Hear the savage mom move Amy did to teach her kids a lesson! Plus, find out the embarssing moment Eddie had at the grocery store that made him feel really old. Mailbag: a listeners daughter is 15-years-old and has her first real boyfriend who is 16. He comes to their house sometimes after school while her Step-dad works from home, and he’ll see them cuddling on the couch and finds it uncomfortable. She thinks it’s innocent and needs advice on how to smooth the situation over!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Welcome to Thursday Show, Morning Studio morning. Right, let's
go around the room. Oh wait, thank you for being here.
You can be anywhere in the whole wide world, but
you here with us and we appreciate that. And let's
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first go over to this guy. He's known for editing
video for our show when we talk, but his favorite
thing to do might be spelling the tea on lunchbox
like that. Here he is produce ready, guys, I'm an idiot.
I'm an idiot. So when I go to the grocery store,
I like wearing I like wearing headphones and listen to
music while I shop. Well, I couldn't find my headphones,
so I borrowed my son's air pods. I've never used
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air pods. I put them in. I get my shopping car.
I turned my music on and I can hear the music,
but it's kind of faint, and I'm thinking, like, my
kids are so dumb, like they're they're skiers, are dirty
or something, because these things really aren't working that well.
But I turned it up all the way. I can
hear a little bit. So I shop. People are staring
at me, and I'm just I don't know what they're
looking at I get to the counter to check out
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and the lady goes, can you please turn your music down?
And I'm like, what are you talking? I take my
ear pads out and like they weren't even connected. I
was playing music from my phone super loud and from
the horror rosery store. That's an old thing, like an idiot, Yeah,
that's an old thing. Have you done that before? No,
but I've seen like eighty year olds do it on
the airplane when they can't figure out how to do
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their bluetooths. I'm so dumb. Are you listening to remember? Like? Also,
I dude, I was like, I went shopping for thirty minutes.
No one said turn that off except the lady at
the checker, and you saw people looking at you. I
was just like, okay, does he know what's happening? But
Eddie was like, people are so mean to me now
on the roads. What do you mean? He goes, nobody'll
let me in? Turn out his blinker was broken. Oh crap,
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I'm getting old. I'm doing all the old all that
stuff all right. Next, whereas confidence comes from remains uncertain
and you never know what each day we'll bring with
this next person here. He is Lunchbox. Everybody, let me
tell you something that sucks. The glass Onion, the follow
up to Knives Out. It's so stupid, Like Knives Out
(02:07):
was overrated when it came out, like it was so high,
it's gonna be so amazing. When to it in the
theater with my mom and my wife and we're like, oh,
that's fine, So glass Onions out. Oh, let me check
it out. It's on Netflix. Let me check it out.
I started out pretty good. Then it just got so dumb.
Movie or movie? Oh it is, It's just the movie
movie Mike, did you watch this movie? Oh? Do you
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think Lunchbox is wrong? I think lead fuck is wrong.
He doesn't like anything it has any kind of imagination
to it if it's not completely grounded in reality. He
doesn't like it if it's not on the nose. So
you have to figure it. Yeah. I can't figure it out. No, no, no.
I like the mystery part of it, but then the
ending is just, oh, don't talk about ending. Don't even
allude to anything happening at the end. You know, I'm
saying the first half, the first half, the mystery part
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is great. No ending talk because Amy doses too, and
she'll accidentally spoil something. Eddie, you see it. I didn't
finish it. I watched about half of it and then
kind of when they're went back. Didn't like it. No,
I just wasn't interested. Again, it's just whatever. It was fine.
The first one was great, though. Did you guys finished
the last of us? Never started it? Perforest and my
brother tell me it's great. Yeah, I'm not gonna say
anything about it, but it's over now run the whole series. Yeah,
(03:16):
I'm probably gonna. So you think it's better than The
Glass Onion, I haven't seen The Glass on you. That's
the TV show versus a movie. So just different. You're
saying overrated? What do you give it? One and a
half islands out of five? Right? She has spelled victim
to multiple scam alerts throughout the years, but this has
ultimately led to many learning lessons for her peers. Here
it is, I went wild with magic eraser around my house.
(03:39):
Have you ever used one of those? I don't know
what it is. Okay, it's got mister Clean on the front.
You can buy them in a four pack, and I
bought a four pack in thought, Oh, this is gonna
last me. You know, six months. I went through the
four pack in one day. What do you do? You
can have? I have a lot of white walls, and
there's scuff marks everywhere on in the doorways, you know
when kids are care backpacks or shoes or different things
(04:01):
that run up against the wall, or you have pets.
And I didn't realize how many marks we're all over
my walls. And mean, once you see one, you clean it,
and then you see another and you go clean it,
and then you go see another and another and another
and the next thing you know, you're all around your
house cleaning up every skub mark everywhere. And it's addicting
and amazing, and I need to go get another four pack.
You sound a little psychology And is it called magic eraser? Yah,
(04:25):
it's awesome. But here's the truth, guys. It's really so
abrasive that it's just taking off whatever's on there's so
it's the wall, You're taking off the pain, that's what
it's doing. Oh yeah, well oh yeah, but my walls
look fine. Sounds like you had a bad experience. No,
I just figured out because I'm like the first ten
times like this is magic? Oh crazy? And then I
read more about it. I'm like, oh, it's literally taking
the stuff off, like acidic or like sandpaper. Like it's
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so soft, it feels soft of whatever combination. I had
to put a glove on. And he's like, no, no,
it's all good, except that it burns my skin. Yeah,
that's scraping stuff off. So but you like it Magic eraser, Yeah,
I mean I have this white coffee table. I got
stuff off at that. I mean, you could listen. It's addicting.
We're listening. Oh yeah, it says magic eraser is a
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high grit sand paper. Yeah. Man, it's just scraping off whatever.
So the table you're taking off all the enamel on it. Fine.
My teeth right from Mount Pine in Arkansas. He loves
wearing Arkansas red and after games it's hard for him
to go to bed. Bobby Bones, thank you. That. Okay,
here's the update on Stanley and his two surgeries, because
(05:31):
that's something to say about it. Both his legs have
had torn acl ligaments and his knee. The other one
he's ninety percent back, the one from six months ago,
the other one from like a month ago. He's doing okay.
But did you know there's dog rehab. We happen to
have one half mile from our house and never heard
of such thing. We were looking up dog rehab like
(05:51):
things that we could do to him, like from YouTube
to get the his just surgically repaired leg kind of
more arrange emotion. And there's a dog rehab like physical therapist. Yes,
not for drugs, he's goods. So we call him and
they say, well, he has to be. We called him
like as soon as surgery was over, so he has
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to be like a month out. So we finally took
him in. They have dog underwater treadmills like you see
athletes doing out. We took him in. He did this
little like obstacle ladder, of course, to see if he
could lifted the leg up enough. And I asked the guy,
I said, how did you get into this like dog rehab.
I've never heard of it. And he used to work
in sports medicine for humans. You get banned from medicm No,
(06:34):
he was like, I don't like working with athletes anymore.
They were too whiny. That makes sense. So then he
then he started to stuff and now does animals. Wow,
never heard of such a thing. They also said, and
I kid you not that Stanley was the best behaved
bulldogs they've ever had as far as bulldogs go. You sure,
they'll tell you. I'm not sure that any But he
rolled over on his side. They were like, we can't
get bulldogs roll over on their side because he has
to do like muscle like feel his muscles. And Stanley
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was like, oh, he just laid over and let him
do it. And he was like, we've never bull dog
I do this before. It santis like being all good
and stuff. It's kind of irritating me because I went in.
I was like, he's kind of how to control sometimes
and Stanley was like minding, and they because now I
can teach it. I've told him how to like speak,
and he'd be like he was like doing all the
tricks like she was like showing off, but he's on
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the road to recovery. But more so, I didn't know
there was dog rehab places. And there's one right down
the road from my house. That's cool. It serves like
three different things. There's also a vet in there. And
maybe it's like Uber Eats where they go for Johnny
Supreme pizza, but it's really a gas station that makes
pizza and they name it something. Yeah, I don't. I
don't think that's it, but it's pretty cool. So if
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you have a dog that's been injured, if you have
a dog rehab in your town, no idea. All right,
that's it, thank you. It's time for the mail bag.
Get something year. Hello, Bobby Bones, I heard you talking
about something similar to what's happening. But my daughter's little older.
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She has our first real boyfriend. She's fifteen, he's sixteen.
He comes to our house a couple times a week
after school. My husband, her stepdad, works from home and
is around them more than I am. They cuddle on
the couch while watching TV, and my husband makes comments
to me about how it makes him feel uncomfortable. Again,
she's fifteen, he's sixteen. I feel like it's innocent and
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they're just being teenagers. I've tried to explain to my
daughter how it makes my husband feel, but she just
replies that they're not do anything wrong. Any advice and
had a smooth the situation over sincerely, Mom, caught in
the middle, Yeah, this is easy. Tell him to go
to her room and shut the door. Kid, you want
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to go amy, you have a fifteen year old daughter?
Oh yeah, I'm trying to picture her cuddling on the
couch with somebody, and I'll be like, okay, she did
about part. Those seems weird though too, you just thought
him cuddle. Oh, but I have friends in junior hind
high school with their parents. Were the stuff they did
in front of their parents, like, ah, it was crazy.
I guess I never had a girlfriend, so that's why
it seems so foreign. But I would I can't imagine cuddling,
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all right, I guess just having a girl like me
then yeah. I mean when you made that joke about
some into the room or whatever, like I'm like, oh, yeah,
I knew parents like that, which is wild to me.
But I guess I would just say hey, like see,
I feel like if you're like no cuddling, then it
makes them want to cuddle more. So somehow they need
to have like like cuddling before it's boundary type thing.
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How can you cuddle it from far away? If it's
really about the stepdad, you're just gonna make sure he's
not around when they do it. Now, it sounds like
she's fine with it, and if the mom's fine with it,
and even the step dad's fine with it. But he's
uncomfortable seeing it, then you just got to separate those two.
And if he's there, you can't do it the end
or it makes him feel bad. And if he's not,
you guys, cuddle away. But I wouldn't say it like that,
like cuddle away, because then that means that's a green light.
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That's the end. I mean, you get to do more
than cuddle. But if it's about making the stepdad not
feel uncomfortable, then they just can't do that. That's the rule.
It's the house, it's the adults house, So don't cuddle
like that. You can sit by each other, but there's
no cuddling while he's there in the house. I know
it works from home, but he don't want to see that.
Or if he's in his room when that door opens
and he comes out, get away from each other. So
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stepdad needs to say something like hey, separate, separate. No,
he shouldn't be putting that place because then he's you're
making him the bad guy. But it is his house
and he's the one there. Yeah, but he doesn't deserve
to be the bad guy because he feels uncomfortable. It's
his house. That's why something in your house if it
makes you feel comfortable, you just stop it. You own
the house, So what do you do? Separate? I'm gonna
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don't make me put a board between you, guys. I
just walked by everything with no cuddling. Stop that. Then
three strikes in their out. They can'tuddle at all anymore.
That's true if he sees it three times. But make
it fun. Don't be mean about it, because then they're
just gonna go somewhere else and cuddle. Make it fun.
How do you make it fun? Hey, guys? Separate? Yea,
you can't do the separate thing. No, because again you're
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making the stepdad be the bad guy constantly, and you're
making him have to police it when he didn't do
anything wrong. He just feels uncomfortable. You have to police it.
The mom in place it for him. If he's there
in the house or close, you can't cuddle, just sit
by each other, it's mom. Yeah, okay, you're the one.
Let him do it. You also got to be the
person to go, hey, don't do that while he's there.
If you want to cuddle, that's fine, but you can't
do it while he's there. It makes them uncomfortable. This
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is his home, he shouldn't feel comfortable in his own home.
You know what I mean. I see what you're saying.
Thank you come up from Parson has no kids, by
the way, right, ye separate. I just don't want to
make him the bad guy and that kid the six
year would always be scared of him because he only
knows him as the person that's coming in making them separate,
like he's always the bad guy. Man. One time I
went to my girlfriend's house. We were in high school,
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and we were in the room and I was just
like braiding her hair, you know, and the day walk
dad walking. He just stared at me for like five minutes.
I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna leave. I think he was like,
how do you know how to break her hair? No,
he was gonna kill me. Part that stand for something else?
Know how to braid hair? In there? Okay? Thank you Morgan.
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If someone wants to reach out to us and send
an email into the mailbag, what do they do mailbag
at bobbybones dot com? You go close it out. I
was about to close bobbymail bag year on phone. Let's
go to Carol in Massachusetts. Carol, what's going on? So
I just wanted to call Um. Last week, you were
(12:24):
doing a segment that was like good Decision Week or whatever.
I think it fizzles out a little bit towards the end,
but it prompted me to call you because I fought
and read both of your books, and because of those
I was able to lose fifty pounds from exercising every
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day and just changing some lifestyles. And I changed jobs
because I wasn't being valued at my other jobs. And
just because of reading your books and listening to your
show and the positivity that the studio brings, I was
able to just kind of see my own self worth.
(13:06):
So I caused to thank you all for that. Well,
that's very kind of you to say, you know, I
wrote those books, and I was just kind of like, hey,
this is how lost I felt, how lost I didn't
know I was. Where I kind of discovered my value,
and also where it's also like I don't really know
still sometimes my value, so you never quite figure it out.
But yeah, the Week of good Decisions, I gotta say it,
(13:27):
last week, guys ended up pretty good. Good. I did
a whole week of good decisions. Oh good decision. I
just try to get myself back on track. Meaning sleep,
meaning nutrients, eating nutrients, not just crap because I'm in
a hurry, meaning relationship wise. And so when someone goes
my New Year's resolution is this, I ain't never gonna work.
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It's fun to just say, but you can't look at
it macro like macro goals don't work like large goals
don't work unless you have micro solutions, which aren't fun.
No one wants to hear the tiny things. But you
can't do anything big. If you don't do the small things,
(14:09):
you know you can't play. You can't go start at
quarterback in the game. If you don't practice, well, you're like,
well i'll play under the lights. We'll show me you
can play in the daytime, your three pm more, we're practicing.
So the same situation. My goals that I set that
are big are really just a lot of ladder rungs
that I'm climbing up to get up there. And you
got to hit every one of those when I run.
When I would run, I was training for Trafflons. I
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hated it. I could not run the ten miles. If
I just go and go run ten miles, let's go.
But I can run to that tree up there, I
could run to that tree, pass that tree. I could
run to that tree, and next thing you know, I'm
three miles in and I'm like, oh, I can do this.
And so, you know, I like to feel that my
books are very practically written. I'm not gonna win any
Peabody or Peltzer. Yeah, I'm not sure which one in
the book Flinn, I think the Pulitzer thought might actually
(14:53):
win the Pltzer. But I appreciate that, Carol. I think
we know, we try to be honest, and some days
are good, some day aren't. And you know, I did
a week or good decisions and oh, good decision got
myself back on track for this week. And I hope
you're doing the same. I'm glad to hear that you've
decided to live a healthier lifestyle. If that's what you're
up for, and go get it, attack, go get it.
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Sometimes you'll have a setback, but that's okay, you know. Yeah,
thank you very much. I do appreciate you all, just
your honesty and with your relationships and parenting and all
of it. It's just helpful and it's and more thankful
for that. Carol, you have a great day. We really
appreciate your listening calling. Appreciate it, thank you. But I'll
(15:35):
say this week though I don't have it calendared in
as a week or good decision, Oh, good decision. I
made a couple of bad ones already popped. Is it
on my head way before it was? Is it that decision?
You shouldn't turn to pop it before as ready because
then it's just hurts. Yeah, and I feel like it's
a second head coming off, but nobody else don't even
see it, not at all. Yeah, I hate to have banks,
(15:57):
but you're right. My hair is so long now, so
it's like a weak a medium decisions good, So I
appreciate that call always. Thank you, guys. It's time for
the good news. There's a nonprofit in Virginia Beach called
Connect with a Wish and what they're doing for girls
to help them get ready for prom is super cool.
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Girls age fifteen and older that are in foster care
get a personal shopper and they go around this room
where all these hundreds and hundreds of donated dresses are
and they get to pick out dress, shoes, purse, jewelry.
They have their hair and makeup done. This isn't even
the day of prom. This is just for them to
feel special and look good and know that this is
what they get to look like when they do go
(16:41):
to a dance. They even have a professional photographer there
to take their photo, and then the girls get to
keep their dress if they end up attending a dance,
and if they do that, they'll also get cash so
that they can get their hair and makeup done the
day of and go out to dinner. I want to
go to that. Yeah, that's full great. I just feel
like that's next level. It's not like just girls walking
in and picking out a dress, which is amazing too,
(17:02):
because that's something that they may not otherwise get, but
they just took it next level. Yeah, I want to
go to that. That sounds good. Hey, that's awesome. All
those people to donate their time and their money to
make people feel special, that is what it's all about.
That was tell me something good. I mean, this is
as they would say, savage parenting by Amy. Oh it's hilarious.
(17:25):
But also my wife could do this to me and
I would be like, dang, that sucks, So tell them
what you did today. Well, so I had to gather
all the remotes because I have heard when I because
I'm already at work, when I mean controllers, Yeah, it's
called a controller, not a remote. Oh I took a
remote too, So he took TV remotes and the controller.
(17:47):
Yeah stuff whatever controls the PS four whatever control the
TV and the little place the game like a game boy.
But the what is that called PlayStation? No, no, it's
called a You got it for him, Oh yeah, yeah,
I got it whatever that is. Yes, you actually bought
him all these things. But at the time, he was
a great idea and the Okay, so I hear that
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getting ready for work is like or school has been
a challenge, Like he's getting on the game. And so
I was like, okay, well I'm gonna nip this in
the bud. So when I left for work, I gathered everything. So, yeah,
he's she came to work with his controllers, the TV remotes,
she's got it all here. You're all in the front
seat of my car. Everything, And I mean, and I
(18:32):
did it. It was sort of like, uh, I've just
I just was so frustrated when I heard that, because
we've had so many talks of like, hey, dude, you
have to turn your lights off in your room, you
have to get ready for school. You have to make
your lunch. There's all these things on a checklist that
must be done before we even turn anything on. Hilarious,
but I would hate it if it were me because
(18:53):
that could be used against me right now too, Yeah
I could. She could totally take away your controllers. Yeah,
she would just take the whole system. Then what does
she run out of town and took her controllers with you?
I go buy new ones? Well, I would go immediately
buy new ones, and then then what I would do
is I would hide and get other new ones and
hide them in the house so when she did it
the next time, I'd have a backup. That's so smart. Yeah,
funny you say that, because that's thought about the dramatic
(19:15):
unplugging like this. He wasn't present for it. Let even
take the cable, which is even harder to replaces with
the controller the cable. I shouldn't tell you this, No,
I've already I have enough um Way tools in my
toolbox to calm down. So I'm not going to do
that because I don't want to cause therapy later in life.
Of like one time, different you just took every controller
(19:36):
remote from that in front of his face, but no, no,
not from his face either. He just pulled that cable
out the plugs from the machine, from the box to
the plug, and it's like, I have the cable, so well,
this is where I'm sharing with you that there's been
times in the moment where I've been in it's been
a thing and I'm about to walk over and just
unplug everything. And so no, I don't thought about it.
Pick it up, Sam, No thought about that. Get a
(19:58):
fake one that's broken, that's not cheap, and you walk in.
You're like, I am tie and you take that fake one,
you smash it and then you kick in it and
then you pee on it. Then you're like and if
you want, no, these are the things they will remember
and it's not that's not the healthier. Yeah, I remember that.
That's cool, and I remember that in a good way.
Like I ain't ever messing with her again. She's beat
(20:19):
on my system. Now, I calmly say, hey, we can
play video games, but we turn off our lights before.
So did they know you took everything? Yeah? Or are
they just finding out like right now listening, which I
don't think they are, but I mean, no, A good
parent and bad parent Edny, amazing parent. I love it,
(20:42):
No latch, Great Parents. I think it's hilarious. I think
it's hilarious too. I don't like it because I could
happen to me. Right correct, he's probably a walking all
around the health right now, he's probably flipping the couch cushions.
Look more time though. Right now he's like scratching himself.
Yes withdrawals, Yes, going through it. Okay, good parent, good
a good parent, Amy, you're officially a good parent. Good job.
(21:04):
Good parents of the day. What'd you watch? MG? Three
seventy The plane that disappeared on Netflix? Was it the
Malaysian flight where they just don't know where it went
yet at all they have there's so many theories out there,
And here's what I thought. I thought when I watched it.
It's a three part docuseries, and I thought, Okay, we're
gonna get some answers, but well, don't spoil it though
(21:26):
it is a spoiler where there's no answer. Maybe maybe
not well, I think if there were answers that we'd
know from the news, right yeah, Okay, set us back
on what happened, because what I remember is there's this
flight and they were flying over a lot of ocean. Yeah,
and then it was just gone. So they took off
from Malaysia at midnight or one am or something, and
then they were supposed to land, I don't know, somewhere
in China, like six am. A lot of that is
(21:48):
over the water, big commercial flight too, right, like like
hundreds of people, two hundred and thirty nine or something
like that. And at some point over the water, not
too long after they took off, the pilots sign off
from communication because that's what you do, I guess in
the middle of the night, and so you hear the pilot,
but everybody goes It's like TV in the seventies. They
(22:08):
played the national anthem and then it shuts off your
radar and everything still supposed to be on. But I
guess you are like, Okay, good night, and that's the
last thing you hear the pilots say is good night.
And then suddenly they disappear off the radar and that
should not happen, Like there's no that they've never experienced
anything like that. So the Malaysian like air Control, all
the people in charge of the airport, they get calls
(22:29):
in the middle of the night. They go up to
the airport. Everyone's confused, try and figure out what happened.
And yeah, it's wild to think that these families just
lost all their loved ones on that plane and they
still don't have answers. Two things I want to say.
Number one is Eddie and I are flying to De
Moine later to watch arkasas basketball. I don't like here
on plane crash stories whenever I'm about to fly on
(22:50):
a plane. Yeah, the thing is, how do you know
it crushed? I don't or planes disappearing. I don't want
to be on de Moines flight one one one one
and all of a sudden we're gone. I don't want
to disappear either, So that's one. Number two is that
show where the plane disappears, think shows up ten years later,
manifest Like, what if that plane just all of a
sudden came back in five years and all like they're like,
(23:10):
oh we're back. That's a good and we're all older
and they still think it was their six hour flight?
Do they think that whether aliens? Like, what's the theories here?
I've seen so many conspiracy theories on this. What's the
big theory? I don't recall whether or aliens? One of
the big theories was that there was something on that
(23:32):
plane or cargo being delivered somewhere, and someone didn't let
that happening. And so take with you one from that,
which seems really really scary because you have all these
innocent people are just trying to I mean, there was
mother's children, like it's so they some of the family
members were part of the documentary and it's just so terrible,
Like this one man, I felt so bad his wife
(23:52):
and children on the plane and he was supposed to
meet up with them at the next stop and then
they were all gonna be flying together and they just
never arrived. And then the ocean is so big you
can't find it. Then if that's what happened, or do
you not find anything? Like all the seats float right,
but it's the ocean, bro, I know, really big. Yeah,
they find any rates out there and sailors and stuff, popeye,
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No one's finding a chair. Well, this one woman that
is photographer, that is she says she has a really
good eye for things. She photographer say, they have really
good eyeing. But she volunteered. You know how people on
the internet what are they called them? They volunteered to
solve crimes. Are the idiots go ahead? I don't know.
So she enjoyed like there was all these little bubbles
of people across the world that we're rallying together online
(24:35):
to try to solve this mystery. And she claims to
have found parts in the water that look like it,
but from pictures like satellite images, yes, satellite and zoom in. No,
she feels like she found very specific parts of the plane.
But then again, she said she really couldn't get anybody
to listen to her to go check it out because
she's whackadoodle. I don't know, she's super easy. The plane
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floating nice anyway, I think a fish unless officials were
involved in it, Okay, but that's the thing. At the
press conferences and different things, families were like, what you're
saying is not making sense, and also you're not telling
us anything, and why does this steel value? To me?
Feels like here's what the order. I rate them with
absolutely no knowledge on the subject, so totally dumb dumb.
Here one, the government did not want something going from
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A to B. So you know the government does a
shoot it down, B blow it up. That's one. Two aliens, Wow,
aliens is a two three grab bag could be anything else?
Is that documentary is a good It's pretty good. I
had it. I went on while I was like cleaning
and doing things. It kept me entertained. But then my
(25:38):
son walked in and was like, what's this. I'm like, no,
because I do not want him to be scared to fly.
I'm scared. We're going to Iowa today. Huh. Well I
fly with him this weekend and I had to like
slam my computer down. Nothing to see here, kids, that
would scare him. Yeah. I could see us being on
the plane and then him being like, what's going to happen?
Is this playing going to disappear? Are we okay? Because
he already thinks at the end of the world's happening
(25:58):
or something. What's his thing? Where he saw on TV
like the news and so he thought someone's like coming
into the house or oh, there's been lots of things,
so oh, it's so common that it could be one
of ten things. Yeah, he's a he's his brain is
always on high alert, which I think is just some
of his trauma, like living in fight flight free. So
we try to, you know, make sure we do our
best to keep him like I think that Russia's gonna
(26:20):
bomb us or something as well. Oh yeah, that's one
of them. Yeah, I mean one of them. Oh no,
he thinks we're going into World War three. Yes, no,
I mean there's I probably only shared a couple with y'all,
but in my mind, I'm like, oh, there's every day
we're kind of dealing with a new potential tragedy. All
deals with the same thing with me, honesty, I mean
really it is very similar. Yeah. Yeah. Here are your
top three songs in country music. At number three, Laney
(26:43):
Wilson Heart Like a Truck, I Got a Hard At
number two, Bailey Zimmerman Rock and a Hard Place Between
a Rock. And that's a good one. Huh oh yeah,
like I out of Nowhere, Out of now Where that
song is like, hey, that's good. Number one. Luke Hombs
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going Going Gone. So here's this. I'm gonna play the
number one alternative song and it's from Lincoln Park. But
it has Chester Bennington singing, oh wow, who died? Do
you remember him dying? Or no? Not really refreshment. Well,
there are two leads of Lincoln Park. There was like
(27:25):
Mike Shinoda, the rapper, guy Chester Bennington the lead singer
Chester died and so this was a track from a
Now I'm in two thousand and three, but they just
released it twenty years later and it's the number one
alternative song and it's called Lost. Lincoln Park was massive
(27:46):
back in the day. For anybody that's like twenty five listening,
I don't know why you're listening. There are much cooler
show than us. However, Lincoln Park was. I mean, they
were awesome. I was never a massive fan, but I
could appreciate their big radio poppy songs, and I'll so
I understood why people liked them. They wrapped in saying, yeah,
that's pretty cool. We did that. They had two different
lead singers. That was so cool. And then finally the
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number one pop song, and this song is great. It's
Miley and Flowers. That's a jam. Okay, those are your
number one songs all across your Samy's pile of stories.
Reusable water bottles like tumblers are very popular right now,
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so much so they have a nickname Emotional support water bottles.
So many women they don't even leave the house without
their Stanley sees men to no adult men can have one.
Eddie has something over there idea right here. I thought
when I saw this story, they meant reusable water bottles,
like I will use a plastic water bottle, meaning I'll
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use it three or four times filled up with the
water in the bridge. But I didn't realize they meant those,
which if those had that many germs, how many germs
my plastic water bottles formed the use? Yeah, researchers swabbed
different parts of the water bottle, the spout, the lids,
straw to squeezeop everywhere, and it's got forty thousand times
more bacteria than the average toilet seats. You know me,
(29:11):
I always say, toilet seats aren't that gross anyway, It's
just your butt cheeks. What are your butt cheeks ever? Touched? Nothing?
Right hand? Second of all, stop swabbing everything, arks, swabbing everything.
Oh yeah, ros swabbin. Also, lunch box is a water
bottle in the studio. He's never cleaned once. It sits
your every day. Well. He has some blue light on
it that he pushes it cleans it all out. I
don't believe it. I do clean it. I hit the
button and it says boom kills ninety nine point nine
(29:33):
percent of the bacteria. Look at it, they're blue light going. Now,
who why don't we have a blue lights on the wall.
Then we walk up to it let it clean us.
Oh that's a good idea. I'm just telling you, I
don't think that works like he thinks it works. All right.
What else, Well, they're swabbing it to remind people to
wash it everything, wash it regularly. You're good. So if
you want to come to work in a better mood,
I have an easy thing that you can do. Drive nice.
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That's all you have to do. They say it will
cut down your work stress by forty percent. If you're
wondering what does drive nice mean? Well, you can let
someone into your lane, you can wave high to someone
at a stoplight, you can avoid tailgating, and you can
just be more patient on the road. Eddie, Yeah, I
like that. No, that's me totally until somebody cuts me off.
Then it's like then I'm stressed for work. Do you
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feel like that was a targeted ad right there? In
a little bit, like you're the only one that actually
heard that segment? I mean, never looks at me when
she's talking about these segments segment. You're the only person
that's hearing this right now, we've now figured out targeting
radio show for things that people need to hear. But
to counter what Eddie just said, if someone cuts him off,
I feel as though he'll arrive to work less stressed.
If you don't react to the person that cut you off,
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if you decide to be like, you know what, they're
probably having a rushed morning or a bad day. I
don't know. There's circumstances. I'm just going to smile and wave,
then wilt. It won't affect you. And you've cut someone
off accidentally occasionally, Yeah, my signal light wasn't working. Yeah,
and I had to know that with a working signal
light actually accidentally And then I go, oh, but they're
so mad at me, going like that idiot, but it
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was an accident. I'm sorry, but that's what's up. You
ever just waved as someone at a stoplight? No? Bill,
I just realized that was one thing. And I'm like,
I like wave people if they let me in, like
if I thank you, But then I look and see
if they saw me wave, and if they didn't, I
get a bigger wave. Then if they didn't put more
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mouths the window. And then if they don't my head out.
Then I'm turning. It's like a dumb and dumber out
of the side of the car. What else Taste? Some
country put out the top saddest country songs of all time,
according to them. We'll see if you agree. And at
number three, Hank Williams I'm so lonesome I could cry somuch. Yeah,
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it's very sad. It's so old though, that makes me
just want to get a beer. Then it feels more
black and white than it does reality side. But yes,
it's nineteen forty nine. Yeah, that's Eddie's birth year. What else?
And then in from nineteen seventy five is Willie Nelson
Blue Eyes Crying in the Rain. Cry Right. This is
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one of my top three, maybe top five favorite songs
of all time. And I know it's sad. I just
it's just normal for this feels this songs normal to me,
my baseline. It's not even that sad. I love sad,
and I don't know. I hear this and go I'm
just so sad. There are songs that really kick me
(32:29):
in an ad sad. These are like just generally sad.
This one makes me want to get another beer. Well,
I'm seeing a theme here. Buzz now like songs that
don't make you feel like they're going to be sad
and then hit you it's sad out of nowhere, Tim mcgirl,
I don't hate the girl sad at the end? M
George Jones. Is that number one? By the way, No,
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it's no number one. We'll kick you in the or
The other one is Reba and Brooks and Dune cow
Girls Don't Cry because the whole song is about her
and her dad and him being like, get up on
the horse again. Cow Girls don't cry. And then at
the end he dies spoiler alert, and she's like cow
girls don't cry and you're like, oh, like that to
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me where it walks you somewhere and then sweeps your
legs out sad like real life. Those are the most
sad ones. What's number one? Well, Vince Gill started writing
this song in nineteen eighty nine after Keith Whitley died. Yeah,
but he didn't finish writing it until nineteen ninety three
after his brother died. And that that alone right there
gives me all the fields and it's go rest high
(33:31):
on that mountain. That's a very sad song because you
know It's played at a lot of funerals. Vince played
it at the Opry last week because somebody had passed
away somewhat. Don't remember this story. There was a there
was like a drunk fight, Yeah, right up there in
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front of us. Weird. That's kind of distracted, yes and so,
but yes, that song is so sad that he stopped
loving her today. That's a sad song. Did you know
why you stopped loving her? She died? He died? Oh,
he died. That's right. You go back and listen to Yeah.
It means he's loved her so hard. Yeah, so hard.
And the only time he would stop loving her is
if he couldn't anymore. So he stopped loving her today.
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That George and Tammy show on Showtime, when they do
that scene about this song, You guys haven't seen it, right. No,
I don't think i've showtime anymore. I don't think I've
already asked two people for passwords and it's not working.
So and I'm gonna refuse to give you mine, because
that is not right what someone of integrity does. No,
I think they're smarter than that, and they're not letting
it work. Might leave it written on a piece of
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paper after the show. But I have nothing to do
with that password and you having it, find it, find
you find your me. That's my pile. That was Amy's
pile of stories. It's time for the good news, Bobby.
There's a dog resort and it since the Atole's Lake
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City neighborhood and it caught fire. Now what's in a
dog resort? Dogs? A bunch of dogs. So employees that
all the places around saw it and they weren't gonna
wait for the fire department because they knew they had
to get those dogs out of there. So PSR Mechanicals
one of the places. They started running out of there
(35:21):
into the place, grabbing dogs. There was also a Mexican
restaurant and everybody ran out of that. I started grabbed
the dogs. In the end, they saved sixty dogs. Wow,
not a single dog died in the fire. No humans
were injured. The place didn't do well, it didn't bounce,
you know, it was yeah, but no humans or dogs
died because everybody jumped into action and ran in and
(35:42):
just started grabbing all these animals and pulling them out
of there. That's some bravery to run in after a dog.
You don't even know. Yeah, I'd be like, that's a
pretty big fire, Stanley, You good buddy. I'm just kidding.
For sure, I'd run in. Great story. That is what
it's all about. That was tell me something good.
The Welcome to Thursday Show, Morning Studio morning. Right, let's
go around the room. Oh wait, thank you for being here.
You can be anywhere in the whole wide world, but
you here with us and we appreciate that. And let's
(00:22):
first go over to this guy. He's known for editing
video for our show when we talk, but his favorite
thing to do might be spelling the tea on lunchbox
like that. Here he is produce ready, guys, I'm an idiot.
I'm an idiot. So when I go to the grocery store,
I like wearing I like wearing headphones and listen to
music while I shop. Well, I couldn't find my headphones,
so I borrowed my son's air pods. I've never used
(00:44):
air pods. I put them in. I get my shopping car.
I turned my music on and I can hear the music,
but it's kind of faint, and I'm thinking, like, my
kids are so dumb, like they're they're skiers, are dirty
or something, because these things really aren't working that well.
But I turned it up all the way. I can
hear a little bit. So I shop. People are staring
at me, and I'm just I don't know what they're
looking at I get to the counter to check out
(01:04):
and the lady goes, can you please turn your music down?
And I'm like, what are you talking? I take my
ear pads out and like they weren't even connected. I
was playing music from my phone super loud and from
the horror rosery store. That's an old thing, like an idiot, Yeah,
that's an old thing. Have you done that before? No,
but I've seen like eighty year olds do it on
the airplane when they can't figure out how to do
(01:24):
their bluetooths. I'm so dumb. Are you listening to remember? Like? Also,
I dude, I was like, I went shopping for thirty minutes.
No one said turn that off except the lady at
the checker, and you saw people looking at you. I
was just like, okay, does he know what's happening? But
Eddie was like, people are so mean to me now
on the roads. What do you mean? He goes, nobody'll
let me in? Turn out his blinker was broken. Oh crap,
(01:45):
I'm getting old. I'm doing all the old all that
stuff all right. Next, whereas confidence comes from remains uncertain
and you never know what each day we'll bring with
this next person here. He is Lunchbox. Everybody, let me
tell you something that sucks. The glass Onion, the follow
up to Knives Out. It's so stupid, Like Knives Out
(02:07):
was overrated when it came out, like it was so high,
it's gonna be so amazing. When to it in the
theater with my mom and my wife and we're like, oh,
that's fine, So glass Onions out. Oh, let me check
it out. It's on Netflix. Let me check it out.
I started out pretty good. Then it just got so dumb.
Movie or movie? Oh it is, It's just the movie
movie Mike, did you watch this movie? Oh? Do you
(02:30):
think Lunchbox is wrong? I think lead fuck is wrong.
He doesn't like anything it has any kind of imagination
to it if it's not completely grounded in reality. He
doesn't like it if it's not on the nose. So
you have to figure it. Yeah. I can't figure it out. No, no, no.
I like the mystery part of it, but then the
ending is just, oh, don't talk about ending. Don't even
allude to anything happening at the end. You know, I'm
saying the first half, the first half, the mystery part
(02:51):
is great. No ending talk because Amy doses too, and
she'll accidentally spoil something. Eddie, you see it. I didn't
finish it. I watched about half of it and then
kind of when they're went back. Didn't like it. No,
I just wasn't interested. Again, it's just whatever. It was fine.
The first one was great, though. Did you guys finished
the last of us? Never started it? Perforest and my
brother tell me it's great. Yeah, I'm not gonna say
anything about it, but it's over now run the whole series. Yeah,
(03:16):
I'm probably gonna. So you think it's better than The
Glass Onion, I haven't seen The Glass on you. That's
the TV show versus a movie. So just different. You're
saying overrated? What do you give it? One and a
half islands out of five? Right? She has spelled victim
to multiple scam alerts throughout the years, but this has
ultimately led to many learning lessons for her peers. Here
it is, I went wild with magic eraser around my house.
(03:39):
Have you ever used one of those? I don't know
what it is. Okay, it's got mister Clean on the front.
You can buy them in a four pack, and I
bought a four pack in thought, Oh, this is gonna
last me. You know, six months. I went through the
four pack in one day. What do you do? You
can have? I have a lot of white walls, and
there's scuff marks everywhere on in the doorways, you know
when kids are care backpacks or shoes or different things
(04:01):
that run up against the wall, or you have pets.
And I didn't realize how many marks we're all over
my walls. And mean, once you see one, you clean it,
and then you see another and you go clean it,
and then you go see another and another and another
and the next thing you know, you're all around your
house cleaning up every skub mark everywhere. And it's addicting
and amazing, and I need to go get another four pack.
You sound a little psychology And is it called magic eraser? Yah,
(04:25):
it's awesome. But here's the truth, guys. It's really so
abrasive that it's just taking off whatever's on there's so
it's the wall, You're taking off the pain, that's what
it's doing. Oh yeah, well oh yeah, but my walls
look fine. Sounds like you had a bad experience. No,
I just figured out because I'm like the first ten
times like this is magic? Oh crazy? And then I
read more about it. I'm like, oh, it's literally taking
the stuff off, like acidic or like sandpaper. Like it's
(04:47):
so soft, it feels soft of whatever combination. I had
to put a glove on. And he's like, no, no,
it's all good, except that it burns my skin. Yeah,
that's scraping stuff off. So but you like it Magic eraser, Yeah,
I mean I have this white coffee table. I got
stuff off at that. I mean, you could listen. It's addicting.
We're listening. Oh yeah, it says magic eraser is a
(05:09):
high grit sand paper. Yeah. Man, it's just scraping off whatever.
So the table you're taking off all the enamel on it. Fine.
My teeth right from Mount Pine in Arkansas. He loves
wearing Arkansas red and after games it's hard for him
to go to bed. Bobby Bones, thank you. That. Okay,
here's the update on Stanley and his two surgeries, because
(05:31):
that's something to say about it. Both his legs have
had torn acl ligaments and his knee. The other one
he's ninety percent back, the one from six months ago,
the other one from like a month ago. He's doing okay.
But did you know there's dog rehab. We happen to
have one half mile from our house and never heard
of such thing. We were looking up dog rehab like
(05:51):
things that we could do to him, like from YouTube
to get the his just surgically repaired leg kind of
more arrange emotion. And there's a dog rehab like physical therapist. Yes,
not for drugs, he's goods. So we call him and
they say, well, he has to be. We called him
like as soon as surgery was over, so he has
(06:12):
to be like a month out. So we finally took
him in. They have dog underwater treadmills like you see
athletes doing out. We took him in. He did this
little like obstacle ladder, of course, to see if he
could lifted the leg up enough. And I asked the guy,
I said, how did you get into this like dog rehab.
I've never heard of it. And he used to work
in sports medicine for humans. You get banned from medicm No,
(06:34):
he was like, I don't like working with athletes anymore.
They were too whiny. That makes sense. So then he
then he started to stuff and now does animals. Wow,
never heard of such a thing. They also said, and
I kid you not that Stanley was the best behaved
bulldogs they've ever had as far as bulldogs go. You sure,
they'll tell you. I'm not sure that any But he
rolled over on his side. They were like, we can't
get bulldogs roll over on their side because he has
to do like muscle like feel his muscles. And Stanley
(06:56):
was like, oh, he just laid over and let him
do it. And he was like, we've never bull dog
I do this before. It santis like being all good
and stuff. It's kind of irritating me because I went in.
I was like, he's kind of how to control sometimes
and Stanley was like minding, and they because now I
can teach it. I've told him how to like speak,
and he'd be like he was like doing all the
tricks like she was like showing off, but he's on
(07:16):
the road to recovery. But more so, I didn't know
there was dog rehab places. And there's one right down
the road from my house. That's cool. It serves like
three different things. There's also a vet in there. And
maybe it's like Uber Eats where they go for Johnny
Supreme pizza, but it's really a gas station that makes
pizza and they name it something. Yeah, I don't. I
don't think that's it, but it's pretty cool. So if
(07:40):
you have a dog that's been injured, if you have
a dog rehab in your town, no idea. All right,
that's it, thank you. It's time for the mail bag.
Get something year. Hello, Bobby Bones, I heard you talking
about something similar to what's happening. But my daughter's little older.
(08:01):
She has our first real boyfriend. She's fifteen, he's sixteen.
He comes to our house a couple times a week
after school. My husband, her stepdad, works from home and
is around them more than I am. They cuddle on
the couch while watching TV, and my husband makes comments
to me about how it makes him feel uncomfortable. Again,
she's fifteen, he's sixteen. I feel like it's innocent and
(08:21):
they're just being teenagers. I've tried to explain to my
daughter how it makes my husband feel, but she just
replies that they're not do anything wrong. Any advice and
had a smooth the situation over sincerely, Mom, caught in
the middle, Yeah, this is easy. Tell him to go
to her room and shut the door. Kid, you want
(08:42):
to go amy, you have a fifteen year old daughter?
Oh yeah, I'm trying to picture her cuddling on the
couch with somebody, and I'll be like, okay, she did
about part. Those seems weird though too, you just thought
him cuddle. Oh, but I have friends in junior hind
high school with their parents. Were the stuff they did
in front of their parents, like, ah, it was crazy.
I guess I never had a girlfriend, so that's why
it seems so foreign. But I would I can't imagine cuddling,
(09:06):
all right, I guess just having a girl like me
then yeah. I mean when you made that joke about
some into the room or whatever, like I'm like, oh, yeah,
I knew parents like that, which is wild to me.
But I guess I would just say hey, like see,
I feel like if you're like no cuddling, then it
makes them want to cuddle more. So somehow they need
to have like like cuddling before it's boundary type thing.
(09:31):
How can you cuddle it from far away? If it's
really about the stepdad, you're just gonna make sure he's
not around when they do it. Now, it sounds like
she's fine with it, and if the mom's fine with it,
and even the step dad's fine with it. But he's
uncomfortable seeing it, then you just got to separate those two.
And if he's there, you can't do it the end
or it makes him feel bad. And if he's not,
you guys, cuddle away. But I wouldn't say it like that,
like cuddle away, because then that means that's a green light.
(09:53):
That's the end. I mean, you get to do more
than cuddle. But if it's about making the stepdad not
feel uncomfortable, then they just can't do that. That's the rule.
It's the house, it's the adults house, So don't cuddle
like that. You can sit by each other, but there's
no cuddling while he's there in the house. I know
it works from home, but he don't want to see that.
Or if he's in his room when that door opens
and he comes out, get away from each other. So
(10:14):
stepdad needs to say something like hey, separate, separate. No,
he shouldn't be putting that place because then he's you're
making him the bad guy. But it is his house
and he's the one there. Yeah, but he doesn't deserve
to be the bad guy because he feels uncomfortable. It's
his house. That's why something in your house if it
makes you feel comfortable, you just stop it. You own
the house, So what do you do? Separate? I'm gonna
(10:36):
don't make me put a board between you, guys. I
just walked by everything with no cuddling. Stop that. Then
three strikes in their out. They can'tuddle at all anymore.
That's true if he sees it three times. But make
it fun. Don't be mean about it, because then they're
just gonna go somewhere else and cuddle. Make it fun.
How do you make it fun? Hey, guys? Separate? Yea,
you can't do the separate thing. No, because again you're
(10:58):
making the stepdad be the bad guy constantly, and you're
making him have to police it when he didn't do
anything wrong. He just feels uncomfortable. You have to police it.
The mom in place it for him. If he's there
in the house or close, you can't cuddle, just sit
by each other, it's mom. Yeah, okay, you're the one.
Let him do it. You also got to be the
person to go, hey, don't do that while he's there.
If you want to cuddle, that's fine, but you can't
do it while he's there. It makes them uncomfortable. This
(11:19):
is his home, he shouldn't feel comfortable in his own home.
You know what I mean. I see what you're saying.
Thank you come up from Parson has no kids, by
the way, right, ye separate. I just don't want to
make him the bad guy and that kid the six
year would always be scared of him because he only
knows him as the person that's coming in making them separate,
like he's always the bad guy. Man. One time I
went to my girlfriend's house. We were in high school,
(11:41):
and we were in the room and I was just
like braiding her hair, you know, and the day walk
dad walking. He just stared at me for like five minutes.
I'm like, Okay, I'm gonna leave. I think he was like,
how do you know how to break her hair? No,
he was gonna kill me. Part that stand for something else?
Know how to braid hair? In there? Okay? Thank you Morgan.
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If someone wants to reach out to us and send
an email into the mailbag, what do they do mailbag
at bobbybones dot com? You go close it out. I
was about to close bobbymail bag year on phone. Let's
go to Carol in Massachusetts. Carol, what's going on? So
I just wanted to call Um. Last week, you were
(12:24):
doing a segment that was like good Decision Week or whatever.
I think it fizzles out a little bit towards the end,
but it prompted me to call you because I fought
and read both of your books, and because of those
I was able to lose fifty pounds from exercising every
(12:46):
day and just changing some lifestyles. And I changed jobs
because I wasn't being valued at my other jobs. And
just because of reading your books and listening to your
show and the positivity that the studio brings, I was
able to just kind of see my own self worth.
(13:06):
So I caused to thank you all for that. Well,
that's very kind of you to say, you know, I
wrote those books, and I was just kind of like, hey,
this is how lost I felt, how lost I didn't
know I was. Where I kind of discovered my value,
and also where it's also like I don't really know
still sometimes my value, so you never quite figure it out.
But yeah, the Week of good Decisions, I gotta say it,
(13:27):
last week, guys ended up pretty good. Good. I did
a whole week of good decisions. Oh good decision. I
just try to get myself back on track. Meaning sleep,
meaning nutrients, eating nutrients, not just crap because I'm in
a hurry, meaning relationship wise. And so when someone goes
my New Year's resolution is this, I ain't never gonna work.
(13:48):
It's fun to just say, but you can't look at
it macro like macro goals don't work like large goals
don't work unless you have micro solutions, which aren't fun.
No one wants to hear the tiny things. But you
can't do anything big. If you don't do the small things,
(14:09):
you know you can't play. You can't go start at
quarterback in the game. If you don't practice, well, you're like,
well i'll play under the lights. We'll show me you
can play in the daytime, your three pm more, we're practicing.
So the same situation. My goals that I set that
are big are really just a lot of ladder rungs
that I'm climbing up to get up there. And you
got to hit every one of those when I run.
When I would run, I was training for Trafflons. I
(14:30):
hated it. I could not run the ten miles. If
I just go and go run ten miles, let's go.
But I can run to that tree up there, I
could run to that tree, pass that tree. I could
run to that tree, and next thing you know, I'm
three miles in and I'm like, oh, I can do this.
And so, you know, I like to feel that my
books are very practically written. I'm not gonna win any
Peabody or Peltzer. Yeah, I'm not sure which one in
the book Flinn, I think the Pulitzer thought might actually
(14:53):
win the Pltzer. But I appreciate that, Carol. I think
we know, we try to be honest, and some days
are good, some day aren't. And you know, I did
a week or good decisions and oh, good decision got
myself back on track for this week. And I hope
you're doing the same. I'm glad to hear that you've
decided to live a healthier lifestyle. If that's what you're
up for, and go get it, attack, go get it.
(15:15):
Sometimes you'll have a setback, but that's okay, you know. Yeah,
thank you very much. I do appreciate you all, just
your honesty and with your relationships and parenting and all
of it. It's just helpful and it's and more thankful
for that. Carol, you have a great day. We really
appreciate your listening calling. Appreciate it, thank you. But I'll
(15:35):
say this week though I don't have it calendared in
as a week or good decision, Oh, good decision. I
made a couple of bad ones already popped. Is it
on my head way before it was? Is it that decision?
You shouldn't turn to pop it before as ready because
then it's just hurts. Yeah, and I feel like it's
a second head coming off, but nobody else don't even
see it, not at all. Yeah, I hate to have banks,
(15:57):
but you're right. My hair is so long now, so
it's like a weak a medium decisions good, So I
appreciate that call always. Thank you, guys. It's time for
the good news. There's a nonprofit in Virginia Beach called
Connect with a Wish and what they're doing for girls
to help them get ready for prom is super cool.
(16:20):
Girls age fifteen and older that are in foster care
get a personal shopper and they go around this room
where all these hundreds and hundreds of donated dresses are
and they get to pick out dress, shoes, purse, jewelry.
They have their hair and makeup done. This isn't even
the day of prom. This is just for them to
feel special and look good and know that this is
what they get to look like when they do go
(16:41):
to a dance. They even have a professional photographer there
to take their photo, and then the girls get to
keep their dress if they end up attending a dance,
and if they do that, they'll also get cash so
that they can get their hair and makeup done the
day of and go out to dinner. I want to
go to that. Yeah, that's full great. I just feel
like that's next level. It's not like just girls walking
in and picking out a dress, which is amazing too,
(17:02):
because that's something that they may not otherwise get, but
they just took it next level. Yeah, I want to
go to that. That sounds good. Hey, that's awesome. All
those people to donate their time and their money to
make people feel special, that is what it's all about.
That was tell me something good. I mean, this is
as they would say, savage parenting by Amy. Oh it's hilarious.
(17:25):
But also my wife could do this to me and
I would be like, dang, that sucks, So tell them
what you did today. Well, so I had to gather
all the remotes because I have heard when I because
I'm already at work, when I mean controllers, Yeah, it's
called a controller, not a remote. Oh I took a
remote too, So he took TV remotes and the controller.
(17:47):
Yeah stuff whatever controls the PS four whatever control the
TV and the little place the game like a game boy.
But the what is that called PlayStation? No, no, it's
called a You got it for him, Oh yeah, yeah,
I got it whatever that is. Yes, you actually bought
him all these things. But at the time, he was
a great idea and the Okay, so I hear that
(18:10):
getting ready for work is like or school has been
a challenge, Like he's getting on the game. And so
I was like, okay, well I'm gonna nip this in
the bud. So when I left for work, I gathered everything. So, yeah,
he's she came to work with his controllers, the TV remotes,
she's got it all here. You're all in the front
seat of my car. Everything, And I mean, and I
(18:32):
did it. It was sort of like, uh, I've just
I just was so frustrated when I heard that, because
we've had so many talks of like, hey, dude, you
have to turn your lights off in your room, you
have to get ready for school. You have to make
your lunch. There's all these things on a checklist that
must be done before we even turn anything on. Hilarious,
but I would hate it if it were me because
(18:53):
that could be used against me right now too, Yeah
I could. She could totally take away your controllers. Yeah,
she would just take the whole system. Then what does
she run out of town and took her controllers with you?
I go buy new ones? Well, I would go immediately
buy new ones, and then then what I would do
is I would hide and get other new ones and
hide them in the house so when she did it
the next time, I'd have a backup. That's so smart. Yeah,
funny you say that, because that's thought about the dramatic
(19:15):
unplugging like this. He wasn't present for it. Let even
take the cable, which is even harder to replaces with
the controller the cable. I shouldn't tell you this, No,
I've already I have enough um Way tools in my
toolbox to calm down. So I'm not going to do
that because I don't want to cause therapy later in life.
Of like one time, different you just took every controller
(19:36):
remote from that in front of his face, but no, no,
not from his face either. He just pulled that cable
out the plugs from the machine, from the box to
the plug, and it's like, I have the cable, so well,
this is where I'm sharing with you that there's been
times in the moment where I've been in it's been
a thing and I'm about to walk over and just
unplug everything. And so no, I don't thought about it.
Pick it up, Sam, No thought about that. Get a
(19:58):
fake one that's broken, that's not cheap, and you walk in.
You're like, I am tie and you take that fake one,
you smash it and then you kick in it and
then you pee on it. Then you're like and if
you want, no, these are the things they will remember
and it's not that's not the healthier. Yeah, I remember that.
That's cool, and I remember that in a good way.
Like I ain't ever messing with her again. She's beat
(20:19):
on my system. Now, I calmly say, hey, we can
play video games, but we turn off our lights before.
So did they know you took everything? Yeah? Or are
they just finding out like right now listening, which I
don't think they are, but I mean, no, A good
parent and bad parent Edny, amazing parent. I love it,
(20:42):
No latch, Great Parents. I think it's hilarious. I think
it's hilarious too. I don't like it because I could
happen to me. Right correct, he's probably a walking all
around the health right now, he's probably flipping the couch cushions.
Look more time though. Right now he's like scratching himself.
Yes withdrawals, Yes, going through it. Okay, good parent, good
a good parent, Amy, you're officially a good parent. Good job.
(21:04):
Good parents of the day. What'd you watch? MG? Three
seventy The plane that disappeared on Netflix? Was it the
Malaysian flight where they just don't know where it went
yet at all they have there's so many theories out there,
And here's what I thought. I thought when I watched it.
It's a three part docuseries, and I thought, Okay, we're
gonna get some answers, but well, don't spoil it though
(21:26):
it is a spoiler where there's no answer. Maybe maybe
not well, I think if there were answers that we'd
know from the news, right yeah, Okay, set us back
on what happened, because what I remember is there's this
flight and they were flying over a lot of ocean. Yeah,
and then it was just gone. So they took off
from Malaysia at midnight or one am or something, and
then they were supposed to land, I don't know, somewhere
in China, like six am. A lot of that is
(21:48):
over the water, big commercial flight too, right, like like
hundreds of people, two hundred and thirty nine or something
like that. And at some point over the water, not
too long after they took off, the pilots sign off
from communication because that's what you do, I guess in
the middle of the night, and so you hear the pilot,
but everybody goes It's like TV in the seventies. They
(22:08):
played the national anthem and then it shuts off your
radar and everything still supposed to be on. But I
guess you are like, Okay, good night, and that's the
last thing you hear the pilots say is good night.
And then suddenly they disappear off the radar and that
should not happen, Like there's no that they've never experienced
anything like that. So the Malaysian like air Control, all
the people in charge of the airport, they get calls
(22:29):
in the middle of the night. They go up to
the airport. Everyone's confused, try and figure out what happened.
And yeah, it's wild to think that these families just
lost all their loved ones on that plane and they
still don't have answers. Two things I want to say.
Number one is Eddie and I are flying to De
Moine later to watch arkasas basketball. I don't like here
on plane crash stories whenever I'm about to fly on
(22:50):
a plane. Yeah, the thing is, how do you know
it crushed? I don't or planes disappearing. I don't want
to be on de Moines flight one one one one
and all of a sudden we're gone. I don't want
to disappear either, So that's one. Number two is that
show where the plane disappears, think shows up ten years later,
manifest Like, what if that plane just all of a
sudden came back in five years and all like they're like,
(23:10):
oh we're back. That's a good and we're all older
and they still think it was their six hour flight?
Do they think that whether aliens? Like, what's the theories here?
I've seen so many conspiracy theories on this. What's the
big theory? I don't recall whether or aliens? One of
the big theories was that there was something on that
(23:32):
plane or cargo being delivered somewhere, and someone didn't let
that happening. And so take with you one from that,
which seems really really scary because you have all these
innocent people are just trying to I mean, there was
mother's children, like it's so they some of the family
members were part of the documentary and it's just so terrible,
Like this one man, I felt so bad his wife
(23:52):
and children on the plane and he was supposed to
meet up with them at the next stop and then
they were all gonna be flying together and they just
never arrived. And then the ocean is so big you
can't find it. Then if that's what happened, or do
you not find anything? Like all the seats float right,
but it's the ocean, bro, I know, really big. Yeah,
they find any rates out there and sailors and stuff, popeye,
(24:13):
No one's finding a chair. Well, this one woman that
is photographer, that is she says she has a really
good eye for things. She photographer say, they have really
good eyeing. But she volunteered. You know how people on
the internet what are they called them? They volunteered to
solve crimes. Are the idiots go ahead? I don't know.
So she enjoyed like there was all these little bubbles
of people across the world that we're rallying together online
(24:35):
to try to solve this mystery. And she claims to
have found parts in the water that look like it,
but from pictures like satellite images, yes, satellite and zoom in. No,
she feels like she found very specific parts of the plane.
But then again, she said she really couldn't get anybody
to listen to her to go check it out because
she's whackadoodle. I don't know, she's super easy. The plane
(24:56):
floating nice anyway, I think a fish unless officials were
involved in it, Okay, but that's the thing. At the
press conferences and different things, families were like, what you're
saying is not making sense, and also you're not telling
us anything, and why does this steel value? To me?
Feels like here's what the order. I rate them with
absolutely no knowledge on the subject, so totally dumb dumb.
Here one, the government did not want something going from
(25:18):
A to B. So you know the government does a
shoot it down, B blow it up. That's one. Two aliens, Wow,
aliens is a two three grab bag could be anything else?
Is that documentary is a good It's pretty good. I
had it. I went on while I was like cleaning
and doing things. It kept me entertained. But then my
(25:38):
son walked in and was like, what's this. I'm like, no,
because I do not want him to be scared to fly.
I'm scared. We're going to Iowa today. Huh. Well I
fly with him this weekend and I had to like
slam my computer down. Nothing to see here, kids, that
would scare him. Yeah. I could see us being on
the plane and then him being like, what's going to happen?
Is this playing going to disappear? Are we okay? Because
he already thinks at the end of the world's happening
(25:58):
or something. What's his thing? Where he saw on TV
like the news and so he thought someone's like coming
into the house or oh, there's been lots of things,
so oh, it's so common that it could be one
of ten things. Yeah, he's a he's his brain is
always on high alert, which I think is just some
of his trauma, like living in fight flight free. So
we try to, you know, make sure we do our
best to keep him like I think that Russia's gonna
(26:20):
bomb us or something as well. Oh yeah, that's one
of them. Yeah, I mean one of them. Oh no,
he thinks we're going into World War three. Yes, no,
I mean there's I probably only shared a couple with y'all,
but in my mind, I'm like, oh, there's every day
we're kind of dealing with a new potential tragedy. All
deals with the same thing with me, honesty, I mean
really it is very similar. Yeah. Yeah. Here are your
top three songs in country music. At number three, Laney
(26:43):
Wilson Heart Like a Truck, I Got a Hard At
number two, Bailey Zimmerman Rock and a Hard Place Between
a Rock. And that's a good one. Huh oh yeah,
like I out of Nowhere, Out of now Where that
song is like, hey, that's good. Number one. Luke Hombs
(27:04):
going Going Gone. So here's this. I'm gonna play the
number one alternative song and it's from Lincoln Park. But
it has Chester Bennington singing, oh wow, who died? Do
you remember him dying? Or no? Not really refreshment. Well,
there are two leads of Lincoln Park. There was like
(27:25):
Mike Shinoda, the rapper, guy Chester Bennington the lead singer
Chester died and so this was a track from a
Now I'm in two thousand and three, but they just
released it twenty years later and it's the number one
alternative song and it's called Lost. Lincoln Park was massive
(27:46):
back in the day. For anybody that's like twenty five listening,
I don't know why you're listening. There are much cooler
show than us. However, Lincoln Park was. I mean, they
were awesome. I was never a massive fan, but I
could appreciate their big radio poppy songs, and I'll so
I understood why people liked them. They wrapped in saying, yeah,
that's pretty cool. We did that. They had two different
lead singers. That was so cool. And then finally the
(28:06):
number one pop song, and this song is great. It's
Miley and Flowers. That's a jam. Okay, those are your
number one songs all across your Samy's pile of stories.
Reusable water bottles like tumblers are very popular right now,
(28:28):
so much so they have a nickname Emotional support water bottles.
So many women they don't even leave the house without
their Stanley sees men to no adult men can have one.
Eddie has something over there idea right here. I thought
when I saw this story, they meant reusable water bottles,
like I will use a plastic water bottle, meaning I'll
(28:49):
use it three or four times filled up with the
water in the bridge. But I didn't realize they meant those,
which if those had that many germs, how many germs
my plastic water bottles formed the use? Yeah, researchers swabbed
different parts of the water bottle, the spout, the lids,
straw to squeezeop everywhere, and it's got forty thousand times
more bacteria than the average toilet seats. You know me,
(29:11):
I always say, toilet seats aren't that gross anyway, It's
just your butt cheeks. What are your butt cheeks ever? Touched? Nothing?
Right hand? Second of all, stop swabbing everything, arks, swabbing everything.
Oh yeah, ros swabbin. Also, lunch box is a water
bottle in the studio. He's never cleaned once. It sits
your every day. Well. He has some blue light on
it that he pushes it cleans it all out. I
don't believe it. I do clean it. I hit the
button and it says boom kills ninety nine point nine
(29:33):
percent of the bacteria. Look at it, they're blue light going. Now,
who why don't we have a blue lights on the wall.
Then we walk up to it let it clean us.
Oh that's a good idea. I'm just telling you, I
don't think that works like he thinks it works. All right.
What else, Well, they're swabbing it to remind people to
wash it everything, wash it regularly. You're good. So if
you want to come to work in a better mood,
I have an easy thing that you can do. Drive nice.
(29:55):
That's all you have to do. They say it will
cut down your work stress by forty percent. If you're
wondering what does drive nice mean? Well, you can let
someone into your lane, you can wave high to someone
at a stoplight, you can avoid tailgating, and you can
just be more patient on the road. Eddie, Yeah, I
like that. No, that's me totally until somebody cuts me off.
Then it's like then I'm stressed for work. Do you
(30:16):
feel like that was a targeted ad right there? In
a little bit, like you're the only one that actually
heard that segment? I mean, never looks at me when
she's talking about these segments segment. You're the only person
that's hearing this right now, we've now figured out targeting
radio show for things that people need to hear. But
to counter what Eddie just said, if someone cuts him off,
I feel as though he'll arrive to work less stressed.
If you don't react to the person that cut you off,
(30:37):
if you decide to be like, you know what, they're
probably having a rushed morning or a bad day. I
don't know. There's circumstances. I'm just going to smile and wave,
then wilt. It won't affect you. And you've cut someone
off accidentally occasionally, Yeah, my signal light wasn't working. Yeah,
and I had to know that with a working signal
light actually accidentally And then I go, oh, but they're
so mad at me, going like that idiot, but it
(30:57):
was an accident. I'm sorry, but that's what's up. You
ever just waved as someone at a stoplight? No? Bill,
I just realized that was one thing. And I'm like,
I like wave people if they let me in, like
if I thank you, But then I look and see
if they saw me wave, and if they didn't, I
get a bigger wave. Then if they didn't put more
(31:18):
mouths the window. And then if they don't my head out.
Then I'm turning. It's like a dumb and dumber out
of the side of the car. What else Taste? Some
country put out the top saddest country songs of all time,
according to them. We'll see if you agree. And at
number three, Hank Williams I'm so lonesome I could cry somuch. Yeah,
(31:49):
it's very sad. It's so old though, that makes me
just want to get a beer. Then it feels more
black and white than it does reality side. But yes,
it's nineteen forty nine. Yeah, that's Eddie's birth year. What else?
And then in from nineteen seventy five is Willie Nelson
Blue Eyes Crying in the Rain. Cry Right. This is
(32:09):
one of my top three, maybe top five favorite songs
of all time. And I know it's sad. I just
it's just normal for this feels this songs normal to me,
my baseline. It's not even that sad. I love sad,
and I don't know. I hear this and go I'm
just so sad. There are songs that really kick me
(32:29):
in an ad sad. These are like just generally sad.
This one makes me want to get another beer. Well,
I'm seeing a theme here. Buzz now like songs that
don't make you feel like they're going to be sad
and then hit you it's sad out of nowhere, Tim mcgirl,
I don't hate the girl sad at the end? M
George Jones. Is that number one? By the way, No,
(32:51):
it's no number one. We'll kick you in the or
The other one is Reba and Brooks and Dune cow
Girls Don't Cry because the whole song is about her
and her dad and him being like, get up on
the horse again. Cow Girls don't cry. And then at
the end he dies spoiler alert, and she's like cow
girls don't cry and you're like, oh, like that to
(33:11):
me where it walks you somewhere and then sweeps your
legs out sad like real life. Those are the most
sad ones. What's number one? Well, Vince Gill started writing
this song in nineteen eighty nine after Keith Whitley died. Yeah,
but he didn't finish writing it until nineteen ninety three
after his brother died. And that that alone right there
gives me all the fields and it's go rest high
(33:31):
on that mountain. That's a very sad song because you
know It's played at a lot of funerals. Vince played
it at the Opry last week because somebody had passed
away somewhat. Don't remember this story. There was a there
was like a drunk fight, Yeah, right up there in
(33:53):
front of us. Weird. That's kind of distracted, yes and so,
but yes, that song is so sad that he stopped
loving her today. That's a sad song. Did you know
why you stopped loving her? She died? He died? Oh,
he died. That's right. You go back and listen to Yeah.
It means he's loved her so hard. Yeah, so hard.
And the only time he would stop loving her is
if he couldn't anymore. So he stopped loving her today.
(34:18):
That George and Tammy show on Showtime, when they do
that scene about this song, You guys haven't seen it, right. No,
I don't think i've showtime anymore. I don't think I've
already asked two people for passwords and it's not working.
So and I'm gonna refuse to give you mine, because
that is not right what someone of integrity does. No,
I think they're smarter than that, and they're not letting
it work. Might leave it written on a piece of
(34:39):
paper after the show. But I have nothing to do
with that password and you having it, find it, find
you find your me. That's my pile. That was Amy's
pile of stories. It's time for the good news, Bobby.
There's a dog resort and it since the Atole's Lake
(35:01):
City neighborhood and it caught fire. Now what's in a
dog resort? Dogs? A bunch of dogs. So employees that
all the places around saw it and they weren't gonna
wait for the fire department because they knew they had
to get those dogs out of there. So PSR Mechanicals
one of the places. They started running out of there
(35:21):
into the place, grabbing dogs. There was also a Mexican
restaurant and everybody ran out of that. I started grabbed
the dogs. In the end, they saved sixty dogs. Wow,
not a single dog died in the fire. No humans
were injured. The place didn't do well, it didn't bounce,
you know, it was yeah, but no humans or dogs
died because everybody jumped into action and ran in and
(35:42):
just started grabbing all these animals and pulling them out
of there. That's some bravery to run in after a dog.
You don't even know. Yeah, I'd be like, that's a
pretty big fire, Stanley, You good buddy. I'm just kidding.
For sure, I'd run in. Great story. That is what
it's all about. That was tell me something good.
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