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Speaker 1 (00:26):
Thank you, ne you subject. All of these women can't
be lying. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been with my partner
for four months and he didn't want to get married
for a third time, and I didn't want to get
married for a fourth time. So we decided to buy
ourselves a nice house in his hometown and settle in together.
I have three grown daughters and he has six grown sons.
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My past husbands were all in the town we moved
away from. His past wives all live in the town
we move too. Things are kind of tricky because my
three daughters googled him and found his ex wives on
social media. Both of his ex wives had current pictures
with my man from this past Christmas. I met him
mid January, so I wasn't too concerned about that. My
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kids did not like it, and they said I should
meet up with his ex wives without telling my man.
I didn't think it would matter much, so I met
with his two exes at Ryan's. Then a third chick
walked in and they got up and hugged her, and
they were all glad to see her. I was very
confused at this point. They told me that this each other.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Huh huh, they was all glad to see each.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Oh, they were all glad to see each other. Yeah,
thank you. I was very confused at this point. They
told me that this third chick is the wild card
of their bunch, and she has an eight year old
son by my man. She showed me the money transferreds
to her account every month for child support, and I
asked if they had any overlap in their relationships, and
they said, of course. Like I was, the ignorant one
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at the table was fried by the time I got home.
I asked my man if he's still sleeping with the ladies,
and he chuckled and said that I'm worried about the
wrong thing. He said, is all lies and there's no
eight year old, he said. The lady is his tenant
and he sends her money to cover the h A
fees at his property. He told me that since he
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told me that, since I met them, since I met
with them in secret, then I can believe whatever I
want to believe. All these women can't be lying, right, Oh,
what kind of sister wives mess is this going on?
And why would you move to the town where your
man's exes live? Please help me with that one.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
You'll never get me to understand that.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
If that's the case, you could have stayed where you were,
where all your exes live. Now, I'm sure you moved
to get a fresh start, right You guys should have
moved to a neutral city. That way, your new relationship
would have at least had a chance to work.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
But you didn't. And here we are now. Should you have.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Met with the excess and secret? Probably not, because it's
just messy by nature. But you did with the existent
insistence of your daughters, and as it turned out, you
got some very questionable information about him. About your man,
is there another kid he's paying for? You need to
know that, because it's money going out of your household,
and you just need to know if he has a son,
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and he should have told you that upfront. Did you ask?
It's a good thing that he's paying for his child
if it's true, because he should be paying for his child.
But again, if it's true, why didn't he tell you?
You're the woman he moved out of town with and
the woman he bought a house with, So why would
he keep.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Something like that from you? And what was he doing
with his exes at Christmas? What was he doing?
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Naturally you would have questions, anyone would, but the wrong
attitude on his part. Just give you some answers. What
is he hiding? It's very easy to prove if the
eight year old is his, if the baby mama is
really his tenant if she is, and if he's paying
ho A fees and not child support.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
This is crazy. And if you don't get some answers,
I don't see how you can continue to move forward
with this guy you've only known four months.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Steve, let me tell you something, you know. I'm just
gonna just start this letter by saying this right here, dude,
I'm not gonna be able to help you with this
for right dude, listen to me, bro and nothing I
can do for you right here? And I don't know
what helped this lady need?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
What is wrong? What is wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
I don't understand nothing in this letter. I've been with
my partner for four months. He didn't want to get
married for a third time. I didn't want to get
married for a fourth time. That's seven marriages between y'all.
Y'all probably need to gonna set this one out. Y'all
need to be starting in a movie called home Alone.
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Y'all need to just y'all need just selling. Listen, but
what did y'all do instead of going to find yourself
and settling down and getting yourself together? Y'all decided to
buy ourselves a nice house in his hometown and settle
in together. Ain't that just like marriage? I don't even
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understand this right here. I have three grown daughters and
he got six grown sons. Damn, there's a lot of
grown ass people here. My past husbands and is three.
She got three past hus They all live in the
town we moved away from. His past wives all live
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in the town we move to.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
What man?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
What man wants to move back to the town where
all his exes at? Help me with that right exactly.
That don't make no damn sense. Nothing in this letter's
add enough for me. That's why I can't help this
dude who does that. I'm trying to start new, get
me a fresh start, and I'm gonna move back to
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the town. This whole letter is making my chest itch. Yeah,
I'm scratching my chest.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
What the hell in the hoopiie hell is going on here?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Waits again? Please?
Speaker 4 (06:20):
What the hell in the HOOPI the hell is going
on here? This is unexplainable. His past wives living in
a town we moved in. Things are kind of tricky
because my three daughters googled him and found his ex
wives on social media. Both his ex wives had current
pictures with my man from this pass for.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Steve Girl, We'll have part two of your response coming
up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry
Letter subject is all of these women can't be lying.
We'll get back into it right after this.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
You're listening morning show?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
all of these women can't be lying me.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Try to stay calm here, listen. Yes, I'm gonna.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Try to stay calmed. My voice, my voice is gonna
be unless we go through this. I'm trying to stop
acting like Steven A.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Smill, So listen, nobody thought that.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
I just like us and stuff like shout out to
Steven K. I been with my partner for four months.
He didn't get married. He ain't want to get married
for a third time.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
I ain't want to get married for a fourth time.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
And I said in earlier that's a good idea, because
that's seven marriages between y'all.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Y'all probably need to sit this out. But did y'all
do that now?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Now y'all decided instead of getting married, let's just buy
a house together and settle in together. That's just like marriage. Uh,
y'all got three grown daughters. He got six grown sons.
My that's a lot of people. My past husbands were
all in the town we moved away from. Sorry about
my past wives.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Surely your damn phone off.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
I don't need your apology. I don't interrupt your answers
when you be giving your answer. Ye, I was trying
not to yell.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Three grown daughters, she got three grown daughter He got
six grown sons. My past husbands were all in the
time we moved away from his past wives all live
in the time we moved to.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Don't no man moved to where all his ex wives
live at.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
I say this again every time I got a divorced
I not only left the town, I moved out the
whole damn state.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
That's what I did. I tried to clear myself.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
I'm just saying things are kind of tricky, though, because
your daughter's googled the man and found his ex wives
on social media. Both his ex wives had current pictures
with my man from this past Christmas. I met him
mid January January, so I wasn't too concerned about that.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Are you stupid?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
They had pictures together on Christmas. You made him in January,
so you figured that's within a thirty day period that
must be part of his past. They just took the
pictures at Christmas. They still in the picture. Don't you understand?
If they in the picture, that's cause they.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
In the picture. Oh right here?
Speaker 4 (09:22):
And then your kids did not like it, so they
said I should meet up with his ex wives without
telling my man what what?
Speaker 2 (09:35):
What the hell in the hoop of the hell is
going on? Hill beat? Damn your dumb ass daughters.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Then talk your dumb ass into meeting up with his ex.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
Wife who made that phone call, who agreed to this.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
I didn't think it would matter much, so I met
his two exes at Ryan.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Is that Rhyme's the steakhouse?
Speaker 4 (10:03):
Yep, Yeah, y'all should have met down there at the
corral because at least they got a buffet with them
good ass rolls over there. I don't know why he
was the Rhymes, because anybody's got a Rhyme's got a
beef corrall that you should have went to beef Corrall
because Rashan used to have them cheap ass or.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
You said, beef cook.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
Beef Corral, Golden crowd. Everybody got meat that the hell
I don't. I don't know a one, but that's what
you should have hear. Anybody will medie waffle house at
least could have got there on Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
All you can eat. That was a thinner.
Speaker 4 (10:34):
Third chick walked in and they got up and hugged her,
and they were all glad to see each other.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
What the hell in the hoop of the hell is
going on here? Sureley did say something right?
Speaker 4 (10:49):
What in the sister Why sugar, honey, ice teath is
happening in the hell?
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Why all these helpers like each other?
Speaker 4 (10:59):
What kind of fail has this pimp cast on these women?
Lord have mercy. I was very confused at this point.
You should have been. The big confusion is why is
your dumb ass there? He told me the third chick
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is the wild card in they bunch. They told me
that the third chick is the wild card of the bunch.
She got an eight year old son by my man.
Well you said he has six grown ass sons. What
what one moment? And since you didn't mind him having
a picture back in Christmas and it was January, what
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you care about this new baby? For the picture didn't
bother you. Meeting with all his exes at Ryan's steakhouse
didn't bother you. And now the wild card walk in
they all hugging. That ain't bother you. Now you find
out she got an eight year old boy, And now
you want to get bothered all the song It must
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be crazy. She showed me the money transfers to her
account every month, She said that she showed me money transfers.
I asked if they had any overlapping their relationship and
they said, Of course I was the ignorant one at
the table. My mind was fried by that time I
got home. I asked my man if he was still
sleeping with the ladies. He chuckled and said, I was
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worried about the wrong thing. Hell yeah, that's why he
moved back into the town with them. The big confusion is,
why is your dumb ass there. He's sleeping with you
and all the rest of them, y'all ain't married. He said,
it's all lies, and there's no eight year old boy.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
He said.
Speaker 4 (12:35):
The lady is a tenantor his, and he sends her
money to cover the HOA fees at the proper one.
You're trying to tell me that this child's approp payment
you send it to the house. You have convinced this
stupid help that they the ho A home fees. Do
you know how high them home fees? Is?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
All right?
Speaker 3 (13:00):
Your comments on today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
All right?
Speaker 3 (13:07):
Coming up next, we'll have part three of this Strawberry Letter.
Right after this.
Speaker 5 (13:12):
You're listening Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
All right, here we are Strawberry Letter Part three.
Speaker 4 (13:19):
Sometimes all the women k be lying, and it's so
much truth in this letter. It's unbelievable. This woman been
married three times, don't want to get married at four.
The husband been married three times two times, he don't
want to get married at third. All of them got
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grown kids. She got three grown daughters, he got six
grown sons. She'd have moved in with this man. They
have moved back to the town where all of his
exes live. She moved out of the town where all
her exes live. The daughters don't like the dude, so
she googled him and found pictures of him with all
his exes at Christmas. That didn't bother her because she
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met him in January. So in thirty days, you think
his past is over. He just took picture with these girls,
and why are they so? Then the daughters convince her
to meet with the X wives. Somehow this stupid woman
thought this was a good ass idea. Now they'd all
met out at Rhymes Ryan State. What is you meeting
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at Ryan's where thereas the Rhymes? There's always or what corral?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
You're worried about the wrong thing?
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Right, baked beans and stuff? Anyway, thank you for sean.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
Anyway, we would all meet out there, and now they
meeting at Ryan's and she there and she walk in
and it's three women at two women at the table
and they hugging and talking. And then a third woman
walk in and they call her the wild card. They
get up and they hug her too. She's sitting there
confused at dinner with all these ex wives. Why is
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y'all hugging?
Speaker 2 (14:57):
What is going on in here? And so then the
other one say that she got an eight year old
baby boy.
Speaker 4 (15:03):
Man and he only told you he has six sons,
And now your stupid ass want to know if that's
her son. He went She went home and asked him
is this your boy? She teaked, king about no, that
ain't my boy. Well what and then she showed him
the transfers into the account. He said, that's one of
his tenants and she paying ho A fees? What this
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is the worst lie I've ever heard, You know, if
all about line, But I can't believe you tried to
put the child's appoint on some ho A feed. You
are graz he told me. Since I met them in secret,
then I can't believe whatever. I want to believe. What
met him in's secret? They was at rhyme. It ain't
no secrets. You ate at Ryme's. Y'all didn't meet at
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a hotel conference room. You was a all these women
can't be lying. Ain't nobody lying? Everybody telling the truth
except him them is not homeown an association fees. That
is his boy and you to moved back in town
and you got to get to know these girls because
y'all got to take a picture next Christmas dabbling mud.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
And do like you post to do.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Should a single woman be allowed to bring a stranger
as her plus one to her best friend's wedding?
Speaker 3 (16:16):
That's what she wants to know.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
Why not this lady right here her went back in
town with all these people. Everything legal.
Speaker 3 (16:24):
Now we'll discuss it right after this.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
You're listening hard Morning Show