Is It A Current Picture Or Not

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if
you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com
and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your
letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read
this one right here, right now, and you never know

(00:21):
it could be yours, So write us could be Buggle up,
hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It
is Rowberry letta thank you nephew. Subject. Is it a
current picture or not? Dear Stephen Shirley, My fiance and
I have been together for four years. Our wedding is
this summer, but I'm thinking of calling it all off

(00:43):
because something fishy is going on between him and his
ex girlfriend. I'm not the type of girlfriend to snoop,
and I've never checked my fiance's phone, email drawers, or
anything else. I'm not even following him on social media
because it's silly to check up on him. I trust him,
but I don't trust his ex girlfriend because I overheard

(01:05):
her bad mouthing me to him on the phone a
few years ago. He was defending me and telling her
to watch her mouth so I trust him, and I
never mentioned that I heard their conversation. She called him
again recently and I got out of character and told
her to stop calling him. Since then, she's made it
her mission to break us up. She posted on Instagram

(01:29):
an Instagram reel of her recent birthday party, and there
were ten to twelve pictures in the reel mixed in there.
I saw a picture of her in my fiance's kitchen,
and I saw a picture of her in my fiance's
bathroom wearing only a towel and holding a champagne flute.
He said the pictures were very old and she did

(01:50):
it to make me mad. I don't believe him because
he did not own a champagne flute before he met me.
I examined every picture to see if it was a
recent picture or not. Her birthday was on January twelfth,
and I was in Detroit visiting my mother that weekend.
I told him the only way for me to know

(02:10):
the truth is for us to call her, but he
refused to call her. A few minutes later, she deleted
the real I will never know if it was a
current picture or not. Am I crazy? If we still
get married? Or should I let his ex girlfriend have
him back. All right? You confused me because in the

(02:32):
beginning of this letter you said you were thinking about
calling off the wedding. Then you said you trust your
boyfriend but not his ex. Then skip to the end
of the letter and you say you don't believe your boyfriend,
and you're asking us, are you crazy if you still
want to marry this guy or should you let his
ex girlfriend have him? Okay, so which one is it.

(02:53):
I was with you at first because he spoke up
with you when his ex was badmouthing you. But I
just don't think he did enough at that point. I
know he can't stop his ex from calling him and
all that, but he doesn't have to take her calls
and talk to her. He shouldn't be interacting with her
at all. I mean, he's getting ready to marry you,
so you shouldn't have to tell her to stop calling him,

(03:14):
because he should have handled that. Now she's posting pictures
on social media to make you mad, like he said, well,
I think you should be mad. You should. You said
you examined the pictures, and it's I don't think it's
that hard to tell if the pictures are recent or
if they're very old. As your boyfriend said, I think
it's all very crazy. It's a little suspicious too. I

(03:36):
mean they could have been together, especially since you just
happened to be out of town that weekend, the weekend
of his ex's birthday, and she deleted the pictures immediately.
She threw a rock hid her hand, so she looks
kind of suspect and guilty. You're his fiancee. You do

(03:56):
deserve to know the truth. Right now, it doesn't look
good for him and her. So until you get what
you need to make you trust him again, you could
postpone or call off the wedding. I think it's better
to do it now than be in a bad marriage.
If that's what you think you're getting into. Steve, Lord,
I am mercy. I said, let me get in here

(04:18):
for you wreck another hole. Lord Ever, I said what
I said, Man, is it a current picture or not?
Is the subject? Where are you going with this? The
lady is all over the place in this letter, and
it is written out of it motion, and it's not

(04:39):
handling the facts the correct way. This system needs a
fat check. The fiance and y'all been together for years.
Your weddiness, this summer, and you thinking about calling it
off because something fishy is going on between him and
his ex girlfriend. Something fishy. We've in the car all

(05:00):
off the wed and cause something fishy. What I'm not
type of girlfriend to snoop check his phone all this stuff,
she said. Then she said, I trust him, but I
don't trust his ex girlfriend. This is a double edged
sword that you just swung at us, because if you

(05:21):
trust him but you don't trust his ex girlfriend, but
it's gonna have something to do with him. That distrust
of her is gonna depend a lot on his actions.
And so I'm trying to figure out where you're at.
And then your example, because you heard him, heard her
bad mouth to me to him on the phone, and

(05:43):
he told her to watch your mouth. So I trust
him and never mentioned that I heard that conversation. Okay, cool,
good dude, you aren't listening. Watch your mouth. That's the
man you got. Now you say, so I trust him,
and I never mentioned I heard to come. She's like,
I said, that's the man you got. Then she called
him again recently and I got out of character and

(06:05):
told her to stop calling him. Then you said, this
is in your letter. You said, she made it her
mission to break us up. Wow. So she posted an
Instagram reel of her recent birthday party and there were
ten Toil pictures on the reel. You the one don't
normally go through nobody's phone social media and all this year,

(06:26):
But now you're following him because you don't trust her.
You trust him, but you don't trust her because it
involves him. Hold on, Steve, you don't trust them, right,
hold on, We'll have part two of your response coming
up Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

(06:46):
Strawberry letter subject is it a current picture or not?
We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's
recap today's strawberry letter with the subject is it a
current picture or not? Y'all heard Shirley's response, and I'll reiterate.

(07:07):
Let me try to step in here and add some
non emotion to this letter because it was a lot
of emotion in the letter. There was a lot of
emotion in Shirley's response. Right now, I just want to
bring some clarity to the facts. You say you've been man,
You've been dating for years. You got to wear this

(07:28):
something thing about calling it off because something fishy going
on between your fiance and his ex girlfriend. You're the
type that you don't snoop for stuff, and you don't
follow him on social media because you trust him, but
not you don't trust the ex girlfriend. But then the
reason you trust him is because you overheard her on

(07:50):
the phone bad mouthing you, and he defended you and said, hey,
watch your mouth. Okay. So in my estimation, that's the
man you had because against your will and unbeknownst to
you listening, he defended his fiance. She called him again recently,
you got out of character. You told her to stop
calling it. Since then, you say she's made it her business,

(08:14):
her mission to break us up. Now here's a deal.
She posted on her Instagram reel ten to twelve pictures
of her recent birthday party mixed in that mixed. You
know they mixed in. I saw a picture of her
in my fiance's kitchen, and I saw a picture of
her in my fiance's bathroom wearing only a towel and

(08:39):
holding a champagne flute. The subject of the letter is
is it a current picture or not? Question mark? This
is your your questioning whether this picture is recent or not.
He said the pictures were very old, and she did
it to make me mad. Did you not say she
has made it her mission to break y'all up? Did

(09:02):
you not say she put ten twelve pictures in there
and mixed in there? Because see, you can't go from
birthday party to it naked with the tile on. We
at the party or we somewhere else. So I'm suspicious
and thinking you know that she mixed in these pictures.
I don't believe he said the pictures were very old

(09:25):
and she did it to make me mad. I don't
believe him. Wait a minute, you just said you trust him,
but you don't trust her. See, so now you need
to make up your mind. You're too emotional right now.
I don't believe him because he did not own a
champagne flute before he met me. Girl, you're basing this

(09:48):
on the champagne flute. The girl could have had the
champagne flute. This could be her glass, and he didn't
own a champagne flute before he met you. So now
I examined every picture to see if it was recent
or not. Her birthday was on January twelfth, I was

(10:08):
in Detroit visiting my mother that weekend. I told him
the only way for me to know the truth is
fused to call her. But he refused to call her.
Now we call her her for what. Ain't no dude,
Finn to do that. He just ain't. And I don't
blame it, because she could say anything. She could lie
and say, yeah, I took the picture. It was on

(10:29):
my birthday. She ain't got to say it was this
year or two years ago. You just said she trying
to break y'all up. He can't run that risk. A
few minutes later, she deleted the real Well why would
she do that? Now? Did he call her and say, hey,
what you're doing? You trip it? Why you do something
like that? And she had a conscious and deleted the

(10:51):
real It could have been that I never know if
it was a current picture or not. Well, if you
don't know if it's a current picture or not, you
Finn to call off your life based on something fishy
and you don't know and you're not certain about any
of this? Lady, Am I crazy? If we still get married? No?
Or should I just let his ex girlfriend have him back? Wow?

(11:12):
That you so easily You just give up like this,
this it, this it, lady. You have no verifiable proof
because you keep saying is this a recent picture or not?
The girl deleted it. The man told you what and
she did it to make you mad. You said the
picture got mixed in and the reel it seemed out

(11:35):
of place. Did you look at her hair? Did you
look at her makeup? She examining anything else, she examined him,
and where she come up with. She doesn't know if
it's real or not. She said she couldn't tell. So
now you're gonna break up over something you can't tell
listening to Sheridan, that's what she and she doesn't get

(11:56):
what she needs. She can postpone. You gonna last, Shirley whatever,
break up your man. I did not tell her to
leave over a question that you still have. And I
don't normally recommend this to people, but do not listen
to Shirley right. This is evil evil. She better love me.

(12:23):
Don't know anything about the champagne flute. You can't tell
it the picture. She never knew that in the latter.
This is emotional. Stop listening to Shirleys. Your life better

(12:45):
about She's gonna listen, all right, Listen post your comments
on today Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram
and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand.
Though coming up at forty six minutes after the hour,
it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, you're
listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show