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All right, thank you. Sothere you go, dirty little secrets right
here with c K and Carmen's Bninety five cheaters, Beware world the roses.
He's on the air with c Kand Carmen in the morning on B
ninety five. Time to get intoa war of the roses, possibly catch
ourselves and cheetah, good morning,not high. I'm not gonna lie.
You know. I'm looking over thisemail right now. This is a very
(00:22):
strange war of the roses. Um, what's going on between you and your
man made here? Yeah? Idon't you understand. Honestly, I don't
know what's so strange about this.I'm married, but I don't really I'm
this right today. We're talking aboutmy boyfriend. Okay, that's strange,
Like you're married, but I'm callinga guy that's your boyfriend. Yeah,
(00:45):
he's my boyfriend, and um,you know, I'm not I'm not happy
right now because I think he's probablycheating on me and I need to get
to the bottom of this. Nice. Is he okay that you're married?
Like the fact that you're married.Who doesn't have to know that part?
We keep that I didn't tell hima Mary, you're cheating on your man,
but you want to know if theguy that you're cheating with is cheating
(01:06):
on you. That's right, absolutely, you got that, You're correct.
Yeah. Wow, both best ofboth worlds being married and still getting the
side love. And yeah, seriously, I mean adding poll today to get
judged. I just need to getto the bottom of what or not my
voice and cheating on me? Okay, definitely not judge. Okay, well
let's go ahead and bust help CNCFloral. Let's see what's happening with Nate
(01:30):
here. Hello, Hi, mayspeak to Nate please, Hi Nate.
This is Christy from CNC Flora brandwfloreshop here in Fresno, and we are
basically a brand new floor shop.I'm sure you've seen us, maybe you've
driven by. We're giving away afree dozen roses as are part of our
(01:53):
promotional deal and you haven't chosen atrandom this week's winter Wow. Yeah,
absolutely free. Really, what itis is our way of getting people to
get familiar with us, to getto see what we have to offer,
and we'll send these orders out towhoever you like, absolutely free of charge,
and we hope that you know whereit gets around that C C.
(02:14):
Flora is here and hopefully here tostay. I am so excited about it.
Oh awesome, let's do it then, So y'all accept this, Yes,
I will awesome? All right?So what would you like to write
on a note to someone special?I hope you're enjoying your day and to
who? To Kawana? Seriously,who are you're writing the roles too?
(02:37):
I'm your battle like I'm dying.Like you didn't say my name? The
woman you just mentioned, that's justsomeone I just know from Yeah, I
think he said the name was TaKwana. Who is the Kuana? Are
you kidding me? Boyfriend? Nota motivation? Okay, so you're trying
(03:04):
to send the flowers to to Kuana? It's CNC floral ck and Carmen.
What's going on? Yeah? Canyou tell us the chip down right now?
No? Well, she's my screener, like she helped been like,
you know, motivated. So whydon't like the workout and I go to
the gym by myself and I'll getmotivation? Oh my god, you go
(03:27):
to the gym with her? Huh? So I mean you go to the
gym to work out physically, notto like tangle up in the bed.
With one another. No, wework out together right now. You haven't.
You haven't noticed that I've been losinglosing weight and I'm looking good with
my shoulder. I mean, she'slike she's motivated to me. You don't
go to the gym with me.I love you. I'm I'm not doing
(03:49):
anything with the kuana. Oh,because you appreciate the trainer of the gym
motivating you more than your girlfriend.Crap to motivate me to go to the
gym, I'll tell you right now, it does doesn't seem like the flowers
are gonna go to eu Gena.I think y'all definitely got some some conversation
that needs to happen off the radio. Yeah, definitely, mate, you
got some splain in the dude.Well, it seems like Nate's kind of
(04:11):
nonchalant about it because I didn't doanything wrong. If I do something wrong,
I'll be I didn't do anything wrong. I'm sending flot Does that mean
me catch me and thank you anything? Because I'm sending flowers to us,
Thank you help me motivate I'm doing. I don't know about you, but
if I'm if I'm any other girl, it's not just Gena. If I'm
any other one's girlfriend and my mensitting flowers to somebody else, I'm gonna
(04:33):
have a problem with it, Thankyou very much. Agreed. You don't
send old is just anybody? Okay, Yeah, motivation or not, this
is such disrespect. Well you knowwhat, um and put you in a
spot because I'm about some factist ship. Well, we're gonna go ahead and
let you two deal with this,uh affair. Yeah, I know it's
about to get hot. And Gina'smad girl. I feel you. Oh
(04:55):
my god. I mean it's hotenough as it is, but I know
it's gonna get even. So yeah, well, Nate, good luck is
good. Good luck Nate, goodluck brother. Okay, So there you
go. This morning's wore the roses, c K Carmen, it's being ninety
five b ninety five friends Knowe's homefor hip hop, and it's you know,
sometimes it feels good just to getoff your chest. Sometimes when you
(05:18):
let those secrets and confess a littlebit out, it's like your mind,
your heart, and your soul justfeels so much better. That's why we
do dirty little secrets. Tell usabout your dirty little secret. Go ahead,
good morning, Okay, So mydear little secret would be that my
sister's boyfriend actually tried to kiss mebefore whoa wait, while while they were
(05:39):
together. Yeah, while they weretogether. Yeah, that is definitely crossing
the line. So what happened?How do you try to kiss you?
Well, it was after a nightof drinking and stuff. We're all here
at my mom's house, and youknow, he just had too many drinks
and he tried to come on tome, and you know, I just
kept it a secret because I don'twant no drama and lets he ever went
down? You know that my sister, Wow, it's that I've been keeping
(06:04):
and I don't know what to do. Do you feel like you should tell
your sister just in case he triesto do that with other girls or other
women. Yeah, I feel likeI should, But at the same time,
I don't want no dramas, rightbecause I mean, we've seen this
so many times where you're the onethat just tries to come in and say,
hey, just so you know yourman, your man tried to kiss
me, And the next thing youknow, she's like, no, that
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didn't happen. It starts to fight, relationship ends up falling apart. Yeah.
Yeah, that's exactly what I don'twant happens. I don't know.
I think I might just keep itto myself. But all right here you
want to hang on? Okay,all right, you know it all happens
after a night of drinking. Weget it. B ninety five, c
K and Carmen. What about you? What is your dirty little secret?
Go ahead? My dirty little secretis I've been sleeping with my sister's husband
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and has been two years and shehas da Wait a minute. So,
first of all, how did itall start? Well, he heard cam
and dropped off my coude and afteronce the kids were sleep, we were
just drinking and a move and itjust happened. Okay, So this has
been going on for two years,which means there's been a couple of Thanksgivings,
(07:11):
there's been a couple of Christmases,a couple of birthdays, and you've
kept this a secret throughout all thoseevents. Yeah, do you feel bad
at all? I have to disguisemy voice because I don't want my sister
to find out. Or No,don't worry, don't worry. We're gonna
disguise the voice for you. Amatter of fact, it's already been done.
You don't feel bad. I do, but I mean you can tell
(07:33):
that she's not happy in her relationshipto make it okay, So you're like,
look, if you're faking it,you're not even happy in your relationship.
Let me keep your man happy.Is the way that you're looking at
it. She's probably not happy becausehe's given all the attention to you.
It could be the case. Soare you in a relationship? Also,
(07:54):
no, I'm not in a relationship. Okay, So he's the only one
that's in a relationship. How doyou find the time for him to sneak
over to see you without her realizingwhat's going on? Well, he told
her he's going in school, butthen sometimes he comes to my house sometimes
says she's going to be in school. Wow, that's crazy. And you
(08:15):
never feel like, at some pointwhile you're on the phone having a conversation
with your sister about the kids orwhatever, that you just want to take
you know what I have to say? This never really been all that quote.
She's like, I don't even feelguilty about it. All right,
Well hold on, okay, okay, more of your dirty little secrets next,
right, he was ck and Carmenbeing ninety five. It is up
(08:37):
two four seven fifty five ninety five. You know, we don't need your
name, We just need that honestyckn carment inside dirty little secrets. And
believe me, once you laid offyour chest right he at being ninety five,
you feel so much better. Whatis your dirty little secret? Go
ahead? So I think it wasa week ago I dropped my girls necklace
(08:58):
down the brain mhmm, and shethinks she lost it. There's a bad
thing about it. My mom boughtand now her my mom was speaking because
my mom was got back. Becauseit's all your faults. But you realize
you could be the one to keepthe peace between your mom and your girlfriend
(09:22):
if you just say, you knowwhat, Mom, it's not her.
I'm the one that lost it.But the bad thing about that is I'm
a better be in trouble. Itell him, my girl, that's true.
She about to be mad at youthat you let it go on this
long. Yeah, don't let it. Don't get over it. So I'm
just leave it like that, allright? Cool? Well we got you.
(09:43):
Don't go anywhere o K. He'slike, look, I'm not gonna
get in the middle of it.Be ninety five. What about you?
What is your day? Little secret? Go ahead? Yeah, that's going
man. Yeah, for the lastfist three years. Uh, me and
my wife Saturday let her have anotherman. So you let her have another
man? Yeah, and we're stillhappily married and everything, but she just
(10:05):
you know, has him on theside. Bro. This is like Will
Smith and Jada right here. Now, are you talking or seeing anybody else?
No? Okay, So why didyou decide this? This is crazy?
Um, just something that she liked. I don't know, I just
you know, just fun to seeher happy. Okay. Well that's awfully
nice of you. But do youstill get anything out of it or I
mean, are you guys still intimateat all? Hell? Yeah, more
(10:28):
than every man? After that?I'm kind of kind of like seems kind
of good, though it kind ofkicked me off in another way too,
sang wow. Okay, so hesaying, hell yeah, So obviously it
turns you on that he's got anotherthat she's got another man. Well that
it trend you on. Yeah,it's been three years, it's working for
(10:48):
you. Yeah. You can't reallysay, oh, man, your relationships,
you know, people are quick tojudge other people's relationships and say oh
you can't or can't do this.Yeah, but we have garline, so
you know she doesn't go and justgober what now you know if it's she's
around me or you know she's closebuyer, now you know it's right?
You know? Okay? Is itone man? Consistently? Are multiple different
types? Just one man? Okay? Just one So it's almost like she's
(11:11):
in a relationship with another dude.Yeah. Basically you better hope she don't
fall in love with that dude becausethat's where the props will start. For
some reason, he's totally cool thanhe's not tripping at all. Hold on,
don't go anywhere? Yeah, honestly, right, A lot of other
people would have been like, whatthe hell? Yeah, I'm telling you
a lot of people definitely would havebeen like, what the hell, don't
go anywhere? Car sometime final aroundthe phone calls next to two four seven
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fifty five ninety five Dirty Little Secrets, Ck and Carmen ninety five being ninety
five Dirty Little Secrets is happening rightnow? Ck and Carmen, touch your
dirty little secret again. It's notabout your name, it's about your honesty,
and it's really going to help youfeel so much better once you get
it off your chest. Well,um, I was married for two years
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and I just recently got divorced,um due to my husband having an us
there with my son's babysitter. Yeah. So, um, the thing is
I didn't I mean I knew herfor about a year and um, I
never really met her husband until afteryou know, the chat went on and
I was already separated. Um,well we started talking in the beginning at
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the end of last year, inDecember, when he just wanted to like
talk to me and you know,get my side of the story and seeing
what was going on and what hadhappened in my relationship. Just maybe she
was the reason for you know thedivorce, right. Well, um,
we started talking and um, nowwe're dating. So it's yeah, so,
um she own kids and I havemy son. And the secret is
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not even that, it's more thathe's thirty one and I'm twenty seven.
So I threw a little guilty aboutthat because you know, I really like,
you know, my he grew onme already, Like we have a
really strong relationship. But every timethat I tell like people like how we
met, it's like they get thatreaction. Now, Okay, you are
dating who I'm dating, um myson's ex babysitter, ex husband. That's
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crazy. Okay, so you basicallyswapped husband and that's basically what they did.
Their husband and wife swapped. Butit was not planned. It was
like we had so much in common, definitely something in common because they both
cheated on you. Yeah, Imean it was I really like you and
I really like you too, andthat's crazy, you know. Okay,
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so you he's much younger than you, He's I'm twenty I'm twenty seven and
he's forty one. Okay, alright, girl a j N but num but
yes after Leo by the waiting herespot. But it's it's it's something that
you know, I struggle with,Like people are like, oh, you
know, how did you meet him? And it's very hard for me to
tell them because you know, I'mscared of that reaction. In that reaction.
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Do you ever just want to startmaking up a different story, because
you know, some people are like, wait a minute. Home is where
you make your own narrative, rightYou're like, we're having back again,
because I'll tell you right now,that's not a story you want to tell
people. No, you, Imet him at the grocery store. That's
simple, that's it. I thinkthe last time I was like so fed
up already. I was like,you know what, we just met through
a claim. So that's there,it is. That's the that's the story
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you have to stick to because youdon't want to tell that other story.
No, no, no, no, that's people are gonna start just don't
understand you. They understand your struggle. Girl, I feel you. You
just say we're mad amout of Starbucks, met Amota grocery store. That's it.
Acquaintances. That works. So happy. I feel like we're so happy,
Like I feel like it was likea blessing in disguise because it was
it was almost like you had thewrong husband, he had the wrong wife,
(14:33):
and now you as are linked upand you're good to go. Yes,
and we're so happy right now,we're actually like already planning on moving
in together and things are going verysmall than I'm very happy. Just my
family doesn't approve for that reason.Okay, I know it's one of those
things that they may not understand,and it's not up to them to understand
and stuff to you to find thehappiness that you need and you wanted your
relationship. It's okay, all right, Listen, the thing is too at
(14:56):
the end of the day, they'renot the ones that are sleeping with them,
okay, So they gotta worry aboutthem. Eventually, guess what,
They're gonna like him because they're gonnasee how happy he's making you. Oh,
they may not like it, butthe only thing that matters is your
hold on anywhere. Okay.
All right, thank you. Sothere you go, dirty little secrets right
here with c K and Carmen's Bninety five cheaters, Beware world the roses.
He's on the air with c Kand Carmen in the morning on B
ninety five. Time to get intoa war of the roses, possibly catch
ourselves and cheetah, good morning,not high. I'm not gonna lie.
You know. I'm looking over thisemail right now. This is a very
(00:22):
strange war of the roses. Um, what's going on between you and your
man made here? Yeah? Idon't you understand. Honestly, I don't
know what's so strange about this.I'm married, but I don't really I'm
this right today. We're talking aboutmy boyfriend. Okay, that's strange,
Like you're married, but I'm callinga guy that's your boyfriend. Yeah,
(00:45):
he's my boyfriend, and um,you know, I'm not I'm not happy
right now because I think he's probablycheating on me and I need to get
to the bottom of this. Nice. Is he okay that you're married?
Like the fact that you're married.Who doesn't have to know that part?
We keep that I didn't tell hima Mary, you're cheating on your man,
but you want to know if theguy that you're cheating with is cheating
(01:06):
on you. That's right, absolutely, you got that, You're correct.
Yeah. Wow, both best ofboth worlds being married and still getting the
side love. And yeah, seriously, I mean adding poll today to get
judged. I just need to getto the bottom of what or not my
voice and cheating on me? Okay, definitely not judge. Okay, well
let's go ahead and bust help CNCFloral. Let's see what's happening with Nate
(01:30):
here. Hello, Hi, mayspeak to Nate please, Hi Nate.
This is Christy from CNC Flora brandwfloreshop here in Fresno, and we are
basically a brand new floor shop.I'm sure you've seen us, maybe you've
driven by. We're giving away afree dozen roses as are part of our
(01:53):
promotional deal and you haven't chosen atrandom this week's winter Wow. Yeah,
absolutely free. Really, what itis is our way of getting people to
get familiar with us, to getto see what we have to offer,
and we'll send these orders out towhoever you like, absolutely free of charge,
and we hope that you know whereit gets around that C C.
(02:14):
Flora is here and hopefully here tostay. I am so excited about it.
Oh awesome, let's do it then, So y'all accept this, Yes,
I will awesome? All right?So what would you like to write
on a note to someone special?I hope you're enjoying your day and to
who? To Kawana? Seriously,who are you're writing the roles too?
(02:37):
I'm your battle like I'm dying.Like you didn't say my name? The
woman you just mentioned, that's justsomeone I just know from Yeah, I
think he said the name was TaKwana. Who is the Kuana? Are
you kidding me? Boyfriend? Nota motivation? Okay, so you're trying
(03:04):
to send the flowers to to Kuana? It's CNC floral ck and Carmen.
What's going on? Yeah? Canyou tell us the chip down right now?
No? Well, she's my screener, like she helped been like,
you know, motivated. So whydon't like the workout and I go to
the gym by myself and I'll getmotivation? Oh my god, you go
(03:27):
to the gym with her? Huh? So I mean you go to the
gym to work out physically, notto like tangle up in the bed.
With one another. No, wework out together right now. You haven't.
You haven't noticed that I've been losinglosing weight and I'm looking good with
my shoulder. I mean, she'slike she's motivated to me. You don't
go to the gym with me.I love you. I'm I'm not doing
(03:49):
anything with the kuana. Oh,because you appreciate the trainer of the gym
motivating you more than your girlfriend.Crap to motivate me to go to the
gym, I'll tell you right now, it does doesn't seem like the flowers
are gonna go to eu Gena.I think y'all definitely got some some conversation
that needs to happen off the radio. Yeah, definitely, mate, you
got some splain in the dude.Well, it seems like Nate's kind of
(04:11):
nonchalant about it because I didn't doanything wrong. If I do something wrong,
I'll be I didn't do anything wrong. I'm sending flot Does that mean
me catch me and thank you anything? Because I'm sending flowers to us,
Thank you help me motivate I'm doing. I don't know about you, but
if I'm if I'm any other girl, it's not just Gena. If I'm
any other one's girlfriend and my mensitting flowers to somebody else, I'm gonna
(04:33):
have a problem with it, Thankyou very much. Agreed. You don't
send old is just anybody? Okay, Yeah, motivation or not, this
is such disrespect. Well you knowwhat, um and put you in a
spot because I'm about some factist ship. Well, we're gonna go ahead and
let you two deal with this,uh affair. Yeah, I know it's
about to get hot. And Gina'smad girl. I feel you. Oh
(04:55):
my god. I mean it's hotenough as it is, but I know
it's gonna get even. So yeah, well, Nate, good luck is
good. Good luck Nate, goodluck brother. Okay, So there you
go. This morning's wore the roses, c K Carmen, it's being ninety
five b ninety five friends Knowe's homefor hip hop, and it's you know,
sometimes it feels good just to getoff your chest. Sometimes when you
(05:18):
let those secrets and confess a littlebit out, it's like your mind,
your heart, and your soul justfeels so much better. That's why we
do dirty little secrets. Tell usabout your dirty little secret. Go ahead,
good morning, Okay, So mydear little secret would be that my
sister's boyfriend actually tried to kiss mebefore whoa wait, while while they were
(05:39):
together. Yeah, while they weretogether. Yeah, that is definitely crossing
the line. So what happened?How do you try to kiss you?
Well, it was after a nightof drinking and stuff. We're all here
at my mom's house, and youknow, he just had too many drinks
and he tried to come on tome, and you know, I just
kept it a secret because I don'twant no drama and lets he ever went
down? You know that my sister, Wow, it's that I've been keeping
(06:04):
and I don't know what to do. Do you feel like you should tell
your sister just in case he triesto do that with other girls or other
women. Yeah, I feel likeI should, But at the same time,
I don't want no dramas, rightbecause I mean, we've seen this
so many times where you're the onethat just tries to come in and say,
hey, just so you know yourman, your man tried to kiss
me, And the next thing youknow, she's like, no, that
(06:25):
didn't happen. It starts to fight, relationship ends up falling apart. Yeah.
Yeah, that's exactly what I don'twant happens. I don't know.
I think I might just keep itto myself. But all right here you
want to hang on? Okay,all right, you know it all happens
after a night of drinking. Weget it. B ninety five, c
K and Carmen. What about you? What is your dirty little secret?
Go ahead? My dirty little secretis I've been sleeping with my sister's husband
(06:48):
and has been two years and shehas da Wait a minute. So,
first of all, how did itall start? Well, he heard cam
and dropped off my coude and afteronce the kids were sleep, we were
just drinking and a move and itjust happened. Okay, So this has
been going on for two years,which means there's been a couple of Thanksgivings,
(07:11):
there's been a couple of Christmases,a couple of birthdays, and you've
kept this a secret throughout all thoseevents. Yeah, do you feel bad
at all? I have to disguisemy voice because I don't want my sister
to find out. Or No,don't worry, don't worry. We're gonna
disguise the voice for you. Amatter of fact, it's already been done.
You don't feel bad. I do, but I mean you can tell
(07:33):
that she's not happy in her relationshipto make it okay, So you're like,
look, if you're faking it,you're not even happy in your relationship.
Let me keep your man happy.Is the way that you're looking at
it. She's probably not happy becausehe's given all the attention to you.
It could be the case. Soare you in a relationship? Also,
(07:54):
no, I'm not in a relationship. Okay, So he's the only one
that's in a relationship. How doyou find the time for him to sneak
over to see you without her realizingwhat's going on? Well, he told
her he's going in school, butthen sometimes he comes to my house sometimes
says she's going to be in school. Wow, that's crazy. And you
(08:15):
never feel like, at some pointwhile you're on the phone having a conversation
with your sister about the kids orwhatever, that you just want to take
you know what I have to say? This never really been all that quote.
She's like, I don't even feelguilty about it. All right,
Well hold on, okay, okay, more of your dirty little secrets next,
right, he was ck and Carmenbeing ninety five. It is up
(08:37):
two four seven fifty five ninety five. You know, we don't need your
name, We just need that honestyckn carment inside dirty little secrets. And
believe me, once you laid offyour chest right he at being ninety five,
you feel so much better. Whatis your dirty little secret? Go
ahead? So I think it wasa week ago I dropped my girls necklace
(08:58):
down the brain mhmm, and shethinks she lost it. There's a bad
thing about it. My mom boughtand now her my mom was speaking because
my mom was got back. Becauseit's all your faults. But you realize
you could be the one to keepthe peace between your mom and your girlfriend
(09:22):
if you just say, you knowwhat, Mom, it's not her.
I'm the one that lost it.But the bad thing about that is I'm
a better be in trouble. Itell him, my girl, that's true.
She about to be mad at youthat you let it go on this
long. Yeah, don't let it. Don't get over it. So I'm
just leave it like that, allright? Cool? Well we got you.
(09:43):
Don't go anywhere o K. He'slike, look, I'm not gonna
get in the middle of it.Be ninety five. What about you?
What is your day? Little secret? Go ahead? Yeah, that's going
man. Yeah, for the lastfist three years. Uh, me and
my wife Saturday let her have anotherman. So you let her have another
man? Yeah, and we're stillhappily married and everything, but she just
(10:05):
you know, has him on theside. Bro. This is like Will
Smith and Jada right here. Now, are you talking or seeing anybody else?
No? Okay, So why didyou decide this? This is crazy?
Um, just something that she liked. I don't know, I just
you know, just fun to seeher happy. Okay. Well that's awfully
nice of you. But do youstill get anything out of it or I
mean, are you guys still intimateat all? Hell? Yeah, more
(10:28):
than every man? After that?I'm kind of kind of like seems kind
of good, though it kind ofkicked me off in another way too,
sang wow. Okay, so hesaying, hell yeah, So obviously it
turns you on that he's got anotherthat she's got another man. Well that
it trend you on. Yeah,it's been three years, it's working for
(10:48):
you. Yeah. You can't reallysay, oh, man, your relationships,
you know, people are quick tojudge other people's relationships and say oh
you can't or can't do this.Yeah, but we have garline, so
you know she doesn't go and justgober what now you know if it's she's
around me or you know she's closebuyer, now you know it's right?
You know? Okay? Is itone man? Consistently? Are multiple different
types? Just one man? Okay? Just one So it's almost like she's
(11:11):
in a relationship with another dude.Yeah. Basically you better hope she don't
fall in love with that dude becausethat's where the props will start. For
some reason, he's totally cool thanhe's not tripping at all. Hold on,
don't go anywhere? Yeah, honestly, right, A lot of other
people would have been like, whatthe hell? Yeah, I'm telling you
a lot of people definitely would havebeen like, what the hell, don't
go anywhere? Car sometime final aroundthe phone calls next to two four seven
(11:35):
fifty five ninety five Dirty Little Secrets, Ck and Carmen ninety five being ninety
five Dirty Little Secrets is happening rightnow? Ck and Carmen, touch your
dirty little secret again. It's notabout your name, it's about your honesty,
and it's really going to help youfeel so much better once you get
it off your chest. Well,um, I was married for two years
(11:56):
and I just recently got divorced,um due to my husband having an us
there with my son's babysitter. Yeah. So, um, the thing is
I didn't I mean I knew herfor about a year and um, I
never really met her husband until afteryou know, the chat went on and
I was already separated. Um,well we started talking in the beginning at
(12:18):
the end of last year, inDecember, when he just wanted to like
talk to me and you know,get my side of the story and seeing
what was going on and what hadhappened in my relationship. Just maybe she
was the reason for you know thedivorce, right. Well, um,
we started talking and um, nowwe're dating. So it's yeah, so,
um she own kids and I havemy son. And the secret is
(12:43):
not even that, it's more thathe's thirty one and I'm twenty seven.
So I threw a little guilty aboutthat because you know, I really like,
you know, my he grew onme already, Like we have a
really strong relationship. But every timethat I tell like people like how we
met, it's like they get thatreaction. Now, Okay, you are
dating who I'm dating, um myson's ex babysitter, ex husband. That's
(13:07):
crazy. Okay, so you basicallyswapped husband and that's basically what they did.
Their husband and wife swapped. Butit was not planned. It was
like we had so much in common, definitely something in common because they both
cheated on you. Yeah, Imean it was I really like you and
I really like you too, andthat's crazy, you know. Okay,
(13:28):
so you he's much younger than you, He's I'm twenty I'm twenty seven and
he's forty one. Okay, alright, girl a j N but num but
yes after Leo by the waiting herespot. But it's it's it's something that
you know, I struggle with,Like people are like, oh, you
know, how did you meet him? And it's very hard for me to
tell them because you know, I'mscared of that reaction. In that reaction.
(13:50):
Do you ever just want to startmaking up a different story, because
you know, some people are like, wait a minute. Home is where
you make your own narrative, rightYou're like, we're having back again,
because I'll tell you right now,that's not a story you want to tell
people. No, you, Imet him at the grocery store. That's
simple, that's it. I thinkthe last time I was like so fed
up already. I was like,you know what, we just met through
a claim. So that's there,it is. That's the that's the story
(14:11):
you have to stick to because youdon't want to tell that other story.
No, no, no, no, that's people are gonna start just don't
understand you. They understand your struggle. Girl, I feel you. You
just say we're mad amout of Starbucks, met Amota grocery store. That's it.
Acquaintances. That works. So happy. I feel like we're so happy,
Like I feel like it was likea blessing in disguise because it was
it was almost like you had thewrong husband, he had the wrong wife,
(14:33):
and now you as are linked upand you're good to go. Yes,
and we're so happy right now,we're actually like already planning on moving
in together and things are going verysmall than I'm very happy. Just my
family doesn't approve for that reason.Okay, I know it's one of those
things that they may not understand,and it's not up to them to understand
and stuff to you to find thehappiness that you need and you wanted your
relationship. It's okay, all right, Listen, the thing is too at
(14:56):
the end of the day, they'renot the ones that are sleeping with them,
okay, So they gotta worry aboutthem. Eventually, guess what,
They're gonna like him because they're gonnasee how happy he's making you. Oh,
they may not like it, butthe only thing that matters is your
hold on anywhere. Okay.
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