. So I did get to see my niece
over the weekend. She's the cutest little girl. I'm so
in love with her. She's you know, the last time
I saw her was maybe a month ago, and she
would let everybody, or not everybody, but she would let

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my mom and me hold her and just sort of
be amused by other things. She's now in a phase
where only mom and dad are kind of like she's
kind of shy with other people. Like she she'll smile
at me, and she'll flirt with me, and she'll come
over and hand me stuff and she'll play with me,
but as soon as I hold her, even my mom,

(01:56:13):
who's spent time alone with her, like watching her for
a week on end, I don't know. She's in that
phase now where it's like only mom and dad, and
I think it's kind of a manipulation thing. Because my
sister and brother in law jump to this. I mean
they don't. They don't let her work it out like
they jump to it. Now, if if, if you leave
Polly and then they physically leave, She's over it in

(01:56:35):
about thirty seconds. But it's it's too painful for my sister.
I guess to watch her struggle through that. Or maybe
it's the fact that Polly sees my sister and realizes
that she can do that. I don't really know what
the deal is, but nonetheless, I love this kid. But
people have been saying to me NonStop, oh my gosh,
this must make you want one. You know, you have

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this precious niece and watching it, this must make you
want one. I no, no, no, it doesn't. Every time
I'm with this baby, I love her more. I will
do anything I ever could for her. But every time
I'm with this baby, I think this is the best
gig on earth. Being an uncle or an aunt is

(01:57:18):
the best gig. I mean that baby, you know, I
play with her or whatever that she gets all fussy
and whatever. My sister has to deal with that, you know,
she craps her pants or whatever. It's like my sister
deals with that. She got drool everywhere, foods everywhere, toys everywhere.
My sister deals with that. In the meantime, I'm over
here just you know, I get all the upside for
the most part. If she acts up, my sister deals

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with it. It's the best gig. There's no better gig. Well,
it's all. It's all of the enjoyment without a lot
of the downside. I love it. You also wonder why
she didn't want to stay with you, because your sisters
they can give him everything else, Like you could change
a diaper, you could clean her up, you could wipe
down the food off her face or the drool. But
you're letting your sister honestly, wonder why Polly doesn't want

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to be held by you. Yeah, but Ashley went through
this too. In this current phase, it's even my mom,
Like literally, my mom spent a week with her and
Polly was fine, even my mom. If my sister is present,
or or my brother in law, then she wants one
of them and she'll act up until she gets it.
But I can tell you that probably in like another year,
it's gonna be totally different. It's gonna be about whoever's

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doing something for her. I mean, I have no doubt
that in a year I'll be able to take her
places and do stuff where her. It will be fine.
I think right now she's just a year. Friend. No,
I thought I thought you won't change diapers. I thought
they gotta be body training. It's gonna be at least
another two years before you take your niece anywhere by yourself.
I think it's manipulation. I think it's I think it's
one that we don't see her every day, and I

(01:58:48):
think it's two. That's is that she's manipulating them, and
she's winning. She's winning big. She's not capable of manipulation.
That is not true. Babies are absolutely capable of manipulation.
She doesn't want us what she's doing. No, you weird,
doesn't mean she's not doing it. It doesn't mean she's
not doing it. No, she's got them trained, she's got
them Pavlovian. Pavlovian, I do agree with you, for I

(01:59:12):
do not like I'm not trying to not I'm not
trying to mom shame your sister right now, but like
the fact that if she gets upset that that they
go running to her and and fix it. Like for
me and jess It's like if if we're gonna be
hanging out with you know, my family or Jessic's family
and and they and Ashton, you know, does not uh

(01:59:34):
want to be with them at first, We'll be just
like just work it out, man like, like this is family.
You're gonna see them a lot more. So, just you know,
it's it's okay to be with that person, just because
we're not there physically with you right now, Like it'll
be fine, It'll be fine. They get over in like
ten seconds and they want they end up wanting to
play with that person anyway. So I don't. I don't, Yeah,

(01:59:55):
I don't. It's a weird situation that you're what your
sisters are doing. I have no doubt that she knows
who I. I have no doubt she knows who her
mimi is. I have no doubt that she's comfortable and
feel safe with us. I'm I'm telling you that whether
she knows she's doing it or not, she has my
sister trained that my sister does whatever that baby wants
because she's so obsessed with her and so in love

(02:00:17):
with her. This she does whatever. And also I see
that it's easier to do it and make the whatever
and I'm whatever, whatever's going on, it's easy to make it,
easier to make it stop sometimes than it is to
let her work through it. And I don't blame her
for that. If a baby's screaming and you can make
it stop, don't you make it stop? You know what
I mean? Like, it's just that sometimes you gotta let

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the kid figured things out, man, like, you know, like
especially when Ashton was learning how to sleep and he
would cry, we would have to go. Yeah, they have
to learn how to sell soothe, you know what I'm saying.
So I don't I don't know. I mean, like I said,
every parenting is different. I'm not trying to I'm not
trying to mom shape your sister right now. But you know,
you know it's true though Vio Ashley manipulates you guys,

(02:00:58):
and he manipulates uh. And Paully manipulates us and she
got us all by the balls and it's part of life.
And I believe it thinks gets what he wants suddenly,
I mean, just my son of course. Sadly. Yeah, I

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don't know. I think I'm just speaking the truth and
I want her to love me, trust me. I want
her to love me, and I want that feedback because
anybody who says that that getting that feedback from an
east or nephew or child is it's not slightly about them.
It totally is. It feels so good to make her happy,
It really does. Yeah. But at the same and to
say that that has nothing to do with I think

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a lot of parenting is about providing the best for
your kid. But also I think a lot of parenting
is about the feedback that you get for doing the
right thing with your child. Like it's got to be
super rewarding to watch this thing that you made grow
up and know that you did that. It is like,
and I don't think that's selfish at all. I think
that's just human nature. But this babe, he gets whatever
does baby want, because this baby knows exactly what she's

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gonna teach me. Your wife, she's smart, man, She's smart anyway,
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I'm telling you, and scientifically true. They don't like that. No,

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they don't. Their brains aren't even developed. No, they know
what they're doing, exactly know what they're doing. I think
they're scared or nervous or anxious, so they're responding to that.
But I don't think they're trying to manipulate you. True,
because if you if you allow them to do something

(02:03:05):
one time, they under they realize it, and they understand it,
and they will continue to manipulation. Of course it is.
They will continue to expose what you've given them, and
they will they take no for an answer. I know.
I'm not saying there's yeah, I hate you. I do.

(02:03:29):
I think they know what they're doing from a young age.
They know how to get what they want. I don't
think you have to be uh fully formed human to
know how to get exactly what you want. And just
damn baby Polly, she knows exactly how to get what
she wants and it works every time. And I wish
I were that powerful as a grown up, but it
doesn't work for you. You get what you want from
your mom's literally all the time. That's not a manipulation though,

(02:03:56):
that's just because she's obsessed with me. That's why I'm
to come home in Arizona. I make sure I have
all my snack. He's ready. You know what. You should
shut your mouth, Rufio, because guess what I guess what
I have for you tomorrow. Guess I got something for
you tomorrow because Mama fred did something for Rufio. Yeah,

(02:04:20):
she worried, hand carried, hand carried back from Arizona. A
Mama Friend creation that she heard Rufiol liked, and so
she made it for Rufio. Just by listening to the show.
She heard that Rufio liked this, and so she made
it the best. She is the best, and she loves you, guys.
I has the time i'm home, we talk about you guys.

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She listened to the show every day. It's like, Jesus,
why don't you call them s now Mama friend, I'm
hand carrying some apple Stockholm for Mama Friend. Jesus, have
an amazing day. Guys, We'll see you tomorrow morning on

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the Friend Show. Bye Bye,