Hear what a listener asked Travis Denning and his response! Plus, we discuss what we consider to be venting or gossiping and what the difference is, find out if you agree! Mailbag: a listers co-worker has a sleazy boyfriend who did some inappropriate things at the company Christmas party. The whole office is aware of it besides the guys girlfriend. They aren't sure if they should tell her. We share our thoughts!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Mom, what's happened? And everybody, thank you for coming here
to the Wednesday show Florence Studio Wanting. So if you're
a new listener, this is what we do. We go
around the room. There's four of us here, four of
us main characters, and we just give a little snippet
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from our lives. It's very easy. We always go to
Eddie first, so here he is our producer, our video
producer and co host Eddie. Everybody, guys, I've grown up,
I've matured and I found I found that out this
week because I started to watch Bavis and butthead. I
was so excited there was a reboot, the new version. Yeah,
Mike Judges babus and butthead on Comedy Central. I'm like,
let's watch this. I used to love this when I
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was a kid. I turned it on. Five minutes later,
I'm like, this is the dumbest thing I've ever seen
in my life, and I turned it off. I watched
the clip it's probably five minutes long. On TikTok, so
they were learning about white privilege and they were like,
white privilege. Hunt He's like, yeah, white people just and
so they think he means they have it. So they
go out and start to do everything and they're like not.
They said, we're white, we can do it, and they're like, taking, hilarious,
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that's funny. It's hilarious. I did not feel like I
hadn't grown up. Really, I felt like I still got it.
They were like, no, we could take this. It's white privilege.
The teacher said, so, oh my god. The one I
saw was they were going to an escape room and
they take the wrong turn and go to the bathroom
and they're like, you just describe that. Rate us all
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three lave it's so funny. Dumb guys, that's funny. And
instead of watching music and you were in a bad mood, buddy,
maybe yeah, I need to revisit hilarious what are they doing?
And set of music videos? They watched social videos like tiktoks.
So on the old show they would show music videos
like parts of them. They'd be like, huh Pantera, yeah
they were and a little click quick and then come
back to them. But now they watched tiktoks. They watched TikTok.
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They're like, look at a Steward gird. Funny, it makes
me want to go white, but it really does, all right,
here he has Lunchbox. Everybody, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well
this week at he revealed that I kind of took
the soap dispenser off the wall in the bathroom when
I was doing some building inspection. You know, I was checking.
You were literally act like a child. He going, I
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wonder if this thing is stable. Boom, he took it
off the wall. I gave it a little jiggle and
it came off in my hand. Well, we got an
email from the landlord of our building saying that it
was brought to my attention by one of my employees
that listen to the show that an employee that goes
by the name of Lunchbox was joking on air about
pulling the soap dispenser off the wall. So we don't
own the building anymore. There's somebody else here that owns
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the building and they are a different business upstairs. Yeah,
And they also talked about one of the guys cars
leaking oil on the parking lot. For you see, I
don't check morek email, I didn't see this. If they
would like to pay us to fix the soap dispenser,
we will and we will get some dry oil stuff
to pick up the oil off the garage floor. So
I got this email and I'm like, dang, this dude's ticked.
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So I went ahead and I fixed the soap dispenser myself.
He didn't. I just went in the bathroom and it
was on the kid. No, no, no, I did it
like I did a whole video everything how mister fix
it video? I teach you how to fix things around
the off way. But where did you see the Literally
right before the chef started on the sink face down,
so someone else took it off the wall. You have
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some clip you're trying to say, welcome to the tutorial
and how to fix things around your house or office.
Let me show you how to fix things in a break.
Let's start with the sofa spenser that came off the wall.
It wasn't very starting first, you're gonna grab the item,
press it firmly against the wall. You know what we
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should do actually is you should pre rip the tape.
See how the one enough space pre rip. Then stick
it to the wall. Boom, that's pretty good. I have fixed.
They taping it to the wall. Taped it to the wall. Yeah,
and I tried to just laughing shooting the video Scoobo
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because I got to tape it, and there wasn't enough
room to like get the tape in there, so I
had to pull it back and rip it, and then
that's why it's not up there still day. Yeah, well, yeah,
that landlord's not happy because how much longer are we
in this building? Do you think they say we had
to be out by the end of the year, But
I think after this we'd probably out to play next week.
Every time he does it, it's a month earlier. La
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soap breaker, All right, thank you, Lets about let's go
over here. She has amy everybody. When I was a kid,
my grandma would give me and my sister, Madam Alexander
dolls like Kevin Patch and girl. They're no, they're up
a level like they're nice. You don't play with them.
They just sit there crappy toys. Listen. I don't know
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what the deal was, but every Birthday, Christmas so we
had a ton of them. They would line my room
on a shelf, like all the way around. And whenever
I went to college, my mom packed him up, put
him away, And then when my my mom died, they
were I didn't bring them back to Nashville with me.
My mom's friend was like, I'll hold onto these. Well,
I just found out she has them all, and I'm like,
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oh my gosh, there they are. These could be worth
a lot of money. Have you searched them? Some are
some some are selling like twenty thousand dollars, I mean yours, Well,
I I need She's gonna ship them to me. So
I'm about to have them shipped here, and I'm gonna
see what we've got. And I don't know if if
you want to go in business, who you get lunchbox
(05:30):
going to business with you? Yeah, I'll go into business
with you. Who you're going into business with him? Though
you've got idea, I don't know what your investment is
or what you would get out of it. Maybe you
post about it because then more people would go look
at the dolls. He didn't mean post about the shoes
we sell. You're gonna post about your dumb doll looking
at him on eBay. Here there's like sixty nine, two
nine to fifty, but I don't see the twenty thousand
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ors to two hundred and fifty. Yeah that's still a lot, really, yeah, yeah, no, no,
you can't say it's a lot when you bring up
twenty thousand. It's you. Yeah, there's there's one. I googled it.
There's one for twenty thousand. See, I don't know if
any of mine are still in the box. TBD. Okay,
well let me know, TBD. I'm happy to recommend you
a good business partner. I got eBay skills that has
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terrible I don't have an eBay account, so it actually
be very helpful him, yes, or somebody I'll saying me,
I'm business dealed out with you guys. It's not been
good for me, okay. Ray Dumi from Mountain Pie in Arkansas.
He doesn't like calfine to drink water all the time,
and he's way better at making things rhyme. Bobby Bone,
thank you very much. So first of all, I'd like
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to tell you that you know that you can order
in a little like a canist or like light a
cane if they use like the doctor to numb stuff. Oh,
I didn't know you can order it. So I have
an injury on my backside, a bh terrible injury, and
my wife's like, let me order some light and it hurts,
but it does numb it. I didn't know you could
order that just online. So I'm letting everybody. What so
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that way when you have to eat, you just don't
feel anything. Now, No, it just all the time. It
hurts all the time. It's like a wound. Yeah. So
I put it on and it hurts for a second,
but it actually works and it numbs it. I didn't
know you can buy that stuff. I thought it was
like doctor only, but it's hardcore. You can buy it
Merry Christmas. Oh yeah, some women put it on their
feet before they wear high heels. That would make sense.
(07:16):
Something else I wanted to share was if you ever
get ulcers in your mouth in time, I go to
the dentist, I get them on the inside. It's like
the soft tissue. It's like mouth trauma, and I get them.
Or if I get really stressed, I'll get like these
little inside ulcers. If you take like listerine specifically and
you swish it around, it gives you a few hours
of relief. It hurts like the devil for a little bit,
but then it gives you a few hours of relief. Also,
(07:37):
you can put salt on it. That never worked for me.
I don't feel really. I just licked it off. I
put it on and be like, Okay, it's good. I
have something happening right here on the insert of m lip. Yeah,
but like I keep biting it really really hard in
their hurt. But about the mouth, if anything that feels weird,
you want to like bite well, but here, I don't
know why I'm doing it all morning long. It like
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actually really hurts, but I can't stop like purposely biting
down on it. Like it's like that feels so good
pain because it feels abnormal in your mouth, like I'm
doing it right now. It feels so good. You have
some light of candies in my butt. I also get
a pickaball injury I'm dealing with. You're not supposed to
dive playing pickaball. It's like tennis basically an I dove
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and I scratch all the skin off my thumb and
it's finally starting to heal. But as my third recommendation,
don't dive playing pickaball. Did you get the point? Yepe,
Let's see, it's not worth it. But I'm known as
a hustler and I can sell move pretty good. You know,
I really set my reputation as a diver. Now I
only take one dive and you and had blood all
over my hand. Oh, that's cool. I didn't wipe it off.
I just play blood of course I played Bloody was awesome.
(08:41):
All right, we're ready to go. It's kind of like
Dear Abbey. If you're older, you know dear Abbey is Yeah,
I remember that, I call them. I'm starting like the
twenties people would write for advice. I wish we would
have named it something cooler before we get started, so generic.
That's open up the mailbage something. Hello, Bobby Bones, my
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co worker has a sleazy boyfriend who grabbed another co
worker's fiance's booty at our Christmas party. The entire office
is now where the event that took place at the party.
That is, everyone accept a girlfriend of the booty grabber,
so she works there, but her boyfriend grabbed somebody's butt,
got it? Yeah? None of us know what to do
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since this co worker has a habit of ignoring red flags,
but since she's also planning on well marrying him and
spending the rest of her life with him, we feel
like we should tell her. Should we should we send
an anonymous email? Or not stick our spoon into someone
else's chili? Sincerely, dazed and confused Wall, that's weird though,
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because it's not just about the drama and you're just
getting in the drama for the sake of it. If
you're actually looking out for somebody in their future, I
think it's different. I don't think it's getting in the
chili if you're actually worried about somebody's future. But here's
another wrinkle. It's at work. It's a coworker. Yeah, so
that's tricky too. She doesn't accept this advice or whatever,
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like she's gonna turn on him. Problem is yea, And
if you go and you're like, hey, your boyfriend grab
so and so, but her first reaction is gonna be
defensive and mad at you. Yeah, that's why I always
recommend having a good burner account. If you go back
to the burner, always Amy, what would you do? Mean?
This is so hard. I mean you do risk getting
in the chili. But if it's for her benefit, I
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think it depends how close you are to her. And
maybe it's who's the closest to her and they kind
of have to be nominated to say something. Yeah, you
have a group meeting, all right, who's the closest And
I don't think you can Actually, here's the problem. Too.
If you just go to her one on one, she
can just not believe one person. But if you go
to her like three of you who know it for
sure happened, then she feels like she's getting ganged up on. Yeah,
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because that's the thing too. It's you have to handle
this very delicately. But I do think she needs to know.
But here's the thing. She probably already knows. He sleeves ball.
That's why I was like, what if she's like, yeah,
you do only live with a sleaves balls and eventually
not find out they're a sleeves ball. He only had
slaves for so long, So Amy, what would you do?
I guess I work on finding a way to delicately
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share this with her in some way. Call a meeting,
everybody submit their best idea and then go with that.
It's easy, guys. You guys always want to get up
in people's business. Leave it alone, don't mess with the chill.
It's the easy thing to do. That's the easy thing
to do. Just leave her alone, let her find out
on her own. She dates this dude, she knows you're
not good friends with the girl. Yeah, you work with her.
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Guess what if freaking Morgan's boyfriend is cheating on her,
I'm not gonna go tell her. Oh my god. You
wouldn't say anything. If Morgan was dating somebody they were
cheating on her, just my co worker. She just your
co worker. But she's my friend. But I'm not. I'm
not trying to get up in that chili. Maybe she
had somebody cheating on her, you would not tell her,
no chilling you would. Yeah. I don't think every one
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of us would tell her immediately. Yeah. So if my
wife's cheating on me, you coming to me? Yes, yeah,
oh hey tell them bunes. Yes of course. Oh we'd
be like bro, okay, Well, I just I'm not getting
involved in someone else's chili. Like I'm letting them deal
with their name, their relationship. I don't know what their
relationship is. Maybe, but we also we're also closer that
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I think the normal we're here together erect all super close.
That's why I said earlier. It depends how close you
are to the person. Yeah, like, I mean, maybe they're
okay with but grabs up parties. Maybe that's one of
the rules. My wife when I was going out, she
just tell me no tongue. I was gonna kiss another check,
so you could kiss a girl but without tongue. Yeah,
that's your nuts, Eddie. Look I'm with Lunchbox on a
different level though, because no, no, no, look say out
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of the chili, right. But for this reason, it's work
like if for some reason she just doesn't take it well,
like you're this is gonna affect your work, like you
just get your future, your income all that. So I
understand doing the right thing for her is helping her,
telling her what's up. But if she's not a friend,
she's a co worker, stay out of it. I would
agree that if you're not close to her, if ten
means best friends, if you're not six point five or
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nobody is, I don't think she's gonna believe you anyway. Yeah, so,
but if you're six point five or above, you've got
to find a way to go tell her. We would
tell Morgan immediately. That'd being said for a salesperson. Here
we found out, we don't know. Really, we're not gonna
say anything. We make gossip about it amongst ourselves, we're
not gonna say anything. So I think the answer is this,
it depends how close you are. So I'll go back
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to that and If you are close, you got to
figure out who's the closest that she'll trust and have
them say something to her. But if you're not close, yeah,
you gotta Yeah, you gotta be close enough to actually
make that uncomfortable conversation happen. That's my advice. And if
you're not, then don't because that's chilly. You don't want
to taste that's right, work chili. Don't taste good friend chili.
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You know you don't. You don't want to be in it,
but you will get in it. Now if you are
only chili. What if you're interested in her and you
want her to break up with him, then you go
and tell right away and make some stuff up there. Yeah, yeah,
I know we have The butt grab is very very creepy. Yeah,
the grab itself is a weird thing. Yeah, it's like
that's sleas. That's all right, we're for it, slease. So
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there you go. We gave you a six point five
or above. You gotta have a little conversation. Or if
she has a really close friend there the six point
five or above, you tell them and let them do that. Yeah,
put it on that And then if you don't expect
to go to the wedding. Probably probably wouldn't want to
go anyways, you get buck grabbed. Oh yeah, what we're
saying you might not get invited. All right, there you go,
thank you, close it up. We've got your game. That
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was bad? Yeah, Mayby, Why are you bringing this to
us today? Is this something personal that's happened here on
the show? Is this something in your life? Why do
you want to talking about gossiping? I think just in general,
I'm trying to be careful with my words, especially with friends,
and like how it's making them feel if I'm speaking
to their wait or me feel. And I got curious,
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like wait, if I'm venting about something and I'm sharing
with a friend, I was like, oh, is this is
this gossiping? So then it got me curious and I
looked at the difference. What is venting, Well, venting is
something that we do out of frustration, and it involves
you and doesn't harm others. It just helps you vocalize
your feelings and there's normally healing associated that and it
leads to solutions that venting gossip though, Yeah, oh, but
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that's that would be gossip. Oh, like you're venting about someone? Yeah,
Like I'm venting some gossip, So does that roll over
into the gossip category. Well, gossip is done out of boredom,
the situation on board. Okay, the situation doesn't involve you,
whereas venting it involves you. Gossiping is ill intentioned. It
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comes from a desire to be nosy, not genuine concern.
It leaves you feeling guilty in the end, and then
instead of solutions, it sometimes creates new problems. So that's
the difference. So you know, if you are venting to
a friend about something that involves you and may involve
other people, but you're you're trying to get something out,
that's with that friend, not gossiping. I told you I
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read the Four Agreements about once a year. One of
the agreements is don't talk about about other people ever.
And the book is super quick you can read it.
Probably agreement work even in therapy. Well I don't know
about therapy, but it's just generally, don't talk about other
people in a negative way. And it kind of is
and so best six months after I read the book,
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it tends to fade and we're talking to trap about
people again. But for a while I may want to
actually and it makes you feel better, like you feel
more whole, you don't worry about other people's crap as much. Yeah,
that leaves you feeling guilty. Part under gossiping. That that
that's true. I mean you sometimes, or at least it's
been my experience. Like if I've done that, I'm like,
oh yeah I do. I'm like, oh this, this doesn't
feel good, and I want other people that I'm around
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to feel good, So I don't want to create that.
Then things about yourself. Gossiping is just about others, and
it's normally done out of boredom, So check yourself. And
the biggest gossip around here lunchbox. Oh yeah, but I
was thinking about spilling the tea, Like what does that fall? Under?
Build the tea on the show. But you guys want
to hear about that stuff. Yeah, like I'm encouraging it. Yeah,
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it's done to be a bit. It's just for a bit. Yeah,
But sometimes stuff rolls off the air too, and you
guys are all mad at each other after the show.
What are you gonna say? Do you think Eddie's more
of a gossiper than I? I think he is all
up in every conversation trying to get dirt. But does
he come and just go, hey, guess what I heard? Yes? Wait, wait,
and don't even believe that I go around every conversation
to get dirt. I don't walk around any conversation. So
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it's the biggest gossiper on the show, one of them too. Well,
you're basing that on spill the tea right, true, which
is which is us bringing stories like that show? Okay,
so then probably how do you figure what do our
gossip about? You're a little gossip boy. I don't bring
the hot gossip time your okay? What's our learning lesson
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from this? That it's okay to vent about certain things,
but then check yourself and maybe how you're presenting it.
Make sure you're in line. And look, we're all guilty
of it gossip at some point in our lives. But
the good news is now you have this information and
you can be like, oh, okay, maybe I shouldn't say
this right now about this other person because this doesn't
involve me and it's done of my business and I'm
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probably gonna feel crappy words. So there's no real solution here,
And I would recommend reading the Four Agreements if you can,
which one of those is don't take things personally and
all that's so hard. Well, especially in business, don't take
anything personal business because it's just business. So that booked.
I mean again, there are two books how to make
friends Influence people. You know that book. I priced the
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title wrong. I'll read that about once a year. Amazing.
I wasten a hundred years ago. Still great. In the
four agreements. You can read that in an hour, maybe
a little more than that, also awesome. And then don't gossip,
but vent. But if you vent gossip, it's still gossip.
There you go, we got it all figured out. It's
time for the good news. Did you ever learn how
(18:44):
to drive a tractor? Yeah? I did actually combine like
how old in a small chactor about three years ago.
I breaking bobby bones like as a kid, or like
go karts all that. Yes, okay, so stick on a truck.
But you know, I didn't walk in a farm. There's
a difference in farm and poor. That's true. I was poor.
I wasn't lighting working a farm. Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
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Four wheeler oh I draw, I mean I wrecked to
three wheeler ones? Yeah? Can you imagine they had three wheelers? Yeah,
A lot of people are I dumped it over. They
don't make those anymore, that's why. Yeah, that's right. Go ahead. Well,
this mom she's driving down the highway. She's got her
eleven year old twin boys in the car, Jordan and Jamal,
and her name's Chrystel. She had a seizure on the
highway and her boys they went into action immediately. The
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one that was in the front seat took the wheel.
The other one was like guiding him, like, hey, go
over here, this looks like a good spot where you
could pull in. And they had tractor driving skills because
her fiance would take him out on there and taught
him how to do it, and then they rode go karts,
so he felt like he kind of knew what to
do or how to handle it. And the mayor of
their town like commended them. They were honored. It's just
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such an amazing story of them saving their mom's life.
It's a great story. I just feel too. Where mayor
give somebody the key to the city. I don't know
if that's tru or not here, but if they give
you a key to the city like they do, sometimes
you should be able to use that key one time
at any time, and it's not a literal key that
opens the log. But it's like I'd like to go
into the fro Yo Place and for an hour, all
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you want in the city, you get the key. There
should be something more than just to hang up. Oh
you could have like a party at city Hall. Okay,
I don't know how using for city hall. If you
go into the fro Yo place with the key opens
at eleven pm, and they gotta be somebody's gotta be
ready at all times for I call hey, Mayor. I
know it's one am, but I'd like to get into
John's fro Yo here and he's got to come and
(20:37):
open the door for you. What about mayor for the day?
Mayor for the day, though, what are you gonna do budgets?
Like in reality, if you get a key to the city,
you should be able to open a door. If you're
the mayor for the day, then you gotta like do
budgets and yeah, that'd be terrible. Okay, that's all I say.
We should the key to the city should mean something.
They'd give away a few less, but you should actually
get a key to anywhere in the city and you
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get to use it for an hour like these is
I should be able to use whatever the trampoline part,
key to the city, whatever they want, the prize room
at school, key to the school. Like when teacher keeps prising, no, no,
that's not key to anything. Answer answer, key the key
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to my heart. Now I gotta fall in love. Okay,
that's it, thank you, that's what it's all about. That
was tell me something good. Question is how often do
you wash your link now not body parts? Close? Okay,
close close? How often are you supposed to wash them?
All right? So i'll tell you what did you tell
me what you do? Okay? Coats and jackets? How often? Oh? Never? Never?
(21:45):
I get something on it? But I don't ever. I
did gets a jackets one thing, maybe a light jacket,
but a coat never. How often do you wash your
coats or jackets? Answers Maybe once a year if it
gets something on it, and I'll send it the dry cleaner. Yeah, yeah, same.
I should probably be more proactive with me, Nevember. I
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am like jackets I've had for ten years, never washed them. Yeah, now,
I get it. You I can't remember. They say once
a month. Well, if you're wearing it all the time. Okay, jeans. Okay,
how are you gonna do on weares? Like how many
times you wear before? Let's say, oh, I just says
how often should you wash? So I don't know how
many times you wear jeans in mind, but how often
(22:29):
should you wash? I'd probably go once a week, but
only wear jeans once maybe maybe I say one and
a half times before I wash them. So I'm gonna
go once a week you yeah, after one or two wears? Yeah,
every two weeks? Yeah, ten wears? Are you like one?
You wear your jeans ten times? Wash? Yeah? But how
(22:52):
many days in a row do you wear your jeans?
I used to wear them every day to work, and
now I'm more in the basketball pants like legit, uh?
And so I mean I haven't more. I don't wear
jeans very often, Like I can't even tell you where
my jeans are right now. Once a month, they say
to wash your jeans. Okay, So I'm talking about you.
Guys thought I was crazy. No, we still do. That
has nothing to do with it. I didn't think it
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would be maybe once every two weeks. I didn't think
it'd be once a month. But my jeans end up
being to wear them a few times they end up
like being they get bigger. Oh they stretch out, Yeah,
and they don't fit as good. I get that next
step underwear, oh after everywhere? Yea one where four? Oh
(23:34):
my god? No, you get two right side and then
two inside out. It's it's it's every yuse don't know,
wash your underwear. But what if you flip it inside out?
It's it's still there. No, it's on the outside. Well,
it's not about a touch in your Okay, it's supposed
to that was supposedly every time sucks every time. Yeah,
(23:55):
that's pretty well. Sometimes I wear him twice. I mean
you could you know you get two times? No, I
don't do that. But if I just wear the socks
and I go No, if I just like come to
work in these socks and I take them off when
I get home, but I'm gonna work out or something
the next day, those are socks that I cannot. I
don't have to worry about watching new socks just to
work out in these socks. Like, I'll do that oka
(24:18):
the workday socks though, that's like a lot of hours
I'm wearing socks. The answers after you wear them once.
But I would say there are sometimes where I will go.
I'll strategically throw them by a chair and go. When
I'm gonna work out, I'm gonna put them use those again,
so I have to wash them over. I don't. I mean,
I don't wash crap anyway, But you know what I mean.
(24:38):
Work out clothes, Oh, immediately, immediately, one use twice after
you wear them once. Yeah, I could sweating like crazy.
And then finally shirts one one use any shirt. Oh,
no way, like a nice shirt, like a button up shoe,
you can use it five times. Yeah. I don't want
to fade. Y'all's clothings a little bit after wearing them once.
(25:01):
If they've had direct skin contact, they say to wash,
you can go a little longer. If you're wearing them
over another shirt. I don't wear them over another shirt.
A lot of direct skin, a lot of dred skin.
I'll love them there. I guess it just matters if
it's like got a sweat on it. Yeah, because sometimes
if it's a hang up shirt and I wear it
for a couple of hours, I'll hang it back up. Yeah, yea,
(25:21):
I'll go to a wedding and hanging back up. That's
all right. After dancing all out of the wedding. Yeah,
who cares? Hey, who cares? All right, that's your little concert. Yeah, well,
hanging back up, But that's around a lot of people too,
Like you're sweating, you're moving around. Yeah, I guess, well
you're hanging back up. It dries and it doesn't and
it stays iron like. I mean, whoa, it's great. I
have this really weird rash right now. Okay, what's happening
(25:44):
here in the show? And you say I'm dirty? Let
the doctor see it? Where is that on your elbow? No,
it's like, all well, it's thinking. I'm thinking about clothes
touching my skin. And I'm like, did I change something
like a detergent or what is happening? Or detergent change
will get you? Or if you put it on right
out of the package, Oh no, I don't. I put
it on out of the package. Oh I did too.
(26:04):
I like the way it smells out of the package.
But I'm saying that could also break you up if
you go right out of the package because it's been
and whatever they put on clothes to make sure that
they let's say you buy something that's not in a
package off the shelf, like a cloth like um shorts. Okay,
do you wash or not wash? I don't wash. Well,
we didn't think he did. I don't know the record, Yeah,
I don't always. I guess it depends if it's the
(26:27):
top one. I don't know people have been touching it.
Oh yeah, I'm probably gonna wash it. Most of the time,
I think I'll wash it, but sometimes I don't. And
we don't think about people trying them on. Yeah, that's gross, disgusting.
Bobby Bones Show interview in case you didn't know, well,
sort of an interview. So we have a caller who
wants to hire Travis Denning for a birthday party. And
(26:48):
I've texted Travis, I woke him up and he's on.
But the caller doesn't know this. Hey, Ray, play me
a little bit of Travis Denning. But after let's see
what we can do here. Travis Denning secretly on hold
right now. Probably we have TJ on the phone, who
lives in North Carolina. Hey, TJ, what is your question? Buddy? Yeah, sir, Hey, yeah,
(27:12):
I was wondering the best way to get up with
Travis Dean about playing a birthday party here and no scroline. Well,
how much money you got there. Uh, it's a joint birthday,
so I guess probably you know, fifteen twenty thousand dollars
maybe who ranging idiots? Travis is all busy. I just
(27:35):
looked at the schedule. The only person free. What date
is it again? Now? When are you? When's your birthday? No,
it's a joint birthday. I'm just playing in uh for
a thirty year. It's gonna be uh, probably in the summertime.
But I saw it. He plays a bunch of little
places around here around where I'm from, so I figured
he would, uh wouldn't mind coming down here to where
(27:55):
we live to play. And you're telling me if I
got Travis Denning on the phone, you'd say, hey, man,
I can probably pay up to twenty thousand dollars show
up playing a birthday party. Are you telling me that
right now? Yeah? We should do that? All right, Hold
on a minute, Travis, You there, buddy. Yeah, I just
I need some Jack Daniels as well. Thank god. That
(28:19):
that and the red Pepper Hummus with some laces, pay
chips and I'm good to go. That's all I need.
I don't know about the Hummas. Now, Hey, Travis, whence
the last time you played somebody's birthday party. It's been
a while, but I actually played one. I played one
last year in September, so maybe it hasn't been that long.
I played a birthday party in New Jersey, and uh,
(28:41):
it was awesome. It was a lot of fun. And
so let's this will this will be better New Jersey.
We're down, and I believe it's like the same voice.
It's like you have to determine which one's TJ, which
one's Travis, And what's hilarious here? Okay, TJ. So it's
a joint birthday party. Two people are turning thirty years old.
(29:01):
Three people? Three? Okay? And so are you guys all
big Travis fans? Yeah? Yeah, big Travis fans. Big just
country music. We like sitting around drinking beer and listen
to country music stuff. Feel like Travis is a perfect
aff of that. Me too. I mean, hey, I totally agree. Yeah,
I can not agree more. Okay, look, hey, TJ. So
here's what I'm going to do. Obviously, Travis is a
(29:23):
very busy schedule, but I will get you in touch
with like Travis's his people, which is just Travis acting
with a different voice. This is Travis done here. It's
just a higher register. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, sound like yeah,
And so maybe you guys could work this out. And Travis,
what's my finder's fee for this though of the twenty
grand if you go you have a great question. Well
(29:44):
we'll have a discussion about that. But I think probably
like a three percent, five percent yeah or some hummus
hum well, or well, I don't know Arkansas basketball, yeah,
which which hey boy, Bobby, Bobby has seen me play basketball.
That's unfortunately not in the cards for me. So yeah,
(30:05):
all right, t J. Look, I'm gonna make a dream
come true hopefully. All right, buddy, awesome that worst. I
appreciate it, all right, Travis, Hey, Travis, where are you today?
I am actually at home. I'm in town for all
the CRS. I got some stuff at noon and yeah,
so I'm just hanging out of the house. Big we
I forgot about that. Everybody comes to Nashville this week,
(30:27):
like in the industry because of something called CRS, which
is like a big country radio seminar. That would make
sense because golly, Travis Anying just sitting at home, golli
Travis Innings globetrotting playing shows you know what I mean.
Well I am. I'm globetrotting down the South Carolina this
weekend for US for a Saint Patrick's Day show, so
I'll be I'll definitely be doing that this weekend. All right, buddy, Hey,
(30:49):
anything going on in your life? You want to plug anything?
While we got you, we woke you up. Do anything
you want to say. Yeah, I got a new single
out called Strawberry Wine and a cheap Stix pack. I
think it's kind I think it's kind of a anger.
You want to let the people hear it. But also
I'm getting married in too much. Wow, so we're all invited.
Look at this guy. I guess our group envite. Actually, actually,
(31:10):
I actually I've been meeting to talk to you because
I was thinking I can get y'all to play the wedding.
Have TJ there? Okay? All good? Yeah, yeahs on the spot.
I'll have my people reach out to your people and
then we'll make it all work. Well, my people just
knew with a higher voice too, So all right, there
he has Travis Denny. Travis, good to talk to you, buddy.
TJ will be in touch. And look, I'm like Oprah,
(31:33):
I make James come true for twenty grand We'll let
them handle their business. This is Danielle from Albuquerque, New Mexico.
I have one morning corny. Why did the best go
to jail? Because it was so quack? You know, partially
that's funny because of who said it. Thank you, Danielle.
(31:55):
Here's another voicemail from Taylor and Louisiana who said she
just started the show from day one she was on,
So she started it from way back and she's been
listening to every single episode. She's now in twenty seventeen.
Oh so she left this message. I am now on
July nineteen, twenty seventeen, and Ray was stalking his pizza guy,
(32:15):
Pizza Pete. He had to get a pin drop to
him to show that he was stuck in traffic, and
y'all were keeping tabs on Pizza Peete and I just
wanted to know whatever happened to him? Does Ray still
have his location? I gotta be honest, I don't remember
Pizza Pea's listening to our show. Yeah, I remember talking
about a Pizza Pete. I don't remember what happened Ray. Yeah,
my pizza guy was in traffic and he sent me
(32:36):
a pin drop and said, well, you can see where
I am, and that's when you'll know that pizza is
going to be there. Sorry, it's late. And so I
just kept tracking him for weeks and weeks weeks. Oh
he left it on, yeah, drop, so I could see
him driving all over town. But I believe he went
back to school because a lot of the times the
dot was just at Belmont's campus. It never went anywhere.
That makes sense, I do remember that now. So it
(32:56):
wasn't that you were tracking him for the pizza. It
was that left it on. You tracked him for the
rest of his life like a big brother. That's funny, Okay,
good times, that's a good minute. Who knew? Actually we
didn't create that. That just happened, But who knew. You're
Amy's pile of stories. Pickleball is very very popular all
(33:16):
across America. There's millions and millions of people playing, and
a lot of people are very annoyed by it because
the courts are smaller and neighborhoods are putting them in
and they can squeeze more, and people are like hearing
pop pop pop all the time. Yeah, my neighbor has
a makeshift one in their driveway in hom that one
probably isn't as loud though, as loud as a court.
(33:38):
But residential areas are now feeling the wrath of it
because they kind of put it in for fun. But
then neighbors and homeowners and all kinds of people are
getting really upset. One guy even moved and there's this
huge lawsuit that he's organizing with everybody. There was a
pickaball court like three hundred feet from his home, and
he couldn't sleep or do anything. You would think though,
they would have some rule about how close that they
(33:59):
could build thing, but three hundred feet one hundred yards,
I don't know that crying. Yeah, well, when he moved in,
he didn't have the pickleball court there, but property value
probably went up since they put a pickaball court in there.
Oh really, you're three hundred feet from a pickleball court
one hundred yards. I like to say, I don't know
(34:19):
that that would make me pay more for a house.
But anyway, he was listening sleep he's mad about it. Which,
speaking of sleep, experts are saying that now we should
take daytime naps because nobody's getting enough sleep. The survey
was done and pretty much nobody's meeting the seven hours.
So the best thing we could do for ourselves is
to wake up and go to bed at the same
(34:40):
time every single day and take a nap during the day.
So Lunchbox is a big nap guy, but I think
he also gets to seven hours. A big nap guy. Sure, yeah, yeah, yeah,
but it's if you don't get your sleep at night,
you should probably do a nap in order to add
to the sleep he didn't get. So what would you
say you get a night? Oh, sometimes five, six sours,
I mean sometimes eight, just depending. I don't have a
(35:03):
consistent late though. It keeps you up, you know, and watching.
You're not doing that every night? You just no, no,
I said, not every night, but it's just all night long,
So okay. The American Heart Association says lack of sleep
puts you at risk of depression, cardiovascular disease, and dementia,
(35:23):
So well, not cardiovascular for him. Heart's working good, all right?
What else? Carrie Underwood shared a clip of herself in
the studio, and she was getting tongue tied while singing
her song out of that Truck. I like that song
is the hard line, Hardest still stop playing, which she
(35:53):
recently turned forty and her husband gave her a six
layer cheese wheel birthday cake. Six layer cheese wheel birthday cakes,
so it's not really a cake then, it's just much cheese. Yeah,
sounds amazing. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time
for the good news. Officer Chad is a school resource
(36:16):
officer at Lewis Palmer High School in Colorado, and he's
been doing this for three years and he says it's
just tough, you know, trying to gain the trust of
the students or even be likable. So the drill team
they were doing a dance in front of the whole
school and they said, come on, Officer Chad, you're coming in.
They called him up. He did the dance with him,
and after that the school went crazy, like who he's
doing it? And he's doing this. Guy's awesome, And here
(36:36):
he is talking about how cool it was a dance
in front of the whole school. I led a roller
coaster shore at that point in time and the kids,
I mean, this is one of the most accelerating times
in my career of the support I felt from the
student body at that point in time. Hey, the dance
one that good but it's on Facebook. Well they weren't
asking her to dance, well they and also threw it
in there at it hop in no no preparation. It's
going viral. It's on TikTok now and then of course
(36:58):
Facebook they're sharing it on all. That's pretty cool because
the kids now see a personal side of him. Yeah,
and maybe they can form a bit of a relationship
and a bit of trust there. Have you seen the
viral clip of like the dance team. They're like on
the side of the field, but the security guy who's
like working the game, he won't move, and so they're
(37:19):
like trying to dance around him, and you're kind of
annoyed at him for a second because it's like take
three steps back and just let him dance. And then
all of a sudden, he's like what And then he
jumps in and starts nailing the dance like it was
a whole setup bit a big buff security and he's
going hard. I love it. It's awesome. There you go, Eddie,
great story. That's what it's all about. That was tell
me something good.
Mom, what's happened? And everybody, thank you for coming here
to the Wednesday show Florence Studio Wanting. So if you're
a new listener, this is what we do. We go
around the room. There's four of us here, four of
us main characters, and we just give a little snippet
(00:23):
from our lives. It's very easy. We always go to
Eddie first, so here he is our producer, our video
producer and co host Eddie. Everybody, guys, I've grown up,
I've matured and I found I found that out this
week because I started to watch Bavis and butthead. I
was so excited there was a reboot, the new version. Yeah,
Mike Judges babus and butthead on Comedy Central. I'm like,
let's watch this. I used to love this when I
(00:44):
was a kid. I turned it on. Five minutes later,
I'm like, this is the dumbest thing I've ever seen
in my life, and I turned it off. I watched
the clip it's probably five minutes long. On TikTok, so
they were learning about white privilege and they were like,
white privilege. Hunt He's like, yeah, white people just and
so they think he means they have it. So they
go out and start to do everything and they're like not.
They said, we're white, we can do it, and they're like, taking, hilarious,
(01:05):
that's funny. It's hilarious. I did not feel like I
hadn't grown up. Really, I felt like I still got it.
They were like, no, we could take this. It's white privilege.
The teacher said, so, oh my god. The one I
saw was they were going to an escape room and
they take the wrong turn and go to the bathroom
and they're like, you just describe that. Rate us all
(01:26):
three lave it's so funny. Dumb guys, that's funny. And
instead of watching music and you were in a bad mood, buddy,
maybe yeah, I need to revisit hilarious what are they doing?
And set of music videos? They watched social videos like tiktoks.
So on the old show they would show music videos
like parts of them. They'd be like, huh Pantera, yeah
they were and a little click quick and then come
back to them. But now they watched tiktoks. They watched TikTok.
(01:49):
They're like, look at a Steward gird. Funny, it makes
me want to go white, but it really does, all right,
here he has Lunchbox. Everybody, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Well
this week at he revealed that I kind of took
the soap dispenser off the wall in the bathroom when
I was doing some building inspection. You know, I was checking.
You were literally act like a child. He going, I
(02:10):
wonder if this thing is stable. Boom, he took it
off the wall. I gave it a little jiggle and
it came off in my hand. Well, we got an
email from the landlord of our building saying that it
was brought to my attention by one of my employees
that listen to the show that an employee that goes
by the name of Lunchbox was joking on air about
pulling the soap dispenser off the wall. So we don't
own the building anymore. There's somebody else here that owns
(02:32):
the building and they are a different business upstairs. Yeah,
And they also talked about one of the guys cars
leaking oil on the parking lot. For you see, I
don't check morek email, I didn't see this. If they
would like to pay us to fix the soap dispenser,
we will and we will get some dry oil stuff
to pick up the oil off the garage floor. So
I got this email and I'm like, dang, this dude's ticked.
(02:55):
So I went ahead and I fixed the soap dispenser myself.
He didn't. I just went in the bathroom and it
was on the kid. No, no, no, I did it
like I did a whole video everything how mister fix
it video? I teach you how to fix things around
the off way. But where did you see the Literally
right before the chef started on the sink face down,
so someone else took it off the wall. You have
(03:15):
some clip you're trying to say, welcome to the tutorial
and how to fix things around your house or office.
Let me show you how to fix things in a break.
Let's start with the sofa spenser that came off the wall.
It wasn't very starting first, you're gonna grab the item,
press it firmly against the wall. You know what we
(03:42):
should do actually is you should pre rip the tape.
See how the one enough space pre rip. Then stick
it to the wall. Boom, that's pretty good. I have fixed.
They taping it to the wall. Taped it to the wall. Yeah,
and I tried to just laughing shooting the video Scoobo
(04:04):
because I got to tape it, and there wasn't enough
room to like get the tape in there, so I
had to pull it back and rip it, and then
that's why it's not up there still day. Yeah, well, yeah,
that landlord's not happy because how much longer are we
in this building? Do you think they say we had
to be out by the end of the year, But
I think after this we'd probably out to play next week.
Every time he does it, it's a month earlier. La
(04:24):
soap breaker, All right, thank you, Lets about let's go
over here. She has amy everybody. When I was a kid,
my grandma would give me and my sister, Madam Alexander
dolls like Kevin Patch and girl. They're no, they're up
a level like they're nice. You don't play with them.
They just sit there crappy toys. Listen. I don't know
(04:47):
what the deal was, but every Birthday, Christmas so we
had a ton of them. They would line my room
on a shelf, like all the way around. And whenever
I went to college, my mom packed him up, put
him away, And then when my my mom died, they
were I didn't bring them back to Nashville with me.
My mom's friend was like, I'll hold onto these. Well,
I just found out she has them all, and I'm like,
(05:07):
oh my gosh, there they are. These could be worth
a lot of money. Have you searched them? Some are
some some are selling like twenty thousand dollars, I mean yours, Well,
I I need She's gonna ship them to me. So
I'm about to have them shipped here, and I'm gonna
see what we've got. And I don't know if if
you want to go in business, who you get lunchbox
(05:30):
going to business with you? Yeah, I'll go into business
with you. Who you're going into business with him? Though
you've got idea, I don't know what your investment is
or what you would get out of it. Maybe you
post about it because then more people would go look
at the dolls. He didn't mean post about the shoes
we sell. You're gonna post about your dumb doll looking
at him on eBay. Here there's like sixty nine, two
nine to fifty, but I don't see the twenty thousand
(05:52):
ors to two hundred and fifty. Yeah that's still a lot, really, yeah, yeah, no, no,
you can't say it's a lot when you bring up
twenty thousand. It's you. Yeah, there's there's one. I googled it.
There's one for twenty thousand. See, I don't know if
any of mine are still in the box. TBD. Okay,
well let me know, TBD. I'm happy to recommend you
a good business partner. I got eBay skills that has
(06:14):
terrible I don't have an eBay account, so it actually
be very helpful him, yes, or somebody I'll saying me,
I'm business dealed out with you guys. It's not been
good for me, okay. Ray Dumi from Mountain Pie in Arkansas.
He doesn't like calfine to drink water all the time,
and he's way better at making things rhyme. Bobby Bone,
thank you very much. So first of all, I'd like
(06:35):
to tell you that you know that you can order
in a little like a canist or like light a
cane if they use like the doctor to numb stuff. Oh,
I didn't know you can order it. So I have
an injury on my backside, a bh terrible injury, and
my wife's like, let me order some light and it hurts,
but it does numb it. I didn't know you could
order that just online. So I'm letting everybody. What so
(06:56):
that way when you have to eat, you just don't
feel anything. Now, No, it just all the time. It
hurts all the time. It's like a wound. Yeah. So
I put it on and it hurts for a second,
but it actually works and it numbs it. I didn't
know you can buy that stuff. I thought it was
like doctor only, but it's hardcore. You can buy it
Merry Christmas. Oh yeah, some women put it on their
feet before they wear high heels. That would make sense.
(07:16):
Something else I wanted to share was if you ever
get ulcers in your mouth in time, I go to
the dentist, I get them on the inside. It's like
the soft tissue. It's like mouth trauma, and I get them.
Or if I get really stressed, I'll get like these
little inside ulcers. If you take like listerine specifically and
you swish it around, it gives you a few hours
of relief. It hurts like the devil for a little bit,
but then it gives you a few hours of relief. Also,
(07:37):
you can put salt on it. That never worked for me.
I don't feel really. I just licked it off. I
put it on and be like, Okay, it's good. I
have something happening right here on the insert of m lip. Yeah,
but like I keep biting it really really hard in
their hurt. But about the mouth, if anything that feels weird,
you want to like bite well, but here, I don't
know why I'm doing it all morning long. It like
(07:58):
actually really hurts, but I can't stop like purposely biting
down on it. Like it's like that feels so good
pain because it feels abnormal in your mouth, like I'm
doing it right now. It feels so good. You have
some light of candies in my butt. I also get
a pickaball injury I'm dealing with. You're not supposed to
dive playing pickaball. It's like tennis basically an I dove
(08:19):
and I scratch all the skin off my thumb and
it's finally starting to heal. But as my third recommendation,
don't dive playing pickaball. Did you get the point? Yepe,
Let's see, it's not worth it. But I'm known as
a hustler and I can sell move pretty good. You know,
I really set my reputation as a diver. Now I
only take one dive and you and had blood all
over my hand. Oh, that's cool. I didn't wipe it off.
I just play blood of course I played Bloody was awesome.
(08:41):
All right, we're ready to go. It's kind of like
Dear Abbey. If you're older, you know dear Abbey is Yeah,
I remember that, I call them. I'm starting like the
twenties people would write for advice. I wish we would
have named it something cooler before we get started, so generic.
That's open up the mailbage something. Hello, Bobby Bones, my
(09:05):
co worker has a sleazy boyfriend who grabbed another co
worker's fiance's booty at our Christmas party. The entire office
is now where the event that took place at the party.
That is, everyone accept a girlfriend of the booty grabber,
so she works there, but her boyfriend grabbed somebody's butt,
got it? Yeah? None of us know what to do
(09:26):
since this co worker has a habit of ignoring red flags,
but since she's also planning on well marrying him and
spending the rest of her life with him, we feel
like we should tell her. Should we should we send
an anonymous email? Or not stick our spoon into someone
else's chili? Sincerely, dazed and confused Wall, that's weird though,
(09:47):
because it's not just about the drama and you're just
getting in the drama for the sake of it. If
you're actually looking out for somebody in their future, I
think it's different. I don't think it's getting in the
chili if you're actually worried about somebody's future. But here's
another wrinkle. It's at work. It's a coworker. Yeah, so
that's tricky too. She doesn't accept this advice or whatever,
(10:09):
like she's gonna turn on him. Problem is yea, And
if you go and you're like, hey, your boyfriend grab
so and so, but her first reaction is gonna be
defensive and mad at you. Yeah, that's why I always
recommend having a good burner account. If you go back
to the burner, always Amy, what would you do? Mean?
This is so hard. I mean you do risk getting
in the chili. But if it's for her benefit, I
(10:30):
think it depends how close you are to her. And
maybe it's who's the closest to her and they kind
of have to be nominated to say something. Yeah, you
have a group meeting, all right, who's the closest And
I don't think you can Actually, here's the problem. Too.
If you just go to her one on one, she
can just not believe one person. But if you go
to her like three of you who know it for
sure happened, then she feels like she's getting ganged up on. Yeah,
(10:51):
because that's the thing too. It's you have to handle
this very delicately. But I do think she needs to know.
But here's the thing. She probably already knows. He sleeves ball.
That's why I was like, what if she's like, yeah,
you do only live with a sleaves balls and eventually
not find out they're a sleeves ball. He only had
slaves for so long, So Amy, what would you do?
I guess I work on finding a way to delicately
(11:11):
share this with her in some way. Call a meeting,
everybody submit their best idea and then go with that.
It's easy, guys. You guys always want to get up
in people's business. Leave it alone, don't mess with the chill.
It's the easy thing to do. That's the easy thing
to do. Just leave her alone, let her find out
on her own. She dates this dude, she knows you're
not good friends with the girl. Yeah, you work with her.
(11:33):
Guess what if freaking Morgan's boyfriend is cheating on her,
I'm not gonna go tell her. Oh my god. You
wouldn't say anything. If Morgan was dating somebody they were
cheating on her, just my co worker. She just your
co worker. But she's my friend. But I'm not. I'm
not trying to get up in that chili. Maybe she
had somebody cheating on her, you would not tell her,
no chilling you would. Yeah. I don't think every one
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of us would tell her immediately. Yeah. So if my
wife's cheating on me, you coming to me? Yes, yeah,
oh hey tell them bunes. Yes of course. Oh we'd
be like bro, okay, Well, I just I'm not getting
involved in someone else's chili. Like I'm letting them deal
with their name, their relationship. I don't know what their
relationship is. Maybe, but we also we're also closer that
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I think the normal we're here together erect all super close.
That's why I said earlier. It depends how close you
are to the person. Yeah, like, I mean, maybe they're
okay with but grabs up parties. Maybe that's one of
the rules. My wife when I was going out, she
just tell me no tongue. I was gonna kiss another check,
so you could kiss a girl but without tongue. Yeah,
that's your nuts, Eddie. Look I'm with Lunchbox on a
different level though, because no, no, no, look say out
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of the chili, right. But for this reason, it's work
like if for some reason she just doesn't take it well,
like you're this is gonna affect your work, like you
just get your future, your income all that. So I
understand doing the right thing for her is helping her,
telling her what's up. But if she's not a friend,
she's a co worker, stay out of it. I would
agree that if you're not close to her, if ten
means best friends, if you're not six point five or
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nobody is, I don't think she's gonna believe you anyway. Yeah, so,
but if you're six point five or above, you've got
to find a way to go tell her. We would
tell Morgan immediately. That'd being said for a salesperson. Here
we found out, we don't know. Really, we're not gonna
say anything. We make gossip about it amongst ourselves, we're
not gonna say anything. So I think the answer is this,
it depends how close you are. So I'll go back
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to that and If you are close, you got to
figure out who's the closest that she'll trust and have
them say something to her. But if you're not close, yeah,
you gotta Yeah, you gotta be close enough to actually
make that uncomfortable conversation happen. That's my advice. And if
you're not, then don't because that's chilly. You don't want
to taste that's right, work chili. Don't taste good friend chili.
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You know you don't. You don't want to be in it,
but you will get in it. Now if you are
only chili. What if you're interested in her and you
want her to break up with him, then you go
and tell right away and make some stuff up there. Yeah, yeah,
I know we have The butt grab is very very creepy. Yeah,
the grab itself is a weird thing. Yeah, it's like
that's sleas. That's all right, we're for it, slease. So
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there you go. We gave you a six point five
or above. You gotta have a little conversation. Or if
she has a really close friend there the six point
five or above, you tell them and let them do that. Yeah,
put it on that And then if you don't expect
to go to the wedding. Probably probably wouldn't want to
go anyways, you get buck grabbed. Oh yeah, what we're
saying you might not get invited. All right, there you go,
thank you, close it up. We've got your game. That
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was bad? Yeah, Mayby, Why are you bringing this to
us today? Is this something personal that's happened here on
the show? Is this something in your life? Why do
you want to talking about gossiping? I think just in general,
I'm trying to be careful with my words, especially with friends,
and like how it's making them feel if I'm speaking
to their wait or me feel. And I got curious,
(14:47):
like wait, if I'm venting about something and I'm sharing
with a friend, I was like, oh, is this is
this gossiping? So then it got me curious and I
looked at the difference. What is venting, Well, venting is
something that we do out of frustration, and it involves
you and doesn't harm others. It just helps you vocalize
your feelings and there's normally healing associated that and it
leads to solutions that venting gossip though, Yeah, oh, but
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that's that would be gossip. Oh, like you're venting about someone? Yeah,
Like I'm venting some gossip, So does that roll over
into the gossip category. Well, gossip is done out of boredom,
the situation on board. Okay, the situation doesn't involve you,
whereas venting it involves you. Gossiping is ill intentioned. It
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comes from a desire to be nosy, not genuine concern.
It leaves you feeling guilty in the end, and then
instead of solutions, it sometimes creates new problems. So that's
the difference. So you know, if you are venting to
a friend about something that involves you and may involve
other people, but you're you're trying to get something out,
that's with that friend, not gossiping. I told you I
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read the Four Agreements about once a year. One of
the agreements is don't talk about about other people ever.
And the book is super quick you can read it.
Probably agreement work even in therapy. Well I don't know
about therapy, but it's just generally, don't talk about other
people in a negative way. And it kind of is
and so best six months after I read the book,
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it tends to fade and we're talking to trap about
people again. But for a while I may want to
actually and it makes you feel better, like you feel
more whole, you don't worry about other people's crap as much. Yeah,
that leaves you feeling guilty. Part under gossiping. That that
that's true. I mean you sometimes, or at least it's
been my experience. Like if I've done that, I'm like,
oh yeah I do. I'm like, oh this, this doesn't
feel good, and I want other people that I'm around
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to feel good, So I don't want to create that.
Then things about yourself. Gossiping is just about others, and
it's normally done out of boredom, So check yourself. And
the biggest gossip around here lunchbox. Oh yeah, but I
was thinking about spilling the tea, Like what does that fall? Under?
Build the tea on the show. But you guys want
to hear about that stuff. Yeah, like I'm encouraging it. Yeah,
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it's done to be a bit. It's just for a bit. Yeah,
But sometimes stuff rolls off the air too, and you
guys are all mad at each other after the show.
What are you gonna say? Do you think Eddie's more
of a gossiper than I? I think he is all
up in every conversation trying to get dirt. But does
he come and just go, hey, guess what I heard? Yes? Wait, wait,
and don't even believe that I go around every conversation
to get dirt. I don't walk around any conversation. So
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it's the biggest gossiper on the show, one of them too. Well,
you're basing that on spill the tea right, true, which
is which is us bringing stories like that show? Okay,
so then probably how do you figure what do our
gossip about? You're a little gossip boy. I don't bring
the hot gossip time your okay? What's our learning lesson
(17:37):
from this? That it's okay to vent about certain things,
but then check yourself and maybe how you're presenting it.
Make sure you're in line. And look, we're all guilty
of it gossip at some point in our lives. But
the good news is now you have this information and
you can be like, oh, okay, maybe I shouldn't say
this right now about this other person because this doesn't
involve me and it's done of my business and I'm
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probably gonna feel crappy words. So there's no real solution here,
And I would recommend reading the Four Agreements if you can,
which one of those is don't take things personally and
all that's so hard. Well, especially in business, don't take
anything personal business because it's just business. So that booked.
I mean again, there are two books how to make
friends Influence people. You know that book. I priced the
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title wrong. I'll read that about once a year. Amazing.
I wasten a hundred years ago. Still great. In the
four agreements. You can read that in an hour, maybe
a little more than that, also awesome. And then don't gossip,
but vent. But if you vent gossip, it's still gossip.
There you go, we got it all figured out. It's
time for the good news. Did you ever learn how
(18:44):
to drive a tractor? Yeah? I did actually combine like
how old in a small chactor about three years ago.
I breaking bobby bones like as a kid, or like
go karts all that. Yes, okay, so stick on a truck.
But you know, I didn't walk in a farm. There's
a difference in farm and poor. That's true. I was poor.
I wasn't lighting working a farm. Yeah, yeah, go ahead.
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Four wheeler oh I draw, I mean I wrecked to
three wheeler ones? Yeah? Can you imagine they had three wheelers? Yeah,
A lot of people are I dumped it over. They
don't make those anymore, that's why. Yeah, that's right. Go ahead. Well,
this mom she's driving down the highway. She's got her
eleven year old twin boys in the car, Jordan and Jamal,
and her name's Chrystel. She had a seizure on the
highway and her boys they went into action immediately. The
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one that was in the front seat took the wheel.
The other one was like guiding him, like, hey, go
over here, this looks like a good spot where you
could pull in. And they had tractor driving skills because
her fiance would take him out on there and taught
him how to do it, and then they rode go karts,
so he felt like he kind of knew what to
do or how to handle it. And the mayor of
their town like commended them. They were honored. It's just
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such an amazing story of them saving their mom's life.
It's a great story. I just feel too. Where mayor
give somebody the key to the city. I don't know
if that's tru or not here, but if they give
you a key to the city like they do, sometimes
you should be able to use that key one time
at any time, and it's not a literal key that
opens the log. But it's like I'd like to go
into the fro Yo Place and for an hour, all
(20:16):
you want in the city, you get the key. There
should be something more than just to hang up. Oh
you could have like a party at city Hall. Okay,
I don't know how using for city hall. If you
go into the fro Yo place with the key opens
at eleven pm, and they gotta be somebody's gotta be
ready at all times for I call hey, Mayor. I
know it's one am, but I'd like to get into
John's fro Yo here and he's got to come and
(20:37):
open the door for you. What about mayor for the day?
Mayor for the day, though, what are you gonna do budgets?
Like in reality, if you get a key to the city,
you should be able to open a door. If you're
the mayor for the day, then you gotta like do
budgets and yeah, that'd be terrible. Okay, that's all I say.
We should the key to the city should mean something.
They'd give away a few less, but you should actually
get a key to anywhere in the city and you
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get to use it for an hour like these is
I should be able to use whatever the trampoline part,
key to the city, whatever they want, the prize room
at school, key to the school. Like when teacher keeps prising, no, no,
that's not key to anything. Answer answer, key the key
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to my heart. Now I gotta fall in love. Okay,
that's it, thank you, that's what it's all about. That
was tell me something good. Question is how often do
you wash your link now not body parts? Close? Okay,
close close? How often are you supposed to wash them?
All right? So i'll tell you what did you tell
me what you do? Okay? Coats and jackets? How often? Oh? Never? Never?
(21:45):
I get something on it? But I don't ever. I
did gets a jackets one thing, maybe a light jacket,
but a coat never. How often do you wash your
coats or jackets? Answers Maybe once a year if it
gets something on it, and I'll send it the dry cleaner. Yeah, yeah, same.
I should probably be more proactive with me, Nevember. I
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am like jackets I've had for ten years, never washed them. Yeah, now,
I get it. You I can't remember. They say once
a month. Well, if you're wearing it all the time. Okay, jeans. Okay,
how are you gonna do on weares? Like how many
times you wear before? Let's say, oh, I just says
how often should you wash? So I don't know how
many times you wear jeans in mind, but how often
(22:29):
should you wash? I'd probably go once a week, but
only wear jeans once maybe maybe I say one and
a half times before I wash them. So I'm gonna
go once a week you yeah, after one or two wears? Yeah,
every two weeks? Yeah, ten wears? Are you like one?
You wear your jeans ten times? Wash? Yeah? But how
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many days in a row do you wear your jeans?
I used to wear them every day to work, and
now I'm more in the basketball pants like legit, uh?
And so I mean I haven't more. I don't wear
jeans very often, Like I can't even tell you where
my jeans are right now. Once a month, they say
to wash your jeans. Okay, So I'm talking about you.
Guys thought I was crazy. No, we still do. That
has nothing to do with it. I didn't think it
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would be maybe once every two weeks. I didn't think
it'd be once a month. But my jeans end up
being to wear them a few times they end up
like being they get bigger. Oh they stretch out, Yeah,
and they don't fit as good. I get that next
step underwear, oh after everywhere? Yea one where four? Oh
(23:34):
my god? No, you get two right side and then
two inside out. It's it's it's every yuse don't know,
wash your underwear. But what if you flip it inside out?
It's it's still there. No, it's on the outside. Well,
it's not about a touch in your Okay, it's supposed
to that was supposedly every time sucks every time. Yeah,
(23:55):
that's pretty well. Sometimes I wear him twice. I mean
you could you know you get two times? No, I
don't do that. But if I just wear the socks
and I go No, if I just like come to
work in these socks and I take them off when
I get home, but I'm gonna work out or something
the next day, those are socks that I cannot. I
don't have to worry about watching new socks just to
work out in these socks. Like, I'll do that oka
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the workday socks though, that's like a lot of hours
I'm wearing socks. The answers after you wear them once.
But I would say there are sometimes where I will go.
I'll strategically throw them by a chair and go. When
I'm gonna work out, I'm gonna put them use those again,
so I have to wash them over. I don't. I mean,
I don't wash crap anyway, But you know what I mean.
(24:38):
Work out clothes, Oh, immediately, immediately, one use twice after
you wear them once. Yeah, I could sweating like crazy.
And then finally shirts one one use any shirt. Oh,
no way, like a nice shirt, like a button up shoe,
you can use it five times. Yeah. I don't want
to fade. Y'all's clothings a little bit after wearing them once.
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If they've had direct skin contact, they say to wash,
you can go a little longer. If you're wearing them
over another shirt. I don't wear them over another shirt.
A lot of direct skin, a lot of dred skin.
I'll love them there. I guess it just matters if
it's like got a sweat on it. Yeah, because sometimes
if it's a hang up shirt and I wear it
for a couple of hours, I'll hang it back up. Yeah, yea,
(25:21):
I'll go to a wedding and hanging back up. That's
all right. After dancing all out of the wedding. Yeah,
who cares? Hey, who cares? All right, that's your little concert. Yeah, well,
hanging back up, But that's around a lot of people too,
Like you're sweating, you're moving around. Yeah, I guess, well
you're hanging back up. It dries and it doesn't and
it stays iron like. I mean, whoa, it's great. I
have this really weird rash right now. Okay, what's happening
(25:44):
here in the show? And you say I'm dirty? Let
the doctor see it? Where is that on your elbow? No,
it's like, all well, it's thinking. I'm thinking about clothes
touching my skin. And I'm like, did I change something
like a detergent or what is happening? Or detergent change
will get you? Or if you put it on right
out of the package, Oh no, I don't. I put
it on out of the package. Oh I did too.
(26:04):
I like the way it smells out of the package.
But I'm saying that could also break you up if
you go right out of the package because it's been
and whatever they put on clothes to make sure that
they let's say you buy something that's not in a
package off the shelf, like a cloth like um shorts. Okay,
do you wash or not wash? I don't wash. Well,
we didn't think he did. I don't know the record, Yeah,
I don't always. I guess it depends if it's the
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top one. I don't know people have been touching it.
Oh yeah, I'm probably gonna wash it. Most of the time,
I think I'll wash it, but sometimes I don't. And
we don't think about people trying them on. Yeah, that's gross, disgusting.
Bobby Bones Show interview in case you didn't know, well,
sort of an interview. So we have a caller who
wants to hire Travis Denning for a birthday party. And
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I've texted Travis, I woke him up and he's on.
But the caller doesn't know this. Hey, Ray, play me
a little bit of Travis Denning. But after let's see
what we can do here. Travis Denning secretly on hold
right now. Probably we have TJ on the phone, who
lives in North Carolina. Hey, TJ, what is your question? Buddy? Yeah, sir, Hey, yeah,
(27:12):
I was wondering the best way to get up with
Travis Dean about playing a birthday party here and no scroline. Well,
how much money you got there. Uh, it's a joint birthday,
so I guess probably you know, fifteen twenty thousand dollars
maybe who ranging idiots? Travis is all busy. I just
(27:35):
looked at the schedule. The only person free. What date
is it again? Now? When are you? When's your birthday? No,
it's a joint birthday. I'm just playing in uh for
a thirty year. It's gonna be uh, probably in the summertime.
But I saw it. He plays a bunch of little
places around here around where I'm from, so I figured
he would, uh wouldn't mind coming down here to where
(27:55):
we live to play. And you're telling me if I
got Travis Denning on the phone, you'd say, hey, man,
I can probably pay up to twenty thousand dollars show
up playing a birthday party. Are you telling me that
right now? Yeah? We should do that? All right, Hold
on a minute, Travis, You there, buddy. Yeah, I just
I need some Jack Daniels as well. Thank god. That
(28:19):
that and the red Pepper Hummus with some laces, pay
chips and I'm good to go. That's all I need.
I don't know about the Hummas. Now, Hey, Travis, whence
the last time you played somebody's birthday party. It's been
a while, but I actually played one. I played one
last year in September, so maybe it hasn't been that long.
I played a birthday party in New Jersey, and uh,
(28:41):
it was awesome. It was a lot of fun. And
so let's this will this will be better New Jersey.
We're down, and I believe it's like the same voice.
It's like you have to determine which one's TJ, which
one's Travis, And what's hilarious here? Okay, TJ. So it's
a joint birthday party. Two people are turning thirty years old.
(29:01):
Three people? Three? Okay? And so are you guys all
big Travis fans? Yeah? Yeah, big Travis fans. Big just
country music. We like sitting around drinking beer and listen
to country music stuff. Feel like Travis is a perfect
aff of that. Me too. I mean, hey, I totally agree. Yeah,
I can not agree more. Okay, look, hey, TJ. So
here's what I'm going to do. Obviously, Travis is a
(29:23):
very busy schedule, but I will get you in touch
with like Travis's his people, which is just Travis acting
with a different voice. This is Travis done here. It's
just a higher register. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, sound like yeah,
And so maybe you guys could work this out. And Travis,
what's my finder's fee for this though of the twenty
grand if you go you have a great question. Well
(29:44):
we'll have a discussion about that. But I think probably
like a three percent, five percent yeah or some hummus
hum well, or well, I don't know Arkansas basketball, yeah,
which which hey boy, Bobby, Bobby has seen me play basketball.
That's unfortunately not in the cards for me. So yeah,
(30:05):
all right, t J. Look, I'm gonna make a dream
come true hopefully. All right, buddy, awesome that worst. I
appreciate it, all right, Travis, Hey, Travis, where are you today?
I am actually at home. I'm in town for all
the CRS. I got some stuff at noon and yeah,
so I'm just hanging out of the house. Big we
I forgot about that. Everybody comes to Nashville this week,
(30:27):
like in the industry because of something called CRS, which
is like a big country radio seminar. That would make
sense because golly, Travis Anying just sitting at home, golli
Travis Innings globetrotting playing shows you know what I mean.
Well I am. I'm globetrotting down the South Carolina this
weekend for US for a Saint Patrick's Day show, so
I'll be I'll definitely be doing that this weekend. All right, buddy, Hey,
(30:49):
anything going on in your life? You want to plug anything?
While we got you, we woke you up. Do anything
you want to say. Yeah, I got a new single
out called Strawberry Wine and a cheap Stix pack. I
think it's kind I think it's kind of a anger.
You want to let the people hear it. But also
I'm getting married in too much. Wow, so we're all invited.
Look at this guy. I guess our group envite. Actually, actually,
(31:10):
I actually I've been meeting to talk to you because
I was thinking I can get y'all to play the wedding.
Have TJ there? Okay? All good? Yeah, yeahs on the spot.
I'll have my people reach out to your people and
then we'll make it all work. Well, my people just
knew with a higher voice too, So all right, there
he has Travis Denny. Travis, good to talk to you, buddy.
TJ will be in touch. And look, I'm like Oprah,
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I make James come true for twenty grand We'll let
them handle their business. This is Danielle from Albuquerque, New Mexico.
I have one morning corny. Why did the best go
to jail? Because it was so quack? You know, partially
that's funny because of who said it. Thank you, Danielle.
(31:55):
Here's another voicemail from Taylor and Louisiana who said she
just started the show from day one she was on,
So she started it from way back and she's been
listening to every single episode. She's now in twenty seventeen.
Oh so she left this message. I am now on
July nineteen, twenty seventeen, and Ray was stalking his pizza guy,
(32:15):
Pizza Pete. He had to get a pin drop to
him to show that he was stuck in traffic, and
y'all were keeping tabs on Pizza Peete and I just
wanted to know whatever happened to him? Does Ray still
have his location? I gotta be honest, I don't remember
Pizza Pea's listening to our show. Yeah, I remember talking
about a Pizza Pete. I don't remember what happened Ray. Yeah,
my pizza guy was in traffic and he sent me
(32:36):
a pin drop and said, well, you can see where
I am, and that's when you'll know that pizza is
going to be there. Sorry, it's late. And so I
just kept tracking him for weeks and weeks weeks. Oh
he left it on, yeah, drop, so I could see
him driving all over town. But I believe he went
back to school because a lot of the times the
dot was just at Belmont's campus. It never went anywhere.
That makes sense, I do remember that now. So it
(32:56):
wasn't that you were tracking him for the pizza. It
was that left it on. You tracked him for the
rest of his life like a big brother. That's funny, Okay,
good times, that's a good minute. Who knew? Actually we
didn't create that. That just happened, But who knew. You're
Amy's pile of stories. Pickleball is very very popular all
(33:16):
across America. There's millions and millions of people playing, and
a lot of people are very annoyed by it because
the courts are smaller and neighborhoods are putting them in
and they can squeeze more, and people are like hearing
pop pop pop all the time. Yeah, my neighbor has
a makeshift one in their driveway in hom that one
probably isn't as loud though, as loud as a court.
(33:38):
But residential areas are now feeling the wrath of it
because they kind of put it in for fun. But
then neighbors and homeowners and all kinds of people are
getting really upset. One guy even moved and there's this
huge lawsuit that he's organizing with everybody. There was a
pickaball court like three hundred feet from his home, and
he couldn't sleep or do anything. You would think though,
they would have some rule about how close that they
(33:59):
could build thing, but three hundred feet one hundred yards,
I don't know that crying. Yeah, well, when he moved in,
he didn't have the pickleball court there, but property value
probably went up since they put a pickaball court in there.
Oh really, you're three hundred feet from a pickleball court
one hundred yards. I like to say, I don't know
(34:19):
that that would make me pay more for a house.
But anyway, he was listening sleep he's mad about it. Which,
speaking of sleep, experts are saying that now we should
take daytime naps because nobody's getting enough sleep. The survey
was done and pretty much nobody's meeting the seven hours.
So the best thing we could do for ourselves is
to wake up and go to bed at the same
(34:40):
time every single day and take a nap during the day.
So Lunchbox is a big nap guy, but I think
he also gets to seven hours. A big nap guy. Sure, yeah, yeah, yeah,
but it's if you don't get your sleep at night,
you should probably do a nap in order to add
to the sleep he didn't get. So what would you
say you get a night? Oh, sometimes five, six sours,
I mean sometimes eight, just depending. I don't have a
(35:03):
consistent late though. It keeps you up, you know, and watching.
You're not doing that every night? You just no, no,
I said, not every night, but it's just all night long,
So okay. The American Heart Association says lack of sleep
puts you at risk of depression, cardiovascular disease, and dementia,
(35:23):
So well, not cardiovascular for him. Heart's working good, all right?
What else? Carrie Underwood shared a clip of herself in
the studio, and she was getting tongue tied while singing
her song out of that Truck. I like that song
is the hard line, Hardest still stop playing, which she
(35:53):
recently turned forty and her husband gave her a six
layer cheese wheel birthday cake. Six layer cheese wheel birthday cakes,
so it's not really a cake then, it's just much cheese. Yeah,
sounds amazing. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time
for the good news. Officer Chad is a school resource
(36:16):
officer at Lewis Palmer High School in Colorado, and he's
been doing this for three years and he says it's
just tough, you know, trying to gain the trust of
the students or even be likable. So the drill team
they were doing a dance in front of the whole
school and they said, come on, Officer Chad, you're coming in.
They called him up. He did the dance with him,
and after that the school went crazy, like who he's
doing it? And he's doing this. Guy's awesome, And here
(36:36):
he is talking about how cool it was a dance
in front of the whole school. I led a roller
coaster shore at that point in time and the kids,
I mean, this is one of the most accelerating times
in my career of the support I felt from the
student body at that point in time. Hey, the dance
one that good but it's on Facebook. Well they weren't
asking her to dance, well they and also threw it
in there at it hop in no no preparation. It's
going viral. It's on TikTok now and then of course
(36:58):
Facebook they're sharing it on all. That's pretty cool because
the kids now see a personal side of him. Yeah,
and maybe they can form a bit of a relationship
and a bit of trust there. Have you seen the
viral clip of like the dance team. They're like on
the side of the field, but the security guy who's
like working the game, he won't move, and so they're
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like trying to dance around him, and you're kind of
annoyed at him for a second because it's like take
three steps back and just let him dance. And then
all of a sudden, he's like what And then he
jumps in and starts nailing the dance like it was
a whole setup bit a big buff security and he's
going hard. I love it. It's awesome. There you go, Eddie,
great story. That's what it's all about. That was tell
me something good.
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