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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(00:20):
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Speaker 2 (00:26):
Are you ready to take a journey. Let's connect with
the healers of the world. It's that time. It's time
for the Language of Healing on W four WN Radio
and Talk for TV. Now, here's your host, doctor Nicole Fort.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
Hello, Hello, another episode of the Language of Hello. Hello.

Speaker 2 (00:49):
And here's your guest.

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Here's yeah me, welcome the guest.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
You're the host, I'm the co host. Guests, whatever you
want to call me, whatever you want to call me?

Speaker 3 (01:03):
Okay, well we can start with uh with your name
Dean aka the pipe Man Piper. That's me, the legend himself.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, legend in my own mind. Yeah, we all, but
shouldn't we all be though.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Yeah, because if you don't believe in yourself, then.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
Why should anybody else believe in you? If you don't
believe in yourself, you know, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Beat at the own beat of your drum. No, walk
at the own feat of your drum.

Speaker 2 (01:36):
And I have a question for our great engineer here.
Can you hear that? Right now? Can you hear that? Nicole?

Speaker 4 (01:46):
What am I hearing?

Speaker 3 (01:47):
No? I can't hear anything.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
There's somebody drilling above my head with jackhammer.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Oh wow.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
So I want to know if I need to change
the settings so that you don't hear that. But if
you don't hear hear that, and you asked me that question,
it's rather loud. To believe me, you would know, mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
Maybe it's good sound proofing from your earbuds.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
It it maybe because it sounds like a very loud massage.
And I don't mean that, Okay, don't laugh like that.
I mean, like, you know, like I have a massage
or that I put on my neck and it's like

(02:31):
it it makes that sound. This is like fifty times
louder than that. Wow.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
They must be doing some heavy duty construction.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
They've been doing it for three years It's ridiculous. It's
funny because nobody else would be able to handle this
but me. Like literally, I could guarantee you most people
hearing this wouldn't be able to function. Me. I just
I've been married twice, so I learned how to tune
it out.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
You know what that always reminds me, Like loud noises
is like that movie Noise. Have you seen that with
Nicholas Cage?

Speaker 2 (03:10):
I have that.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
I don't know, Okay, yeah, he just there's always noise
and he's like so irritated, you know, he just there's
a car going on.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
It's just like there's nothing I can do about it.
That's why I don't get irritated. Like, if you can't
do anything about it, why get irritated? Who does that affect?
Only one person? Yourself? Figure a way to cope. I'm
a big believer that no matter what happens to you
in life, coping skills, whatever coping skill works for you,

(03:43):
what works for you may not work for me. Find
the one that does work for you. Yeah, that's my point.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
Yeah, I like that because it kind of segues into
you know, something I wanted to touch on today is
when things are out of your control. Like things are happening,
and you know, like life, life happens. It's not always
fun and pleasant, and you know, how how do you
cope and manage and deal with the bitterness of life

(04:13):
as well as the joy.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
I'll tell you what my coping tool is. I just
make fun of rebel makes me feel better.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Oh, laughter, is you just put put the put the
other people down, the you punch down? Is that what
they call it?

Speaker 2 (04:32):
No, No, I don't put her down. I just make
fun of her.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Okay at her own level. Yeah, it's poking fun. It's
amicable humor. I think when you're like good in close
friends like laughter and poking fun at each other, and
your ability to laugh at yourself and others is a healthy, lighthearted.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Well like Look, she was laughing, So she couldn't control
role what I said, but she can control her reaction
to it. And that's what's important. I think people like
need to sometimes they need to change your focus away
from the thing that is irritating them or depressing them

(05:18):
or any of those things, those negative emotions, and they
should take the control back to themselves and control how
they feel about it.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
M M. Yeah, And that's what the language appealing is
all about, is you know, learning how to master your energy,
your tie your emotions. And this is very interesting you
said those two words. I wanted to also kind of
like talk about impatience and depression. You know this. Well,

(05:52):
you didn't see impatience, you said.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
I said, but I did say depression. But impatience it's
another thing. But that's why my thing irritable.

Speaker 3 (06:00):
No, what did you say?

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Any negative any negative emotion? It doesn't matter what it
is if you have a negative reaction to something that happens. Now,
the fact that she laughed when I just said what
I did before, that tells you that she wasn't worried
about what I said or what I did. She only
took control of her reaction to it, and she decided

(06:26):
it's funny. Now, other people might not decide it's funny.
But how does it benefit then? Like, if you have
enough confidence and security within yourself, then it doesn't matter
what anybody else says. Right, But I want to ask
you a question, doctor Forton. I have a question for you.

(06:48):
So how would you recommend to people that are listening
right now, watching right now, how they take back control?

Speaker 3 (06:59):
Oh wow, okay, Well first step. I mean there's always
the stop, the pause, the big breath. They have to
come back to center when something takes you off center
and you're triggered or you are reactive and and if
you're lucky enough to catch that reaction, right, Because I

(07:20):
think we do a lot of things out of habit
and pattern and we don't really realize. And the key
to it is not about getting rid of that. It's
just about the awareness around it. So you take back
control by controlling your breath. Actually, the breath is the
most amazing thing because it connects the unconscious and the conscious. Yeah,

(07:41):
cue heavy breathing.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
That's what I said. I might know a prompter.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
I don't know, right, I'm Ron Burgundy.

Speaker 2 (07:53):
Yeah, and you're not.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (07:58):
There is only a Okay, there is one podcast I
would promote outside of our network, and that's it because
that's some funny crap. So you look at Ron Bergundi's
attitude towards everything that happens to him. He takes control

(08:19):
of his mindset, his attitude towards it and makes everything
a positive, happy thing.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
Yeah, that's the role of the pericardium is like the
gester and that's like the comedian in general. They bring,
you know, hard to touch subjects and make light of it,
you know, and bring humor to it if you can,
because actually laughter from a cheat and energy perspective relaxes things,

(08:49):
you know, like say, for example, the opposite would be well,
not the opposite, but another counterpart would be fear. And
that's a very sinking energy, you know, sink, sink, sinc.
People will you know, feed their pants. They're scared to
write like sink or worry is really nodding energy.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
I have a question. Let's go to that one, because
worry is one of my big ones. But have you
ever peed your pants? Oh?

Speaker 3 (09:16):
For sure.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
Anybody that says they haven't is lying. So for all
you people watching out there, they're like, oh, I we
didn't want anybody to know I peed my pants. Everybody
walk in the face of the earth has peed their
pants at one time or another, some more than others.
Write rebel let us know. I don't know so, but seriously,

(09:45):
I'm saying that because.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
So the one who smelt it dealt it well.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
No. So people think of certain things as embarrassing and
if the whole world just knew that it was a
lot more normal and happen to a lot more people
than we think than some of those embarrassing negative feelings
we could take control of as well.

Speaker 3 (10:10):
Yeah, yeah, I think we internalize that. You know. I
I all admit sometimes things will make me feel like
embarrassed or then it you know, turns to shame or
something like not right or not right with you. It's
a you know, I think that is like an internal
battle because a lot of the times people in the
outside won't really see it like that, like it's not

(10:31):
a big deal, right, So I think that is up
to us. But you know, guilt and shame aren't those
the you know, original sins or something like that.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
But yeah, how is that feeling.

Speaker 3 (10:45):
Feelings that I don't know? This is? You know, I
think it injure the body. It does injure the body. Yeah,
I think it. It's it's a sin because it's like
goes against are are inherent you know, wisdom, Like it's
like our being is perfect, you know, we're all created whole, perfect,

(11:07):
resourceful and doing the best that we can with what
we have. So to go to doubt that and doubt yourself,
doubt the you know, your your life, it injures the body.
I think that's part that's the sin, right. I think
for me it's like if it's a sin versus what's
what's the opposite of a sin?

Speaker 2 (11:28):
Would be a mitzvah?

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Yeah, yeah, okay, And what does that mean?

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Well, everybody thinks that means good deed, and generally it
is good deeds that are a mitzvah. But mitzvah the
actual real definition that is it's a commandment and commandment
since we're talking about stuff like that, okay. So I
think that's a big difference between Judaism and Christianity. Christianity

(12:00):
tends to prey on fear and guilt and and uh
and Jews the fear thing. No, that that's not We
don't even have in Hebrew a word called sin. There
is no such word. It's called missing the mark. Because
we're all human beings and we're never going to be perfect.

(12:21):
We're gonna make mistakes, we're gonna make stupid decisions, we're
going to do bad things. You know, that doesn't make
us a bad person, it just makes us human. Okay,
and so the and there is no such thing in
Judaism as this, you know, cartoon character we call Satan

(12:42):
Satan and uh, you know, we don't know of any hell, nobody, no,
but I will say something. I want to say something
before I forget about something you said before. And okay,
So so it's kind of like if you're not centered.

(13:03):
Here's what I was thinking when you were saying this,
and a lot of people in twenty twenty four could
relate to this. If you're on your GPS going somewhere.
Have you ever been in that situation where you're looking
for something on the GPS and then you don't recenter
the GPS again, and the next time you look up,

(13:24):
you feel like you're lost. You don't know where you
are because it's not showing it's showing somewhere else, and
you're like, oh my god, I made the wrong turn
or something like that. And really the solution to that
problem is what you click the button that says to
recenter it, and then it brings you back into focus

(13:46):
of where you're going and what your mission is.

Speaker 3 (13:50):
Oh that's a great analogy, right, I love that. Yeah,
it's so good.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
I forgot what I was talking about before that, But
we had to get that in five minutes from now,
when we're talking about something else. I'll remember what we
were talking about now.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
We we were talking about mitzvah as opposed to you.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
Know, I knew that but played along.

Speaker 3 (14:12):
Oh sorry, okay, well I mean.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Rebel right time, rebel. You have played along with that one.
You have rebel absolutely rebel knows. That's okay, that's like, yeah,
that's forget stuff like that, like, I'll bring it back.
I'll bring it up twenty minutes later.

Speaker 3 (14:34):
Okay, I'm still still new in this.

Speaker 4 (14:38):
You know, you're not You're you just need to tighten
his range just a little bit on him.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Yeah. Yeah, you don't have enough control on me.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
That's true. That's that's true. I think even in the opening,
you're always But I do.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
Want to know very important, it's very important. Okay. I
do want to know what you were saying about worry,
because we were talking about that next and I hate worry.
Worry is one of my least favorite things on the planet,
next to you know, some other things.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Okay, what do you not like about worry?

Speaker 2 (15:17):
Well, because I think too many people spend too much
time and energy worrying about things that may or may
not ever happen number one, or things that don't affect
their life in any way, shape or form, and they
get obsessed about it. I think it's negative energy that's
so unnecessary, inhibits you, doesn't get you where you want

(15:39):
to be, and a lot of times it's just you
get yourself sick over nothing. Like how many times do
people worry about something because they got a call from
somebody that might have been a bad call, but they
don't answer the call and they don't answer to tech

(16:00):
and they're like ignoring it and because they're worried about
it's something bad and then they waste all this time
feeling like this, and then they finally find out was
just maybe some good news, you know, and that happens
all the time. Are people that you know they're as

(16:21):
a for instance, and if she listens to this and
if it well, if it ends up a real she'll
definitely say it. But one of my children, I'll put
it that way. One of my children had an issue
recently with a vehicle. Now it's good that I'm saying

(16:42):
one of my children, because more than one of my
children had an issue with vehicles, So now I'm covered.
They don't know what I'm talking about, Okay, But one
of my children.

Speaker 3 (16:56):
Say that again, who taught them how to drive?

Speaker 2 (17:05):
You know, probably me, but it might not be me.
I don't remember. Remember what is the driving have to
do with it? I didn't say they were driving the vehicle?
Oh okay, okay, it'll problem with the vehicle.

Speaker 3 (17:21):
Okay, problem with the vehicle.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Okay, No, I'm dis busting on you, but it is true.
So basically what happened was is they were like, oh
my god, now I'm gonna have to get a whole
new vehicle. Blah blah blah blah. It's definitely not something
small blah blah blah blah blahlah blah. And I'm like,

(17:44):
why don't you worry about that when you actually find
that out? Like, like, this is what people do. It's
very common. It's very common people sit there and they
build up this story in their mind that you know,
could be true, but it's the worst case scenario. Like

(18:06):
I'd rather build up a story of the best case
scenario in my mind. I'd rather put that out into
the universe, okay, because that's how you get those things,
and the other way is how you do get worse things.
So basically what ended up happening is it was something
very very simple like a switch, and that was it.

(18:33):
And so my point is, for maybe about a week,
there was all kinds of stress, which is bad for
your health, all kinds of negativity, all kinds of worry,
all over something that was small stuff. And you know
that book, what's the name of it, name of it?

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Don't sweat it. Don't with the small stuff.

Speaker 2 (18:58):
That's right, you know, like, and to me, that is
what worry is. Worry is a major What does it
ever accomplish? It?

Speaker 3 (19:09):
I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what it does accomplish.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
Okay, let's hear that. I want to know that from you.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
Yeah, because there is a healthy, healthy dose of worry.
It is there for a reason because it does put
and maybe I think this could even become like a difference,
almost a difference between men and women, because worry allows

(19:35):
you to, i don't know, almost have a sense of
humility that anything could have, you know, like you just
prepare yourself for every possibility, you know. And now.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
If you don't worry, sorry, I don't say if you
don't worry that you don't prepare for every possibility, like
if something bad's happened in my life. I prepare for
every possibility. I just don't sit there and worry about
it because I can control what the outcome is. I
can control what I do to get to that outcome.

Speaker 3 (20:10):
So yeah, so that I think that's like maybe the
initial okay, but after you like you stop, you pause,
you take a breath. You know, maybe your first instinct
is to worry excessively, like expand it because now this
event has happened. And and then we're talking also about
everything from the past that is, you know, conditioned you

(20:30):
to have a thing, you know, a reaction.

Speaker 2 (20:34):
Or a response agree.

Speaker 3 (20:37):
You know, there's a lot tied to that, but you
know in an aspect that it does serve the purpose.
So but then you know, you can take it down
a little notch, go inside, recenter yourself because in the
center you have a lot more possibility. You can you know,
it's like the eight eight points. When you're center, you

(20:57):
can move in eight different directions, so at least you
have eight possibilities. You know, even just just put that,
just wonder about that, like what if right that there's
all these.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
Now the way you put it, the way you put
it made perfect sense, because to me, that's not worry.
That's just yeah, that.

Speaker 3 (21:17):
Would be a healthy way to respond to worry, because
worry is going to be there like that, and I
think it's healthy. But when you go into the obsessive,
you know, it's like a count it's it's an opposite cycle.
It's a struggle.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
Well, that's where worry leads to the excessive see to me.
To me, in my viewpoint of it, what you just
described is not worry. It's just a bad situation happened.
You have to evaluate what the worst case scenario is
up to the best case scenario and be prepared for
all that. That's not worry to me. Worry is only

(21:54):
focusing on the bad part of it and it consuming
your thoughts and to the point where you say, well,
I'm not going to try this because I know it
won't work. That's the worry I talk about.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, No, And I think that's like a very common
thing that people get into. So yeah, yeah, yeah, I
mean based on like you know, past experiences and and
attitude a little bit, right, like how you cope the
coping mechanisms like you just.

Speaker 2 (22:27):
Said, right, yeah, exactly, so, and it like.

Speaker 3 (22:30):
Maybe triggers a little bit of you know, fear because
in some you know, even in Chinese medicine five elements
like the worry. If you have a lot of worry,
it will affect your your your water, your kidney, your
your survival instincts. So it's like you know, weak and
weak and then it just it will tax your whole
system that stress, and it will eat your digestive system out,

(22:54):
you know, like a lot of the ibs and digestive
problems we see can come from that. I don't know.
I want to say, like lack of ability to like
nurture self, you know, because that's also what like the
earth or the center is represents, like our ability to

(23:15):
grow and nurture food, you know, like we plant gardens
and the soil it's the soil of our body. So
if we don't have good soil and digestion, this is
where like the gut and the mind really connect because
you know, that can play play a part in it.
So I don't know if that answers any of.

Speaker 2 (23:36):
Your Absolutely, that's all yeah to me, that's all wealth
of information I think people need to know. And I
think your spin on the worry thing see to me too,
Like you're talking about worrying fear. To me, worry is
a tool of fear because always leads to fear. So

(23:57):
to me, worry isn't being sensible and like knowing that
bad things can happen and trying to prepare for that,
worry is making those bad things worse to me.

Speaker 3 (24:10):
Yeah, and worry and anxiety are really closely related in
my perspective. Well absolutely, yeah, and yeah, I mean if
we can relate that even to like say the summer
season right now, which is the heart, you know, heart paricardium,
we're just kind of you know, showcasing, but that's the
mother element of the earth, of and unbalanced earth. Is

(24:36):
the anxiety, the worry, you know, even the apathy that
what's it all for, you know, like the complete apathy
to life right so not nurturing, it's like complete disconnect
from your your center. So we need a we need
a healthy heart also as an extra extension to that
to really support our earth, like and that can be

(25:01):
you know, finding passions in things and getting more in
tune with your intuition and trusting your yourself and you know,
and I like to call up upon the unseen allies,
you know, like our spiritual posse. That's how I see.
You know, there's a whole gang of support out there.

(25:23):
And so if you do encounter a place where you
have a lot of worry or anxiety, there is something
quite like releasing and relaxing about a laughing and spreading
that freeing up that energy. Because if you worry and
then energy is nodded in your stomach. You know, people
like describe that it's like they can't eat because you know,

(25:45):
it's like everything is closed off in the center.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
And that's why that's why I think to worry is
such an issue, because it affects you negatively in so
many ways. And I want to know what I r
S is.

Speaker 3 (26:02):
I r S.

Speaker 2 (26:03):
Yeah you said I r S before.

Speaker 3 (26:06):
Oh gosh, I did not say that, but I probably
mumbled No.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
What you really said was I b S. That I
thought of I r S because it's kind of the
same as IBS. No, not to tax people, but that
could go along with ib S too. But I was
thinking about I was thinking about irritable rebel syndrome.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
No, you gotta rumble in the rebel so rebel?

Speaker 2 (26:38):
Were you not hearing that before? I just went into
my settings and I changed things to make it kill
the background noise. You mean to tell me you guys
weren't hearing that at all, because and how does it
sound now? Because I put on takeout background noise because
I don't know, I don't hear anything. Well, now you

(27:01):
won't because I took out the background noise because it could.

Speaker 3 (27:06):
Yeah, tell me, my man, do you still hear the noise?

Speaker 2 (27:10):
I do? Yeah, it's like Hannibal letters drilling into my
brain to have lunch. You might want to get that checked.
But see, that would be an unnecessary worry right there.
But there's people that actually think that extreme. Oh my god,
Oh my god, the world is going to end tomorrow.

(27:34):
Oh my god. Did you see that performance of go
Jira at the Olympics. See that's Satan and the Illuminati
and that signals the end of earth. That's unnecessary worry.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
You guys are going to talk about.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
Yeah, or what we're going to talk about?

Speaker 3 (27:59):
Yeah, I want to and all that conversation.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
Doctor Fortn is a go Jiro fan, so you know, yeah.

Speaker 3 (28:07):
I mean I think that was pretty awesome, Like you
know that riff, it's just such a it was I
love it, the energy and I mean it was pretty
cool to see. Actually I missed, sorry, I should well,
I mean I saw the replay. I missed the the
actual original opening ceremony, which is very hard to find,
by the way, I haven't I have a friend that people.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Yeah, it was very hard. I picked up my remote
and I said the Olympic opening ceremony, and you know
what came up? The Olympic Opening ceremony. It took like
two seconds.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
Okay. So here's maybe where we run into some differences
between Canada and the US, because you think we, well,
we are like your little sister, but we're like your PG.
Thirteen sister where we ye.

Speaker 2 (28:57):
Know, you're like our little Now you're like our little
annoying brother. To apologizes all the time after doing something.

Speaker 3 (29:07):
I think that would be like more sister like activity.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
No, maybe I don't know what you're saying. Women say
say they're sorry more than.

Speaker 3 (29:16):
Men, I think. I think so. I think so.

Speaker 2 (29:19):
Is that why when I say sorry to women it
happened to me just recently and they go, oh my god,
a man that's said that actually apologizes. Yeah, and you
admit when they're wrong.

Speaker 3 (29:33):
Mm hmm, yeah, you can do too. If that feels
from the heart. It's like it's like, oh, yeah.

Speaker 2 (29:40):
I'll admit when I'm wrong, because otherwise, how is anything
else you say valid if you can't admit when you're
wrong or incorrect or whatever it is. I think. I
think in order to for have to help people by

(30:02):
whatever it is, guiding them, advice, coaching or whatever, you know,
you have to show that you're real too. So like, listen,
we all worry. Mm hmm, you know, but how much
do you like it affect your life? Okay? We what
were the other things we're talking about that are those

(30:25):
kind of emotions that we have to have, like the
coping tools for what other ones?

Speaker 3 (30:32):
Well, we talked a little bit about the fear too, so.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
Far, Yeah, what else do we want to talk about?
The Well?

Speaker 3 (30:42):
And I would say, like one thing about maybe the
anxiety or the worry would be a good a good
counterbalance or a good productive activity to have, like clarity,
a clear plan, you know, like some structure so you know,
and that puts things into into like a reality check,
like you have to reality check yourself. You know, this

(31:04):
is what happened, this is you know, the current circumstance,
this is these are the resources I have available like
what can I You know, you have to get kind
of creative, a little bit playful, Like it's like the soil,
like what do you want to you know, it's like clay,
like what do you want to form and create?

Speaker 2 (31:24):
And when you have a clear plan, you spend a
lot less time and energy focusing on worrying on the
about the problem.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
Yeah, because there's kind of like a bit of a
path laid out so it's easy to follow and step
along with because the worry anxiety can be well, when
is that saying? It's like it's about the path. No
worrying about the future or something like that, isn't it.
I know there's the saying and I should probably know
this by heart, but.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
Rebels rebel nose, she'll tell you no.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
Why do I know it?

Speaker 3 (32:04):
It's saying And it's like the old ancient master Turtle
from the Kung Fu Panda movie says it. He's like,
I know something about the present being a present because
it's here and now and anyways, okay, yeah, so so yeah,
it's like to worry about the future. So having a

(32:24):
bit of a plan or or getting in touch with
your intention, right, and then if you have a strong here.

Speaker 4 (32:31):
How about yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, and
today is a gift.

Speaker 3 (32:35):
That's oh yeah, wow, that's yeah, that's what the turtle said.
It was okay, And then I was also thinking about
a different quote. So I'm just all jambled up today.

Speaker 2 (32:49):
I'm trying to think of what quote that is. I'm
going to look it up. What what's like.

Speaker 3 (32:54):
Well, just like you know, maybe depression is about the past,
anxiety is about the future.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
And that's I mean, well, actually that's pretty good right there,
because that is on point.

Speaker 3 (33:07):
Yeah, that's that's the general Yeah, so you know, and
and in the middle of those two things, this is
what's really cool and what I love about Eastern medicine
and all of these philosophies and ways of being approaching
life because it's like a different perspective that in between
that depression and anxiety is the heart, you know, and

(33:28):
the heart and the pericardium, and it's it feeds and
nourishes and takes from Yeah, Perry Como, maybe that's the
key to life.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
I mean music, Well, it's Perry Como is like tranquil Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (33:48):
It's like it is you know, it's well, whatever brings
tranquility to you and and about finding peace. Yeah, hey,
you know what I I was listening to this is
a little tangenty but also on the W four W
N we are the women for Women network, So I
just wanted to say, yeah, you know, I've been tuning

(34:10):
into Nancy Nancy Dutch Dutch. Okay, that's how I would say,
But I don't I don't know if it's like, you know,
I really enjoy her show and I was tuning in
a little bit to the and it's inspired and empowered living.
I believe it is the name of her show. She's
also on the W four W network.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
Time.

Speaker 3 (34:34):
Yeah, like, I don't know her message today, I felt
really resonant with because she was talking about she was
talking about still point and I love that word because
it means so much to me. But like that's that's
a key, you know, that's like the golden nugget to
life is like ability to reach still point or find peace,
like let your waters calm down and be a able

(35:00):
to I think the pipe that's frozen.

Speaker 2 (35:03):
I'm in still point. I'm in still Oh.

Speaker 3 (35:08):
It was so good that a little humor. I love it.
Thanks for bringing an element to the show.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
He said, still point, So I still point like the
flash flash and still point.

Speaker 3 (35:26):
Well, you were moving so fast like like nothing.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Yeah, rebel, did you think I was frozen too?

Speaker 4 (35:35):
I started to after a moment. I had to really
look at you, but your arm was blending into the background,
so I didn't think so.

Speaker 3 (35:44):
But you always got her.

Speaker 4 (35:46):
I just want to tell tell you, pipe man, you
got us there.

Speaker 3 (35:50):
Mm hmm, oh my goodness.

Speaker 2 (35:56):
Okay, that was I wish I was a fly on
the wall for that one, but I was in still point.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
Well, yeah you can. Luckily you can watch the replay.

Speaker 2 (36:06):
Yeah right, Oh that's gonna be funny.

Speaker 3 (36:09):
Yeah, that's funny.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
Yes, let's talk about deeper relationships. Spiritual connections. Yeah, go
hand in hand.

Speaker 3 (36:25):
They do. I believe that when you can tune in,
like I was saying last week, that the heart is
the emperor or the empress of the body, you know,
to be really close and you know, you hear about
the mind body connection. And what I really took away
from Kate Michaels, like the amazing legend that she is, yeah,

(36:48):
was that you know, we often forget about the heart
as a component and you know, yeah, and it's like,
but that's the beat maker. That's like, that's your song,
that's your real them, that's your you know, to be
connected to that also with your mind and your body
is yeah, there you go. Can you feel? Can you feel.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
I throw you off there?

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Oh? For sure. It's like you know your unwritten I
guess role that I did not agree to. Yeah, you
reing me in.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
Okay, However, did I want to hear about deeper spiritual connections,
deeper relationships, how they get inside and how they don't?

Speaker 3 (37:37):
Well, I mean what's connected to your heart would be
I think things from like how you want to rule
your ter reign, your life, your your world, because we
do have control.

Speaker 2 (37:48):
Over So do I think my heart is the Empress?
I think my heart is Benedict Arnold? Okay, you people
up in Canada, do you know what Benedict Arnold stands for?

Speaker 3 (38:02):
No, I can't say I do.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
He was the trees and this person during the revolutionary
war of our country. Oh yeah, okay, he's the trader.

Speaker 4 (38:15):
Or in other words, he went against his own side.
So the relevance there would be his heart. The pipe
man's heart is going against him.

Speaker 2 (38:23):
Yeah, yeah, my heart is a Trader.

Speaker 3 (38:28):
Okay, that's interesting.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
That a lot of people feel that way, right.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
Yeah, No, I think that's a very human element. You know,
we see that story and a lot of that I
think is Star Wars. You know, it's like the Anakin's dilemma.
That's like, you know, before he turns to Darth Vader,
it's like, you know.

Speaker 2 (38:46):
It's Vader sooner if I was him. Yeah, they got
they got better perks.

Speaker 3 (38:54):
Forget this love stuff.

Speaker 2 (38:57):
The dark side has better perks.

Speaker 3 (38:59):
Okay, yeah, I mean that is maybe the temptation around it, right,
Like it depends on what cycle. I mean, even we
talk about you know, the five point at Star, Like
in a it can go in a certain direction and
be generative, and it can be opposite direction and it
can be destructive. And that's the difference between witches and sorcerers.

(39:22):
You know, It's like the difference between light and dark.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
It's like animation here, It's like yeah, very.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
Yeah, I'm very I mean it's just interesting. I get
animated when I'm passionate.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
I like it. No, I like it. That's good stuff
right there.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
I think that like this to me, encompasses a lot
of like the work that I do and how I
even deal with life, because you know, you you take
the bitter with the sweet, and somehow you have to
navigate those waters and the more and what just take I.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
Take the bitter with the sweet, and I have a symphony.

Speaker 3 (40:02):
Oh, bittersweet sweet rebel.

Speaker 2 (40:06):
Do you know what that means?

Speaker 4 (40:08):
Nope, not a clue.

Speaker 2 (40:10):
Yeah, yeah, okay, it's it's a song, rebel. It's a song.

Speaker 3 (40:17):
I gathered that. That's yeah. I mean that's how you
end bittersweet chocolate. Oh, speaking of chocolate, you know I yeah, yeah,
are you listening my attention?

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Yeah? Now now I'm fully into this show. Like now,
I would.

Speaker 3 (40:40):
Say I don't have all my facts straight, so be
easy on the internet.

Speaker 2 (40:46):
Trum. I'm not going to be easy on you. I
don't know why you expect that I would, so go ahead.

Speaker 3 (40:53):
But there's something about my percentage, right, Yeah, there's something
about high percentage cacao and chocolate, right, like dark chocolate,
and it triggers something in the heart that is very unique.
It's like the only thing that really it's like the

(41:14):
beta somethings I should notice. But it's been a while.

Speaker 2 (41:20):
Is that the scientific term?

Speaker 3 (41:23):
No, I'm not going to say it is.

Speaker 4 (41:25):
It may be somewhere.

Speaker 2 (41:27):
Don't let it to you.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
Yes, it may be, it may be. It's good for
your homeware, yeah, is.

Speaker 2 (41:35):
It good for your heart like beans or.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
What's magical fruit?

Speaker 2 (41:44):
Your heart?

Speaker 3 (41:45):
It's good for your heart.

Speaker 2 (41:46):
So anyways ceremonies.

Speaker 3 (41:50):
Yeah, because maybe that's what that's what you know, unlocks
you know, a little bit of openness in the heart
because you know, we can Okay, this is an interesting
thing in my clinical experience and working with amazing teachers
over the years. One that talked about how disease enters

(42:10):
our body or how we get old, you know, how
we age, like how we let things kind of take
us down, and it first enters here, you know, like
right under the clavicle. So this is also the point
like the thymus or where Tarzan you know, like beats
his chest like that's that's for a reason, that's for
like a purpose to activate some of those like that energy,

(42:33):
because our heart actually carries a whole teroidal energy field.
It's it's its own brain, right. Maybe you've heard about that,
but I mean this goes back to like, yeah, just
the importance of the heart and maybe the missing link
between the body and the mind, and so we when
we have that open and clear, but when we close

(42:54):
it off, and you know, maybe some of us can
experience a broken or a closed off heart, you know,
and just like it's like shields. Right, So then what's
you know, like our kingdom isn't really interacting with the
world as much, or or we're not you know, maybe
we're also shaken, so we're not really as centered as much.

(43:15):
And then we just you know, close off in an
attempt to protect ourselves. Right, So that's maybe a coping mechanism.
It might be useful for that time being, but eventually
we have to open up a little bit. Otherwise it
enters through here and then we hunch forward and then
it gets us in the in the gut, and then
we hunch forward more and then it gets us in
the pelvis and then we're we're fully hunched. And just

(43:38):
think about your energy field. Good try pig meant.

Speaker 2 (43:47):
Enter the fetal position. I was trying to guys again
with the freezing.

Speaker 3 (43:52):
Yeah, no, I'm catching on to your antics.

Speaker 2 (43:54):
Here, But then I lost my poker face. I know, broke,
I totally broke character.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
Mm hmm. Even with your sunglasses on, we can still
see right through you. Okay, the unraveling will come soon enough.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Here here, I'll tell you what is this better?

Speaker 4 (44:21):
Wouldn't it be funny if you took a pair of
glasses and just had another pair of glasses onto there?

Speaker 2 (44:25):
Yeah, I haven't been nothing to do that, haven't eye rebel?

Speaker 3 (44:30):
Really? Oh that's funny.

Speaker 2 (44:35):
That's good.

Speaker 3 (44:36):
You know, that's you know, you're I know you personally
have had like a couple of hard issues, right, but
I think your joyful spirit and and childlike attitude to
life is, you know, a good way to go. And
they say that to go?

Speaker 2 (44:51):
What way is that? The word it?

Speaker 3 (44:54):
Like?

Speaker 2 (44:55):
All I heard was is like, okay, that was a
good way to go. See you like even the earth,
it's a good way to go.

Speaker 3 (45:07):
No, I don't. I don't a couple of hard attacks.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
Have a couple of hard attacks, honestly, I after, I.

Speaker 3 (45:14):
Don't mean it like that. Sorry, say that again? To
cut you off.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
After two heart attacks, you're required to wear sunglasses.

Speaker 3 (45:23):
Okay, you can do whatever you want. I mean.

Speaker 2 (45:29):
Yeah. No, No, that's according to the National Key Screening Association.

Speaker 4 (45:39):
And you made this uppoint.

Speaker 3 (45:42):
P screaming screening.

Speaker 2 (45:44):
No, it's the Screening Association for for streaming video. Okay,
it's in the rules, rebel, looking up, looking up, It's
in the rules. I told you to keep updated with
the rules. Okay.

Speaker 4 (46:02):
And that's the legitimate rules, not the ones that you
just feel that you want to make up.

Speaker 2 (46:06):
Right, I guess. Okay, doctor Nicole, what about what about
that spiritual connection? Speaking of cacao?

Speaker 3 (46:17):
Ah, okay, spiritual connection? The heart is is our is
every organ? Like say, we have five main organs, just
five or six depending on how you look at it.
Each organ has.

Speaker 2 (46:31):
Which are the six main organs?

Speaker 3 (46:35):
Okay? We have well, the heart, the per cardium, which would.

Speaker 2 (46:39):
Be next time I come on this earth. I can
do without that one. Next the heart.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
What have you not been listening to any of the
amazingness of the pair cardium?

Speaker 2 (46:50):
I love, I love the Perry Como. I want the
Perry Como next time? Just nothing, no heart, next next
trip on earth.

Speaker 3 (47:02):
That's like you want to be the tin man.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
No, he wants a heart. I want to be the
one to give him mine. Here you can have a mine.

Speaker 3 (47:12):
Okay, Okay, do you want to hear this now?

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Seriously?

Speaker 3 (47:16):
I want to We have the heart and the percardium
and that's the fire element. Okay, and then we have
the spleen earth element. We have the lungs.

Speaker 2 (47:27):
I have a question, serious question. So what happens if
you have some kind of accident and they want to
pull out your spleen? How does that affect you? In
what you're talking about, Western medicine decides to pull your
spleen out, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (47:48):
You'll still have the meridians systems and the energetics. It's
like Kurleian photography. Are you familiar with that. It's like
it's like you can there's a famous image of a
leaf and they took you can take the Kurleian photography,
I think is a special way to capture the energetics
of an image or a thing. So there's a leaf

(48:10):
and then they cut a section off of the leaf
and then they rephotographed it and it was still whole,
still has the map, the energetic map, because it's your
blueprint that doesn't ever go away, you know, like that's
you know, that's how people with amputated limbs can feel
like the phantom pain because it's yeah, still energetically there.

(48:34):
So you can remove organs, you might you know, anatomically,
physiologically have different functions of other organs will pick it
up right, but energetically it's still very much there and
we can work on that.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
I think I think we should speak more about these
six organs next week and more about spiritual connection. And
you know, you gave a little taste of the organs, okay,
but we got the exciting organs.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
We've got tasting organs here.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
The exciting organs coming up, like liver, the liver and
kidneys exciting. Those are the exciting ones that you can't
eat or liver at least. And I don't talk about
that because to me it sounds like not very healthy

(49:26):
to eat liver, but yet it's made to be healthy.
Don't answer that. Let's talk about that next week on
the language of healing, because it'll be it'll be on
next week. You know, on what day? Tuesday?

Speaker 3 (49:41):
Yeah, Tuesday at pm.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
Right time, but if you're in Central time, it's one
pm then right.

Speaker 3 (49:51):
Yeah, or Mountain noon Pacific eleven am.

Speaker 2 (49:56):
What about all the time?

Speaker 3 (49:59):
Oh, that's a question. They're like, sixteen out is it
sixteen hours?

Speaker 2 (50:03):
I think it's thirteen hours.

Speaker 3 (50:04):
Had thirteen hours?

Speaker 2 (50:06):
Way, we got to go because it's the end of
the show, and you you tell everybody how they can
reach you on socials, the web, how they can hear
your past shows, see your past stuff, know everything about you.

Speaker 3 (50:21):
Oh yeah, it's okay. Language of feeling. Language of healing
on Facebook and Instagram and on YouTube, Language of feeling,
TV all the all the iHeartRadio, Spotify, podcasting platforms. Language
of feeling. Thanks for tuning in, and we'll see you
next week.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
Right here on W four WN Radio. Right, yeah, you've
got it. W FOURWN dot com.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Yeah, W fourwn dot com, okay, dot on.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
Wow, what a show today? In the journey does not
stop here.

Speaker 5 (50:54):
Come travel the world with Nicole every Tuesday at two
pm Eastern Time. As to yeather, we become more fluent
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Speaker 2 (51:07):
See you next week.
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